₦airaland Forum

Praxis758:
That 1999 document is the catalyst of various malfunctioning in this country .

Our evil-minded leaders leveraged on it to wreck havoc.

And they will wreck more havoc if nothing is done right away.

hedonido:
You've not said anything in response to specific concerns raised. Such escapist brevity doesn't signpost wit or wisdom.

Guy we are in the 21st century where whatever info we want is just a click away.

I have explained in the write up, so for more info just do your home work about what true federalism.

hedonido:
How exactly will restructuring or true federalism 'end' Nigeria's economic stagnation? How? I'm curious.

The clamour for restructuring and true federalism would clearly give greater control to the federating units/regions, and promote a sense of localised power, but that's even unlikely - because the minorities within each region would still cry out about inequalities and marginalisation.

Then of course the most immediate reality that would emanate from true federalism is that the core North would be absolutely penurized because the largesses they have unfairly enjoyed for decades would be eliminated. So of course there would be no near term 'improvement' in the economy of the North. Rather, their economic woes will be x10 of what it is today.

The truth is that true federalism or restructuring is more a cry for justice - justice for the South specifically - than anything else. That's why the North cannot and will never entertain any such talk.

Go and do proper research perhaps you will know better

Komolafe89:
Do you even understand the type of the of restructuring needed

It is either resource control by states or regional as it was in the 1963 constitution

Lalasticlala I believe this is insightful.

Nigeria problem is not really about leadership but of structural anomaly brought about by a failed constitution of 1979 and amended in 1999...This is the reason why any elected president will never make any viable progress because the present constitution is very inimical to the progress of Nigeria.

Even if Jesus comes down to rule Nigeria, he will definitely restructure the entire failed system first before assuming power because even the scriptures attest in the books of psalms 11vs3 "If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?"

As 2023 approaches, rather than drumming up support for any candidate or any party, Nigerians should clamor for a total overhaul of the 1979/99 constitution that has stagnated the country for several years because in my opinion, no matter who gets there, no substantial progress can ever be made with the present structure and we will only keep going round and round in circles for many years to come.

More saddening is that the leaders in political offices know this but have vehemently refused to do anything about it simply because the present unproductive structure comes with so much largesse for them.

Nigerians should come together to demand that the country returns to the 1960/63 constitution which reflects true federalism with regions as federating units or restructure the present system to allow True federation.

This will end the economic stagnation of many years, accelerate national growth, put an end to the clamor for secession and foster the unity of Nigeria thereby making her more productive, more powerful and more dominant on the global economic scene.

Before the next President embarks on any task, restructuring must be done else all his efforts will be futile and will end up like his predecessors.

ogakamwu:
Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

Nice age gap. Just be tolerant cos she still has a lot to learn.

Fira09:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9n88fC0sS18



https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/9/ive-slept-with-over-100-women-22-year-old-lesbian-confesses-video.html

Nobody has any right to judge her. Lesbianism as well as stealing, lying, fornication are all sins. Nobody holy pass. Thank goodness for GOD's amazing grace through Christ Jesus.

abc115:
https://www.channelstv.com/2022/09/03/no-need-to-hurl-insults-at-rival-parties-we-are-smarter-tinubu/

Dimentia... Same man that said other parties Will labor to death.

SURElee:
Okay na, we have now seen the aftermath of impulsive action.

While you give it a big name, I'm bothered about the living, taking a few mins of their time to think before acting.


A certain man was driving to work in Ojota axis, his car got bashed, he left his car, hung on the danfo bus towards Maryland, then comes along another danfo bus that hits him while he is hanging on the first danfo bus, he falls to his death. According to you, it is impulsive action. The other man got into his car and drove off leaving him standing right there, without a car. He was lucky to be alive.

In cases like this, safety of life is paramount than trying to safe guard things that can be replaced with money as long as there is life.

You dey say impulsive action. Impulsive action can only happen when one is alive. We are to control and subdue our actions whether impulsive or not.

I rest my case.

I no argue with you. Did his running after the first danfo bus and hanging on it fix the car? He lost his life in that process. That danfo driver never got apprehended by the law.


In another case, a man on the Lagos IBADAN express got bashed, he came out obstructing traffic, while an argument was on, a trailer on top speed games along and clears his vehicle causing irreparable damage,

How could you compare the two

SURElee:
You are running after a car about to be stolen in a country with cameras, surveillance and database for every car that is registered.

A car that could have been traced within a mile radius and the culprit brought to book. A system with w working security system.


Was that car more important than his life?
Rest in peace. We need to stop to think and question ourselves before we act. His action just put his family and friends in mourning this time.

Like seriously! Wow! How easy it is to sit behind the keyboard to type whatever we feel.

Have you heard of impulsive action?

onthehill:
Timaya's Manager And Childhood Friend Is Shot Dead In A Gas Station In US (Photos)


https://www.instagram.com/p/CiBV4vsNyiu/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

U.S is more dangerous than Nigeria

nairamaniac:
are you the same Toks2008?

Dont mind him. Nah imposter

id4sho:
Boss, do baby mamas act same most especially those still living in their fathers house?

As long as they are pregnant

This is a common thing.

What is more bizarre is the change in their cravings.

Some who hate alcohol will start drinking liquor like no tomorrow

Some will feel like eating a lion's meat

Some Will prefer to eat the food of a neighbor and will not have any appetite for any food cooked in her house.

Some will turn to karashika

The wahala no dey finish.

LoveEtRomance8:
I have been involved in a long distance relationship for almost two years now. We met online on one of these social dating sites and since then, every day of our lives together online, have been beautiful.
This guy lives in Sweden and I am in Nigeria, I just finished my university education and we intended to get married this year. Even when we had not met, it was like we had been together for long. He cared for me and my family. He provided for us and he ensured that I knew everything about him, his family, his job …etc
But things began to fall apart last December when he came down to Nigeria to visit me for the first time. In the course of our romantic endeavours, I found out that he has a small pen-!s. Well, to me, it was disappointing, and a turn-off because it was smaller than what I have seen in my previous relationships. How would I cope? Our cezual life would be zero. I wouldn’t be able to enjoy cez with him at all. My fears were confirmed on the night he tried to make love to me...
Continue Reading...
https://fevbuy.com/2022/08/29/i-broke-up-with-my-boyfriend-because-of-the-size-of-his-man-h00d-now-he-wants-to-marry-my-best-friend-oh-no-i-want-my-man-back%EF%BF%BC/

Most guys don't have small penis in the real sense but when a lady is used to a bigger penis, she sees any penis smaller as small whereas they are very normal and average in size.

It's like a guy who is used to very big ass having to cope with a beautiful onion booty which is usually smaller but round and beautiful.

Big penis is relative and what one lady will consider as big is very small to another lady.

newold:
I decided to create a new account to make these post.

To make the long story short.

I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke.

Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely.

I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction.

Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child.

i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends.

since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed.

on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster.

even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days.

I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me.


I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do.


PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE.

ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING.

IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME

Gambling is a destiny killer, lives are ruined by gambling or betting especially if you have no control over it.

Start by allowing your wife handle all your money.

That will be a good step in the right direction.

BTW, gambling comes in many forms.. If you indulge in any venture that takes more than you earn and you have tried so hard to break through but just can't then that is also a form of gambling which needs to be stopped.

fadal:
But the pornostars they spend like 19 minutes how come?

As I wrote... The ideal.

Most guys spend more time. But any guy that holds himself for 5mins don try.

Agbado and cassava

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

You should worry more about betting cos you may never succeed in life if you don't control your betting habit.

That road almost took my life on the 11th day of the 11th month of 2001.

I hope they complete it before the second coming of Christ

Dem no settle well.

fadal:
THIS IS FOR U LADIES

5 minutes is ideal.

If you know what you are doing as a man, it is long enough to make a woman climax.

Spend more time on preintimacy and within 3 minutes the lady will reach climax.

Everything is not about penetrative sex.

Islandlady:
No doubt Kizz Daniel who's real name is "Oluwatobilola Daniel" is the most handsome cute male musician and he is one of the most successful and talented singer in the country!

He is tall, Dark, cute, physical well built. . .He also have dimples

He has a very wonderful and lovely voice too! Kizz has been giving us hit songs back to back, especially Buga!

This is my opinion. . . You might agree or disagree! Thanks.

Ladies and their love for fine guys

Adetayo41:
My wife has been depriving me intimacy for the past 1 months, i touched her yesternight, she declined, and later in the middle of the night, I caught her using a vibrator, although I did as if I was sleeping,


What should I do house.? I am pained though

YOU definitely don't satisfy her...

Ask her what you can do to satisfy her and if possible, you can use the vibrator on her.

No big deal at all.

Emmychem:
Please nairalanders, I need advice here....
Am currently working in one of the government parasatal in Victoria island Lagos. Now, I just got an offer from a private sector, same Victoria island close to my working place... I do have time in this my current working place, working from Monday to Friday, having enough rest inside office, and am a contract staff for now, with hope they will staff me someday... My problem is this private sector will pay much better than what am earning from my current working place... But, I will work from Monday to Saturday and no enough time to rest... Which way forward pls??

Check the one that has a better prospect (not just financial gains) and go for it.

Rozross:
Solely plan on the 100k first before thinking of what the other person brings to the table. Any man with such “bring to the table” mindset does not go far in life, let’s be realistic for once.

I pray never to meet a lady with your mindset and YES I am OK financially so don't start thinking I am one broke guy.

It is just so so sickening that threads like this are still being created in this century and ofcourse I'm not surprised it's coming up on a Nigerian forum.

Babe please I beg you, imbibe the mindset of getting a life for yourself before you become a liability to an innocent guy.

I'm not castigating you but your stance is very unrealistic and vague.

So lemme ask you... What If your man loses his job after you two get married and he can't even make 20k for a very long time, what do you do? Dump him?

Wealth is progressive and the Dangotes of today once made less than 100k.

But for the fact that this thread is on Frontpage, I would have asked you to delete it.

Rozross:
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously?

Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone.

Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks

One of the dumbest threads I have ever seen on nairaland.

Are ladies cursed with the mindset of being a leech to a man?

What will happen if a lady also hustles to make her own money thereby complementing the guy's efforts.

Stupid thread.

fadilaMaikiriki:
You said earlier that it's blood clots and not infection, now you're saying I should treat infection. Seriously, I don't know how to feel any more.

That's why I asked you to go to Google.com

You will find all the answers you need

fadilaMaikiriki:
Jeezz! Are you serious about this right now? Please, how do I remedy this situation? I need help on how to stop it, please.

Go and google it my friend..
You will find the right answer there

Badboibipo:
The worst thing that ever happened to my ego is knowing girls can admire my face and still reject me. That shit bruised my ego. My entire life I felt like Superman because I knew girls derived joy in looking at my face, and I felt like any girl I ever approach will be thanking me for approaching her. But as I’m getting older , I don’t know if it’s age or whatever but I’m starting to make peace with the idea that I can be admired by girls and still get rejected by them. This singular fact has destroyed my ego, and in as much as people still admire me I don’t sincerely feel attractive inside anymore. I guess this is what normalcy feels like

This is the story of many attractive men.

But I have come to realize long ago that no matter how attractive you are, you will never be the Spec of someone out there and no matter how unattractive you may think you are, you are exactly what someone out there is praying for.

May GOD give us the ability to want who wants us and look away from those who don't.