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uninspired07:
Edit: I have been indoctrinated into the money first mentality, but the money is not there yet.

Then go look for the money first.

placeofallure:
Mine is D,F &G. Hmmmmn! I can't deal!

I have solution for others.
A- it doesn't have to be his money we're spending, I should be making money too.
B- If I'm busy making money, I won't need his attention as such.
C- There's always a Love Machine to the rescue
E- I can always teach him how to be romantic.

One Mature lady here.

victorian:
My shout out goes to these following wonderful people after my heart:


Toks2008
Pusyiter
Funmistiqueen
Wizywiz
Lefulefu
Mamajj17
Oodua1stson
Wristbangle

Merry Christmas!!! love you all to the moon and back

One love beautiful Barbie

Michellekabod2:
I am not going to create another moniker for this,i owe no one nothing!

I have spent most of my life single. I tried linking up with people but to no avail. Why? I will not do the blame game here. Is all my fault. I meet someone, get heed over heels for the person but I lose interest easily. When it comes to commitment, when the friendship is to get to the next level I ghost them. I don't know why. At best out of the blue I lose interest and become blank, not returning calls or replying messages, at worst I become disgusted at the fellow for no reason at all then move one to the next male friend. Nothing serious comes out of it...

So I decided to give up trying. My female friends and I go on an outing, some guys approach us and get our numbers. Months (sometimes years) later they are still waxing strong with the males, one of them even got married to one of them. But me? After a couple of weeks I find myself having to ghost the guy that I was head over heels for.

I gave up on love and chose to be single. I have been single for years now.

I met this guy march this year,we bonded like never before. I have never in my entire life felt like this before. It is so strange that each conversation we have all seems anew like we are starting all over.

It's almost ten months and the fire is still intense.
I have never had such a long friendship with a male. People assume we are dating. He gives me so much JOY... He is so awesome, different from all the others i have known. He changed me.

I just figured out i want to end the friendship, I don't know why. I am tired. I want to walk away. The passion is still there but i want to be away. I wanted to get a new SIM but my conscience will not. What has kept me from doing this is because i wonder how he will feel..

I want to walk away. Will i regret this?

You be ogbanje... Simple and straight forward.

You will hardly find Any guy that will stay with plastic buttocks.

Guys love the real thing.

Charleys:
I have a small poultry,
My chicken had grown to an enormous size because I fed them well.

Come 24th of December. I sold some and decided to give some to my neighbour because I thought I will be a greedy person if I don't do so.

I felt something when I gave a particular neighbour. She accepted but the happiness wasn't genuine because I saw it in her eyes.

Fast forward to the afternoon, I suspected.

Later went to the dustbin to see my lovely chicken dead and thrown in the dustbin. My mind just told me.

At least she should have thrown it elsewhere not the general dustbin

The chicken that I would have sold for #7000 and make money from it.

Why didn't she kindly reject it, rather than take my Christmas chicken, kill and throw it into the dustbin.

Ooh, I am so angry right now.

I don't know what to do if I should confront her or I should just foam in anger just like that.

If I knew I would have sold it and take my girl out this Christmas,

Confront her politely and hear her out and if her explanation no make sense biko tell her your mind calmly and walk away. What rubbish.

Japsylee:
Nice pictures.... but these are young nairalanders.... .

Very very young.

mamaafrik:
hunnnnnnn,oluwa miiiiiii,from your phone,haba!!!,are you a seer?

You no watch the YouTube video?

Eyaah...i can see a form of fear in his eyes and in the way he spoke.

Ko easy la ti ba ijoba ja.

Nah that crime be the main problem.

Onyi22:
Watch how the broke single guys will start bashing her...
It's her life, allow her to make her choice

Gbam!

Ladycewhy:
how you people come to this forum to make assumptions you know nothing about baffles me,where did you conduct your survey to be pulling out percentages?,have you ever lost a family member ? Have you ever lived with a widow?.Lets assume you know one or two people who have suffered the loss of a loved one, is that enough data for you to pull your statistics from ,that these people go about their daily lives for you to see does that indicate they have have forgotten the dead,are you in their heart? Do you even know how grief takes a toll on those who have lost dear ones to come to the conclusion that a deceased will be forgotten?

The scars of loosing a loved one lives within you,the space is never filled.Most times humans try to forget to ease the hurt the demise has left ,but the truth is a loved one is never forgotten,its a permanent void that can never be filled.


Lets be guided please,you lots talk anyhow on this forum too much .2020 is around the corner,let this nonsense generalisation end this year.

Ordinarily I would have ignored rants like this but let me do you the honour of responding.

As I wrote...only 5% of the people who knew him will still remember him after a couple of days and that 5% are his loved ones and people he was very close to.

May GOD grant you sense in 2020.

kingcheks:
Blatant bullshit

Jesus couldn’t save him from the car crash abi?

Bloody fanatics. Salvation is personal. If you die today, Christian or not. Nobody gives a Bleep. Not even your pastor. Life is a movie and every man and woman are actors.

Why does GOD allow for tragic death?

Many people often wonder why GOD allows people to die in several ways when he has the power to avert the cause and atheists have used this issue to discredit the existence of GOD.

The bitter truth is every one of us must die at different times through different means regardless of the age. Whether by human error, gun, natural disasters, wars, plane crash, sickness...WE ALL MUST LEAVE THIS EARTH.

It is quite unfortunate that the earth does not have infinite resources for a limitless number of species so by default, people must die for earth's ecological balance to be sustained. Imagine you, your entire family right from the previous 4 generations living in one building without anyone leaving...now you can imagine how choked you all will be.

In like manner, for the earth to maintain its balance, every living species must at one time or the other leave for new ones to have space. So the bitter truth is that people must die and as people leave this earth, new people come in through childbirth and this balance must continue regardless of your prayer to live long....IF GOD ANSWERS EVERYBODY'S PRAYER FOR LONG LIFE I GUESS THIS WORLD WILL BE SATURATED.

What GOD cares about is our souls and whilst we cry on earth when anyone dies, to GOD it is homecoming cos this earth is just a temporary place for our souls.

Our souls–that invisible and eternal part of us–is the part that connects us with God. It’s what makes us different than all other life forms on the planet: every human has a soul. Your soul is the real you and that is what GOD really cares about and not your earthly body. That’s why Jesus asked, “Is anything worth more than your soul?”(Mark 8:37)

Yes, it's ok to pray and wish for a long life but stop bothering your head about who dies and who lives or when and how you die....it can happen at any time so start preparing your soul for where you want it to be for eternity.

This life.

Let me guess what happens next...

In the next 24 hours, 70% of those who knew him will forget about him...in the next couple of days 25% of those who knew him will forget he ever existed and in about a month from now nearly everyone will forget he ever existed...his wife will eventually end up under another man and all he ever worked for will be enjoyed by another person and same fate awaits everyone of us...life goes on for those who are still on earth and that is the irony of life.

The best thing anyone can do is to accept salvation through Christ Jesus cos as a believer, if you die, you actually start living a greater life and you care less if the world remembers you on earth.

GOD FORBID that I am forgotten on earth and also forgotten in Heaven.

Rest on bro.

Smart guy.

Honestly I don't understand it..if you have a lady that is pleasing to you sexually and you get along well I don't see why a guy should look for another lady.

How u go get this hot wife and still be doing nonsense out there?

Bought my first car in 2001 June I guess it was a clean tokunbo Opel omega.

Bought it for N300k Lol!

No big deal.

Anambralstson:
Aku Lue Uno: US Based Ukpo Indigene Builds Ultramodern Hostel At Chukwuemwka Odumegwu Ojukwu University, Igbariam Campus.

In response to the Aku Lue Uno clarion call of the Obiano led administration, a United States based Ukpo Indigene, Engr. Tony Adibeh has built a world-class students hostel at the Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu University, Igbariam Campus.

The Ultramodern hostel built on seventy plots of land is made up of two hundred and eighty-five rooms well furnished, with Gymnasium, Restaurant, Multipurpose hall, with over two hundred capacity, Shopping Mall that contains business centre that is equipped with thirty computer sets for students' use.

The hostel also contains pharmacy, Barbing salon, Hair dressing salon, Maintenance yard, Two borehole facilities with two massive overhead tanks that will be supplying water to the rooms twenty-four hours.

24/7 power supply is assured in the hostel as there are 250kv standby power generator sets, as well as Sola system.

Protection of life and property is also assured in the hostel as it equipped with CCTV cameras, and armed security personnel.

Two Buses are also available for the students' daily conveyance to school.

Speaking, the owner of the hostel, Engr. Tony Adibeh and Wife, Mrs Nkiru Adibeh said they decided to build the hostel in the university to ensure that the students of the school will have a good and conducive environment to live in as obtainable in the western world, and as well to support the developmental strides of Governor Willie Obiano, as well as his Aku Lue Uno clarion call.

Engr. and Mrs Adibeh called on Ndi Anambra to support his vision by patronizing him, as he rents out the rooms at affordable prizes ( three hundred thousand naira per annum, with maximum of two persons per room).

The Hostel is named, " Royale Garden Hostel Complex, and the Motto is: " All Things Come From God".

Governor Willie Obiano was represented at the event by the state Commissioner for Housing, Architect Michael Okonkwo.

Lalasticlala

Nice business sense.

GamalNasser:
This girl is unhappy I can see it

How many people are happy in their marriages? Many are just coping jare but at least the money will make her forget her worries...

Firstly, sixthly, I was expecting tenthly Lol!

Next time OP just put numbers and not all these funny tags.

As for the Qur'an I learnt that some Christians were captured in a cave and made to write the Qur'an from biblical manuscripts.

I don't know if this is true but a converted Islamic cleric gave this narration.

nairafame:
Multiple award-winning superstar, Davido features Naira Marley, Zlatan and WurlD on the song titled “Sweet In The Middle“, produced by Shizzi.

Watch Video Below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVte8a_2q80

Not impressed

Were

naijacentric:
God bless you bless you sir you said it all. Same thing i say too its only on rare case a man will treat a great lady anyhow. Instead its mostly women dat maltreat good men. I heard now some naija women abroad now come home to marry, its like dey are scared to marry foreigners who might not tolerate them

Lol! They come home to marry but guess what? The guys they export still leave them in most cases....what does this suggest?...the problem is with them.

shugaboy6102:
This is my story and I will appreciate if the mods can push it to front page so that others can read and learn from me, and I also need your honest comments and advice because you could be saving a drowning man.

I Am 29 years of age, a civil engineer by profession and a sanguine by temperament. Before my youth service @ age 24 I got my girl friend pregnant and I was scared of abortion so we decided to keep the baby with the full support of my mother and she agreed because I was an only son. After that, we proceeded to see her people with my mum and relatives to my girl friends village and we paid something on her head but didn't complete the whole traditional right, but this was not even the traditional wedding proper.

After that we saw ourselves as husbands and wife and we were living fine for sometime. After sometime, the relationship took a different turn as we were always fighting and didn't agree on even the slightest matter. I remember vividly one occasion we fought over a female colleague @ work who sent me a whatsapp message and why we fought was that she came to my work place and fought the young lady openly embarrassing me in the process in front of everyone.

There were times I would try to reconcile but she would blatantly refused, sometimes she will tell me she is fed up of this thing we call marriage and that she's looking for someone that I too should look for someone else.

Fast-forward I met a lady and one thing led to another and I started picking interest in her. It was never my intention to be with another woman but I don't have peace of mind and I feel I am loosing my mind.

Note: I haven't wedded in a church before or done a full traditional marriage. Here comes the question: would it be considered a divorce if I quit this union and marry this new lady?

I am full of unhappiness and pain and I don't want to live a life of endurance and pity. Pls nobody should pressure you into getting married, marriage is not a license to live a happy life. If you are single, I envy you.

Paid a bride price on her head and not just something....So you are married to her.

The truth is that in most cases there are no better alternatives...we just need to work on the issue and be happy together.

That she is jealous means she loves you so just sit her down for the sake of the child and make things work.

Don't be deceived... there is nothing out there.

ndidigood:
she noo lie
Naso e de bee o

Nah dem!

naijacentric:
dats naija women for you they have no empathy for men. So many naija men with papers will gladly marry village girls but our women i am done with them i wonder why dey are like dat. Our african sisters are far far better than them

Do you even know where it gets worse?, in most cases,their own men with papers don't want to marry them cos of their terrible nature leaving them with no option other than going with guys without papers...

Now they don't want guys without papers and guys with papers don't want them putting them in perpetual limbo over their marital future...this is why single motherhood has become the order of the day in western world...

I always advise them that the papers they have is a great leverage for them to pick their choice men and really treat him well...

I'm yet to see that guy that will take advantage of a lady that has great virtues...even if he had a bad intent, laslas e go change mind remain with the babe...but when a lady has a terrible nature, men will eventually dump her after getting what they want.

The western world is plagued with Paper curse.

post=85031666:
You got your pali yesterday, and men are already sending you proposal 2 hours later.

Queen Aunty Uriel, Shey Na u be d first person to get British pali?!

Orisirisi something.
Oshisko!

Bro if I begin to write on this matter page go full.

I don't pray for my enemy to be in a position where a lady will think all you want her for is cos of papers.

You will see ladies that but for papers no guy suppose look their side also forming levels cos they have papers.

If you know what the eyes of guys dey see from these foreign ladies cos of papers you will weep for them...no matter How you try to show them you truly desire them, as long as you don't have papers just don't bother cos they will always juxtapose your good heart to ulterior motive of wanting papers from them.

Imagine this one that just got her papers yesterday is now forming queen whilst hotter babes in naija dey even pray make man call them....chai!

I know a lady who has practically destroyed the marital lives of her two daughters all because she does not want them to marry men without papers but unfortunately guys wey get papers no send these babes...so guess what? I told her point blank that my advise to her daughters is to have very good qualities that even if a guy comes into their lives just for papers, the guy go change mind after seeing how good natured they are.

Abeg make I stop here...

Boss13:
*Correction - removed from office as a result of impeachment.* Donald Trump will not the first president to be impeached. Nixon would have been impeached but he resigned. Bill Clinton was impeached but Democrat Senators overturned the votes.

You still don't get it...i mean removed from office via impeachment...no POTUS has ever been removed...the drama always end at the Senate.

Geenosko:
Baba people can show what ever they want on social media. If you don't like them, block them


Now don't throw that comprehension card here.

You post was denigrating to those who acquire a second passport.

Stop shifting the goal post.

What I write is my opinion and how you comprehend it is entirely up to you.

Enjoy your night?

Lilbest3:
American politics directly impact the whole world. Trump can crash stock market with a single tweet.
The whole impeachment hoax is just a partisan gameplay. Nothing will come out of it. Nadler, schiff and Pelosi already made up their minds that trump will be impeached. Facts didn't really matter. Graham and McConnell have already declared that they will nullify the impeachment in the senate. This is just a masturbatory piece for Liberals and African pseudo Liberals cum illegal migration freaks.

I believe you...American politics have become comedy of late...however, don't underestimate the fact that for the first time in history, some republicans in the Senate might turn their backs on Trump and should that happen, he will go down in history as the first POTUS to be impeached.

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