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zeeprince:
believe me I read, read, and read your comments but I couldn't make sense of it, just answer my question.. who was the way truth and life during Abraham, Isaac, jocob, Solomon, David and others...and if salvation comes from believing that Jesus is God then where the the followers of those prophet end up?

Nice question,...before Jesus came, humans were judged simply based on their believe in GOD ALMIGHTY...(Jehovah)... but after Jesus came to die it shifted to our believe in the sacrifice made by Jesus on the cross.

Bro or sis lemme shock you...do you know why you came to this thread and why you are asking these questions..? It is because your soul yearns for salvation and that is a typical sign of every potential follower of Christ.

You can liberate yourself this minute by accepting Jesus as your Lord and saviour and after you do that, you will experience a kind of peace that surpasses all human understanding.

Just say these simple words out where ever you are..

"LORD JESUS , I BELIEVE I AM A DINNER AND THAT YOU CAME TO DIE FOR ME THAT I CAN BE SAVED. I ACCEPT YOU THIS MOMENT AS MY LORD AND SQVIOUR...THANK YOU JESUS FOR SAVING ME."

As simple and as strangely as it may sound, this proclamation is all YOU need TO BE SAVED forever.

zeeprince:
and u know all these things because u have gone to heaven before right?

Bro no point arguing this. You have all the right in the world to believe what you want.

As far as I am concerned I have chosen to believe in Jesus and Jehovah...if I die and find out that they are scam I will have nothing to lose and nothing to gain but if on the contrary, I will have nothing to lose but everything to gain.

Happy New year

Bimpe29:
Pope Francis didn't show good leadership quality

You need to watch the video.

KingGBsky:
Pope Francis apologised Wednesday for his widely-viewed slap of a woman who had grabbed his hand as he greeted Catholic faithful on New Year’s Eve.

The image of Francis slapping his way free from the clutches of the admirer was an instant hit on social media.

A personal apology followed.

“We lose patience many times,” Francis confessed.

“It happens to me too. I apologise for the bad example given yesterday,” the head of the Catholic church said before celebrating Mass at the Vatican.


Twitter enthusiasts commented with abandon on the pontiff’s prompt riposte to the woman.

Francis had greeted children before the Nativity scene on Saint Peter’s square and was turning away when the woman who had crossed herself then cried out something, pulled on his hand and almost caused him to fall.

The 83-year-old pope grimaced before managing to break free by slapping her hand twice.

He continued his tour, walking with some difficulty while maintaining a slightly greater distance from visitors, and gradually relaxed again as he came into contact with other children.

https://punchng.com/pope-apologises-for-slapping-womans-hand/

I don't see any fault in what he did. That lady almost fell him...how can you drag an 83 year old man that way?

empirebosscrew:
Good day everybody. So I have lived with poliomelythis for more than two decades now. I have strived so much to achieve alot for myself because I never allowed my situation deter me from achieving my goals in life.

Everything has been going on smoothly: Education up to MSc level, a job, a car and things a man can acquire and say he has reached a level of comfort.

The one thing I'm yet to get is to be in a stable relationship. 99% of the girls I've dated never took me serious and we never lasted long. Some will even take advantage to chop my money and bail after a while. It got to a point I had a bitter negative stereotype thinking all women are mainly out there to exploit a man.

It wasnt until earlier this year when I met someone who changed the horoscope. Like she is so down to earth and actually loved me for me, without even looking at my paralysis. Things were going smoothly until she started becoming aggressive and emotional over little issues.

It took a while but she was able to open up to let me know how her family vehemently told her they dont want to see her with someone like me. They also threatened to disown her if she insisted on being with me.

Currently, we decided to stop seeing each other for the sake of peace to reign in her family. We do keep communication on a 100. We both love each other genuinely and we do not want us to split just like that.

What do we do?

We live in a crazy unfair world bro.

I have typed many things and latter deleted them cos the advice sounds funny..so lemme keep quiet.

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies don't ever try it you'll be consider cheap and they would use you to count score.......Nigerian men don't understand the word EASY they value it when they hustle to get you.....

Apparently you have been meeting boys.

I no understand again o...thought he was above 41.

wany:
Hmmmm another brain dead spotted.so you mean this ladies are not happy because they don't have a man in their life ba,boy what is more important to a woman is her children and not necessary the man ,go and double check.this ladies you mention have children.so they are very OK.and making pileing the mulas.

You keep calling everyone brain dead cos they have their opinion.

Let me tell you this.

The #1 sign of a brain dead individual is when they abuse another person because of their opinion...it is not only a sign of having a dead brain but also a clear sign of lame narcissism and it is a pity that whoever funded your education has wasted resources.

I will ignore you hence forth

wany:
You are brain dead,so when a man comes back and infect his wife with HIV she should still remain with him because of the kids,do you even know what you are vomiting from your mouth,how about the ladies he might likely impregnate outside,how does a woman raise the children in that kind of setting.a randy and abusesive father roll in one ,and you think the kids will be OK because their mother ignore their Father right.it is issues like this that make grown children raise hands on their father.with this kind of mind sett a peaceful home is very far from you.and to think you are a man almost 50yrs is a cry for help.

I will ignore your insults cos apparently you are still too immature and of very low IQ else you won't write this.

Now let me ask you.

If you leave him cos you don't want to have std will you remain celibate for life?

As long as you will have unprotected sex with any other man then all you wrote up there are simply reflections of your dumbness.

wristbangle:
This is for those whose conscience still work and have deep insight. Unfortunately, most of Nigerian youths especially ladies are blinded by extravagance without considering rich men source of wealth.

I'm happy for E-money but his source of money is questionable. Normally in a sane environment, investigation would be ongoing to ascertain his sudden wealth.

The day I read his story was the day I concluded that he is fooling himself.

When I write like this, shallow minded people usually juxtapose it to bad belle and I just smh...

He said he travelled as a very broke guy to village to marry his wife but on his way back he got $2M deal call that changed his life....

Just like that...

Well as I wrote...if he is legit I pray for more blessings upon his life and his generation unborn but if nah wuruwuru I pray make dem no catch am.

https://buzznigeria.com/e-money/

Justix10:
That's absolute weakness and rubbish...I'd have just matched to the guys house and teach him a lesson..wtf

You are the real weak guy for even thinking of confronting another man cos of a lady.

He acted like a man.

Rule #1 ....Never ever show desperation over any lady.

Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue.
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future with my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the past 6 months.

We have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust. The journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other.

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him.

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes. I confronted her about it and she started crying, was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her, asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.

She told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much. I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.

Say whatever you want to but just be brutally honest with me....

That Brutal honesty is what you will get from me.

Blank your mind from this moment and assume you have lost her. In fact start living your life as though she is gone.

If she still remains with you fine and if she goes with him please move on.

This is the only way you can save your sanity. There is nothing bad in loving but whatever you do....never ever fall in love with any lady cos only fools fall in love...Use your head.

post=85351233:
We showed one of us @[/color] the picture of this beautiful edifice and the only reply Yewande gave us in yoruba is 'Isale oro le gbin'!

We asked her to translate, Yewande refused o.
Guys play too much @[color=#006600] sha.

Can someone kindly help us to translate that to English please?!

It means "The source of wealth is dirty."

Most billionaires in Nigeria have questionable source of wealth but they only show the world what they want them to see. They are either into rituals, strong money making occultic group, fraudsters, embezzlers of public funds and lots more with just a minute few that are legit. But unfortunately we live in a society without values and you see people praising the rich when they can't vouch for their source of wealth.

I don't know what this guy really does for a living but if it is legit I pray he waxes stronger in wealth but if it is dirty I pray they never catch him cos it will be an Epic downfall.

Just being me.

pocohantas:
Lmao. I find you amusing. I wonder why some people take you so seriously to attack your personal life.

Nobody thanked you o. Nobody did Toks.

Lobatan! You be olote cos you don't just want to accept that I hit the nail on the head.

Ok I made a mistake...many ladies sent me personal messages really cursing me for writing that trash.

Happy now?

pocohantas:
You done start again

If you know how many married ladies have thanked me privately for this thread you will understand how vital it is.

I'm even tired of referencing the threads for endless threads such as this one.

There are no Better guys out there...we are all the same and there will always be a wow side and a nay side so every woman should just work on their marriages or better still stay put and focus on the kids except of course there lives are threatened.

Alooone:
I got married to my husband in 2013, we are blessed with 2kids (a boy and a girl)

In 2017, barely 2 weeks after giving birth to our son I was diagnosed with puepurium psychosis. A kind of mental illness that afflicts women that have just given birth and since it has been from one medication to another..

Now since after my diagnosis my husband has been a source of emotional, verbal and physical abuse... He blames my parents for everything as he feels "cheated " feeling that they knew all about my "sickness " before we got married and kept it from him.....

He felt I was a liability and feels he is too young to shoulder such... There was nothing my husband didn't do to frustrate me...

So around June this year I left my home for my father's house and have been there since, now since I have been there my husband hardly calls when he does he wants to speak with his children. He doesn't call my parents to ask about my well-being or that of his kids.

Sometimes I feel abandoned, now the issue is that the love I have for him is beginning to reduce, sometimes I feel like letting him go and starting all over. Other times I want to stay cos I think of my children's future.

As for the psychosis ALL the symptoms have gone as am typing this now I have a job with a small private school and planning to either proceed with my masters or start a nursing programme.

So please I need your advice. Should I let him go?

Uncle lalasticlala this is why I create certain threads. Maybe if this lady has seen it on front page she won't bother asking this.

Please consider this thread for front page.

https://www.nairaland.com/5492915/present-day-woman-misplaced-priority-marriage

northvietnam:
Na she use her hand do her self... if she had any atom of respect for her baby daddy and the unborn child , she would never have gotten intimate with any nigga when she rightly know say person don already own her body ...

Let's not be too quick to judge. Shits happen in life and until we find ourselves in certain situations we may not really know.

northvietnam:
Please if u have comprehension deficiencies don’t bother read my post...





From the first photo, and from what they are saying, she’s is pregnant.

From the first photo,the one she’s wearing a black top, the belle don dey show abi? And that means her parents knows she’s pregnant...
And this same girl carry that pregnancy and told her parents that she is going to meet a friend ... if na that guy give an belle, she won’t introduce him as a friend to her parents that she is going to see.

While she went to meet the man she just met 2 months ago and
carry another man belle dey go meet another man for hotel ...










Even after getting pregnant, she still Dey waka waka with other men...

RIP shaa

Honestly I don't understand.

I don't get it...EATEN KE!

angrykids:
I still wonder and ponder how killing of a human being literally transform the culprit into to millionaire

That is the way up in the occultic world.

Jesu

Lightangel65:
I see different posts on Nairaland about girls not wanting to date or marry broke guys, you can't really blame them. In this world men are bread winners no matter how much we talk about splitting the breadwinning with females it can't happen, even if she is rich that's the world we live in.

If a girl should get married to a broke guy what of if he doesn't get rich, that's a life of poverty and also damming you children's future.

It's better to make it first, before thinking about marriage and women.

You would be surprised when you have made it women won't even be on your wishlist, there is more to life than women (there is games, movies, food and much more) you can also adopt kids if you feel lonely and can cater for them. And marriage is not for everyone.

My question still remains.
" what if you marry a rich guy and then he goes broke?"

Being broke is very relative. It is ok to be broke and I don't even believe any guy is lazy cos your idea of making money might differ from his.

I think ladies should focus on making their own money so that they can be with a guy for the right reason.

Sorry madam. She will never be able to get over this.

The Lord is your strength

That is their life over there..very honest people.

A country where their Government takes care of the citizens.

philip0906:
Lol wetin be the difference between this curve and the lady's own?

Eye dey pain You?

technicallyrich:
i believe you are secretly looking for a nairaland boyfriend and do the lovy dovy like tosyn2much and sexybbstar.
I pray your wishes come true these 2020.
Why dont try airforce1,he has a second hand ac and plasma.
And toks2008 our nairaland elder is badly searching too.i bet he will mary you instantlty.

Are you ok? who dey search? Well i can make her a concubine.

lalasticlala:
Toks you are looking for curves abi

This is one of the reasons I respect you. The title sounds better now Lol!

lalasticlala:
Toks you are looking for curves abi

I no dey waste time when I see curvy

Now this is curvy.

Wey the curves?

Her hips sef get as e be. Not condemning her but lets know when to use that word curvy.

chiefolododo:
Seyi Makinde is the best governor in the history of Nigeria

Nope. It's Jakande

Raalsalghul:
I fucking hate this sentence.

Like how much is enough, huh?

Can't wait to live this continent.

Bro just make enough for you to get what you need...ladies are secondary except GOD blesses you with an understanding lady.