₦airaland Forum

You've already tried to talk to him twice and have indirectly shooted your shot when you asked him if he's married. If he wanted to communicate with you further then, he would have. If you try talking to him again, you'll be giving desperation vibes. Men are supposed to do the chasing and a man who likes you will do just that; you ain't gotta do his work for him.

Yeye country. When are they going to arrest Deborah Samuel's killers?

Was he responding to those beautiful women and chatting them up, or he would ignore their messages? Did he initiate those messages? I'm sure he most likely did.

Married men should just stop chasing and chatting with single women. If you know you're going to have ojukokoro after marriage and make your wife insecure, stay single. I'm always very disgusted when married men (most of whom are Nigerian men) try to talk to me on FB. I always think it's not right for them to be chatting with single women when they've a wife, plus it's just not my thing. I've lost count to how many I've blocked, lols.

All that said, OP, you did do too much in retaliation, giving your numbers to men and chatting with them, visiting that man and going out with him. That your
husband was chatting with other women (which I don't condone!) is no reason to do payback and even worse. You said he was home every night at 8pm, so at least you could rest assure that he wasn't actually dating another woman or having a physical affair but you were heading towards that with that man. You've to be careful so you don't destroy the sacredness of your marriage and home. Two wrongs can't ever make a right.

I'm glad to see her sister standing up for her. Other people in her family should also stand up for her. Because the way Mohbad's father has been attacking her is uncalled for. Her people need to stand up for her. He needs to answer who was behind his son's passing instead of attempting to divert our attention.

Eeya. Can you look for another job, OP?

Just driving by.

Omoawoke:
The killers were not even arrested!

What kinda country is this?!!! Ahh!!! Na waa oooo

You mean they have not prosecuted her killers and given them capital punishment? Nigeria is a failed country.

He has managed to divert the attention away from whatever happened to Mohbad and whoever was behind it (either he knows or he himself was one of the culprits). You'd think a man who lost his son would want to know what happened to him, but he's busy being a ho and causing unnecessary wahala for his son's innocent widow trying to make her look like the bad guy over a non-issue, while diverting our attention from the main issue.

This man is just problematic and disgusting. What kinda person is this? He needs to leave her alone and go away completely. Maybe he wanted to sleep with her and she turned him down (I wouldn't be surprised if this were the case based on the sexual comment he made to that girl at that interview he did recently), hence these wahala upon wahala he keeps giving this lady. Him no allow her grieve in peace at all. Disgusting, problematic man.

Wonderful. Kudos to him. He should keep up the good work.

She was out of line. He did the right thing.

It's you we pity. A lost sheep. God can not be mocked.

Neptunium:

How somebody wan spend this kain money on shrimps? Are they not cheaper at Costco's? I live in Germany but I lived in America for 3 years. I know Costco's got affordable prices

Well, did see some (Kirkland, AquaStar, etc) at Costco last week with good prices. I prefer going to Costco early in the morning or late at night when it's not too packed. Whole Foods is another store I like to shop at for shrimps and seafood, as they've a variety, including Colossal shrimp. I'll probably go to all these stores and take pictures to do a price comparison sometime. Normally once I see seafood or shrimp from brands I like, I'm not too concerned about the price, na to buy.

Lols. I guess he wasn't tied to it properly. Well, hope he's ok and didn't end up with any broken bones.

Danboy43:
Please what should I do?

See question . You've been footing all her bills throughout the years you've been dating and she's still refusing to work and now her father wants to start billing you too, and you're asking what you should do. What do you think you should do?

Happy Easter. Jesus is risen!!! Hallelujah!!!

.

.

I wonder why she had to lie to the kid that she paid the school fees instead of giving the husband who gave her the money credit. She could've easily said, "Your father already paid your school fees". She could've also said "We" (We've already paid your school fees" ) and I doubt the husband would've reacted over that, but her saying "I" is all shades of wrong, so he was definitely right to react. From his reaction, it's possible this isn't the first time she's taking credit for something he had done. Anyways, their wahala.

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Awwwwww!! God bless them.

Beasts.

That's sad. I wonder what the "non-combat related incident" was. I guess they might not want to say much if they're still investigating.

May his soul rest in peace. Amen.

Your sister does not care about your life if she involved the guy. What if he had injured or killed you? Your parents should be the ones intervening but if they're not, then you too face front and leave her be.

The greatest Pastors who ever lived never claimed to raise people from the dead. Nigerian Pastors, on the other hand, are a whole 'nother story with their lies and scams.

Awesome

Wickedness

May their souls rest in peace. Amen

Their business