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Have you ever heard these words from ladies?, "I know John truly wants me but i dont have any feelings for him but i have strong feelings for Jude yet he is treating me like trash"

Ladies are ruled by their feelings but unfortunately, many ladies have been sent to their early graves cos of this same feelings and many are down with mental illness and some are even locked up in psychiatry all in the name of feelings.

Now understand this; your feelings are very important but you also have the power to control it. Not every man who approaches you for romance really desires you and not every man who proposes marriage really wants you for the right reason so you need to really have a strong grip on your feelings and the first step to achieving this is to be self-sufficient in all ramifications to avoid hinging your feelings on the material things the guy can offer but rather on his true intent which is expressed in how he treats you.

Every lady has Phronesis(A type of wisdom or intelligence) that enables her know if a man sincerely wants her but she usually develops feelings for another who will most likely treat her like trash.

Your feelings can destroy you if channeled towards the wrong person so no matter how attractive that guy may look, no matter how sweet and smooth he sounds, no matter the material things he showers on you, no matter how good he is in bed, as vital as these qualities are, please always press the pause button on your feelings and observe him carefully for the right attributes. Yes people do change but a man who truly desires you will most likely always desire you regardless.

The movie Beauty and the beast is more than a fiction...one secret ladies don't know is that they can develop feelings for any guy who truly desires them and treats them like a queen even if that guy is totally opposite of what they want in terms of physical looks...this is a mystery... so put your feelings on hold and observe keenly then give your feelings to a guy that is deserving of it.

I know this is extremely difficult for many ladies but it is the only way you can reduce the possibility of ending up in the wrong hands.

Hope this makes sense.

How can a guy cheat on a beautiful lady like you?

Run.

toniblacman:
These guys are just greedy cheap fame hungry bastards. Only embezzled, stolen, blood money could get used in this manner. Hardworkers never spend their easiest money like this one. As if there is no poverty in his state, and even his LGA. Stupid Nigeria politicians.

Even Dangote will never do such. I bet there is someone in his family line in need of just a little money to change his or her life.

Crazy

GreetMe:
https://www.grammy.com/grammys/news/angelique-kidjo-wins-best-world-music-album-celia-2020-grammys

Nice speech by Kidjo.

"Mrs. Adama however, stated that the husband does his possible best to see that he caters for the daily needs like food and clothing but it was only sexual satisfaction that he had failed to fulfill."

Trust me, if she finds a man that does the latter but fails to provide the former, she go still leave am or maybe cheat on am

OluwaBurna is bringing home the Grammy n I'm so so sure of this.

At least she is alive.

And she will still make heaven cos believing in Jesus as your Lord and saviour is not about religion cos there is no religion in heaven.

He is bringing home the Grammy.

Wow!

Dreyl:
I don't expect this from her, I thought she has sense.

I can bet my right testicles on the fact that you did not watch that video.

I just love Asa.

tophumble:
How are we sure that is also the truth


Maybe he has gotten married to the typical 'me and my husband' wife who wants him detached from his family

His resentment may have a connection to the conspiracy that his mum was killed by the British government.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0BHH9UIVeTk

Teone6:
Please I need to contact you Toks!!! How do I do that?

Olakoredey@gmail.com

Lalasticlala I thought I should reference you on this after reading about the pretty corper that commited suicide on front page.

This might save someone from depression and possible suicidal thoughts.

Happy New year bro.

SES syndrome

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

If you must do no sex before marriage then the courtship must be as brief as possible else una go fall.

streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!

Single mums can be the best and can also be very very complicated.

Look at how Trump has wasted people's lives all because of re-election.

This world is unfair.

Before any Mumu starts misfiring like Iran, please think deep before you quote me. Trump' s action was ill-timed and foolish.

Modified: I knew some Mumu will quote me and lash out at me but am i surprised? HELL NO. cos many gullible people abound.
Please watch this.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lfTVL3Vjdzk

Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.

Pick one.

The one that calls but can't fend for you or the one that fends for you but does not call.

Very very sad. But she has not totally lost them cos she will see them again in heaven.

This is not new at all.

Explorers:
Finland's new Prime Minister has called for the introduction of a flexible working schedule in the country that would involve a four-day-week and six-hour working day.

Sanna Marin, 34, who is the second youngest head of government in the world said it would allow workers to spend more time with their families.

She said: 'I believe people deserve to spend more time with their families, loved ones, hobbies and other aspects of life, such as culture.

'This could be the next step for us in working life.'

Before Marin became Prime Minister she held a position as the Minister of Transport for Finland.

While in office in that position, Marin advocated for shorter work weeks to improve employee rapport and productivity.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7854449/amp/Finlands-new-Prime-Minister-Sanna-Marin-34-plans-introduce-four-day-working-week.html?__twitter_impression=true

Makes perfect sense and funny enough, it will increase productivity.

Few countries are already practising this.

infogenius:
RIP Pastor without Wisdom.
Instead of dying of the assignment given to you,
it's woman matter that killed you.
Enjoy Eternity, wherever.

People react to situations differently. I can't judge him.

Cirochukade:



It always baffles me at how some people comment on things. Like don't they think?

He is only trying to gain attention and he has succeeded.

hotmediatv:
David Adeleke, popularly known as "Davido" shows up a huge amount of money he made in a show this January, he is excited as he says this year is going to be a great year for him.

He assures his fans of more good music this year as he is set to shoot more videos on his new album "A Good time"

See video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G48jb5c1Kmc

Chioma is really trying.. tufiakwa!

Smoking in the bedroom and on top bed for that matter..very dirty and appaling.. all his scalp, body and bedroom/apartment go dey ooze igbo smell...iranu

As for the show off of cash I guess that is showbiz for you.

I totally agree especially in Naija.

Only guys with a sexy lady can appreciate.

Chai! I just thank GOD for my life.

Tony142:
i will like to buy your trading software, pls drop your whatsapp number let chat

Have you been following the activities?

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Olakoredeyatgmail.com

Jeremih1:
Hello nairalanders, I want to know if there is any remedy for a small manhood, or any perfect pill that increases a small penis. Thank u

Small manhood is a relative term.

Please read this thread of mine to have a clear understanding.

No allow one lady with a wide something make you feel insecure.

https://www.nairaland.com/3648621/how-small-too-small

As a freelance writer on romance, most people relate my realistic writings to be a reflection my persona.