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He's so adamant at going to Dublin! Opportunist!!

ibkaye:
Huh? Doesn't say anything against it, besides, the only reason I am against bathing with my boyfriend is because[b] such acts will most definitely lead to sexual acts[/b] which I am against if it is premarital if we're being realistic, regardless of religion.

I understand that line right there. To me you sound like a determined woman and one with huge policies, but don't you think you should have brought your obstinacy down to the bathroom if ever it wanted to amount to sexual acts? So tell me, you never kissed your boyfriend? You never touched? If you did, what were those? Religious acts?

bgees:
i was happy when he was appointed as i dont rate him high. chelsea should be weaker. i hope he won't prove me wrong.

How pathetic! Another sad opposition fan. What club do you support? Man Utd, ASSenal or Loserpool?

MRbrownJAY:
there is a difference between love and[b] insanity[/b], you are talking about an insane person doing something that is as stupid as they are.
the first rule of love (in my book) is that you should love yourself. so how can i love myself and commit suicide? its an oxymoron!

I ride with you on that one man!

tosyne007:
i aint saying that sister.

i'm only sceptical about the "anything" mentioned above. For couples i mean.

Wat i'm saying in essence is this, "can u give "anything" or demand for "anything" from ur spouse on the basis of marriage"

That is what she presumes. She's been trying to explain that she'd do anything as long as they are married.

ibkaye:
Yes, in terms of religion is bathing with someone you are not married to good?

No, it's not good and as far as I know, I don't see where it's supported for people who are married too -- neither in the Holy Bible nor in the Holy Q'uran

When you mean fight, how do you mean? Verbal attacks? Physical combats? Vitriolic jabs? None of them is new. It goes on just about anywhere. I had a girlfriend who would kill any woman that came close to me. She once sketched the map of Lagos State on another girl she caught me with.

Switch the relationship from romance to rehabilitation, from you being a girlfriend to being a social service officer. Believe me, when a guy's heart is broken and he's set out not to love again, it'll take a lot more than rehabilitation for him to do so. If you must be with him, you have to take the risk that if he makes up with his former girlfriend, you'll be out of the scoop.

But I will succumb to that instincts that tells me you might succeed at kicking out the emotional anguish in him, albeit, prepare your mind for the worst so that when it occurs you won't be heartbroken that much otherwise TAKE A HIKE!

Then he/she must be demented to think we'd have something great going.

faakay:
I will bath with her! Inshort use sponge to wash all the TOTO well well

Do you want to send her running from this thread?

Ben20001:
^{has Ibk finally agree to bath?}

No she hasn't. She's still being adamant

martin1:
D ? is not 4 u.

I was just complementing what you said and added more flavor to your question. Understand contexts of certain comments before you blow up in somebody's face.

martin1:
r u a muslim?

What's wrong even if she's a muslim?

Virginity doesn't mean dignity, it simple means lack of opportunity

Seadbari:
If we have had sex then y not, what else is she covering or shy about! N she might even be surprised that sex in the shower is also fun! Which might make her regret her former rebuff, lol

Sex in the shower is one of the best!

tosyne007:
i see no reason why one cant hav a bath with his g/f or spouse. I will gladly do except if we havent done the real thing (i mean sex).

Some ladies still feel shy about it anyway. I've dealt with a lady like that. She wil gladly do anything wit me in the bedroom but will always recoil outside of it. So, it has to do with whom one is dealing wit and the level of understanding.

Fine, when u hav sex u tend to see everything due to the frenzy but it doesnt stop the shy type (i mean ladies now) to recoil at having a bath with the b/f or spouse after sex. They just cant stand the fact that their b/f or spouse will be starring down their body (i mean appreciating them).

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some tribes practice that. i mean wives hav fun with their face covered. Funny isn't it?

Spot on men! Can you please name some tribes? I'm curious

SpringBank -- They charge me exorbitantly for each cheque that I issue and when I do not have my cheque, they charge me #250 for on-counter cheque.

ibkaye:
Where is the hypocrisy in what I said?

Maybe he needs a proof that he's yet to come to terms with.

ibkaye:
Cannot sleep with my boyfriend either, I hope everything now falls into place

Based on your assertions, yeah!

ibkaye:
First of all, I won't ever live with a guy who I am not married to.

I already answered your question, the difference is that I am married to my husband and I am not married to my boyfriend.

There are certain things I will only do with my husband, bathing is one of them.

From a moral,cultural, maybe a religious point of view, you're right. I may choose to object, however, that if you could very well have sex with your boyfriend, then I consider having bath with him a lesser sacrilege. I can exonerate you in my court of opinions, only if you didn't have sex with your boyfriend.

Ben20001:
the bitter truth is that Ibk don't really like bathing.

You don't say!!!!

izeek:
did u sleep with ur bf with ur clothes on?

They had cybersex

ibkaye:
Huh? Isn't the matrimonial reason stable enough? That's it.

What is the difference between when you weren't married and when you were? (If you lived together)

What's the difference between when you weren't married and when you were?(If you didn't live together)

ibkaye:
The significance is that my husband and I are married whereas my BF and I are not, yes I pulled it o

I knew you would. OK, if you happen to get married to the 'same' boyfriend with whom you had refuse to have a bath with, how will you explain your actions beyond the matrimonial reasons you gave earlier?

ibkaye:
Can bath with spouse but not with boyfriend

What's new to the boyfriend? What's the significance of having a bath with your bf as to having it with your spouse? Don't tell me you're about pulling the "we're married" stunt

Gabry:
No, I cannot bath with my bf. . . Husbnad I guess maybe

Guess? Why? You must be shy

Keep dreaming and keep wasting. Honestly, she knew you were a perfect fool before she served you with these conspicuous lies.

@Poster

It's always a mess when you give such enormous matter to be handled by a small mind like yours. If a girl needs you to touch her, she will show it up to you.

Keep wasting and dreaming. Wait a minute, are you always this dumb? I see why she chose you -- cuz you're the perfect fool she could sock up all the lies to.

2jideofor:
Yes. I value it . I and my girl friend have been dating for 2 years now without sex

You will have yourself to blame when someone socks it up to her.

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=288937.msg4110697#msg4110697 date=1246342856]haha classic line. but that's too literal and can easily be interpreted lol
tell her "I am a serial killer" or "my ex girlfriend dumped me after 2 hours 'cause i tried to rape her" something along that line to express to her that she deserves someone better/ "it has nothing to do with u, it's me" lol
her esteem will most certainly not be crushed  [/quote]Some girls look so angelic on the outward appearance but they have so much of a gangster attitude -- tell such girls you're a serial killer, she'll know your exaggerating, tell her you tried to rape your ex girlfriend and she'll tell you that, "you will not have cause to rape me because I'll give it to you real good" if you insist, she'll tell you "I like to have it rough" , Come up with more techniques

@Ezinne

Nice one there.

Your mother's bedroom.

gen2genius:
And what if you already have kids?

That will be irrelevant. We both will have parents to take care of the kids.

webprince:
Its like U dont really understand women! she actually meant Dont let her stay @ ur place! She doesnt want 2 say it plainly cos she really loves and respect U. Dont mess up my guy!

P.S. A lady played this old trick (that she was handed a quit notice by her landlord) on me last year and I ask my fiancee if d girl can crash @ my end 4 just 1 week 2 sort herself out. and she said d same thing - Dear, I trust U, do what U think is best, Though I didnt allow d girl 2 stay after that statement but I allow her 2 drop few of her loads since I have a vacant guest room. ol'boy my woman vex no b small. I later find a way 2 cajole d girl (intruder) 2 come and take her loads. Now am happily married with my fiance with no probs and later got 2 know d girl is actually planning a a take-over coup! BE WISE!

Spot on bro.

Kelvinj:
@poster
letz c it d oda way round, ur gf tels u her ex is in town nd wants 2 stay in her place 4 jst 2 dayz nt until he gets accomdatn o?
D ans u give me 4 dis question is d best ans 2 urs.

Tit for tat, eh?