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Havilah93: In response to this thread created some days ago

https://www.nairaland.com/1561369/guyz-dont-ever-marry-girl


1. Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly

Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.

2. Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life.

3. The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.

4. Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don't lose something so precious in a thoughtless way.

5. Those who engage in premarital sex run a high risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure.

6. Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today's infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married.

7. The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity in your marriage.

8. Premarital sex breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous lives. If we don't follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.

9. Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father's love, protection and care.

10. If you date and you don't have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you.

http://www.unification.net/tfv/tenreasons.html


True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you

Listen OP ,
If you no wan "chook", carry ya thing, put inside pant. Some of us have no problem with freelance chook-chook. No de put sand inside our garri. Wetin you wan achieve? If girls read this thing now dem go increase shakara levels. Making life more difficult for umuafrika. Abeg OP hol ya side o, leave us alone. No de preach for here. Carry this sermon go religion section, where our hot girls no de go

By the way, why Tina nova come yet Make e no be say she don read this yeye post from OP o

Ify Onye ara

And why should they be stressed out bc of what people say. This na 2013 o, abi 2014 sef. Nigerians are yet to know how to mind their business and leave others alone.

And Nigerian women and married couples will do well to ignore what people say about them and their marriage.

Life is too short to be stressed out o jare

PrettySpicey: At times I just wonder to myself: what does hubby No1 think at such moments? Does he secretly say: 'maybe I should have stuck around'?
Life and the choices we make ... and the consequences and likely regrets thereafter. Hmmm

Or he may be saying . . . . Phew! Thank God I'm out of this

The girl no bad sha. I wish her well. She ( and other Nigerian girls) deserve some happiness.

agabaI23: Asiri m tattoo obughi tottoo, crown prince of umumkpi

ma tattoo ma tottoo ha ka agwo mma

amiskurie: yeeekparikpa!!!
RRRRRUUUUNNNN.....A PUNANNY MUST BE SAVED!

which one be punnany?

Ngwakwe: Odikwa nma.

Amam, I n'enweta ikuku ndu ebe ahu karia Tosh bi na Tetlow ebe uzu n'adighi ekwe mmadu hie ura ehihie.

anyi anaghi ehi ura ehihie, anyi choro iku nkwa. . . 2/4/7

agabaI23: E bi m side Worldbank. Tosh I hula gi? I chere na m bu gi? Tosh atogo n'ulo nwanyi tatoo

tottoo ka mma karia ndi ji agwo n'ulo

agabaI23: Prayer warrior

hapuru m prayer warroir m, one day aga aza this prayer, nwa mama agbada naija bia buru asa m final,

yellowpawpaw: Tell ur mamma if she ever tries it, u will kill her(literaly) and mean it. Threaten her verry well,call ya pple and tell them if u ever wake up one day and found out ur sis is gone, u will kill them all. This way, they will take u serious. No explanation needed, no soft tone.
The message will sink in faster.
They r even ready to bribe their way tru.
Those pple r always determined and they always have their way.
Involve ur church, community, anybody.
The aim is to scare ur mum enuf not to agree and create awareness. Foreign currency can be very tempting u know.

Goodluck

i guess this post has explained the thoughts of most reasonable minds. but allow me to add that you may also need to sit your kid sister down and talk to her about her future, education, s3x etc and let her be well informed. hundredsif not thousands of nigerian girls are languishing in italy today, infact those criminal "madames" have expanded to france ad other parts of europe, and i even hear russia included. most of the girls end up as s3x slaves, many end up dead etc. . . .

let your no be a very big [size=38pt]NO[/size]

. . . .wetin una wan make i talk now. . . . .
visa married life . . . . sorry i meant happy married green card . . . oops. . . i meant happy green card wife sh-t, i actually meant happy managed life my guy. . .

anyhow anyhow. . . you better pass some peeps wey marry beauty queens but have no peace in their home

Ngwakwe: Agaba, ndighi address ebe ibi na Owerri?

I bu Landlord ka o bu tenant?

Agaba wu "squatter"
Address ya wu "backyard ndi ulo "lekwe-ntu"

ifyalways: Tosh, Asha,wislet na Freecocoa(temporal) bi na Owerre.

Agwala m ya address m already.

Agaba na tosh,so nani onu ka unu nwere? Offer m mere kemgbe otu izu uka ka dikwa open. Nkwa for bed,ego for hand

agbafuola m here Biko, before Ify ejide m here mee ife m na agaghi echefu.

kreami diva: ify agboro!

nne biko o nwere ndi NL i ma bi na owerri?

Biko nyetu m akara ekwe nti gi ka m kpoo gi. Sendia ya na mail. Odi mkpa.

E bi m na owerri
Iga fee tetlow road, puta ahia ekeonunwa, Uzo ebe old stadium, I ga ahu ulo m, batawa bia juo m ajuju obula ichoro. but Biko branch-ia na chemist ahu nu na tetlow, zuta condom ano, before gi bata ulo m

agabaI23: Ify, ego ndi ahu pere mpe.

Welite ya ma i choo ezigbo nkwa. O ihe Tosh siri m gwa gi

Enyi a, ya wuru na Ify na Agu gi, gi kaa Obi ka Nwoke gakwuru ya, akpozila m aha
O gini di sef? .

I si na iwu nwoke, Kaa Obi lakpuo n'ulo Ify n'abali taa, Ify gberie gi ukwu taa gi Mara na uguru na atu oyi

Ify lekwe faketan o, jirikwa nwayo n'elu ya

[quote author=Maria-Goretti]Ehe, kedu ebe ha no.?[/quote]Pretty Goretti m, how body

ifyalways: Threadia ajuola oyi. Umunna trying to "meet-up" . Lol afo agwula.

Nnaa e, afo agwula o, unu ahula ihe m mere onwe m , as I de now kemgbe m ji kwuchaa bills na anaghi agwu agwu, na one of my friends de sustain me now as per nri
C'mon flight money to enter Ohio ga soro ibem mee family reunion/ Xmas I no get. Agazi m asi mpa m send-iara m ego from owerri? like play like play agbaala m ekeresimesi na New York o ha

Kee oge anyi ga-aku nkwa ?
Ify e nweghi time love na like. Let's kuo nkwa. EOD

Ike ona agwukwadi gi?
odika I notice-beghi na umuboys agbarala gi oso

Ifynkwa . Mana still a-like-ikwara m gi

ifyalways: LOL
Bia Kreami i gara akwukwo na Onicha? A nam enyo gi enyo ugbu a. Anyi nwere version anyi na-aguru otu onye nkuzi anyi na sec. sch na a-like ikpu anyi isi(barb our hair). Ulo akwukwo anyi a naghi ekwe anyi kpa isi kama anyi na akpu either punk or odo-n'iru-odo-n'azu although school law says pure low cut,no style.
This woman go carry her scissors level the punk then destroy your hair by barbing it anyhow. So anyi na aguru ya egwu a.
Mrs . . . bu nwanyi gbara aji n'obi
Di ya lecha anya kpuo ya aji
O jiri iwe na-akpu babes ado isi
Everyday o na-akpu anyi isi

kpuo m isi o,kpuo m isi
aunti nyara akpa kpuo m isi

ify i wu nnoo agboro . . . . . but a-like-iri m gi o

my sear the thing worry o.

e just be like we still dey 1600s

ATMC: tosh...olee way?

m na acho ego m ji adaba strip club now
its past midnight. . . oyi di baad

kreami diva: skimpy! agaba!! tosh!!!

ana m ele unu wit corner-eye ooo

anu m ya, m na agbaghari maka ikwughachi ugwo m birila m jiri taa torotoro thanksgiving day.
unu nye m addressi ka m send-iara unu ego obula m jiforo . . . . anyhow anyhow no matter how small, m tinye ya na envelope o ga erute unu. . .
mgbe obula unu nwetara ya, unu tinye ya na accounti emepere maka nwanne anyi nwayi or unu tinye ya na nke ndi TEHn network

chei, ekeresimesi eruwakwala o . .

ifyalways: Agaba owu a na-asa gi ? Bia biri ego na ulo aku Ify. One thousand to pay back nkwa 10.

Tosh,onye apari okwa o fola gi na eyes? Ugbua ka I chetara ihe e zigara gi mee n'ala bekke. I gbara arabanko for 11 months and think you'll meet up within otu onwa? Hehehe. O ga eme gi voom n'anya.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_saGaTs45ws

toshmann:

anyone who knows these boys should report them to police asap
this thing don dey too much bikonu . . . this is 2013

mod abeg take this to the appropriate section if this is not the right section

http://www.naijaurban.com/video-see-bad-boys-strip-molest-yoruba-girl/

. . . . o i forgot. . . pls people do not tribalize this thread. . . . abeg una let us unite FOR ONCE and fight evil together

anyone who knows these boys should report them to police asap
this thing don dey too much bikonu . . . this is 2013

mod abeg take this to the appropriate section if this is not the right section

http://www.naijaurban.com/video-see-bad-boys-strip-molest-yoruba-girl/

BELLASUU : a girl wey get belle during ASUU strike

KAKISTOMOBOPLUTONASUUCRACY : effects of ASUU as seen through the eyes of Honorable Patrick Ob----

OSHIOMOLASUU : public loss of self control during ASUU strike

ASUULAID: when a girl finally gets laid during the strike

ASUUDOM : boredom bc of strike.

kreami diva: tosh de tosh! nsogbu adighi ma oli. biko echefukwala ikpoturu m mgbe i di ready.

maka itinye ukwu na otu iba,eji m aka na i ga e-withstandili m. Lol....

Mgbe m nwetere onwe m anyi akpa nke a, right now akpata oyi maga m awughi ihe eji onu ekwu

This shows how mean spirited our leaders are. All of them. Some people thought only PDP are mean, well, I HATE THEM ALL. The issue is that Nigerians don't realize how uncaring our leaders are, if we knew, we won't kill ourselves for those bastards. Whether APC or PDP or Ngige or Peter Obi etc, I HATE THEM ALL.
Tomorrow now if this goathead governor dies dem go say have a human heart.
I will NEVER cry for any of them that dies, on the contrary I will rejoice, YES na me talk am. These people are wicked and the bible says when the wicked perish there are shouts of joy.

[quote author=uj_sizzle]Nwa--child
Nke--of
ego--money


[/quote]Which one be nwankego, (child of money) or you mean nwakego ( a child is more precious than money)

kreami diva: bia tosh,mu na gi ga etinye ukwu na otu iba if i biaghi tinyere m sometin o....

Nne Biko nyetu m otu Izu uka, ka m jiri ohere a kwuo bill nile m kwesiri ikwu as per month end, ighotara.
[s] On second thoughts owughi bad idea mu na gi itinye ukwu na otu Iba( pants I guess). [/s]

Ahu ka n'eme obi n-wute maka onwu Vivian

@ god-of-music
Nwanne kedukwanu ihe iji n'eme ihe a, nwata nwayi ahu I na ekwu maka ya biara ebe a maka ihe gbasara onwu nwanne anyi nwayi Vivian.
Biko, ekwekwala udi okwu a na threadia, o. Biko anyi anaghi ese okwu na threadia.

Idowuogbo: Hi guys, please check this out! We need your help... Thanks!

https://www.nairaland.com/1529785/rest-peace-vivianc/20#19820718

ID imeela
(thank you ID)

Idowuogbo:
Hi Guys,


We need your help!

Our Dearest friend VivianC is being laid to rest today. We are all in grief. Her family would be in bigger grief.

Its a trying period for them and we,her nairaland family would like to show them their daughter was loved and admired by a lot of people.

Please fellow nairalanders,let us come together and put a smile on the faces of those she left behind.

Nothing is too small....

P.S- For donations, please email myself, Kreamdiva, Cdamsel or the coordinator of Tehn -R231

Thanks and God bless!

aHi, my Dandy-Candy-ID
how're y'all doin' today? i'm so disturbed by the death of this our sister. another sad reminder of the fragility of human life. pls could you educate me on this Tehn business, i may want to give whatever little i have, i've realized that i dont have to be completeley successful before i start to give out stuff. someone could benefit from whatever little i could give. and more importantly, man no sabi when death go come, make i give before i die. . . . if little vivy could die like that. . . who knows. . . .

i'll also communicate with ifyalways

toshmann:
Ezigbo nwanne m nwanyi Mara mma nke ukwu, ihe a wu oru aka ndi iro m. embarassed
Otu a ka ha si n'agaghari n'agba ashiri megide m. Ha na emere m Anya ufu maka na m wu bobo cool

Ihe ndi a wu ashi. Muwa wu Toshmann nwa mama wu ezigbo mmadu. Kemgbe nne jiri mu m, amaghi m ihe gbasara nwayi, awu m virgin, n'eche patiently for my special one.
And thank god my special one abiala cheesy
Welcome wink kiss


vivianc: grin grin Inweghi nsogbu. I believe you.

Biko nu, oyi a na atu m ona atukwa ndi ozo? Anwuolam here! Eyirikwo m efe kariri 10, werekwa blanket cover onwe m but still ahu ka na ama m jigijigi. E-need-iri m iku nkwa kpu oku n'onu na abalia but ejego m confession wee kwe onye uko chukwu nkwa na ma agaghi eme ihe ojoor ozo.

But come to think of it, e-needi-kwaranum permanent standby heater, eh? Nke a mna ezurutu n'ohi sometimes eh, ona adikwa uto o but vely vely lisky. Aga m elebara okwu a anya tupu oyi atugbuo m na obodo.

toshmann:
heyi

olee ihe m nu ebe a n'emekwanu? shocked . . . my special one need-iri my presence m nuru here n'ele anya angry

Vibrant-Vivi. . . from today on, igaghi atu oyi again. . . iseeeee.
udiri oyi a na atu gi awughi ihe eji blanket emechi grin
and ihe ahu na ama gi jigijigi awughi true jigijigi grin . . . ihe ahu wu something else. . . aha ya wu irukwuru-irukwuru grin
ama m the thing . . o na eme m pieces cheesy
infact ahu emewela m irukwuru-irukwuru right now cheesy
vivacious vivendy biko bia kam meelaa go oyi a before agaba and co eburu wahala ha bata wink

vivianc: Tosh Tosh! Toshnwanyi! Tosh nwa bobo! Tosh umu nwa! Guy keduzi nke ichoro ka anyi mee quickie? Ka anyi mezie ya sharp sharp before Agaba and co abata ek kwa?
Ama m na echegharigo m but anaghi m eme udiri quickie a, ana m e-take-i my time hazie things ofuma. grin grin

Erm, okwa isi na ibu virgin? Anaghi m emekwa virgin guys o. Ha amaghi ka esi aku nkwa.

toshmann:
ighotaghi ihe m mean-iri. . . asi m awu m virgin na uwa m mbu grin
mana taa, virgin gbakwaa oku cheesy . . . . that m na agba virgin atlantic aputaghi na m wu virgin. . . . . ndi bi na virginia awubeghi virgin ma afokwa toshmann nwa mama cool
nne biko ngwa osetiala . . . shhhhh . . gbanyuo oku . . . . ofuwa gi uto. . . . . .otowa gi ufu. . . . ofuwa gi ufu gi gwa m ka m weputa ya, inugo . ujo atula gi, the thing enweghi okpukpu nu na ya. . . .irukwuruuuu-irukwuru- - - - uzeeeeeeee.. . . . . . . (lights out)

vivianc: grin grin Hia! Kedu udika iku nkwa bu nke a? Biko biko biko park-igodi one side jera. Gosi m your mma aha first ka m weigh-yie the thing.

Ihugo ihe mji na acho iga eluigwe? Ebe ahu ka umu nwoke mara nma ma nwekwaa ego no. Ha ma ka esi elete nwanyi ufoma, you know? Obughi this your bambambam 1 minute.

o, my soul weeps for my sister,
o vivi, my dear sister,
why hast thou gone away too soon,
o death, where is thy sting,
my heart bleeds for my sister,
why are the good ones taken everytime,
i know i cant question God, . . .. . but whyyyyyyyyyy

kreami diva: In shock,I dropped my phone and the sister hung up.

She complained of purging and throwing up and loss of appetite the last time we spoke.

Just spoke with the sister. The doctors said it was typhoid and malaria! She died yesterday.

[size=28pt]typhoid and malaria? in 2013!!!!![/size]

good quality health care system will make it impossible for this to happen in any reasonable society . . .
this is preventable death. that's what it is. and i'm sure the typhoid is from bad drinking water sources. . . . . when i say i HATE all these crooks in govt people think im being nasty. . . but i know the consequences of their looting.

but my people dont seem to appreciate the links btw lootocrats in govt and the hardship we have as a people
just look at this lost life, what a loss . . typhoid. . . . common malaria. .

ifyalways: Tosh, Skimpy na Fake, o dikwaru unu egwu. Unu eche na Maria na-egwu egwu or maybe anya unu erughi n'ihe odere ?

VivianC that was on this thread,having fun with all of us few weeks ago is dead. Onwu ajoka