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Swissheart:
well, I'll be modest in replying. We actually did enjoyed each other's company... . My time, care, attention and love won't probably go for free if he actually did like you said



Then.. .. .. why do we think or assume all spendings are always made by men in our relationships. Ladies spend too

Just kidding tho

menxer:
We are who we are because of the lessons we learned from our exes. It's only those that failed to learned their lessons that do the comparison.

Yes, Jessica was sexier and pettite but.... Ada was more accommodating and hospitable but... Ekaterina was more outgoing and fun to be with but... Juliette was Aphrodite personified but...

We are defined by the sum total of all the BUTs we live with or without.

Seconded

This is why i prefer a lady who have been heart broken before because most times. it takes a heart broken person to value sincere affection when he or she sees one.

That is why the older one gets and the more experienced we become the wiser we get.

Gkemz:
The memory of past relationship keeps resurfacing on my mind after several attempts to completely erase it but i keep seeing the good side of her. Kinda obsessed with past memory. I've come to realize that soulmate comes once in a lifetime and when you miss that opportunity, you cant find her specification because every girl has something unique. That's why we have lots of breaking marriages.

Hmmm

I feel you bro but you just have to move on because one cant continue to dwell in the past.

2rez:
Dude, why u wan pour sand for the OP garri na? Shey u know as he don fast & pray reach make he make fp? .

Fast and pray ke? Na so front page difficult? Go and be a comedian.

Dudeweedlmao:
Nah, you're just the mod's favourite
Admit it

Lobatan.

So in your own judgement,you believe my threads are not good enough...habba

Favoritism has no place here and if not that it will seem strange,every thread i create ought to make front page cus i write good stuffs no bragging

Toks2008:
Last night, while I was drinking the garri i kept in the kitchen for about a week,a small rat at the corner of my room was looking at me and shaking it's head.

Please what does it mean? cus I woke up this morning just thinking about it.

Lalasticlala abeg help me ask nairalanders.

Hmmm,Dem say lassa fever don dey garri after I buy half bag for house...I come say make I test am if na tru,I soak garri put milk inside come give my dog Bingo ,make him first test am.

45mins later, bingo still dey waka, dey jolly. Nai i drink my own. After i don drink am finish, my gateman run come tel me say bingo don die,

hey! I run enter house, begin drink full gallon of palm oil for my belle, chop 22 bitter kola wit 3 long bitter leaf stem, chop walnuts with the shell no time to crack, swallow moringa with aloe vera as treatment combo. Garlic and onions be like sweet for my mouth.

I come dey sweat as if na oven be my bedroom. I dey think say my life don finish. I come outside. Nai my gate man com they tell me say the driver wey kill bingo wan come beg me! If na u, wetin u go do the gate man?

Omotayor123:
Is the OP really Toks tell me datz not true

BTW, the Rat be like :RIP boss

lol

Swissheart:
Immediately he becomes an EX.... . . All past records becomes invalid.All documents or memories bearing the ex's name or image gets deleted.

What about the cars and the money he deposited in your account?

ladyF:
Good riddance to bad rubbish. As the relationship is ending, so are the memories. No time to be thinking about X

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

We all say this but it is a subliminal thing..you harly know you are doing it.

For instance,i have seen many ladies compare a present guy to their ex expecially in the area of sex..this is why you see ladies expecially running back to an ex for sec just because the new guy does not handle them like an ex.

Dudeweedlmao:
A thread from 2015? Making FP? Today must be a slow news day

Intellectual properties are always relevant irrespective of dates.

shumuel:
It only means she still wants you back.

Puma

PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.

Pornography could be the cause so if you are watching porn i guess you need to stop.

Asides this,i dont see anything wrong with you but your experience is because you are in your sexually active stage of life and you will definitely outgrow it.

Finally,when sperm builds up,a certain feeling of intimacy overwhemles you and while some are able to control it,some ease off by fornicating while some spill it out tru sservicing.

I will be foolish to ask you to pray over it since its a natural feeling neither will i advice you to sservice due to its addictive nature and i can not ask u to marry cos apparently you are not ready.

So my dear...OYO lo wa..just dont fornicate..shikenah.

Toks2008:
Last night, while I was drinking the garri i kept in the kitchen for about a week,a small rat at the corner of my room was looking at me and shaking it's head.
Please what does it mean? cus I woke up this morning just thinking about it.
Lalasticlala abeg help me ask nairalanders.

Abi the rat dey pity me cos i dey drink garri wey im don put mouth?

activelyA:
Lol... Your reply clearly shows how much of a ceremonial christain you have been Beware of apostasy brotherly...

I bind every online monitoring spirits from me in Jesus christ name...Amen

activelyA:
As regards this...I have got the following questions for you
1. What church do you attend?
2. What was the sign you received or experienced when you met with the Holy Ghost?
3. Do you believe in once saved, ever saved?
4. Do you hear from God?
5. If yes, how?
6. Concerning your arguments or as you tagged it, discussions....can you categorically say the Holy Spirit is speaking to you to tell us these?
7. 27 years in the fold, if you practice christainity, how many have you brought to the fold
Bonus question...were you at any point in your 27years as a christain, a deeper life member?

Ma bimi ni post ume question cos all these are inconseqyential to me but if you insinst,ask google.

Ishilove:
Those are the foods they recommend for strength and vitality in the bedroom

Well..i know of water melon,garlic,walnut and pineaple.

at:
U're right...

Yeah.

Ishilove:
Note to self: beans, vegetables, fish, nuts, fruits, especially water melon...

Issokaay!

itumo?

EEZe:
the rat was surprised and had pity on you

lol..not funny o

prico32:
Hi NLders, I & my Besty has been close friends for years now. She has been single all the years busy working, always told her she needed a man in her life but she didn't border letting any guy in, she always said she has me she doesnt need another man. Told her i'm her best friend but she needs someone that will treat her like a lover.

Most times when I use I & my fiance pix as my dp she starts giving me attitude & all that...

Recently she finally started dating someone & kept it away from me, I even asked her when I noticed, she denied at first & later admitted she was dating someone, I was angry with her for keeping such good news away from me & even lied when I asked.

I scolded her for it but later told her how happy I am. Since then she stopped talking to me or replying my chats. what should I do?

Shebbi i talk am before...A man and a woman cant be just friends asides co workers,colleagues in school or platonic hello hi...any friendship asides the aforementioned nah charade.

Quote me in obudu

Last night, while I was drinking the garri i kept in the kitchen for about a week,a small rat at the corner of my room was looking at me and shaking it's head.

Please what does it mean? cus I woke up this morning just thinking about it.

Lalasticlala abeg help me ask nairalanders.

Lilbrown007:
wearing attachment is not a sin but wearing it to church is! even though u cover ur head b4 entering the church it still is a big disrespect to God n its holy ground/temple

@ Embolden...Please i will suggest you take up stand up comedy as a vocation..You will do extremely well in it.

Vikky014:
HMMMMMMMMMM....for those of you shouting i cant marry a man dt i dnt love i pity u guys sha.....bc A man shld always be the one to get attracted to you first and show u affection bfore u reciprocate

A lady is not supposed to love anybody that shows no interest in her . shikena!!!!


Anyway wetin concern me if u like marry someone dt dont love you na u go cry atlast

You make a lot of sense but i hope you follow your advice.

loswhite:
All female will agree 100% cos most times you ladies prefer to give less in relationship. Men like op will continue to betray us

Haaa mogbe,betray bawo?

lobatan

missingrib:
that's too much for him to handle abeg spare him this time

lol

Honestly some people can be so annoying.

beebat22:
hun fact

Yes.. a man is the captain and even if the woman who is more like the passenger does not love him,no shaking, he can still cope but if captain no like passenger nko?,...your guess is as good as mine.

Omotayor123:
You mean it's rare for husband and wife to love each other

No lady can marry a amn that she does not at leaast feel something for but that is what it is.."something" but that something can turn to big thing if that guy treats her real good but if she feels something for the guy who does not really feel anything for her,that something will turn to nothing with time.

I love you,you are my all and all are mare words..the real deal is in the action.

daretodiffer:
It is not news that men can walk miles just to pretend that they care when they don't. Men change after marriage. It is a phrase I have heard over and over again, on that basis I disagree with him. I also agree that a woman everyone should marry someone who love them more than they do but it does not follow that it would continue to be so after marriage. The best thing is to focus on their good sides, how they view other people and relate with them.

Also men face exactly the same problem. I have seen threads of confused men who have no idea who to choose among the beautiful Funke, the illiterate Bola and the chef Temi

If we follow his advice, then we have to ask ourselves what if the love does not grow? Wouldn't it be pitiful for the other partner to have to do all the caring while we just pretend to care

If a man truly loves you, he wil always love you and if the lady's love does not grow with time then the guy is really not hiting the right spot.

BumBae:
You know what my dad told me this
" He has to love you more than you love him " then u know his the one ...
Women loving a guy dont guarantee anything but the other way round ... More promising

A good thing your dad told you this.

godman01:
Brother, you are so much on point. I really wish the ladies of these days will get it into their head, that real love is not the feelings but a decision and commitment. They forget that what breeds feelings is just what they can see physically in the man, but good marriage requires much more than the temporal feelings that will soon fade away with time.
I'm even going through this same issue with a lady presently.

A lady once called and and was just talking about how bad her hubby have become and so on and so forth and i just asked her this question;"Does he beat you" she said NO.

I now asked her to close her eyes and think of the good side of the hubby and make up her mind to always think about that good side whenever he gets on her nerves and months latter she thanked me and agree that it was all a thing of the mind.

Getting married is a choice but staying married is a decision you must make and abide by it.There is hardly any room for lady divorcees these days cos many singles are not yet taken so think well before saying i do.

It is better never to be married than to be a divorcee and it is better to be never married at 40 than to be a divorcee at 25.

cardoctor:
What are you talking about? Whichever way you look at it, you can only pray for it to work.







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