Romance › Re: The Red Truth by toscolee(m): 5:09pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: I think you are referring to IK igbonna.
I think He is even paying child support now. He's the one. |
Romance › Re: The Red Truth by toscolee(m): 4:42pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: FEIGNED SUBMISSION This is the exact way in which calculating women destroy great men. There is a mixture of submission and puppeteering involved, and when she tires of her toy she will abandon it or break it in half.
In relationships with such women the man is “the provider” because “she’s submissive” and “needs him.”
She takes and continues to take from him, money, wisdom, energy, time, everything. She’s a parasite, a black hole, but she frames herself as a willing accomplice who needs investment to return dividends to an eager, naive, hopeful investor.
Eventually the man in question has nothing left to give and is dried up both spiritually and financially. Now he’s been drained for his utility she becomes aware that although he elevated her self-development, she has become more valuable than him.
Better yet with the taster she’s had and the strides she’s made she believes she has the opportunity to become even more. Thus rather than return investment she will betray and abandon her prior mentor to repeat the process with a new one.
One who she considers to be more worthy of directing her. Effectively, this means finding an even higher level man to surpass her newer, more recent elevated status.
Gold diggers don't go lower their perceived standards, starting as a broke girl she aims for a man making tens on thousands, then she jumbs to one making hundreds of thousands, to millions and if possible billions.
Its always about upgrade. Gold diggers hate broke guys.
PEAK TACTIC Men are at their weakest when they are in passion. When men get aroused and want to have sex with a woman they can foolishly do anything to ladies that's what Kara King called PEAK. PEAK is Pre-Ejaculation Ass Kissing. It’s during PEAK that women have the most power. PEAK makes men do crazy things! At this point she start making excessive money demands and make him promise heaven and earth to her.
The technique i observed is that just when he has started removing her clothes, she gives him her phone to credit her account. If he refuses to credit her account then no sex for him.
Woman can demand fwhat she want during PEAK. He’s either going to say yes or no.If he denies her what she want, then she tells him “access denied” and move on to the next man. Chances are, however, when he’s in PEAK mode, she's going to get every last thing she ask for.
MISCELLANEOUS If all else fail a gold digger can resort to blackmail especually if he is a High status man. Some ladies are into voodoo to get money from rich men. This scenario is similar to the Nollywood actor that married a Colombian lady that later divorced him. Recently, she announced that she can't date a broke guy. I heard that the guy is now broke. |
Nairaland General › Re: Send A Shoutout To Nairalanders That Made You Smile This Year by toscolee(m): 11:12pm On Dec 28, 2020*. Modified: 6:01pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Send A Shoutout To Nairalanders That Made You Smile This Year by toscolee(m): 11:08pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
Dpsychologist Undercover Kalatium Ubunja Pansophist ( taught me a lot. I was too soft) Righteousness89 ( more oil on your head brother)
Bukatyne (Hard pragmatic lady. My respect ma) Pocohontas (I'm in the hospitality industry, I appreciate ladies that Cook well....Pocohontas, if I had a son, I would be your father in-law) May update the list.... |
Politics › Re: Adamawa Residents Run To Mountains As Boko Haram Advances (Video) by toscolee(m): 9:22pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
Germi9: where is TY Danjuma when you need him? wasn't he the gallant soldier that led the squad that killed Aguyi Ironsi and dumped his body by the bush? Let's forget what Nzeogwu, Ifeajuna started, and Danjuma finished. We move. |
Politics › Re: Adamawa Residents Run To Mountains As Boko Haram Advances (Video) by toscolee(m): 9:14pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
Kamdil: so because of that,somebody from Adamawa can at the same time come from borno?
You need healing.
That you share boundary with a community doesn't make you hale from there. You are either from this side,or from the other side. You can't belong to both. That is the law of non contradiction in philosophy. Na mistake I do, I for no quote you, no vex. |
Politics › Re: Adamawa Residents Run To Mountains As Boko Haram Advances (Video) by toscolee(m): 6:37pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
Kamdil: The picture says Adamawa, but the Op said borno .
Is this a case of dementia or bewitchment It's possible to cross over to Maiduguri (Biu side), and back to Adamawa state in 30 seconds. It's still possible to sit by lake Chad around Gamboru Ngala and hold a conversation with a Cameroonian sitting on the other side. You've never been to a border? |
Romance › Re: I Don't Know What To Say When I Talk To Girls. by toscolee(m): 12:19am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Learn to compliment them in a nonchalant way, while looking into their eyes. 1. Don't walk up to her, walk past, then say something like 'fine girl', then open conversation if she responds in a relaxed manner but welcoming manner. If she's tensed, walk away. If you are tensed, smile back and walk away. 2. Walk up to her, and ask for directions, or tell her that she looks like someone you knew way back in school or Kafanchan. 3. DM ladies on social media. Some will ignore you. For the ones that doesn't, flow with them. ADVICE Be free to let them know that you are just starting out with ladies, they find it appealing, but if you don't man up and take charge after some time, anything you see, collect am. Learn to accept rejection and failure as a part of life. You can't win them all. YOU FEAR REJECTION, It's a bad habit. |
Travel › Re: Pictures And Observations From My Trip To Ijebu-jesa, A Town In Osun State by toscolee(m): 9:47pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
pocohantas: Hahaha. Thanks a lot babe. *blushing*
It is their carriage like you said. Their alphaness is not forced. They are soft, but still in control.
Look at Regina, drawing tattoo upandan and flexing. Young guys would think Ned is weak. If it were them, they’ll probably be nagging everyday- but Ned just dey look her. Allowing her enjoy her youthful stage, he knows where and when to be strict. Older men choose their battles. Young guys whine unnecessarily like hungry babies looking for breastmilk. Na young man u go marry. I pray for you as a father. |
Science/Technology › Re: Sonia Somuvie And Team Launch ECOSMART (Photos) by toscolee(m): 2:15pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
SoniaSomuvie: I live in Abuja and mostnof my team members, if we can get kn touch we will work something out and I'd be in lagos by January woth other team members free at the time. I'm in Benue state at the moment. I'm coming back to Lagos in February. |
Science/Technology › Re: Sonia Somuvie And Team Launch ECOSMART (Photos) by toscolee(m): 2:14pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
SoniaSomuvie: How can i conact you please? I'm the project lead person. enicman@yahoo.com |
Politics › Re: Ohanaeze Ndigbo, Jonathan’s Kinsman Chide Anyim by toscolee(m): 12:23pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Juliusmalema: Uche Okwukwu or whatever your name is or was, We are talking about about Igbo Presidency and not Ikwerre presidency.
You are an Ikwerre man and has no damn right even one bit of it to speak for ndigbo..
anyim is completely and comprehensively right..I don't understand the definition of Igbos by Okwukwu but as it remains he can't speak for Igbo's but Anyim can..
In a sound Organization if not that Ohanaeze is totally useless you and your cronies should have been rounded up, blacklisted and expelled from Oranaeze...
Amaechi should remove the isi-agu he now wears continuously with red cap and replace it with the normal cow-boy cap and buttoned sleeve shirt........If the the cow-boy cap no do, he can borrow ortom's cap from Wike..
Anyim for once is right...Liberalism is a sign of mental disorder....
Delta extraction can throw in their cap for the race and should be duly considered but Anyone from Rivers state saying he is contesting for Igbo Presidency should be arrested immediately, charged for Treason against ndigbo and summarily executed with or without trial....
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Science/Technology › Re: Sonia Somuvie And Team Launch ECOSMART (Photos) by toscolee(m): 11:25am On Dec 23, 2020 |
Are they in Lagos? I am tired of seeing empty spaces where the should be trees or flowers, and all manner of wastes on our shorelines. I will like to volunteer if they are in Lagos. |
Family › Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by toscolee(m): 10:31pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
I will separate them from fighting. I will talk to them, then buy biscuits for the kid. |
Politics › Re: What Happened To The Kidnappers Of Kankara Students? by toscolee(m): 7:48pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Bialegend: They will soon become part of your terrorist men in army uniform. All of you "one nigeria" apologists never see anything sef. Keep enjoying your "one nigeria" while we build up the strength of our army to extricate ourselves from your useless dungeon. You lots talk too much. Is this not supposed to be a secret if you truly love your Biafra? Since the creation of Eastern security network, it's being cho cho cho from everywhere. Na dis una mouth wey no dey ever close be una undoing. You talk too much, sabotaging your own efforts. |
Romance › Re: The Red Truth by toscolee(m): 11:18am On Dec 21, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: Yea bro.
Another women made sure until she was heavily pregnant which was immediately when her husband got a huge contract then she filed for divorce.
She was demanding for money from the contract, spousal support, child support and half of his property.
There is nothing new under the sun. Chineke! |
Romance › Re: The Red Truth by toscolee(m): 12:00am On Dec 21, 2020 |
The balloon payment: Female predatory instincts come into play in this type of relationship, as a woman fakes love for a man until such time as she can “cash in” on him and dispose of him in the court system.
Janet Jackson comes to mind. She used this tactic on that Arab Prince without pity. There was a stipulated length of time in their pre-up, that she must remain married to the guy before she can divorce and receive settlement, she did not allow the time to even exceed a year before filing for divorce. |
Romance › Re: The Red Truth by toscolee(m): 10:27pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: SIMPs are operating on another level.
See What i found... Haaa......the guy no get eye. The make up is even heavier than red Indian war paints. The girl is a bloody liar! |
Phones › Re: Econet Begins Construction Of $100m Data Centre In Lagos by toscolee(m): 2:46pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
edoairways: Are they going to compete with existing network? They don't have competition. There's no such thing existing in Nigeria. Only South Africa has a data center in Africa as whole. |
Phones › Re: Econet Begins Construction Of $100m Data Centre In Lagos by toscolee(m): 2:41pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
post=97091621: No be this same Econet first run from naija ?
If they could run back then due to unfavorable business conditions they won't even finish this their new data center in this regime we are in. Not unfavourable business conditions but thieving Nigerian politicians that were asking for shares as bribe, when chief Masiyiwa refused, they wanted to frustrate him, he went to court since 2003. He doesn't give bribes. Says its against his beliefs. |
Romance › Re: Girls Are Quick To Lose Feelings When A Guy Makes These 4 Mistakes by toscolee(m): 10:39am On Dec 15, 2020 |
@number 4. If she wan lose feeling, make she lose. No be to chase woman I come dis life come do. |
Romance › Re: The Red Truth by toscolee(m): 3:24pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Regex: Who art thou, so wise in the ways of science!  |
Romance › Re: Hhh by toscolee(m): 11:26pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
She will turn the children against you. If its the West she's travelling to, they won't bother with you anymore. The average westerner can revert yo answering his mother's maiden name, to spite the dad. |
Pets › Re: Rare Iridescent Snake Discovered In Vietnam - (Photos) by toscolee(m): 9:44pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Let them go to Shira local government in Bauchi state. This dry season is when one can see them the most. Very shy and harmless creatures. |
Politics › Re: Northern, Southern Leaders Reject Calls For Another CONFAB by toscolee(m): 9:47am On Dec 10, 2020 |
Instead of another round of protests, the youths should convene one and dialogue between themselves. Let the north, south, east and western Nigeria young people unite and salvage what's left of the nation. |
Politics › Re: Peter Afunanya: Professional Side Of Yusuf Magaji Bichi by toscolee(m): 7:50am On Dec 05, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: The Red Truth by toscolee(m): 5:30pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: [color=maroon] 76.) REDPILL AND MARRIAGE
The idea of love is tossed around in our society as if it is inevitable that we will someday fall in love and stay in love our entire lives. But, only in modern times has it received such exalted status. Traditionally, it has been considered a very fickle emotion.
Going back to some of the founding religious documents of our civilization, we find that Eve is commanded to be subservient and obedient to Adam. It is interesting that Eve is not commanded to love Adam, perhaps because the Bronze Age men who wrote these documents knew that was virtually impossible.
The Western idea of falling in love in order to get married and have a family is a recent one. In the past, marriages were more about financial arrangements between families than ideas of love. People used to marry young and stay together their entire lives.
They also used to have kids young, rather than waiting for the perfect “magic moment” that never comes. This, indeed is quite a contrast to today when most women have been passed around quite a few times before they marry and have children in their 30s if at all, a time when declining fertility puts reproduction at risk.
In fact, a woman’s window of peak fertility extends from her teenage years to about the age of 25.
After age 25 and especially age 30, it becomes statistically less and less likely she will conceive and more likely she will have complications if she does. [/color] Love is not strong enough reason to marry - Myles Munroe |
Politics › Re: Boko Haram: Mercenaries Vow Not To Return To Nigeria by toscolee(m): 8:52am On Dec 04, 2020 |
Oritsejafor's reputation was rubbished back then by northerners looking for a scapegoat. They knew the story behind the private jet and money found in South Africa, but chosed to feed the masses a different narrative, to make Jonathan look bad. The North's tolerance for religious riots and deep seated hatred of Christians paved the way for book haram. |
Business › Re: Naira Bounces Back, Appreciates To N470/$ In Parallel Market by toscolee(m): 5:49pm On Dec 02, 2020 |
tensazangetsu20: It's easy to sit behind a keyboard and talk. Have you tried exporting anything outside Nigeria before. Go and do that and come back and talk. If he, you, or I hasn't tried it, that's because the system made it very difficult. A lot of businesses are struggling or folding up. I relinquished partnership of a business I co own yesterday. Don't blame him yet. E no easy my brother. |
Romance › Re: The Red Truth by toscolee(m): 10:00pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
jajeri3216: I love everything about your thread but I'll point out one thing.
The redpill movement is a white supremacists movement.
You should africanise your version, change the name.
2 cents Use a post and make an example of how you want it done. |
Romance › Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by toscolee(m): 3:46pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
MrHighSea: wetin concern me na...
"save 60k within 2 months from 40k salary"
Guy, how?
rent, food, data, tp, the boys, cousins in university,
you better teach us.o D guy na genius for saving walahi. I'm ashamed of myself. |
Politics › Re: Oby Ezekwesili Demands A Medical Panel On President Buhari by toscolee(m): 7:15pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Jagznation: Nitwit enjoy your change Dimwit, we're in it together. |