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konfusedgee:
So I started taking HIV PEP drugs because of an accident at my workplace,, after two weeks of taking the drug, I had sex with a lady whom I just started seeing and the condom bursted, just remaining 11 days to be through with the 28 days medication

What do I do? Do I extend the medication or there's no more hope for me,,, Guys please help my situation,

Go and meet Pep Guardiola, he will solve your case

Bbliss24:
Good evening guys,
It all started in my University days, I met this guy but I was in a relationship when I met him. I didn't like the guy because of his tribe no offence,I just liked his vibe but we dated.

When I met my current boyfriend I told him that I was in a relationship and that I can't double date he was like no problem but mind you i already found him attractive. To cut the long story short i broke up with the other guy to date him. It was all rosy the first two years he worked his service to ph then because my family lives in ph I was in Enugu then but i went home for break,where we hooked up and most times I had to lie to my parents that I was going for night class just to spend the night at his place mind you he was very smart and sound academically so some of those night he did put me through for my exam.

To cut the whole story short he has changed completely what he use to do before he no longer does it,his excuse is that I made him that way . I stay with him in Enugu but temporary till I get my place during this period he gets angry easily and hits me his excuse is that I am arrogant and I dont respect him.Most times I try to opt out from the relationship he comes up with story of after all I have done for you I gave up my family and my life for you and this is how you want to pay me back ,then he starts rendering causes on me.

The truth is he is a good guy and when I met him he never laid his hands on me until I started staying with him. We have dated for 5years and emotions are mixed I find it hard to leave the relationship....

I read this on guest mode, but I had to log in to reply this..
Auntie check well, u have probably changed, u have probably lost the respect u use to have towards him, because you have known him in and out, and u feel he's not over you cos he's not your husband yet.

I have this experience of a girl who use to respect me so much and behave herself when she was around me, part of the reason was that I lied to her that I am 6 years older than her, she believed thoo.
When we became so familiar and she found out that am just months older than her, guess what, respect vanished...

I believe u made him change,

The solution is that you should sit him down and ask him the ways u have made him change, in what ways u have changed from how u use to be.

This is my own 20 cents

Michelle55:
Never reaching out on people including families.
Can stay as long as possible without checking up on anyone. They're all tired of complaining and I'm sincerely doing my best to stop ghosting people.
Truth is, it's not easy.. I so much enjoy my own company too much that I really do not care about the outside world.

So me, they are tired of complaining, some said am an ingrate, even in church, they said I don't like joining others to do what they are doing. They don't understand, my phone and my laptop are my best friend

Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.

Quite a lenghty one. Bro leave her, period. Her parents are rich, she should be the one even taking you out atimes, but no, she just shows up when you get cash. Lemme tell you a secret, if a lady loves you and sees a future with you, she will be the one even economising your money for you. She will be telling you not to spend so much on vain things. But yours is the opposite. And you just confirmed she doesn't see a future with you, meaning she just come to chop.

But you self de extravagant oh, how can u spend over 1.8mill with a girl just like that and returned to ground zero. Wake up bro. You need to leave her and organize your life before going into another relationship.

By the way if you don't mind kindly introduce me to this business you talked about, am a student in one of the unis

Pope20Davy:
Hello fellow nairalanders pls forgive my typos
I am 18yrs and ever since I became self conscious and started noticing the stares of females it's been a night mare for me.Am not gay but it's too much,I enter a place first girl sees me then the next like chain reaction.I am easily sexually assaulted in the keke,by family members etc(not rape,just gropping)
I really need HELP on how to control it.

Return the phone to your mom

badtlimo:
I and my girlfriend had sex middle of March ones without protection, fast forward to ending of March she saw her period same with April.. now she called me three days ago that is was suppose to see her period on the 22 of this month and she hasn’t ...please is it possible for her to be pregnant cause of what we did almost three months ago ...although she said she doesn’t have any pregnancy symptoms ....pls I need urgent advice

Go and return the phone to ur mum, she's looking for it

Vick4rill:
thanks boss! Na the friend zone l hate pass, l have use every opportunity to communicate this thing to her, she is well aware of my intention, the girl is just 20 yrs just feel like asking officially for a relationship may make her feel caged and put her off, just want us to flow naturally until it click to we're l wanted it.

You feel? Locate the nearest trash can and put that feeling son.... Yeah, I get your point but u will end up with exactly what you are trying to avoid(the friend zone) , how about that?, you want to hear "you are now like a brother to me" right?. Women love confident men, everything you are doing now she knows you r just beating around the bush, she feels you r not bold enough to say what you want. Cut the crap of all those excuses and make ur move. Better be bold oh cos it strikes me that you are the shy type

Vick4rill:
This girl live next to our compound, and my feelings for her develop rapidly even before getting to know her. When we got to know each other the feelings become just too much, l enquirers if she is in a relationship which she said No. However through her Facebook account l notice her always tagging a certain guy and l jokingly tease her abt the said guy which she claim was her bestie. I have succeed in developing good relationship with her, she can't stay a day without wanting us to talk, and when l goes out she always want to know if am with a girl. She have given me a gift of perfumes and even wrist watch. The problem is that she most a times bring up the issue of this her bestie telling me how they spend time together, l have jokingly let her know that am jealous when ever she say so, but to her she sees it as teasing and fun. Yesterday the guy called her and she was just echoing honey and sweetie cus am there with her. If this girl is already my girl l would have easily warn her to stay away from him BT am still chasing her and she is initially closer to this guy before l came. Pls am confuse are these normal games women play or l should forget abt her?

You have not even toasted her, u will soon enter friendzone if you ain't there already. Tell her what you want ASAP, if she don't want move on, if she agrees and continue with her bestie bestie, then u can bring up the matter here. Don't simp around son

Acmepreneur:
This my guy is not serious at all.
I used to tell myself change is the only permanent thing in life bla bla bla. And I really believe that once you take the right steps, you can be anything you want to be. This made me to be very soft with people.
When I started dating my Boyfriend, I really was not choosy or judgy. I accepted him without a second thought. I'm not the type of lady that actually do all those lady stuff, I'm a very serious person and I don't play games at all.
My BF is very cool, like not bad looking, normal behaviour etc and I like him a lot.

I'm a very ambitious person, with an extremely big dreams,my boyfriend is also hard working, but I'm not seeing any future at all with his career/prospects/life. When I say I'm with big dreams, it's means I'm working on discovering (new innovations), planning big business that would compete with top brands etc. I'm that big in dreams.
My children is also very important to me, I don't plan for their sufferings at all.
I'm an introvert, I find solace in my aspirations, dreams. I have books I work out those formulas (I mean how I would execute my business plans), I research a lot, think a lot etc

Our fight now
Since day 1, I do tell him to do this and that. I really hate company works, so I would tell him to have savings, and be building something sideways where he works. Also, I wanted him to do Masters, since he said he would love to travel out, he's always saying he hates Nigeria bla bla bla. His dad also wanted him to do Masters, but he's in the crew of Masters is a waste of time, and he can't do Masters in Nigeria bla bla bla

Baby try this business, he would say he doesn't have money, he needs 2million to start a business etc.
Meanwhile, he doesn't have money to travel out of the country to do Masters, nor 2m to start any business. So I would tell him to manage what he has first, and that would propelled him later, but he likes to talk like illiterates that Masters is meaningless.
Meanwhile, while that is true, those things are just like investment, you don't know when you will see an opportunity to use your Masters certificate, and since he studied computer science, I told him that it can even help him get a job outside Nigeria when he leaves, that it can be useful there. I understand the situation of the country, but not having masters doesn't mean you will get a job as well, so why don't you just have it
My bf would shut me off, and also his dad, the dad even asked him to take job at the federal university where he works, but my bf said he can't work in that place, this is a federal government job o, he would say the salary is too small and people there already knows him, because his dad is in a big office in the university.
So it won't seem like I'm disturbing him, I went quiet, but might chip it in in discussions, but I don't fight him on those things. He works in a small company, and he rose to the position of a Manager, he spent all his time in office, the little time to waste with his friends. Its a good thing but I'm not comfortable with that, the pay is about 90k, which is not enough for his expenses, also hes the first born.

Fast forward to last year, his dad died, it looks like a film trick to him, he now have to take care of his siblings and mum (mum is nurse, but retired long time ago, her pay is little because it wasn't normal retirement). Everything I was telling him finally came to pass.

He rented an apartment with His friends, he later hated it, and said he wants his own, he went to rent an apartment of 600k (he gathered it from different places and he borrowed), which I really hate and we fought on that as well. Because he could have used the money to secure his life in a better way, since his complain when I told him to start a business is that he doesn't have money bla bla bla

He will not apply for better jobs as well
He's practically doing nothing to grow, and would say he hates Nigeria and he would like to leave, but he can't even apply for scholarships or even google schools.

So this 2020, Jan 1, I started fighting him, that I'm not going to continue with him like that, that he should go apply for MSC, start a business or just do something. He now started saying that he has responsibilities which are his siblings, I told him this is the nonsense, he would do till the year ends, we will fight and later resolve it.

He won't even talk about it, or get reminded, he makes me feel Hus boss is using him. I have told him several times how he would be used and dumped, in fact, he makes me say negatives sometimes, and thats because I have seen people that get dumped while working with companies and they fall back to grass, my mum won't even accept him because he works in a company, small company, not cocacola or big companies. My mum hates company works like shits because we've heard and seen people falling to zero due to company jobs.

The problem
1. He says I'm disturbing his life, and not allowing him to rest

2. I'm not happy with him living that way, with no future, no investment, hes not building himself while working, hes not doing courses, not learning any skills, and I think its too risky.
His current salary is not enough for him, not to talk of me collecting part of it. But he gives me money though, has not been more than 1k, 2k and data subscription which I really appreciate.

3. I can't introduce him to my family because I want him respected. Truth is I don't know what he would say to impress my parents because I'm not even impressed with him. And I want him to be superloved and respected. I believe in first impression would last very long. He has introduced me to his family and all friends

4. He never ask me about my own life, aspirations, advice me etc, I'm always the one to do that. Yesterday he had the gut to tell me I'm not caring because of just two days of not showing care

5. Corona has turned his company outside down and he's highly affected. Just like all what I was telling him finally happened, and he has nothing to fall back at. He has a car,

6. I can't marry him or anyone this way, and I'm getting old, though and I want marriage next year. He said he wants too, but I can't marry him like this. And I don't want to get to late twenties, and he breaks up and I start looking for husband, people would be thinking maybe I have a problem that is why I'm yet to marry, they won't know that its him that caused my delay. Plus I have a very high esteem, so I would hate to be desperate for marriage with a man or be the one to be wanting marriage so much in a relationship


7. Right now, we have temporarily break up, so I'm asking if I should break up or make up? Because he was saying rubbish last night

Note: I'm not a fan of dating and rubbish, I love him very much and I don't want to leave him at all. I don't think there's any man I can date as I do not like dishonesty at all and 95% of men are dishonest. My BF is very honest and good I'm every other aspect

I don't know women like u still exists, I use this thread as a point of contact to ask God for a partner like you, not the one who will be asking money for wig and fingernails (which ladies are supposed to buy themselves) without caring for financial growth of both of you. God bless you sister.

As for the guy I think you should make up with him and sit him down and really point things out for him to see, just continue to try, encourage him to read books like think and grow rich by Napoleon Hills, Laws of success , Rich dad poor dad Etc.(I just hope he is the type that likes reading, especially this one he don't want masters degree) I believe he will change. But if he isn't changing then you have no option to manage him like that or find someone in the same sync, someone in the same cosmic frequency with you so that resonance will occur.
My little contribution thoo

Tora44:
I'm on my early thirty I've a gf , we have been dating 1 year now and I love her but i notice something strange because we have been staying together since the locked down , I notice she password her phone and don't get comfortable if I'm going through her phone . She wont upload my pictures on facebook or whatsapp saying because her previous relationship she upload his pictures and he broke her heart wish was truth but she refuse to tell me the real reason why he broke up with her , she only told me he traveled to SA and stop keeping in touch with her , wish dont sound right to me

She keeps telling me she want us to get married but I have never been introduce to her sister or mom because they live in north and she stays with me in Lagos , she tends to ask me for everything she needs and I try my best to make her happy but recently I felt I'm giving too much and I dont know what to do .

I've never been a lover boy she make me love her she post pictures of her male friends in school wishing them happy birthday and have alot of male pictures on her phone telling me they are her friends , I really dont want to be a bf that complains and not give her privacy but sometimes I get worried because I feel shes not proud of me enough but why does she keep telling me about marriage and I'm not ready to settle down because I'm not ready financially

She wont post my pictures and she get jealous when a female friend post my pictures... she's caring and always calls me , text me and want to know everything I'm doing , anytime shes needy im always there for her ..recently she start complaining I ask for sex too much and we are not married ...she said my dick is too big and the other night we had sex and my friend was at the living room she went ahead to ask me weather my dick is bigger than my friend dick I was shocked and told her what kind of question was that...

Recently I felt like she has something shes hiding from me and most time when I ask her questions she get upset and she lies about some questions ..she told me she has never dated any one since we start dating but I went through her chat with her friend and notice she was telling her she broke up with the man wish was not me and and I confronted her she lied that it was her ex she was with before she meet me .please nairaland I need advice .

Op from what u have written all I see is a lady that wants security, she just wants to know that you r not going to leave her, but it's like she isn't getting the assurance hence her lie of breakup on whatsapp, girls tend to mimic phototropism of plants always moving towards brighter light, be that bright light and she's gonna start bouncing others off.

For her not posting you, come to think of it, how many men should she post on her status b4 she finally settles down, remember people are seeing her status and seeing her "changing" men. It's not good 4 ladies. Give her assurance and she's gonna post you. She gets angry when u post others cos she just wants to be the only one in your heart. If she ain't proud of you she will not be telling you about marriage. Get it bro, she just wants to secure you.

About the sex part, she's just feeling u r using her 4 d moment and maybe expanding her punna with ur "big dick". (and might later leave her) .

Define the relationship bro, tell her u r not financially capable to marry now, tell her ur mind, if she's willing to build with you, then so be it if she's not she can save her time and move on.

And about her not telling you d reason 4 previous break up, you don't really need to know, u and the former guy(s) are different persons, and note anything a woman don't want to tell you, don't pressure her to tell you, believe me you are not gonna like what you will hear, and it will definitely affect the relationship in some way.
The lady loves youth but need extra security.
Forgive my typos, in a hurry cant edit this

My two cents bro

Hotzone:
We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Am not interested in the ring or the kingsmen, am just interested in the fact that she's above you (not a little above you), meaning she gets more pay than you right?, but u take care of her bills with your own pay, may I ask what she does with her's?, aren't you the one who is supposed to be saving so that you can "collect list". Continue draining your energy. Men that want to grow look 4 asset in a wife and not liabilities . My one cent thoo

WhiteJacket:
I broke up with my long term partner few days ago. It really came as a wrench to her.

Reason was that in the past, she did treat me like shit, that even though we got over it a while recently, I couldn't get away from the guilt, resentment and damage it seemed to be doing to me. We never really had the conversation, It felt a bit dismissive, but I just got along with it. So I was faking it for a long time, but still being very caring regardless. I think overall, she is in a better position in terms of resources than if she was alone, but that is not the point. I think I lost a lot of my self and self respect during the relationship, and also felt blackmailed in many times due to other affiliations we have, which is what kept me quite long.

Now, I ended it, and as much as I would like to be nicer, things escalated due to the emotions, which made it hard for me, I fell out with her family. For this reason, I quit being overly caring and just did the base minimum, while maintaining respect.

As a person I do care for her, but I found I needed time to fully sort my emotions. I told her that I am respecting her but "I need to be". I offered to call up her friends or family and even my friends which she declined. I assured her that it is a process and she will definitely be better soon. She asked a lot of questions which I gave general answers to because I didn't know how to answer them, or couldn't deal. Regardless, I left and blocked off all communication.

It's been two days, but it is a lot of guilt.. Anyone felt this before?

Pls someone should translate and summarise, I didn't understand this gist

determination26:
Bro just go to mission road, towards new benin you'll see the areas where computers and accessories are sold

I went there and asked lots of people selling accessories , some of them don't even know what SSD is, I had to explain further to them.... Thanks thoo

Pls don't mind the section I posted this. This section has the most traffic

Straight to the point, My hard disk HDD crashed few days back, I need to replace it but this time with SSD. Is there anyone who knows how I can buy has for sale... am in Benin, Edo state, if you have any clue of how I go about this Pls help.

lacasera14:
Pls don't mind the moniker, it's only a passage.
I and my boyfriend have been dating for a while. What we feel for each other is very strong and that led us to some extreme commitments like: His fingerprint can unlock my phone and mine can unlock his, our Google photos are synchronized so I see all his pictures and he sees mine in case of any intruder sort of, he has access to my facebook, whatsapp and messenger and goes through my chats. I do same. All these happened while we were still in same city. I left for a while (school purposes) and returned recently. After a while he locked his whatsapp with a password, prior to this, I noticed he chats with a girl and after the chat he'll archive it so I won't see it. He digs it up from archived chats to continue. Now he's WhatsApp is locked I can't access it, he has also removed my fingerprints from his phone barring all access to it. I've confronted him, he said it's because I go through his phone alot and he's no longer comfortable with it.

I think he's cheating, nairalanders what should I do?

Lacasera babe, how about you taking a look at it like this, maybe your boyfriend got small sense and realized his mistakes, see ehh, the fun of the relationship goes when you know him in and out, he becomes predictable, a conquered territory, u will be the one who is now looking outside, why because you "have secured him". Those little quarrels, suspicion, suspense, misunderstanding, thinking, uncertainties are the spice of relationships, you can chose to believe me or not, in a relationship , "see finish " is not a good thing, it backfires with time. He has disobeyed a redpill rule "the way u start with a woman is the way u end with her", that's why u are agitated. My advice, just clear your mind from all those suspicion and pretend nothing happens, but if it becomes obvious that he is a cheat, dump his ass. Simple

Ancientbeing:
So i have worked in this industry for 3 yrs now and recently, they transferred my male boss and swapped with a nice looking lady.
So i work in the packaging section of the industry where i seal cartons, containers etc. So for the past two weeks, this new superior superior has been on my tail. Whatever i seal, she will find a fault or simply say am too slow even in front of my colleagues. She talks to me in a way my mom has never spoken to me before.. I need help on my next line of action cos its clear she is either a sadist or she has a crush on me.
It is really frustrating me o. I dont know if i should quit and find another work

Am thinking of this industry, but the one I know I have worked for ehh, a nairalander can't work there for three years, I worked a month and japa.... Bro confront her and tell her that you ain't happy with how she's treating you, it's either you pple become friends after this or she will know that you don't take rubbish, am sure she isn't the one who employed you. If she persists report her to higher authorities

Sweetpie69:
Who knows the answer

Just pass him weed to smoke, everything will be revealed thereafter

What did I just read?

miclef86:
I recently gained employment in one of the Federal Government Agency, met this pretty lady in my unit we were compatible, most of our unit members knew there's connection between us.

Most female colleagues in our unit encouraged us to get married and if we agreed, one of us will make a transfer to another branch of the agency in the same town. The most frustrating thing about the issue is that I keep telling them that there's nothing going between us. Truth be told, not that I don't like her but my biggest fear was starting a relationship in the same unit and organisation...that made me to be nonchalant towards the whole thing.

Long story short, there's another guy from other unit in the same agency that was more serious than I. Each time the guy comes to visit her in my unit I get pissed off but i wasn't showing her...there was a time that I even made a girl pay me a visit at my place of work just to show off that i have a girlfriend but deep down within me it was she I want.

One elderly man in our unit keep reminding me about how disappointed he is regarding my not being serious towards her and now I have loss her, that she would have be my wife if I was serious.

Deep down within me i know i the fault was from me... I have so many bad traits which she doesn't like, she knows I like women a lot, the habit of drinking and coming to work at times and things I say at times were weird and rude.

The summary of the whole thing is, I have bad reputation in my unit. Nevertheless, I listen to her advice and have been really working on myself lately and she's noticing some changes. She's planning on getting married to the other guy next year.

I recently i called her that we needed to see but she told me that what's it that i cant tell in the office but I insisted so she invited me over to her house and we talked deeply...that was when she opened up to me that she's not interested in me that I should find someone that loves me and she even asked me about the girl i brought to our work then.

Please, i need your advice...should i continue or i should let the sleeping dog lie?

She isn't interested in you, you no hear
she is getting married next year, u no hear
The elderly man told you u av lost her, you no hear
even though them tell you here, you no go still hear

Efisko1:
Am about going on a date with a gal that told me.............she doesn't wnt a boyfriend for now dat she has other tins in her life to settle.

I just dnt know wat will'll be discussing in dat date self,,,,cos am thinking of begging her smt,her chocolate box,,, i begged her for 1hr date, she was saying wat will we be discussing for a whole 1hr....hmmm but she has agreed to com.
Let me not lie,we stay in dey say area,and i feel she's sexy enough for me to port.
I'll not lie Conjee is really worrying me.


(Plsss advice )

Should we tell him?

Impregnable101:
Snooped into my girl's WhatsApp & read her chats with a particular guy

The guy was like "I just arrived abuja. Wat I want now is a good head to help me relax"

She was like "u are not serious"

The guy: oh I am

My girl: OK, just take care of ur sef o

The guy: I want u to come & do it

My girl: u know i can take care of u

The guy: I know that why I want u to come & do it
My girl: lol

The guy: I wanted to see something thats why I called u on video but u were hiding in the dark

My girl: no light

My girl: I don't want to disturb my sister with my noise


She was in the same platoon with this guy

To think that i engaged her few months ago. Plus i have already taken drinks to her parents!!!
Cc lalasticlala

in naira Marley's voice, Alaye calm down joor, she's not ur girlfriend/wife just ur turn

Gina2019:
I have trying to ask this question; who should love each other more in a relationship? The guy or the girl.?? But one thing I know for sure is that whoever said I love you first, cares more.

There is no hard rule for who loves more in a relationship , the only rule is: if you don't wanna be played with, go for someone that loves you more... I used to go 4 girls I love more, now my psychology is reversed.... if you love me so much, then I cant help but reciprocate it

dukeprince50:
Most girls here do it to get money, even US do it to get money.

No girl will fvck random men for free, If all they want is sex, its simple to get it, a girl will easily get sex than a guy would.

If u want sex, just dress provocatively and go to a guys house, out of every ten guys, eight will want to sex you but its not same thing with guys, guys need to spend to get sex, girls knew this and use it to their advantage.

Now op, what were u doing on Xvideo?

Though I also know a guy, a friend of mine here in nigeria who never have sex with girls cos of fear of STD but he will bargain $800 which is almost N300k just for them to suck his dck, he spends more than $2000 monthly just for that and girls are willing to do it just for the money.
Do u think it was a choice or the sake of money

He is definitely a yahoo boy

ultimate77:
Hi guys... It's been a while. I hope y'all enjoying the new year and the winter. I practically sleep with my fan on and without cloth, I bath with cold water as well. Before you say I should go to jos and try it, I was born in Jos, plateau state and lived most of my life all in the north.



Please help

I shared your link to my friend, a lady who's married, this her advice for you

Friendship hides lovers real character but marriage xposes it.This two are getting together well now in a mere relationship,but I bet u ,it won't last for eternity if they venture into marriage.
Two reasons to back it up:
1)Things might not turn out d way they expected;talking in terms of financial handicap whereby money no longer flows d way it used to and he can no longer meet all her needs,by den nagging will set in.She will remind him of how he stole her from di onye obodo oyibo and probably blame and regret of accepting him and may even threaten him wit divorce.U no how bad this could b.
2)The guy from oversea might return,mean business,shower her wit gifts,money and parheps oda valuable items and will finally marry her promising and ready to pay him back all he spent on her.
I think on my own side, he shouldn't rush marriage stuff wit her for d maintym if he doesn't want to b d head of a broken home in latter days.A word is enough for d wise.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Yea, instead of robbing banks, cooking and eating flesh for rituals, kidnapping for money, they prefer to simply collect from the male folks.

the money the male folks got by that robbing banks, cooking and eating rituals, kidnapping... sense no go kill una

Twoclans:
Who are this ladies that always leech on Nigerian men sef ,abeg how much do they have sef .I will always say it ,ladies ,young girls ,women please make your money and hold your side its far sweeter than having to sit all day thinking of how to swindle a poor guy of his hard earned 5,000.

this gat me laughing like mad oo

milemimi93:
Would have paid but my body language would have changed..

how will it change when u ate the lions share of the N11600 , women like this are rare, but be sure that she didn't just pass the gold digger's test

Originalsly:
Hmmm.... so quick small girl become babe.... tells your mindset. Why would you give a young random girl your number? ... and be calling her? Predator blaming the prey for not walking into his trap.

u saw the "babe" but u didn't see "another man's daughter "

rebellious generation

Rebelworld:
You sir, are what is wrong with this country. You indulge women then complain when they turn on you lmaoo. My point is , if it was a guy would you give him that lift and also give him that little change you gave that lady ?

If a guy ask me I wunt even think it twice, you don't know what it takes for a man to come to you and make such a plea... what I can do 4 a woman I can do 4 a man over ND over