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Pride comes before fall.

Jose Mourinho started as a translator ,he learnt from vangaal

Guardiola started as an academy coach before he was promoted
Dimatteo was a westbrom manager, assistant to AVB before he was promoted to take Chelsea to champion league final
Zidane was assistant to Ancelloti.

Accept assistant role. Add one or two techniques to your numerous skills. Whenever Rohr olid is sacked. You will be made promoted.

Fear of God is beginning of wisdom. A wise man

Sex is overrated

Uncertainty over what it brings. Fear of hell fire

Ask the girl

This is not real

techmo:



Na the stage wey you dey for life be that..

Pikin -- Breast Milk

Child --- Bobo Juice

Teenagers --- Biggie Apple Soda

Adults ---- Alcohol


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Water is life

(Moderators: Freiburger, r231) front page. Let's hear the views of Nigerians before our government start borrowing fundto purchase covid 19 vaccine

True

No future ambition

Avoid her chats

Survived endsars death and covid 19

Have female friends but not girlfriend. If you play your card well, you may get the stuff ones a while while avoiding the baggage

Noo, I need to know her character first. I am highly sekective

Bible,. Rosary, religious pamphlet. Hymn book.

Congratulations. She is sex starving. You just saved a life

Real words of wisdom

You made Sence Sha but you presented them like you are angry at someone.

I think it has to do with personality than physique

AstroG:
Why do girls have this attitude of always asking "What do you do" on first day of meeting ?


That question pisses me off more than body and mouth odour

. what you do determine how she will bill you.
I tell them I am a primary school teacher. If she loose interest, I know I just avoided a potential gold digger

Human are dangerous

Religion section

SILENTandSMART2:


bro I'm Kinda confused


hahahaha


you mean your bed dey parlour or what ?


international man need explanation


as in what is your bed doing in parlour


hahahaha

One room

Purity culture has been branded as all of the ways women can stay protected and holy in today’s society. The truth of the matter lies in the fact that this only serves to subjugate women even more. By placing women on these pedestals, it places the onus on women to cover up and ensure that they are not temptations for men, forgetting that rapists are not dissuaded by the physical appearance. Purity culture is also set up in such a way that encourages women to avoid taking charge of their sex life. It paints women that deviate from this as whores who need to be shamed and punished, hence why when a women is raped and she is vocal about her sex life, it is brushed off because she asked for it by taking charge of her sex life. This is how purity culture normalizes and trivializes sexual assault .  


Most Religions do give women right to make decisions concerning her body
It does not define Consent

Women who have been raised religiously have been taught in some way by socializing influences, that they do not exist for themselves. They are to keep themselves holy and covered up, and to wait patiently in their fathers’ houses until a man approaches said fathers for marriage. It is in all the biblical stories and anecdotes describing model women of faith and religious principles.

This is problematic because not only would the woman lack individuality, there are no boundaries of consent. There would be nothing that says that she can say no to her husband. In Nigeria currently the law does not recognize marital rape as rape. So even when it feels like rape, when she knows that it is rape, when there is physical evidence of rape, she says nothing because she has been conditioned to think that the man has only taken what was his in the first place.  

Good girl/ Bad Girl Binary

Purity culture divides women into two groups ; the good girls and the bad girls and pray to God you don’t fall into the latter group. When a girl who is seen as a bad girl is abused sexually or physically, people see it as a punishment for her behaviour.

Guilt and shame are products of purity culture, when girls are taught that they become worthless after they have sex outside marriage they live with guilt and shame and it is even worse when they experience sexual violence because the victim automatically assumes it is just a punishment for the way she behaved or even dressed. What I don’t understand is how people expect women who finally have sex after they get married to just shake off

The consent workshop
https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/01/does-it-make-her-cheap/

Who makes woman his priority?

Marriage is legalized prostitution.
It is accepted slavery
Bride price is the money

The more anonymous , the more people tend to break rules

thebosstrevor1:
Most people dont realise that there are hundreds of anonymous forums outside Nigeria that are brutal to women than nairaland.

Can you name three examples please

Casalindal:
I noticed that. Being working on it hopefully I will improve

I admire your ability to accept your shortcomings and take correction

mezico96:
Do you know me?
Cos am guilty of all you said...
but how is it related to my problem?

Among Homosexuals, there are dominant (husband) and submissive(wives).
Men like obedience women as wives.
People with certain features are likely victims. Quiet person wey no like wahala make good diiick succkkkkeers..

The day you begin to be assertive, querrelsome, fighter,. He will see you as a fellow dominant person. You no longer make a potential gay wife. He will avoid you. Do not fight him? Let him see you aggressive many times.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/23/sexual-imbalance/