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Romance › Re: Beware Of Women !! Beware Of Sex !! by tobechi20(op): 10:31pm On Oct 06, 2017
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Christianity Etc › Proof; A Female Goat More Important Than A Woman by tobechi20(op): 10:28pm On Oct 06, 2017
the Bible tells us that God created animal male and female. when it came to human he created only man not women. that means women were not part of Gods original plan but a female goat is.
it is after a second thought when Adam was lonely that a female was created.
therefore woman is an incidental being or is there something the Bible writers did not record
Christianity Etc › Re: Beware Of Women by tobechi20(op): 10:27pm On Oct 06, 2017
the Bible tells us that God created animal male and female. when it came to human he created only man not women. that means women were not part of Gods original plan but a female goat is.
it is after a second thought when Adam was lonely that a female was created.
therefore woman is an incidental being or is there something the Bible writers did not record
Family › Re: women, how do you expect your patner to react when YOU sTARTS NAGGING... by tobechi20(op): 10:21pm On Oct 06, 2017
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Romance › Re: The Story That Exposes Femimist Hypocry by tobechi20(op): 10:14pm On Oct 06, 2017
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Romance › Re: Is It Wrong To Have Sex With Your Girl Friend On Sunday by tobechi20(m): 12:26am On Sep 30, 2017
who created sex,,,God
who created Sunday. God
who created human God

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Politics › Re: IPOB: Matters Arising As DHQ Declares IPOB A “militant Terrorist Organisation” by tobechi20(m): 12:23am On Sep 30, 2017
militant... how? why?
Family › Re: Marriage List Of Items In Imo Presented To Prospective Groom From Anambra by tobechi20(m): 9:06pm On Sep 29, 2017
good
Romance › Re: What's Your Definition Of A Broke Guy Or Lady? by tobechi20(m): 9:06pm On Sep 29, 2017
one that did not give you transport money
Car Talk › Re: Pictures Of A Fulani Nairalander On Dinner Date With Her Cars by tobechi20(m): 6:46am On Sep 28, 2017
finally,
Politics › Re: Why North Opposes Restructuring – Ajimobi by tobechi20(m): 12:37am On Sep 28, 2017
laziness
Politics › Re: Gov Okorocha Accuses Buhari Of Not Treating Him Fairly by tobechi20(m): 1:57pm On Sep 27, 2017
lies I no gree
Politics › Re: Operation Python Dance Is Field Training Exercise – Army by tobechi20(m): 9:48pm On Sep 16, 2017
why den no use am for book boys
Romance › Re: Question Of The Day? by tobechi20(m): 8:05pm On Sep 03, 2017
if I marry someone you are happy with but u am not, when you die , what happens
Romance › Re: Media Explode As World’s Smallest Woman Finally Gets Married (photo) by tobechi20(m): 1:07pm On Sep 03, 2017
just wandering, is this love
Christianity Etc › Re: 2TTEE - Jesus Never Had Sex [official Lyrics] by tobechi20(m): 12:54pm On Sep 03, 2017
Smony:
Wat a nosense lyrics. jesus is nt ur mate dat u wl even sing abt sex wit. dats nt his primary work in world. He came to reunite us wit GOD afta Adam fail
don't you have sense of humour. even Jesus will laugh at the lyric
Christianity Etc › Is This Possible In Church by tobechi20(op): 10:25pm On Sep 02, 2017
suppose one Sunday. ,pastor / priest stands up and says " today,God has ministered to me that he wants us to focus on him and him alone. today,there wouldn't be any side event . we will sing and I will preach. no distraction, no announcement. no interruption . no offering( if you have offering,drop it in the box behind the church after service?
is this possible
Romance › The Story That Exposes Femimist Hypocry by tobechi20(op): 4:34pm On Aug 14, 2017
"And I really want you to keep an open mind about everything. I am not a girl who would be confined to the kitchen. I have an outgoing personality and I live my life to the fullest. Also, I believe that women are everything that men can be, and more. I have a successful career and I will continue to work after marriage as well."
The guy merely nodded.
"Are you judging me?" she asked in a stern tone.
"Not at all," he replied.
"You don't want to talk about yourself?" she asked him.
The guy cleared his throat and began.
"I like staying indoors. I have always been someone who valued spending time at home. I am a great cook, and I was once planning to become a chef. I also enjoy cleaning the house. Actually, my mother used to be unwell, and I had to do the tidying up. I guess it just caught on. I would love to be home and get everything sorted before you arrive from work. A hot cup of tea would be waiting for you every single evening. I just don't want to become part of the daily corporate grind, though. I work now and earn well, but I don't want to do this forever. It's boring and tiring. After marriage, I want to sit at home. That's it. I want to sit at home and enjoy the finer things in life," he said.
The girl stared at him.
"Are you judging me?" he asked her.
"Umm..."
"I am so happy that I finally found someone who would be willing to earn for the house as I go about looking after it. Trust me, I will be the best homemaker ever," he said.
Later that evening, the girl called her parents.
"No mom. This guy is a weirdo. Talks the most impractical things. Wants me to feed him all my life. Why should I slog out? I can't marry that guy, please."
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Re: This Story Exposes The Hypocrisy Of Most Feminist by austinereds(m ): 9:42am
Laughs. what an irony. isn't that what they want. crazy crazy world.
Family › This Story Exposes The Hypocrisy Of Most Feminist by tobechi20(op): 7:53am On Aug 14, 2017
"And I really want you to keep an open mind about everything. I am not a girl who would be confined to the kitchen. I have an outgoing personality and I live my life to the fullest. Also, I believe that women are everything that men can be, and more. I have a successful career and I will continue to work after marriage as well."
The guy merely nodded.
"Are you judging me?" she asked in a stern tone.
"Not at all," he replied.
"You don't want to talk about yourself?" she asked him.
The guy cleared his throat and began.
"I like staying indoors. I have always been someone who valued spending time at home. I am a great cook, and I was once planning to become a chef. I also enjoy cleaning the house. Actually, my mother used to be unwell, and I had to do the tidying up. I guess it just caught on. I would love to be home and get everything sorted before you arrive from work. A hot cup of tea would be waiting for you every single evening. I just don't want to become part of the daily corporate grind, though. I work now and earn well, but I don't want to do this forever. It's boring and tiring. After marriage, I want to sit at home. That's it. I want to sit at home and enjoy the finer things in life," he said.
The girl stared at him.
"Are you judging me?" he asked her.
"Umm..."
"I am so happy that I finally found someone who would be willing to earn for the house as I go about looking after it. Trust me, I will be the best homemaker ever," he said.
Later that evening, the girl called her parents.
"No mom. This guy is a weirdo. Talks the most impractical things. Wants me to feed him all my life. Why should I slog out? I can't marry that guy, please."
© Story by Abhijit Chakraborty ,
Christianity Etc › Re: Could This Bible Portion Be Talking Of Nigeria Division? by tobechi20(m): 8:09am On Aug 13, 2017
biafrans using bible to justify themselves
Romance › Re: Who Should We Blame When A Woman Abandons/throwaway Her New Born Baby(photo)? by tobechi20(m): 8:23am On Jul 28, 2017
blame the person that opened her legs
Romance › Re: 11 Sarcastic Photos That Proves Women Rule The World. by tobechi20(m): 8:17am On Jul 28, 2017
photos that prove white men think of pusdy more than africans
Romance › Re: 11 Sarcastic Photos That Proves Women Rule The World. by tobechi20(m): 8:16am On Jul 28, 2017
photos that prove wjitrmen think of pusdy more than africans
Romance › Re: Jakandeola Is A Legendary Blogger Whose English Could Resurrect The Dead by tobechi20(m): 10:53pm On Jul 17, 2017
blogging is for those who love writing not for wrutting expert
Christianity Etc › Re: Did John The Baptist Lose His Faith In Jesus As The Messiah? by tobechi20(m): 10:50pm On Jul 17, 2017
he was confused because holy spirit had left him
Christianity Etc › Re: How Does God Distribute Spiritual Gifts? by tobechi20(m): 10:46pm On Jul 17, 2017
randomly
Foreign Affairs › Re: UNESCO Declares Islam As The Most Peaceful Religion Of The World by tobechi20(m): 10:44pm On Jul 17, 2017
the best way toy encourage a dull boy to take education serious is to tell him he I'd intelligent.

best way to encourage them to shun violence is tell them they are peaceful
Family › Re: Apart From Finance,what Major Role Did Your Father Play In Your Life by tobechi20(op): 8:27am On Jun 20, 2017
Iykmann:
Na only sperm ma papa controbut for me
ewoo...that was harsh
Christianity Etc › Ten Ways To Recognised Pharasees In Chuy by tobechi20(op): 12:53am On Jun 19, 2017
THERE ARE 12 MAJOR WAYS TO IDENTIFY PHARISEES IN YOUR CHURCH.
1. They go to work early but come to church late.
2. They beg their boss when they err but threaten to leave church whenever there is a misunderstanding.
3. They work hard to be promoted at work but treat the work of God with levity.
4. They pay all their dues in the workplace but refuse to pay tithe in the church.
5. They buy costly things for their boss to get favor but can't even buy airtime for their pastor.
6. When they are not going to be in the office, they take permission ahead from their superior; but expect pastor and elders to pay them visits when they miss church without notice.
The House of God should be a very welcoming place for all
7. They fear and respect their boss than their pastor and even sometimes more than God.
8. When they are sick they manage to go to work but they cannot manage to come to the church.
9. They take official query serious but handle divine rebuke with disdain.
10. They tolerate their colleagues in the workplace but cannot tolerate the brethren.
11. They turn off their phones at workplace, but use calls to distract other worshipers in Church.
12. They can work overtime in the office but get offended at the pastor if he's not closing at the stipulated time.
Is there any in your church?
Family › Re: Apart From Finance,what Major Role Did Your Father Play In Your Life by tobechi20(op): 12:31am On Jun 19, 2017
Isn’t it interesting how deeply our relationship with our fathers impact us?
A good balance between love and discipline is the key to great parenting. Barbara Coloroso describes four parenting styles based on love and discipline. The “jellyfish” parent scores high on love but low on discipline. The “brick wall” parent is like the father in the first example- high on discipline and low on love. The “permissive” parent, like the father in the third example, is low in love and low in discipline. The “backbone” parent represents the ideal. Like the father in the fourth example this parent scores high on love and high on discipline.
Family › Re: Apart From Finance,what Major Role Did Your Father Play In Your Life by tobechi20(op): 12:30am On Jun 19, 2017
On a positive note there is a man who describes his dad as being someone he could always talk to. He remembers having all kinds of discussions with him on many different topics. As a kid he felt that he could actually learn from his dad’s mistakes. His dad was not perfect by any means, but at least he was authentic. Even as a kid his dad would ask him for his opinions and his ideas and would listen curiously to what he would have to say. He remembers his dad as having boundaries but also being flexible. If he could come up with a good enough argument for why he should be able to do something he could usually convince his dad, as long as it wasn’t unreasonable. He remembered developing a strategy for picking his battles and not sweating the small stuff.
If you ask how him how his dad impacted his life he would tell you that he learned to think for himself. Despite his shortcomings and failures he felt affirmed and validated as a young man, and that this somehow gave him the “freedom to fail”. He attributes his success in life to this “freedom to fail”.
This man is an confident decision maker and has risen to be a leader in his place of work. At home he loves being a dad. His wife also loves that he can articulate his thoughts and feelings well. Generally speaking he seems to be a happy guy.
Isn’t it interesting how deeply
Family › Re: Apart From Finance,what Major Role Did Your Father Play In Your Life by tobechi20(op): 12:29am On Jun 19, 2017
A lady tells the story about her father who was overprotective. She had very little freedom to go anywhere. If she asked permission to go somewhere there was always a reason why she couldn’t.
3) Another lady tells the story of how her Dad was a workaholic and that there was a lot of tension and conflict in the home. He may have been there physically but he was emotionally unavailable to her. She felt ignored by him. She longed for his attention and approval. She grew up feeling empty, emotionally abandoned, and struggled with low self esteem.
If you ask her how her relationship with her father impacted her she would tell you that she felt she had to grow up too fast, and that she missed out on her childhood. She leaned at an early age to fend for herself and not to ask for help and that she couldn’t trust people especially men, because they would let her down. As a teen she looked for love in all the wrong places and would dress in a way that got attention from guys, but in the end it wasn’t the kind of attention she needed. The whole trajectory of her life was in the wrong direction and she ended up in a lifestyle of promiscuity and addiction.

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