₦airaland Forum

BetaThings: This happened in India, but it is not newsworthy on Nairaland. Why?
Because the offenders are NOT muslims

http://news.yahoo.com/american-tourist-gang-raped-northern-india-police-134622204.html?pt=tAD2SCT8P7
American tourist gang-raped in India!

Is it possible that the highlighted part is why it wasn't emphasized in nairaland ?

Everyone is sympathetic bc these chicks are pretty, what of ugly people wey de die everyday

Abi no be God create them

tintingz: Ehyaa...!! RIP to the twin sisters

Am also a twin... GOD protect me and my twin brotha o... amin

I get party tonight. Babes go plenty. Come with your brother, enough alcohol, I'll drive y'all back home after the party.
Time: 1.00am - 4.00am

todayguest: Madam beta place no dey! Hold ur man well. So mny gals full town dey luke for husband ooo. If u giv chance 'll take ur plce shap shap.Rememba u arent getin yonga. U nd ur husbnd na divorce na im una bee. My word ooo.

Na wa o na so marriage desperate reach for my dear Naija?

bukatyne: You need this Nigerian bible seriously!

The book of marriage will answer in details all the questions you have. It will also clear all doubts and interestingly it has the life application pages where you will see the kind of food, underwear and outing to do when been cheated upon, abused, lied to etc.

Lol
Somebody somewhere is making money. But I give it to Nigeria, marriage works better in Nigeria than here. My dear marriage here na nonsense.

bukatyne: Double post

Something is wrong with my phone today

coogar: she's not staying for thr hubby, player....
her kids would take his place - the husband would become a 2nd class citizen in his own home. her focus would shift to her kids......as long as the kids have a father figure to coast them along, the woman cannot regret much and the hubby isn't beating her so no danger to her life!



how many single mothers in the eyes of the society, have dignity in nigeria? how many of them are happy? emotional and sensual needs are academic points, it's not like there's any man that would provide such after she leaves. you want her to be changing men like toothpaste with her kids in the house? what sort of example would she be setting for her children?

You have a point though . I guess I've been away from home for long.

Single women full here

pleep: [size=30pt]YESTERDAY THOUSANDS OF BABIES IN THE CONGO DIED OF CURABLE DISEASES[/size]

And that na Congo alone o
We nova even talk of adults in Congo alone wey die yesterday.

I feel ya bro. Young girls dying from preventable MVA due to drunken driving after clubbing potentially deserves less sympathy

coogar: you know our society....
it's better to stay married in nigeria. there's a social stigma attached to single mothers...

And so she should remain unhappy for the rest of her miserable life?
This is the 21st century for crying out loud. I'm a man, if I don't like a girl, nothing she does can change that. I may like her actions, wish her the best, but if I don't have good emotional connection with her nothing can change that. If she fights to keep me, it's a lost battle I'll even be more scared she may get frustrated and poison me so no one will have me I she doesn't have me

she should persevere !!!
it's not like there's a knight in a shiny armour out there for her. she's got kids - her focus should be on them instead of fleeing her nest!

What about her happiness?
What about her dignity?
What about her emotional and sensual needs?
What about HER?
Abi no be God create am?

bukatyne: You obviously don't read the Nigerian bible!

#grab ya copy now!

Bible get nigeria edition ?

Some untimely deaths are a loss, some are a waste, this ones na waste.

What a life to waste. If they live with their parents nd were prevented from this clubbing they woulda been complaining of lack of freedom. But they would be alive

onila: DONT LET HIM GO

Fight for your husband

Marriage is NOT by force. If she fights for him when he doesn't care about her what does it make of her?

She's human for crissake, have some esteem and more importantly if you like fight like Hercules, if he don't want you, he won't give a damn and then you look like some wretched desperado that no one wants.

angelhair: Strange enough I'm not really in pain. It's just a tiredness in my soul. Really I'm tired.

emotional pain is a strange phenomenom. a "tiredness in my soul" is worse than physical pain. dont take it lightly.

We were up till 3am discussing every thing. As I said, he is denying that he isn't in love with her but I know he is. It's not like we are unhappy. He was calling her and didn't think I would ever see the calls.

marriage can be difficult at times. for you to be up at 3.00am discussing a marriage problem, is a sign that things ain't smooth anymore. but its also a sign of how much you value your marriage

But I will take ur advice of taking a week off. Just me no kids. Let me see how he would cope. We have been separated when the whole cheating thing blew up and believe me he knows I would leave him if he ever cheats again.

it's okay. Honestly I will pray for you tonight ( e don tey wey I pray o ) I feel Hurt to see young people in a difficult marriage bc I've been there before. And even though I ended my marriage, it was a painful decision that still hurts.

But there's nothing worse than an unhappy marriage. . . .
Sadly

angelhair: I agree. I always believed he and I had that kind of relationship. You know he Denys loving her. He says he was calling her cos he just wanted to talk to her cos he felt he cldnt talk to me. He still has the connection with her which I feel should have ceased a long time ago. I called her yesterday and threatened her and she kept maintaining that she doesn't have anything to do with him again so I'm sure it's just from his side. I know we need counseling and resume our daily prayer. We need God now cos I'm getting weak.

You can pray and go for counselling but right now it's not a balanced problem. You are in pain bc your marriage is hurting, he is in pain bc his lover is getting married. Can you identify the difference? It's not balanced. You need to let him know he can loose you and the kids too. You need to give him some space for some time. Leave, go to somewhere else. Stop sleeping in same room with him. If you are in Nigeria you may want to take a leave from work, go to the village or to some other city or anywhere for a week or two. Take the kids too if possible. If he doesn't miss you guys during this period, he's not for you and I would then advice you to stop fasting and divert your prayers towards another goal.

Marriage is NOT by force. And when it seems not to be going fine, DON'T push it. Like the old dictum says, release a caged bird, if its for you it will fly and come back, if its not for you, it will fly away. If this dude values his ex-lover to the point of jeopardizing his marriage and the future of his kids, better end the marriage now while you are still young and capable of finding another man, than spend unnecessary calories on prayer and fasting and burn cash on counselling.

coogar: this is a myth!
there's no special woman anywhere....if both parties work together, love would grow. a man who's divorced 4 times would tell you he thought each of those women were special at first before things went belly-up.

It's no myth, there's a special woman for Everyman. You will never know until you meet the one. There's a girl somewhere that you are compatible with, could love and be trusted and vice versa. Just that most women and men miss that partner. It's myth. My fathers generation was the last to enjoy this privilege randomly. In my generation, it's just a few guys that get lucky with marriage and have relatively "easy" marriage. But it's no myth. I'm old enough to educate younger adults on this issue.

Even Hitler had that one and just before suicide he granted her her greatest wish.

DailyNews: Lastly, don't think there is a better man out there cos 80 to 90% of married men in Nigeria cheat, the innocent ones are those that aren't yet caught. So don't feel Tina's husband is the best or more responsiblie, and don't go thinking- if I had married James, this wouldn't have happened cos like I said, it is sad though, and a bitter truth, majority of married men .

I was married for 4yrs, I NEVER cheated on my wife. (And i was a guy that had many female "well wishers" as a bachelor) The marriage ended for other sad reasons. Cheating IS NOT the only source of unhappiness in a marriage. I painfully discovered.

babyosisi: So Tosh dey deep like this

What women don't know is that inside the heart of EVERY man there is a spot for true love. It takes the right woman to bring it out and soften even the hardest Pharaoh.

SniperInADiaper: Mtchew! If my husband falls in love with another woman then his ass is gone. What kind of man does that?

Pls remind me never to marry you, or anyone who looks like you, or has same name as you etc

C'mon, the guy is in love. He's a victim of romantic accident he should be pitied and helped. Reminds me of former South Carolina governor.

@ topic. I don't know if I'm the right person to advice you, but I think you should move away from him a bit. Let him realize that there is a possibility of loosing you as well. Bc right now he believes his lover is slipping away but he still has you as guaranteed. He needs to appreciate how it's hurting you, and how it'll hurt his kids if his marriage is broken. Talk to a counsellor (I'm no expert but I have a history of failed marriage. It ain't pretty) . Don't let him take you for granted while he runs around for his lost love. Which kind soul mate.

Whatever happens, cheer up, smile, have close trustworthy friends you can talk to. And please don't kill yourself. Learn how to love yourself too.

quid: Ewoooo. Kedu ihe anyi ga eme wee kpesie okwu a.

Si ha lutara m nwa agbogho Oma Mara mma nke ukwu. Ha mee nke a, okwu ekpeziela onwe ya

Ha ma ihe m neediri, ha mere m ya or else . . . .

quid: Hmmm....olee ihe kpatara oji ano n'ala 247? Biko gwam

Mr quid ndewo
Hapu ndi Anya ufu na emerem jolosi maka na m wu bobo

adaobi123: what ? about it

tosh, its been long, how body ?

Body dey inside cloth. What's up? how are your kids? (Mr Cork and Boy Otele)
I see the children are growing gradually

Idowuogbo: Wassup!!!!!

Dindy-Dandy ID, ma Candy girl
Howdy babygirl ?

Been a little bit busy. Had to do extra work so they can let me have some 2 weeks summer break. You know I need to travel a bit this summer, and see some other parts f this country. And some new chicks too

Ha! Adaobi this ya new profile na wa o. Hope you know mr cork and otele are not legally old enough to see this kind photo

Where is ID?
Idowuogboshmann!!!!

Where is Ishimann?

Where are ma peeps?

[quote author=kayci_d77]Didnt know thaT GUY is this DAMN uGLY.... how will ladies cope standing in front of him....am already having nightmare in the afternoon [/quote]imagine how that guy will appear at night when nepa take light

[quote author=Texas.Cowgirl]You're the first NL celebrity that has impressed me.

Good stuff.[/quote]You mean I've never impressed you?
Ok, check this out;

www.picture-of-naralander-in-the-toilet/diarrhea

Y'all are busy attacking this dude but have you guys considered that he may be having a psychiatric disorder? Many people in Nigeria need psychiatric assessment on a regular basis.
But psychiatry ain't well developed at home. For a 21yr old dude ( his mates in the marines have been to Iraq and back 3ice) to claim he wants to celebrate children's day, with his fathers goat, is not normal. He needs help.

On another important note, I'm impressed nairalanders have not turned this thread into another tribal war. I hesitated before clicking on the thread but so far so good. Keep it up people

@ anonymous,
You're 25yrs, still young, you have a whole life ahead of you. The last thing you want is to be in a career that is depressing you.

Let me tell you something about healthcare, if its not from your heart. . . . . . . . . RUN AWAY FROM IT!!
It's hectic, if you thought medical school was rough, try a life of a doctor. I can't narrate here how life as a doctor could be( I don't wanna discourage young medics) but you can only do it if its from your heart.

At 25 it's not late to start afresh IF YOU HAVE TO!!
A career you don't like can reduce your lifespan and send you to an early grave. It's like marrying someone you don't like. Hell will seem better.

So think well if you really need to start afresh, and if you do, it's not too late to start afresh. I've seen people in their mid 40s starting afresh. Not kidding.

I wish I was 25

Cooldude Y2J: Bounty hunting seems to be a lucrative biz *dusting my AK 47

Poor you, I've already lotioned my 2013 Bushmaster
You wan try? AK 47 in this 2013? Better go back to my grandfathers era

Wey my maidugiri ticket sef, wey my bullet proof and otumakpu? All right, lets go make some money

ifyalways: Tosh okwu ugwo!
I ga-eburu uzo ga kwuo ugwo iji nwanne otele .

Otele obiara ebe a
Odika nwatakiri ahu agbawala ashiri. M ga Apia ya ihe very soon

Idowuogbo: Lwkmd!!!! U cheat! Booooooooo!!!

It's propaganda honey. Don't mind enemies of progress. I never cheated on his sister. We never dated.
We have always been just friends. I asked her out, she didnt accept, and so we were just friends, very good friends

That's all. I even took her little brother to the mall and bought him toys. And this is how he pays me back

otele: He's not my uncle
He is a liar!! He was going out with my sister when my sister was in Swansea and he was in Cardiff. My sister dumped him after she caught him. . . . . . Cheating
He came back but she was too heartbroken to have him back. They're still friends though. But just friends

adaobi123: you should edit your post

Indeed

otele: He's not my uncle
He is just kidding! He was going out with my sister when my sister was in Swansea and he was Cardiff
They later broke up. but They're still friends though. But just friends

Ok, edited and unedited version captured
So you've started bringing my private life history to nairaland without my permission, this boy!
I know whom to call.
Adaobi I saw your coaching job

[size=18pt]23 million what! [/size]

Men I'm heading down to Borno ASAP before umuafrika first me reach there come carry this money

gmyguy: guy you need to try throat cancer...and have condylomata acuminata for dessert,..pls google what that looks like...delicious cabbage

If guys have any idea what this looks like, and how it is associated with HPV, and how HPV nyafu nyafu for woman private part I no think say dem go embrace the thing like that.

But my people abeg, I wan ask one question, just one question o.

Those wey de use mouth for anus, una no de see poop there? Na wa for guys o.

One German chick been lick my ear one day like that, de lick de enter inside ear, I was so uncomfortable. It was so unnatural, then I refused to give her mouth action she come bite me for "there"