Hello Guys, I'm hoping to make it to the February Batch. I'll like to know as a foreign graduate, how do you go about everything?

How about we switch it up and play the game "THINGS A MAN SHOULDN'T DO WHILE DATING A WOMAN"!

Hmmmm You claim your over her and you'll ignore the message. Yet your so bothered by the message that you come on NL and open a thread solely to share this message? I wonder why!

Don4life:
:oThonia Love! u r back?

lol. . .Yup I'm back!

"I Love You!" Like dude how can you love someone you don't know

"I want to marry you" Dudes keep it real! don't come at a lady with that crap cus it's getting old and boring!

LMAO!!!!! Trust me dear NL is not the place to go searching for "That Guy" too many wolves on here.

Just try to be there for the person. Do not try to start any romantic relationship with the person yet because it might lead to you being the rebound guy/lady. But be careful not to be put into the friend zone.

Then why did you go into the relationship in the first place?

Richfella: @ OP

You've placed yourself in the much dreaded Friend-Zone.

When you meet a new chic, do not hide your sexúal intentions. Do not bury your desire to bend her over and rail her hard. She doesn't want another confidant/girlfriend in you. She wants a hard member inside her while you tap that a-s-s.

Girls find it creepy and even frightening when the NICE guy/bestfriend that you've become suddenly screams "SURPRISE! SURPRISE! I have a díck tooo!" Ewwww . It's like being a wolf in sheep's clothing .

I gotta agree with this post. Its weird when a dude I see as a friend suddenly wanna be more than friends. Like dude if you meet a girl and you like her, then let her know. Don't act like you her male pal and then suddenly wanna be more than that, then expect her to jump @ it.

So you came about this conclusion based on one experience with a Nigerian girl?

Sort your accommodation issues before getting married! Living with parents as a married couple is never advisable. . .Too much interference from them which could lead to issues that shouldn't even be there in the first place.

Karamy: kip on prayin for him,there is notin God can nt do, divoz is nt d solution probably may be d wost for u.

Are you freaking kidding me? SHE SHOULD KEEP ON PRAYING AND STAYING WITH A DUDE WHO GAVE HER AN STD? HAS NO RESPECT FOR HER WHATSOEVER? BECAUSE OF WHAT? MARRIAGE?


Seriously some Nigerian are the dumbest set of people I've ever encountered in my life! Suffering and smiling!

If you know what's good for you. . .take a walk! You and your kids are more important that some messed up marriage! Do not wait till he gives you an STD that could cause you your life because its apparent that dude does not care so its your responsibility to care for yourself!

Her hair looks a hot mess!

Lips, Dentition and height.

slimyem: ...you are more interested in sex with her and she's more interested in the money you'd trade for it..
50-50-No cheating!

Thank You! Your relationship is obviously a transaction so pay up!

If your into e-books then add "FBreader" definitely can't do without this app on my tablet!

LMAO! SO many bitter dudes on NL!!!!

NOPE! Its not a must! But please don't offer to pay and later come here to whine about it!

close distance marriage is hard enough talk more of a long distance marriage! Nope! If you not ready to bring her over then please do not marry her simple!

Is it OK for your girlfriend to cheat on you without you knowing?

lolzzz! Brings back memories! Which girl didn't receive this sort of letter from some foolish boy back then!

apache77: She wants to come and visit and she doesnr have all the transport.what warranted the having bigger bills to pay in such a conversation? I dnt see any connection with adding her money and you saying you have bigger bills to pay.are you sure you even meet her needs before now as you claim?

You were the one who spoke out of point in the first place.

Like Apache77 said, what warranted the you got bigger bills to pay in the conversation? Except your not telling the full story and there is more to it. If she didn't have the complete money, what was she suppose to do, steal? Like she's coming to see YOU dude! smh!

Nope! How can I love someone I know nothing about?

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NL never ceases to amuse me!

sexkillz: Give them cheap bra and panties na. Abi kilode?

If you spend money on a girl is because you wanted to. No girl forces you to spend on her. What i still don't get is the rationale behind spending willingly, and then complaining over your willful spending!


Wtf!

I also do not get it? Some of these dudes make it look like they put a rope on their necks and dragged them like a goat? I simply do not get it!

monex: the new world mentality equates poverty with laziness. while i appreciate the need to have an internal locus of control, theres a lot of favour, luck and opportunity in being wealthy. So when i hear girls calling a broke guy lazy, i fail to see the analogy.

in terms of choice of husbands however, I agree with Ileke-Idi - It's up to a lady to choose the type of man she wants to get married to. if she wants someone who is financially stable, it is her choice. as a guy, what you do is to find a lady who is ok with ur financial status. no be wetin dem dey vex put. a lot of us have our own seemingly ridiculous list of requirements for would-be spouses. sometimes, we all get to make concessions (looks, cash, intellect, character, tribe etc.)

EXACTLY! To each man his own! If a woman wants a man who's financially stable that's on her. . .Let her be. . .do not attack her because of her choice! After all you also have your own choices of what you want in a spouse. . .so why can't someone else have theirs?

I believe every one is entitled to their beliefs and whatever makes them comfortable! If being with a rich man makes you comfortable good for you. . .If being with a poor man makes you comfortable good for you. . .If being with a slim/fat girl or a woman who can cook or can't cook makes you comfortable then go for it!

People drinking panadol extra on another person's choice won't make them not want what they want! So if it bothers you so much please find the girl who doesn't care! PERIOD!

My simple question to the men shouting "gold diggers" when a woman wants a man who's financial stable. Let me guess you'all want the so called wife material (Which includes a woman who can cook, clean, take care of your needs in the bedroom and outside it) but a woman can't ask for a husband material? (Which also includes a man who's financially stable)

Hmmm talk of SELFISHNESS.

Lord_Reed:





Where does it say husbands are to submit?

Its funny how peeps only quote the Bible when they trying to prove a selfish point.

LMAO!