₦airaland Forum

banmee:
You are probably the most chauvinistic prick I've ever had the displeasure of meeting. What's with you and male dominance? You need to start travelling and explore other normal societies and your perception will improve. You seriously need to address your superiority complex.

My broda this is nairaland not pound or dollarland.

When i write,i do so with a Nigerian perspective.

Orikinla:
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Odiegwu indeed.
While majority of guys graduate and start looking for dream jobs, majority of babes graduate and are desperately looking for their dream men.

I tire my brother.

ENIMONEY:
did I come in search of u? Or ur brothers? Or ur father?? The people am searching for, are they complaining?? Shut ur poverty stricken hole and let us hear word! U lack home training and respect for the female Gender! You don't bite the hand that feeds u. Omo Ale

Lol

Im sure you are not even up to the age of my 5th kid sister.

Talking about poverty,i will not go there cos it will be foolish of me to do that cos im still wandering how brain dead some people can be.

But please pray to God to give you the mental intelligence to comprehend and the psycological serenity to make intellectual contributions without displaying a pepper seller atitude.

On the final note,i will be using google translate to interprete my write up in other languages so that dumb brains can grasp easily..madam rich woman

Agba ofifo.

Ageco:
Thanks for this piece. It's quite pathetic. It's common here Africa & Nigeria in particular. In the west is totally different.

So pathethic.

Asking your daugter this question will drive home a message not a criterion to send her to school.

Simple logic.

lyricalz:
O eziokwu na dis guy ne kwu eeba. Nna gt small truth 4 wetin dis guy dey talk here o.

This is a fact bro.

There is nothing bad in an illiterate lady looking for a rich dude but how can you explain ladies whose parents spent their hard earned money also coming out to start hoping for a rich man NOT AS A PLUS BUT AS A SUCCOUR...

ENIMONEY:
you are very silly!!! Go to the villages and see Woman breaking stones for a living while their lazy husbands drink away their lives!!! Go to almost every home and see what women go through! Some have sacrificed their career to have babies and be mothers!! You are here saying rubbish.. How many men can boast of taking care of their homes without their hustling wives help??

Why on earth are you messing yourself up?

Did you read that article at all?

Apparently you fall into the category of ladies who after graduation went in search for a made guy wtout striving to make it on your own else you wont be showxading your shallow mindedness.

Sweetlemon:
Sometimes I wonder what these small boys think makes them men. Is it because of that thing dangling between your legs?
Very lazy bunch of things these new generation boys are wallahi!

Mummy abeg dont be a lazy woman,go back and read very well then come back and make comment.

Mama old generation.

ENIMONEY:
This Op is a senseless baboon!! First of all, what is the essence of Education?? So u can get a good job and make money?? Point number one, education is not all about money, you refine urself as a human being. So you would rather your daughter is a dull brained girl than be sound? You are a disgrace and I pity ur girl child!!!!!! You better goan work hard and make money and stop complaining. Who wants to associate with poverty before?

Another empty post from an empty brain.

I bet you did not comprehend as usual.


Many ladies are brain dead.

SAMBARRY:
This is the FIRST TIME toks2008 is making sense

Unbelievable. So there's no one breeze cannot blow inside his number 6

And this is the irony of life...the thread that makes no sensse to many ladies is making sense to you.

lurlah2014:
Op this does not apply to all females #its only the lazy bones#

U are free to let ur daughter remain an illiterate while your males become a graduated unemployed youth #your business

#your life not my life, so don't send a bad signal about the females

Nigerian woman are good examples

E be like say many ladies dey take orubebe weed..why are you quarelling with yourself?

Im so sure you read the write up at all?

doveda:
Even a rich woman desires to marry a rich man not to mention a poor woman

At least make the money first then look for a rich guy as a plus,not as a succour...thats the point

Uniquestellz:
The post is somehow

Nope,its not somehow.

Its the most stupid,foolish and inconsequential facrual write up that many ladies guilty of the act will never like.

Look around you and you will see countless ladies scouting for a made guy to attach to after their parents spent hugely to make them self reliant.

I dont write articles for people to love but to open their eyes to reality.

bettercreature:
You are very funny! you will tell her you are jobless and expect her to marry you? can you expect your daughter to marry a jobless poor man ? love and money works together if you dont know,stop thinking upside down

Leave marriage out of this.

If a lady is really sincere,she wont mind dating a jobless guy and hope he gets a job ot good business before they eventually marry.

Amberon:
beautiful...
I'm a girl and I must say Nigerian girls have very low IQ.This is the same question I ask some friends of mine. Why don't Nigerians ladies feel the need to strive to be successful in life?

Thank God this is comingh from a lady.

I wonder why ladies get so personal for no reason.

Many is never the same as all and the word most means there are still millions of ladies out of several millions who are determined to make it without hoping on any man .

So any lady who blivs she is different should speak for herself rather than showcasing mental dumbness by attacking the write up.

YelloweWest:
Stu.pidity of the highest order. What a useless fellow u are.
The millions of working Nigerian wife's and mothers nkor?

Eyaah, i understand you are one of the mentally redundant people who dont understand that many is never the same as all.

You are a sorry case.

Fkforyou:
Lol.. ..I think what the OP is trying to say is that, it is pointless to train a female child upto university level only to see marrying a rich man as an escape route from poverty, in essence, what is the point of her going to the university if she cannot be self reliant?.....marrying a rich man should be a bonus. But to be honest you were a little bit harsh, there are guys also who finish university and still have nothing to show for it, does it mean they should be deprived of the opportunity?

That is the message bro...no harshness..i am just stating the obvious.

Ladies will never like this thread but this is the honest truth.

tonygee88:
Not without money.... 98% will not care

Na economy

Many Naija girls prefer a bondage with a guy with lots of cash but wil never ever shift there heart from a man they truly desire.

playtheblues:
Some of these randy old men are joy killers.
Most of them hardly respect women.
Imagine the way Musa Danjuma has been embarrassing Caroline all over the place. He has brought about two children for her to take care of. He has chains of mistresses who insult Caro daily on instagram.

Girls please marry your mates, they will understand you more. These old folks will so restrict your movements ; they won't even let you have a life anymore and most of them will keep going for under 18 because they feel it makes them young.

Most of their young wives are suffering and smiling.

Why not say marry within your generation cos this your sermon of marry your mate is very very dangerous cos most times guys dont marry their age but a lady they are far ahead in age.

In my opinion, if any lady marries a guy who is more than 25years older than she is then she is marrying a man from previous generation and it wil take the grace of GOD for the marriage to work.

A generation is 25years

This reminds me of one of my numerous threads...https://www.nairaland.com/2695519/13-facts-must-know-before

According to #5:

5.That if you marry a man because of what he has and not because of mutual love then be ready to be miserable in that marriage as long as it lasts.

Vikky014:
HMMMM IS IT THAT YOU ARE TRYING TO DENY THE OBVIOUS TRUTH

Ngwa people that even have a statue of a missionary they killed and ate his meat....Just say it is not rampant again. but to be frank ngwa people like human meat alot..
.My grandpa would hv been a victim if not for his good friend that refused to bring him out the night your people came to slaughter him as a stranger...His friend told him that the wives request for brain from their cannibalistic hubby for cooking soup

O.M.G

Faith111:
Please! Please!! Please!!!
I am a graduate today because of my Hubby....
He trained me from purchasing my jamb form to my final year project WITHOUT EVER HAVING SEX WITH ME talk less of pregnanting me...
Today I'm pillar in his house and that singular act makes my home a heaven...We've been married for 4yrs nd very soon we'll be counting 3kids..but it all looks like we got married yesteday..Since we got married, things have turned around for both of us...I am now that classical wife even young boys trip 4..I work and earn very well...He earns very well too. Today, I'm proud of him. together we can acquire assets, pay bills and plan as 1...
My hubby gave me the rent his bros gave him so he could hussle for job for my year1 fees n slept in an uncompleted apartment, his salary was 40k and he gladly sends me 25k having nothing but Tfare and a little to eat from the bukka..He would never buy clothes nor shoes for my sake..But today we can give 40k to a needy without itch..
Op please Love believes all things...
My hubby's friends and family envy him and wish they had me 4 a wife without knowing what sacrifice he made in the past...
Follow ur HEART

That last line says it all

FOLLOW YOUR HEART

Bercause the fact that you maintained a status quo does not mean another lady will.

Cammo:
I have a girlfriend that I plan to marry. She's a 100 Level student in UNILAG but is having difficulties paying her up school fees. Her mom, a widow, is doing her best but it's not enough. Since I'm a graduate and now working, I feel like helping out. It's an obligation I earnestly wish to take but my friends keep telling me that she would eventually dump my sorry ass for another guy before graduation, and there's nothing I can do. Very confused. I love her and I know she loves me too.
Please advice.

Since you are not sefless enough to help her regardless of marriage then marry her first then help her.

Married people go to school but just try to prevent pregnancy.

prestige2013:
God keep us at home on the days the street will be blooded and keep us out the day will be blooded.

Accident free life I prays!

Amen

Nevertheless,while we pray,hope and live carefully for long life,we must be prepared at every sec of our lives for the consequence of coming to this world...DEATH.

no one can excape it and it must come in one way or the other...the best you can do for yourself is to prepare your soul for eternity.

pentag0nal:
Toks2008 the preacher where art thou?

Ma bi mi ni jamb question.

MzNelly:
Lol, this is like trying to school my Dad on the advantages of premarital sex.
It won't work.

Older people are usually set in their ways, so arguing with him won't achieve any results.

Try me young lady..give me intelligent reason to bliv im not a man and i will take your stands.

I cry inside for many Nigerian ladies.Many guys no longer waste time talking to them on intelligent matters because they see them as mentally empty.

Have you ever heard a guy scold a guy over ladies issues?

You will hear talks like..how dare u argue with a woman?dont u know how daft they are? dont you know ... and i find this grossly unfair but day by day i get good confirmation that indeed,only very minute number of ladies can hold up intelligent dscussion without gettin sentimental,abusive and so on.

I might just go the way of these guys and ignore every comments made by ladies.

Pls read the message of the lady you responded to and see if it has any substance.

So pathethic

doveda:
I am sorry your threads are not YOUR OPINION.

They are based on stereotypes many women have heard over and over again. Stereotypes that make every daft guy thinks he is superior to a woman. Stereotypes that have succeeded in confusing women. Stereotypes that make the equal treatment of all genders harder despite several laws. Stereotypes that steep into us unconsciously that make us treat other gender more or less than we would have if we had considered them humans with human emotions.


Therefore I am justified to antagonise you every time you spread these stereotypes.



Mznelly

And i would have so much loved it if you always antagonize with intelligent standview rather than empty contents cos you just did exactly wat you have always done.

Empty message.

MzNelly:
Hmmn.
Okay, you use your standards to judge others then.

You're even beginning to sound like my Dad sef.

Why no kid nau?

Questions? I just want to know you better .... & know why you write the way you write.

Well if you are anything from 21 below then i could as well have a child like you so apparently i write the way i write because over the years, from personal experience and from the experience of friends and people close to me,i have learned so much about life and it will blow your mind that 90% of my articles making front page where written way back even before i broke up with my ex so its not about suddenly turning to a councilor after a break up.

These articles are mostly copy and paste from my facebook wall dating far back to 2010. AND ONCE AGAIN NO, i can never use my standard to judge others but i have a standard i want in my woman which is perfectly ok expecially when im the man who does the wooing.

MzNelly:
I know.
I see the sense in this article... even though I don't agree with a whole lot of things e.g imposing your standards on others.

Do you have a kid?

Frelance writing is never impository but an expresion of one's opinion which is subject to acceptance or refusal by the readers.

It is indeed mind boggling that people will read an article based on the opinion of one man and rather than discuss intelligently by giving their own perspective, they will strt cursing and using hateful words and that opened my eyes to the rot in our educational system as well as the possible state of people's psychological and mental well being.

Whatever i wrote is MY OPINION and while some may go with it, it is expedient that some will not agree with it but it is never ever impository.
And Nope no child yet? Why all these interview nah?

Joavid:
educate me?

maybe you should start educating yourself on how to speak/write correctly when addressing a lady. this is not a backyard akara joint discussion where you use phrases like "open your legs".

Mr know it all.

Now i can see you have a problem.I tot i was discussing with a matured and mentally sound lady.

Please . Whatever rocks your boat.i am matured man and when i write some stuffs i believe im discussing with a mature mind..please when does "open your legs" become insulting? How on earth does that translate to an abuse?Apparently you have issues only you understand.

Now lets assume for a sec that you find that innocent phrase of mine insulting,i believe any educated and intelligent lady will express her displeasure in a rather mature way and i will gladly apologize rather than condescend this low lashing at me...gosh..Why are many ladies this way?

Joavid:
so we have ruled out the biological deposits when I mentioned condom.
so now, spiritual deposits as a result of having sex with plenty men, ages a woman faster?

kissing nko? no rubber to tie on the tongue, so there is an exchange in saliva(some secretions and possibly blood)?

as far as I know, French kissing is as intimate as sex.

If i sit you down to educate you about sex you will nevr open your legs for any man again and you will even ask your husband questions before you do to him.