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strongly dislike big butts but a nice curve with tiny waist,wide hips and a moderate butt size is my take anyday any time.

Many people mix up curvaceousness with bootiliciousness but these are very diffrent because a lady can be very bootilicious with no good curves.

Mondisweets:
disability affects physical appearance. I have already put my point across. You don't choose a woman because u love her unconditionally but you do it by her looks, so free women and let them choose from whichever criteria they deem fit.Simple!

Ofcourse its a free world. We are only airing our views as regards what we believe.

My point is that looks and financial status are not juxtaposed in any way. I was expecting you to say stuffs like men who love a lady by their educational status,exposure or even finacial stand but not looks because thats a whole different criteria.

My question is simple and i still ask; What if that money disappears, will the lady leave?

Is it impossible for the lady to be finacially independent too?

Look at our celebrities and you will agree with me that it makes sense for a lady to be with a man based on an y other criteria but not money.

Look at 2baba and annie,baske mouth and wife, AY and his wife,peter and lola,obAma and his wife and many more and you will wonder why these guys love these ladies so much.

A man who is made before you met him will likely not have that deep rooted respect for you and will always belive somewhere in his heart that its all about the money and will treat you as such but if you learn to be with a man irrespective of whether he is made or will be made, your value will always be high even when we know that some men may turn out bad, he will still respect you anyday anytime.

Guys have this thing in them and that is cherishing a lady who was there when they were nobody.

I think there is a misconception here because a gold digger has done lots of work locatn where the gold is let alone digging it.

Maybe we should replace that word with gold pickers.

Mondisweets:
how many of your age mates that you know that can marry a blind woman?
You can freely choose a woman according to her physical appearance, but a woman cannot choose a man according to his financial status? Please don't come here and preach to me about hypocrisy please!

maybe men need to learn loving women for the sake of love and not what they look like, maybe then will ladies stop behaving like vanity is the beginning and end of life.


When you stop making physical appearance a priority in a partner only then will women stop believing that they deserve the highest bidder because of what they beauty/ physical appearance.

so if he wasn't married when he became rich, he doesn't deserve a wife?

Marry a physically challenged person, solely because you love her and only then can you preach this freely without sounding like a hypocrite yourself

I'm totally at sea here because your tenmplate for comparison is totally parallel because ur talkn about a man marryin a physically chalklenged lady or based on physical looks. Is totally off point.

Looks and finance are two dffrnt issues so pls don't confusr issues.

Mondisweets:
So the rich ones don't deserve love abi? Na goat dey go carry to their mama's house?

He did not write anywhere that it is by force that one should marry a rich guy!
If there can be 10reasons to marry an average guy, why shouldn't be 10reasons to marry a rich guy? there are not human beings abi?

How many ladies can date a rat poison seller or a bricklayer?

I guess many ladies will say "YES I CAN AS LONG AS HE HAS THE DRIVE"

HYPOCRISY! So what if that drive for one reason or the other remains a drive for many years to come?

Until ladies learn to love a man for the sake of love irrespective of whether he makes it in future or not,and also try to be financially independent they will mostly end up with the wrong man and suffer great heartache.

Partoranking was a rat poison seller but today he is made and i can only wionder how many ladies will even look at him twice when he was husstling.

Most of the rich men you see today got married when they had little or absolutely nothing.

Ladies please wise up and get a life.Stop looking up to guys as ATM machine.

Love relationship is not a business investment.

Misplaced priorities.

Anytime i mention the fact that most Nigerian ladies would choose money over love and infact most of our ladies will prefer to date a rich philanderer rather than to be with a broke faithful guy many ladies tend to have this appalling approach to my stand view.

The question i keep asking is this: What if after you meticulously get lucky to marry a rich guy and he becomes so broke after marriage, what wil you do?

Get this straight, most guys don't value ladies they meet when they are already made and most times guys see such ladies as bought item.


This is why i always advice young men today to follow these five steps if they must marry a lady of their choice.

1.Make money
2.Make lots of money
3.Make sure you have made serious money.
4.Ensure you have secured a very stable means of good money inflow.
.
.
5.Buy a wife.

I love sex sooooooo much but I can do without it for a long time.

Rapsainot:
CHRISTMAS SHOUTOUT GOES TO
Maccoy1
nas4q
segzy14
stanley99a
adepiero
samflexxy
Chuksemi
maureensylvia
cupidora
deluckiesta
Ethereal0110
mesoade
tosyne2much
itspecunious
Tallesty1
slickyb
TrollMan
AntiWomanWrapin
djeezy
KelvinGraphics
SwagPower
Unionised
Toks2008
abel14
Maryfunmi
kikelade
cococandy
babygirl76
hannesy
Eleganza33
iamjuliet
Vikky014
Kachisbarbie
Tolexander
mitie
Okekeonyi
Exagge007
Luckybaddest

GOD BLESS YOU BRO

Rapsainot:
CHRISTMAS SHOUTOUT GOES TO
Maccoy1
nas4q
segzy14
stanley99a
adepiero
samflexxy
Chuksemi
maureensylvia
cupidora
deluckiesta
Ethereal0110
mesoade
tosyne2much
itspecunious
Tallesty1
slickyb
TrollMan
AntiWomanWrapin
djeezy
KelvinGraphics
SwagPower
Unionised
Toks2008
abel14
Maryfunmi
kikelade
cococandy
babygirl76
hannesy
Eleganza33
iamjuliet
Vikky014
Kachisbarbie
Tolexander
mitie
Okekeonyi
Exagge007
Luckybaddest

Thanks pal

MrKnowitall:
You people are complete lossers to have the time to be writing about her. Don't you guys have something productive to do with your lives? The woman's husband is not complaining but yet you imbeclles are taking the matter upon yourselves and bothering us with the totally meaningless issue. You people need to get an education and make something of yourselves.

na by force to comment?

why not try and be civiliised with the way you write on public social media

you dont have to lash out on people for making thir opinions known. just make your contribution in a decent manner habba

i totally agree we all need to get educated and that should starrt with you expcially in PR

OP you no do welll o. U for wake dat guy up nah as soon as u noticee say he don sleep wen the gal dey comot

naijaboiy:
Will N40m cure Hiv/Aids

Thank GOD HIV is no longer a threat as you can live healthy for even 30 years or more if you have HIV and even make love sef.

40 million abeg

Arysexy:
Hmmm, these evil people no dey tire?

Buhari the blood is too much, call ur boys to order!

RIP to d unfortunate victims.

Baseless remarks

Now lets ask each other why is it that most of the northern states affected by Boko haram are APC strong holds?

Common sense should make any kindergarten pupil understand that it will be foolish for APC to disrupt peace in states where they know will be instrumental for them to capture more votes.

If Buhari is their father then what stopped your gutless president from arresting him all these years.

One fact i know is that if Jonathan returns to Aso rock, what we are seing now from boko haram will only be a rehersal compared to what we might see.

If he is not strong enough to tackle boko haram for 6years then what is teh assurance that he will in the next 4 years.

I am not a pro Buhari but i believe if Jonathan is weak enough to put to book the supposed perpetrators then he has no business being the commander n chief.

Please let me stop here and allow reasonable people decipher.

Keegan:
If Buhari is making Nigeria ungovernable for Gej with the backing of the armed forces for 4 good years, then is he untouchable? Can't he be arrested, investigated and tried? Not only Gej is clueless, the ruling party is as well. They are responsible for this crazy trend. Let's save Nigeria now before it gets too late.

GOD bless you for your intelligent response.

Now lets ask each other why is it that most of the northern states affected by Boko haram are APC strong holds?

Common sense should make any kindergarten pupil understand that it will be foolish for APC to disrupt peace in states where they know will be instrumental for them to capture more votes.

Please let me stop here and allow reasonable people decipher.

temitemi1:
The only warning to Nigerians is to vote MASSIVELY against their father(buhari) come 2015. Let GEJ continue n come 2015 boko haram will be a thing of past... God bless Nigeria!!!

Honestly sometimes i believe it is very unfortunate if some people just make unintelligent remarks.

If Buhari is their father then what stopped your gutless president from arresting him all these years.

One fact i know is that if Jonathan returns to Aso rock, what we are seing now from boko haram will only be a rehersal compared to what we might see.

If he is not strong enough to tackle boko haram for 6years then what is teh assurance that he will in the next 4 years.

I am not a pro Buhari but i believe if Jonathan is weak enough to put to book the supposed perpetrators then he has no business being the commander n chief

I have tried to make ladies understand this several times.

There is nothing like husband snatchers but what we have is husband sharers but it is when the incumbent wife refuses to allow the guy his freedom to have both of them that the guy eventually decides to stick with the new one even if he still loves the incumbent wife.

Ladies should get this clear and the earlier they do the better for them. If you like be as charmingly sexy as possible, a man will always be a man and most men are just polygamous in nature and he is still likely to have another lady out there so start getting ready for that for your own good and if he never comes up with that then count yourself fortunate.

Only a man filled with not just the fear of GOD but with the spirit of GOD will stick with one lady considering the countless number of incredibly sexy ladies out there and also given the fact that ladies are naturally made to share a man and also the bible have already foretold in Isaiah 4:1 that In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, "We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!"

If you leave your man or hubby because he wants to marry or date another lady, you are on your own because except you remain single forever, there is no guaranty that your next man won't do worse if you ever get fortunate not to eventually become a second wife of another already married man.

I am not writing this to encourage polygamy because i don't ever pray to be in one but the truth must be told.

As a lady,as soon as you get married you need to thank GOD that a man even see it important to make you part of his life considering many single ladies out there still hoping for a hubby(No slighting intended). The next line of action is to look for ways to develop yourself,become very financially independent and when children starts coming in, focus on the development of your life and that of your children not forgetting your hubby though but just be ready for the day he will come and start acting up and be quick to tell him to have his freedom with another lady if he wants but should do his best to use protection so that he won't bring home stds because many randy hubbies have destroyed the life of their wife by infecting her with HIV they contracted from a LovePeddler in the name of mistress.

Trust me, he will seat tight if he realizes how nonchalant you are. No woman can stop a man who wants to test other waters.

mikron:
Various companies, individuals and parastatals from various sectors donated the sum during a fund raising dinner organized by the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) on Saturday, December 20 in Abuja.

President Goodluck Jonathan’s re-election campaign has received a N21.27 billion boost.

Various companies, individuals and parastatals from various sectors donated the sum during a fund raising dinner organized by the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) on Saturday, December 20 in Abuja.

Read the list of all who made donations below:

Tunde Ayeni - N2 billion

Oil and Gas sector - N5 billion

Real Estate and Building - N4 billion

Transport and Aviation - N1 billion

Food and Agriculture - N500 million
Power - N500m

Construction - N310 million

Road Construction - N250m

National Automotive Association - N450 million

Shelter Development Limited - N250 million

Friends of Jerry Gana - N5 billion

PDP Governors Forum - N1.05billion

21 PDP governors - N50 million each

SIFAX Group - N100 million

PDP stakeholders in Rivers State - N50m.

15 states on the board of the Niger Delta Development Commission - N15 million.

Some private individuals also gave donations while the Chief Fund Raiser and Chairman of the Dangote Group, Aliko Dangote, who was out of the country, assured that he would personally see the National Chairman of the PDP, Adamu Mu’Azu, to offer his support.

http://pulse.ng/politics/gej-2015-these-are-the-people-who-contributed-n21-27bn-for-jonathan-s-campaign-id3362917.html

im really trying not to place a curse on PDP As a party and all its members FOOLS

ammyluv2002:
Kai! God pls I really want dis...cuteness overload

Then you need to marry someone like me because Desmond looks like me lol!

A TALE OF TWO WRONG CHOICES

I still remember vividly in 2007 how Nigerians trooped out to vote in our amiable president Goodluck Ebele Jonathan not because we are certain of what he can do but because we were tired of seeing the old people been recycled within the seat of power.

We did not vote for PDP but voted for him because for the first time ever we were presented a clean candidate and when i say clean i mean a full flesh and blood civilian,well read,and seemingly a good representative of the youths of this country.

I did not only vote for him but also canvassed for him. I still respect him as a person and i appreciate his effort in trying to lead the most populous black nation on earth.

But In my opinion and i believe a random selection of many people in Nigeria will support my stand view."PRESIDENT JONATHAN HAS FAILED US".

Never have i seen the level of financial misappropriation so celebrated, the rule of law made so baseless,lives wasted and no visible transformation recorded even when we hear the lyrics of transformation agenda and i can remember that even President Yaraduah of blessed memory despite his ill health brought a transformation to this country by granting amnesty to MEND and the former president Obasanjo within the first four years was able to give Nigerians succor in the communication sector.

Permit me to say that the insurgency of Boko haram is no excuse because in as much as this may cause some distractions,it was not strong enough to distract N1.067trn fuel subsidy fund lost to “endemic corruption and entrenched inefficiency”

The day i personally realized i made a great error voting president Jonathan into office was when he woke up on the 1st of January 2012 to increase fuel pump price to well over 100% and i had to go back to sleep with the hope that it was all a dream.

I remember how people who were stranded in various destination of christmas celebrations sold their properties in order to meet up with the sudden hike in transport fare due to the sudden and heartless act of a president who ought to have the feelings of the very people who elected him and i can't remember any military president doing that.

I am not a military personnel neither will i claim to know the politics going on concerning Bokoharam but i strongly believe that if the president truly decides to use his office as commander in chief of all the armed forces in Nigeria, Boko haram would have been a thing of the past and i strongly believe that if for four years, we still have the insurgency this strong,then this will only be a rehearsal compared to what we may see if the incumbent president finds his way once again into ASO rock.

Let me stop here as regards the incumbent president and dwell on Retired General Buhari.

i am not a fan of Buhari and i don't think i will ever be simply due to the fact that i just find it hard to reconcile the fact that the same man who took over power when i was just 9years is the same man coming back to canvass for our votes to occupy same seat when i also have all it takes to be in that same position and make a difference.

I do not know much about his regime because as a nine year old innocent kid, all i saw were men in uniforms and just after two years he was sent packing by Babangida.

But then lets face it,if the person we hoped would make a difference did not deliver the expected dividends of democracy after ruling for six years then i think it makes sense to try another person and since the other alternative we have is an old man of 72 who according to many does not condole corruption.

Conclusively i would say that in my opinion,both GEJ and Buhari are wrong choices but given the present situation that we have to choose one of these two,i would prefer to try this old man out who was not really giving the opportunity to rule way back and see what he has to offer and i believe that every logical Nigerian should do same.

If after 4years we can not see any reason to vote him once more then we can equally sack him out with our votes.

many have maintained that people's vote do not count in Nigeria but i would still employ all as-sundry to vote in for a change irrespective of the possibility of some people who may try to rig.

Together we can bring a positive change to our great Nation.

scholarteam:
Tinubu is truly a rare gift to this generation.He is a man of destiny and hard work. He deserves the honor!

Tinubu godfather-ism A blessing or a curse to Lagos state?

Political godfather-ism can not be exempted from politics all over the world and this should not be an issue.

What we should look at is the ability of these godfathers to follow due process in ensuring that their choice candidate succeeds in winning the elective position.

In Lagos state,over the years many quarters have held the notion that Asiwaju Bola Hammed Tinubu’s “godfather-ism” is more akin to that of unscrupulous mafia dons.

Tinubu’s “godfather-ism” to these set means candidates for public office of his political party are not elected by popular vote but selected from Tinubu’s bedroom and then imposed on the party. They are then held under a tight leash by the Jagaban and are required to do his bidding on pain of being summarily replaced or impeached.

The question I keep asking the crusader of these funny and seemingly awkward assertion is this; does Tinubu have a hypnotic power to control the minds of these party members? OF-COURSE NOT.

I think what Tinubu does is that he meticulously analyses an individual within the party based on credibility and presents such to the party and does not impose or blackmail anyone to vote for such but uses the apparatus within his reach to foster his choice into coming out tops.

I would say that the "godfather-ism" of Tinubu have come out as a great blessing to Lagos state due to his ability to recognize a credible and efficient candidate as we have evidently seen in the person of Governor Fashola who turned Lagos state around and made Lagos the envy of every other states and also raised the bar so high that APC governors across Nigeria are known for excellent performance

In like manner, I believe that the emergence of Akinwunmi Ambode as the APC flag-bearer and subsequently the next governor of Lagos state will definitely bring about even a greater and more excellent governance.

I will not want to forget the rumored rift between Governor Fashola and Tinubu and if this is true then it even gets better because this goes a long way to show that these presumed “godsons” are not just excellent executives but are not also a push over for any one.

In conclusion, I would say that the “godfather-ism” of Tinubu if indeed it is what people call it,have been a blessing for Lagos and will continue to be a blessing and until we see a reason to discredit it, we will continue to vote for APC to take charge of the affairs in Lagos state for many years to come not because there is a presumed godfather somewhere but because Lagosians have realized that the representatives of this party are result oriented.

iF I REALLY OFFENDED HER, WHY NOT

But not with two legs

A TALE OF TWO WRONG CHOICES

I still remember vividly in 2007 how Nigerians trooped out to vote in our amiable president Goodluck Ebele Jonathan not because we are certain of what he can do but because we were tired of seeing the old people been recycled within the seat of power.

We did not vote for PDP but voted for him because for the first time ever we were presented a clean candidate and when i say clean i mean a full flesh and blood civilian,well read,and seemingly a good representative of the youths of this country.

I did not only vote for him but also canvassed for him. I still respect him as a person and i appreciate his effort in trying to lead the most populous black nation on earth.

But In my opinion and i believe a random selection of many people in Nigeria will support my stand view."PRESIDENT JONATHAN HAS FAILED US".

Never have i seen the level of financial misappropriation so celebrated, the rule of law made so baseless,lives wasted and no visible transformation recorded even when we hear the lyrics of transformation agenda and i can remember that even President Yaraduah of blessed memory despite his ill health brought a transformation to this country by granting amnesty to MEND and the former president Obasanjo within the first four years was able to give Nigerians succor in the communication sector.

Permit me to say that the insurgency of Boko haram is no excuse because in as much as this may cause some distractions,it was not strong enough to distract N1.067trn fuel subsidy fund lost to “endemic corruption and entrenched inefficiency”

The day i personally realized i made a great error voting president Jonathan into office was when he woke up on the 1st of January 2012 to increase fuel pump price to well over 100% and i had to go back to sleep with the hope that it was all a dream.

I remember how people who were stranded in various destination of christmas celebrations sold their properties in order to meet up with the sudden hike in transport fare due to the sudden and heartless act of a president who ought to have the feelings of the very people who elected him and i can't remember any military president doing that.

I am not a military personnel neither will i claim to know the politics going on concerning Bokoharam but i strongly believe that if the president truly decides to use his office as commander in chief of all the armed forces in Nigeria, Boko haram would have been a thing of the past and i strongly believe that if for four years, we still have the insurgency this strong,then this will only be a rehearsal compared to what we may see if the incumbent president finds his way once again into ASO rock.

Let me stop here as regards the incumbent president and dwell on Retired General Buhari.

i am not a fan of Buhari and i don't think i will ever be simply due to the fact that i just find it hard to reconcile the fact that the same man who took over power when i was just 9years is the same man coming back to canvass for our votes to occupy same seat when i also have all it takes to be in that same position and make a difference.

I do not know much about his regime because as a nine year old innocent kid, all i saw were men in uniforms and just after two years he was sent packing by Babangida.

But then lets face it,if the person we hoped would make a difference did not deliver the expected dividends of democracy after ruling for six years then i think it makes sense to try another person and since the other alternative we have is an old man of 72 who according to many does not condole corruption.

Conclusively i would say that in my opinion,both GEJ and Buhari are wrong choices but given the present situation that we have to choose one of these two,i would prefer to try this old man out who was not really giving the opportunity to rule way back and see what he has to offer and i believe that every logical Nigerian should do same.

If after 4years we can not see any reason to vote him once more then we can equally sack him out with our votes.

many have maintained that people's vote do not count in Nigeria but i would still employ all as-sundry to vote in for a change irrespective of the possibility of some people who may try to rig.

Together we can bring a positive change to our great Nation.

nneh1:
What I don't understand is while you were sleeping with her what was she doing with you that is now turning her to a discussion topic.you slept with her or him and vice versa.

If there is one thing i hate, its hypochricy.

Only a foolish man will discuss how he sleeps with his wife but guess what? ladies discuss how their hubby satisfies them in bed with words like "This man almost killed me last night.."

But when it comes to a guy and his girlfriend especially the one he does not really respect much,he tends to discus his sexcapades with her before his friend(s) and some ladies do same.

By virtue of my stand as a decent man i don't do it nevertheless i don't think its a sign of immaturity if a guy does it as they just see it as fun and not out of place and infact some guys discuss this to make the lady look good before their friends in like manner ladies discuss this with friends to make it look like she is with a sex dynamo.

My advice is that ladies should maintain a status quo and understand that their respect is at stake

A lady who sleeps wih one man have slept with many men. HOW?

Tade tells his close pal about it.

Tade's pal hangs out with friends and sights you just to inform his friend that you are his pal's gfriend even without telling them about the bleeping part, its quite obvious they know.

Then some of those friends hang out with friends and they see you and.......

Though she only slept with one man but many other guys now know a friend whose friend was bleeping you and this comes back to hunt the girl somewhere in the future.


Just as it is natural for ladies to talk about a guy that does her well, in like manner guys can't just help narrating to at least one friend how good or bad you are in bed.

Ladies should learn to be sexually decent.

SEX IS MARRIAGE

when you kiss its a process that leads to sex and if you ae not careful you will likely fall.

My advice for Jimi Agbaje is to wait for the next 4years hoping that AMbode will disappoint us which i don't see happening so the best bet for him is to decamp to APC and become the next in line after Ambode.

Tinubu godfather-ism A blessing or a curse to Lagos state.

Political godfather-ism can not be exempted from politics all over the world and this should not be an issue.

What we should look at is the ability of these godfathers to follow due process in ensuring that their choice candidate succeeds in winning the elective position.

In Lagos state,over the years many quarters have held the notion that Asiwaju Bola Hammed Tinubu’s “godfather-ism” is more akin to that of unscrupulous mafia dons.

Tinubu’s “godfather-ism” to these set means candidates for public office of his political party are not elected by popular vote but selected from Tinubu’s bedroom and then imposed on the party. They are then held under a tight leash by the Jagaban and are required to do his bidding on pain of being summarily replaced or impeached.

The question I keep asking the crusader of these funny and seemingly awkward assertion is this; does Tinubu have a hypnotic power to control the minds of these party members? OF-COURSE NOT.

I think what Tinubu does is that he meticulously analyses an individual within the party based on credibility and presents such to the party and does not impose or blackmail anyone to vote for such but uses the apparatus within his reach to foster his choice into coming out tops.

I would say that the "godfather-ism" of Tinubu have come out as a great blessing to Lagos state due to his ability to recognize a credible and efficient candidate as we have evidently seen in the person of Governor Fashola who turned Lagos state around and made Lagos the envy of every other states and also raised the bar so high that APC governors across Nigeria are known for excellent performance

In like manner, I believe that the emergence of Akinwunmi Ambode as the APC flag-bearer and subsequently the next governor of Lagos state will definitely bring about even a greater and more excellent governance.

I will not want to forget the rumored rift between Governor Fashola and Tinubu and if this is true then it even gets better because this goes a long way to show that these presumed “godsons” are not just excellent executives but are not also a push over for any one.

In conclusion, I would say that the “godfather-ism” of Tinubu if indeed it is what people call it,have been a blessing for Lagos and will continue to be a blessing and until we see a reason to discredit it, we will continue to vote for APC to take charge of the affairs in Lagos state for many years to come not because there is a presumed godfather somewhere but because Lagosians have realized that the representatives of this party are result oriented.

No matter how careful you are dearie,you can never be too careful when it comes to the issue of marriage.

100years courtship does not guaranty a happy marriage and the fact that the guy is "perfect" before marriage does not mean he won't go crazy after saying i do to you.

And no matter how deep and crazy the love may be at the beginning, there must come a time after some years when the enthusiasm and initial feelings will fade and boredom will set in and it is at this period that you will come to realize that STAYING MARRIED IS NOT ABOUT FEELINGS BUT A CONSCIOUS DECISION WE MUST MAKE.

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And on no condition must a lady leave her marriage except the man unrepentantly beats her because every other reason can be worked out with prayers and faith in GOD.

If the truth must be told, in my opinion,a woman could be fortunate to get remarried to a sweet man after a divorce but her marital value diminishes the moment she gets divorced from her first hubby for whatever reasons.

If you loved him enough to marry him then you should love him enough to weather the storm together.

So my sister just go ahead and make your decision to be with a man and pray that he is GOD fearing because only a GOD fearing man can make a good husband.

LaurelP:
She just happens to have a very understanding man as a husband. If not, all dis one na story for d gods

Gbam!

A Message from Jesus to the world. A must read for everyone.

As I stood at the portal of hell, I could not help the tears rolling down my eyes and I marvel at the way millions of souls are thrown into hell, a place of utter hopelessness, terrible suffering, eternal sorrow and unimaginable terror unleashed on the occupants by Satan and the demons which will continue forever and ever without an end. And I wept even more because I know this is never GOD’s plan for man.

GOD never created hell fire for humans but for Satan and the demons but the devil have permeated the minds of man, block their minds from accepting salvation and finally bring them to hell after death to be tortured forever by the demons in a way too gruesome for any living soul to imagine.

My name is Jesus, the word of GOD made flesh. I was sent to the world to sacrifice my life to save mankind from eternal damnation but many still reject the sacrifice GOD made by sending me to to be crucified in the most condemned manner unimaginable by men.

Many film makers in the world have tried to illustrate the sufferings I went through but have not even come any close.

Many people do not understand this mystery that GOD had to send me to be crucified in order to save all men from eternal doom. This is a mystery that many still cannot decipher.

You must understand that God ways are not our ways. It has been in the law of GOD that nearly everything must be cleansed by blood and without the shedding of blood, there is no remission of sins. (Hebrews 9:22)

In the past, before I was sent to the world, men had to sacrifice animals each year to cleanse them from all sins but this became a boring routine and GOD wanted a sacrifice once and for all to cleanse man from every form of sins but it was impossible for the blood of bulls and goats to take away the sins of the world (Hebrews 10:1-4) and this was why GOD sent me to be the ultimate sacrifice for the whole world and whosoever believes in this sacrifice and accept me as his or her savior shall be saved and will have no space in hell but will live together with me in the kingdom of GOD forever and ever.

Many people do not understand when some people call me the son of GOD. The truth is that I was created by the word of GOD and was not conceived by man’s fluid. I came to the world through a virgin. I am the word of GOD made flesh, I am the son of GOD by divine paternity and not biological for GOD was not giving birth to neither does he give birth to any one biologically. (John 1:1)

I was sacrificed on the cross of Calvary to save all men. Whether you practice Islam as a religion or Christianity, GOD cares less for he is not interested in religion and he never created any religion and in his kingdom, religion does not exist.

What GOD wants is a relationship with him by acknowledging the sacrifice made on the cross and until you accept me as your savior, you may never have any relationship with my father, the creator of Heaven and earth.

Many people believe that just been good and keeping GOD’s laws will take them to heaven but unfortunately this is not the case.

It is ok to keep the laws and commandments but in order to inherit the kingdom of GOD you must believe in your heart that I died on the cross to save you, rose up from the dead and confess with your mouth that I am your Savior and until you do this, you will never be part of my father’s Kingdom. (Romans 10:9)

If only the people on earth understand the magnitude of the splendor that awaits them in paradise, they will not waste any more second before getting saved. Believe me, the minds of mortal man cannot comprehend what GOD have prepared for them that accept me as their lord and savior(1 Corinthians 2:9)

The treasures of this world that men kill for are used in paradise to make streets where people walk on talking about the purest of gold that the world is yet to discover.

Rare gems that have not even been discovered on earth are used as foundations for the mansions in heaven. (Revelation 21:18)

Many mortals have been caught up into heaven to have a glimpse of paradise just as my father revealed to John in the book of revelations and their stories have been the same.

Paradise is like another planet million of times bigger than this present planet earth.

Every activity in the world exist there asides getting married or anything evil or sorrowful. The technology that exists there is light years away from what the earth has at the moment and by far more interesting than the present earth.

Think about all you can find in this present world and just imagine same in paradise but far more beautiful and advanced. The TV sets and all appliances work perfectly without been plugged to any power source but the glorious ray from the throne of my father powers the new world.

The transportation system is far beyond human reasoning as you can either decide to travel by the speed of taught or by simply standing on the golden street to take you anywhere you want or you can use the flying shuttles of any kind you want and lots more.

You are guaranteed to have a ready mansion for you in paradise just to suite your taste perfectly with exact design and furniture settings you desire and adorned with such rare decors that can only be imagined by you as mortal being.

Some mansions are built under the crystal river for people who love the aquatic environment while some are built on trees for those who love the environment and we even have countless mansions suspended in the sky.

Just imagine where you want your mansion to be and the exact colors, dimensions and any type of furniture you desire and you are guaranteed to have it built for you totally free and you will live there forever and ever.

No matter the talent you have, you can be sure to maximize it and not for money but for fulfillment. Everything is free and no need for the use of money. Sportsmen will have a great time as we have all sporting activities present on earth except violent sports like boxing and wrestling with more sophisticated sporting facilities and locations.

For those who love their pets so much, you can be sure to have them with you in paradise.

For those who have lost dear ones I urge you not to cry as long as they have accepted me as their lord and Savior before they died because they will be in paradise enjoying even a greater life.

For parents or women who lost a child prematurely through abortion, miscarriage, still birth or infant death I assure you that your children are safe in heaven, growing up slowly and you are sure to see them welcome you at the pearl gate if you make heaven.

There will be so much to eat and drink in paradise and you are guaranteed to have the best of varieties of foods you can ever imagine from all different countries of human race.

There are so much more to discover about paradise, a place of unimaginable joy and splendor.

A world specially created by GOD and where every structure in it is meticulously designed by Jehovah. But I have just revealed just a little to you as you will get to discover even more when you join me there.

I want you all to understand that my Father is kind, merciful, and very loving. No matter the magnitude of your sins, he will accept you if only you accept me as your lord and savior.

Are you a fornicator, cultists, drug addict, intimate pervert (gay), addicted to any form of sinful habit, just come to me and accept me as your lord and savior and I will cleanse you from all these sins and you will be a new person with old things passing away and will never be remembered by me and my father (Matthew 11:28).

This I say to the Muslims, I am not like other prophets you know, and my mission to the world was to come and save all mankind from eternal damnation. I was actually crucified contrary to your beliefs and this was why I was created by the word of GOD, and attained the son-ship status by divine paternity and this why I am called the son of GOD.

If you are a Muslim, I am not interested in you stopping your daily prayers or visiting Saudi Arabia. Neither am I interested in seeing you stop observing your festive periods BUT ALL I WANT FROM YOU IS TO ACCEPT MY DEATH AS AN ATONEMENT FOR YOUR SINS.

Accept me as your Savior and only then you can have hope of having a place in paradise . If you die without accepting me as your lord and savior, you have automatically reserved a place for yourself in hell with the devil and the demons and you will remain there forever and ever. This message will stand as proof that you have been warned.

I say this to the believers, be careful not to lose your salvation. If you are still struggling with any sin in your life, please don’t lose hope and give up your salvation but cry unto GOD and he will remove the power of that sinful act upon your life with the help of the Holy Spirit.

Many people I see dropping into hell have at one time or the other accepted me as their lord and Savior but because of repetitive sins in their life, they gave up their salvation saying they are not worthy of my Father's kingdom.

This is why I’m sending this message to tell you all that once you have accepted me as your Savior, GOD will never reject you anytime you ask for forgiveness in my name no matter how many times you fall into sin. This is why I died to cleanse you from the sins of yesterday, today and tomorrow (1 John 2:1).

Nevertheless, my death on the cross does not give you the liberty to sin but to be cleansed from your sins and make you live above sins in your life. (Romans 6:1)

Accepting me as your lord and savior is the simplest decision you can ever make yet the most important decision you need to make.

Just read these words below out loud wherever you are and you are automatically saved.

Salvation Prayer:

Dear God in heaven, I come to you in the name of Jesus. I acknowledge to You that I am a sinner, and I am sorry for my sins and the life that I have lived; I need your forgiveness.

I believe that your only begotten Son Jesus Christ shed His precious blood on the cross at Calvary and died for my sins, and I am now willing to turn from my sin.

You said in Your Holy Word, Romans 10:9 that if we confess the Lord our God and believe in our hearts that God raised Jesus from the dead, we shall be saved.

Right now I confess Jesus as the Lord of my soul. With my heart, I believe that God raised Jesus from the dead. This very moment I accept Jesus Christ as my own personal Savior and according to His Word, right now I am saved.

Thank you Jesus for your unlimited grace which has saved me from my sins. I thank you Jesus that your grace never leads to license, but rather it always leads to repentance. Therefore Lord Jesus transform my life so that I may bring glory and honor to you alone and not to myself.

Thank you Jesus for dying for me and giving me eternal life. Amen.

Congratulations. You are saved and your name has been written in the book of life.

Please get a bible and read regularly and also ask for the Holy Spirit to perfect your salvation and i will never leave you or forsake you.

Congratulations once again and I hope to welcome you to my father’s kingdom when you leave this mortal world.

This message is true, do not ignore it and do not postpone your decision to accept Jesus because tomorrow may be too late.

To read more about the testimonies of people who have been caught up like John in the book of revelations to see heaven and hell then visit this web page: http://www.divinerevelations.info/Documents/misc/HEAVEN.htm

I laugh inpidgin to the responses i have been reading

Now get this clear, in heaven we will live just as we do on earth except for marrying and having sex.

Every activity on earth asides the sinful ones take place in heaven, there will be eating,drinking sportin and infact every kind of sports asides violent ones are there.

You will eat anytype of food yu want not because you are hungry but because you love to eat the food.

I can continue on and on nut i know you guys will strat to ask me, have you been there? But the truth is spelt out in the lords parayer.

THY WILL BE DONE ON EARTH AS IT IS IN HEAVEN

Also as we know, just as GOD showed JOHn in revelation a glimpse o heaven in same manner GOD have been taking people to heaven to see a glimpse of paradise and their stories have all been the same.

Trust me, heaven is a billion times more fascinating,enjoyable and beautiful than this earth and you can take a cue from the fact that the things men die for on earth is used to make just the floors of the streets of heaven taking about pure gold, a rare type.

freecocoa:
Wtf are you on about? Did you read the OP at all?

Being poor for me can be said to be lack of drive, focus and a comfortable life.

No one is determining anyone's fate, the OP said a man with potentials but won't do anything to materialize those potentials, what's the point of having a dream you don't plan to achieve?

Ofcourse I'm working on making my own money and having the life I want but the life I want does not include someone pesting on me, I can't remain with him because doing so will defeat my own purpose/dream.

There are goal driven, comfortable, rich loving men out there why do I have to put up with a lazy a$$?

When you discuss on public fora try to keep your adrenal gland under check. No one is fighting anyone but we are only making personal opinionated contribution so take a chill pill.

My point is this, a man can have drive and be very zealous but for some reasons the four aces seem not to be aligning and to the people around and even the wife, having a drive is juxtaposition-ed to success and if this success is not forthcoming it will seem the guy is not doing enough hence perceived to be a "poor" man.

This is why i always advice young ladies to be with a man they love and not attach any crazy condition of him been rich or "successful"

Can you date a rich conductor? bar tender,servant?

Even a totally hopeless man can win a lottery and many guys who win BBA 300kusd to me are lazy because in my world success such as winning a reality house interaction show does not mean you are zealous and a danfo driver who makes a living is more purposeful.

So been poor is discretionary and unless ladies have a paradigm shift in their notion, they will always love for the love reasons and marry the wrong man.

Ladies must learn to love a man and be with a man because they love him irrespective of whether he will make it in future or not. Rich men get broke you know and i mean real broke so every lady should rather work on becoming rich too rather than hoping to marry a rich guy or a rich guy in the making.

My 50 cents, my opinion.