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TravelRe: A Visit To Abuja National Park & Zoo by TruthSpeaker: 7:21pm On Jan 27, 2020
[b]THE PLACE DOESN’T LOOK BAD FOR NIGERIA GENERAL POOR STANDARD. THE ANIMALS ARE NOT REALLY HUNGRY LOOKING. I THINK A MASSIVE EXPANSION IS URGENTLY NEEDED. THE VARIETY OF ANIMALS IS EXTREMELY LIMITED FOR AN AFRICAN COUNTRY CONSIDERING THE FACT THAT MOST OF THE ANIMALS ARE NOT IMPORTED FROM OTHER COUNTRIES.
OF COURSE TO GET HIGH PATRONAGE YOU NEED TO HAVE A WIDE VARIETIES OF ANIMALS AND MANY OTHER SIDE ATTRACTIONS. I CAN REMEMBER OGBA ZOO OF BENIN IN THOSE DAYS (TALKING OF SOME 30 YEARS BACK), SO CAN I REMEMBER LONDON ZOO (I VISITED 15 YEARS BACK). I SAW AN ELEPHANT FOR THE 1ST AND ONLY TIME IN MY LIFE AT LONDON ZOO, WHERE AT OGBA ZOO IN BENIN THERE WAS NO ELEPHANT.
A LOT OF RESOURCES STILL NEEDS TO BE INVESTED TO GET THE PLACE BOOMING. THE MANAGER DOESN’T SOUND CLUELESS WHICH MEANS HE DESERVES HEADING THE PLACE. IF IT IS CALLED A NATIONAL PARK & ZOO, THEN THE GOVERNMENT NEEDS TO INVEST A LOT TO MAKE IT A STONG TOURIST ATTRACTION. TOURISM INDUSTRY IN NIGERIA IS VERY WEAK AND LACKLUSTER. CORRUPTION WILL ALWAYS PREVENT NIGERIA FROM ADVANCING TO THE LEVEL WE OUGHT TO BE, TOO BAD.[/b]
RomanceRe: Man Gets His ‘ultimate Revenge’ On A Girl Dating Him For Free Things by TruthSpeaker: 6:07pm On Jan 27, 2020
12inchDickson:
let me tell you a story.
You don't have to Bleep every girl you take out, once u sense the hungry nature in the chick just move on. The revenge seem childish to me.
OF COURSE FUCKING THEM ALL IS NOT REALLY FEASIBLE. THE REVENGE WASN’T JUST BECAUSE HE WAS UNABLE TO Bleep HER, BUT RATHER BECAUSE SHE WAS TAKING HIM FOR A FOOL AND EXPRESSED IT TO A PAL. ARE YOU OF THE OPINION THAT FRAUDSTERS SHOULD ONLY BE ABANDONED AFTER BEING CAUGHT INSTEAD OF FACING JUSTICE? WELL I ADVOCATE FOR JUSTICE, SO THAT IT WILL SERVE AS A DETERRENT. THE ESSENCE OF THE REVENGE WAS FOR HER TO FEEL SOME PAINS AFTER INITIALLY LAUGHING ALL THE WAY.
CrimeRe: Death Sentence: Maryam Sanda Cries In Court As She Is To Die By Hanging by TruthSpeaker: 5:32pm On Jan 27, 2020
Yoighaman:
Son of former PDP chairman? How on earth do you want to escape such a verdict? In your next life, learn to control your anger and think deeply before you react...RIP in advance.

UNFORTUNATELY THERE WILL BE NO NEXT LIFE FOR HER TO EFFECT A CHANGE.
CrimeRe: Death Sentence: Maryam Sanda Cries In Court As She Is To Die By Hanging by TruthSpeaker: 1:52pm On Jan 27, 2020
WELL DESERVED JUDGMENT. SHE NO MORE LOOKS LIKE A SLAY MAMA. TIME TO GO SLAY IN HELL FOR VIOLENTLY KILLING YOUR HUSBAND.
CrimeRe: I Just Saved Two Lesbians From Being Lynched. by TruthSpeaker: 1:44pm On Jan 27, 2020
einsteine:
Yes they will.

I have seen near lynchings at Ekosodin for girls who were caught together.
THAT NAH UNIBEN OFF-CAMPUS AREA. I CAN REMEMBER MY OLD SCHOOL DAYS THERE IN BENIN CITY.
CrimeRe: I Just Saved Two Lesbians From Being Lynched. by TruthSpeaker: 1:22pm On Jan 27, 2020
SAME-SEX SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP IS NOT OUR CULTURE, HOWEVER THOSE THAT PRACTICE IT DON’T DESERVE JUNGLE JUSTICE.
CrimeRe: Maryam Sanda Sentenced To Death For Killing Her Husband, Bilyaminu Bello by TruthSpeaker:
THIS IS THE JUDGEMENT SHE DESERVES. WHEN YOU VIOLENTLY AND INTENTIONALLY WASTE A LIFE, YOU DON’T DESERVE TO REMAIN ON EARTH ALIVE. THIS WILL SERVE AS A DETERRENT TO OTHERS THAT THINK THEY CAN ACT STUPIDLY IN THE NAME OF ANGER. RIP TO YOUR LATE HUSBAND, NOT YOU.
PoliticsRe: Femi Adesina: Bombing Has Reduced, Nigerians Should Be Thankful by TruthSpeaker: 12:57pm On Jan 27, 2020
IDIOT SPEAKING. 5 YEARS AFTER TAKING OVER POWER FROM JONATHAN THIS IS ALL HE CAN SAY?
CrimeRe: Girl Who Resembles Actor In Jos Sex Video Faces Hostility (photo) by TruthSpeaker: 12:48pm On Jan 27, 2020
WITH POVERTY IN THE LAND 30,000 NAIRA MIGHT MEAN A LOT OF MONEY TO THE WOMEN INVOLVED. THEY WERE PROMISED MORE MONEY WHICH THEY NEVER GOT. BUT WELL THEY NOW HAVE TO FACE THE CONSEQUENCES OF THEIR ACTION. IT IS VERY UNFORTUNATE AN APPARENTLY INNOCENT LADY IS HAVING TO PAY THE PRICE FOR THE SINS OF OTHERS.
CrimeRe: Solomon Peters Stabs Patience Zakari To Death In Bauchi Over Phone Call (Graphic by TruthSpeaker: 12:30pm On Jan 27, 2020
This dude should be allowed to rot in jail before trial. The said clinic should also be investigated for negligence. How come they discharged her so soon and she later died of complications from the injury? Was there any doctor at all in that aboki clinic or it was a sharia one (male doctor > male patient, female doctor > female patient)?
Wasting a girlfriend’s life because of jealousy? Even if she cheated on him, does sharia law recommend death by stabbing? For not dying on the spot, they dude wouldn’t get capital punishment.[b]
Northerners seem to have more issue with anger control.
SportsRe: Messi's Look After 2-3 Loss To Athletico Madrid by TruthSpeaker:
eni4real:
Suarez is an inconsistent performer..

Barcelona is a club that deserves world class players..

Stop defining Barcelona by Suarez..
A player that will become silent in the UCL again.. Don't deserve all those overrated mention.. He is always injured any time Barcelona lose a major match!!!


That is mediocrity!!!!

As for Liverpool, how many games did they lose or draw??
Well, even your club understands that they are seriously missing Luis Suárez. What they are bidding for now is a striker, not a defender. They are ready to spend a whopping sum of €80M.

LUIS SUÁREZ HAS EARNED THE RESPECT OF THE CLUB. THEY WERE ALREADY THINKING OF A REPLACEMENT FOR HIM BEFORE HE SHOWED THEM THE STUFF HE IS MADE OF. 3RD HIGHEST GOAL SCORER IN LA LIGA WITH 11 GOALS IN 17 GAMES; HIGHEST ASSIT IN LA LIGA WITH 7 ASSITS. DON’T GET ME WRONG OH, I’M NOT A SUÁREZ FAN, NEITHER AM I A BARCELONA FAN. IF ANY THING, SUÁREZ’S INJURY BENEFITS ME, WHILE IT IS DETRIMENTAL TO YOU AND YOUR CLUB.

You keep talking of UCL, where was Messi and the rest to rescue the club when he wasn’t performing cool. Did he (Suarez) have to be the messiah?

Hope you now know you failed to identify the burning problem of your club.
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KINDLY READ THE LINK BELOW AND RESET YOUR IMAGINATION ABOUT YOUR BELOVED CLUB BARCELONA. THIS IS TODAY NEWS, WHICH MEANS I HAVE BEEN VERY CORRECT FROM THE WORD GO.

http://www.90min.com/posts/6544686-barcelona-make-80m-offer-for-monaco-star-wissam-ben-yedder?old_domain=ftbpro.com/90min.com/

CrimeRe: Danjuma Yahaya Alli: Man Dies On Top Of Lady During Sex Romp In Abuja Hotel by TruthSpeaker: 9:47pm On Jan 26, 2020
SEX ENHANCEMENT DRUG IS OBVIOUSLY THE CULPRIT, NOT A VAMPIRE PUSSY. MAKE UNA FREE THE WOMAN ABEG THE MOMENT AUTOPSY CONFIRMS SHE HAS NO HAND IN HIS DEATH. IF ANY THING, SHE EVEN NEEDS TREATMENT FOR THE PSYCHOLOGICAL TRAUMA SHE SUFFERED HAVING TO JERK OFF A DYING MAN ON TOP OF HER.
Music/RadioRe: Burna Boy Performs At The Grammys Reception Ahead Of The Ceremony by TruthSpeaker: 7:34pm On Jan 26, 2020
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Tranmere Rovers Vs Manchester United : FA Cup (0 - 6) On 26th January 2020 by TruthSpeaker: 7:19pm On Jan 26, 2020
MAN U CAME TO SHINE TODAY BECAUSE THEY KNOW THEY WILL HAVE IT REALLY ROUGH IN THE COMING GAMES. BESIDES FA CUP IS NOW THIER ONLY TARGET BECAUSE IT IS THE ONLY HOPE LEFT FOR THEM.
THE COACH IS ALSO TRYING TO SAVE HIS JOB BECAUSE JANUARY HAS REALLY BEEN ROUGH FOR HIM.
RomanceRe: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by TruthSpeaker: 3:27pm On Jan 26, 2020
HELLO DUDE, I UNDERSTAND YOUR PAIN & MAYBE FRUSTRATION. MANY PEOPLE WILL BE LIKE PHYSICAL BEAUTY IS THE LEAST IMPORTANT THING ONE SHOULD GO FOR IN A WOMAN FOR A WIFE, THAT CARACTER IS PARAMOUNT. TO AN EXTENT IT IS CORRECT BECAUSE LIVING WITH THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WITH A BAD CARACTER WILL FRUSTRATE THE HELL OUT OF YOUR LIFE. YOUR FEAR OF HER NOT BEING FAITHFUL MIGHT GIVE YOU HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE. THE ISSUE OF HAVING THE URGE TO CHEAT ON HER IN THE FUTURE WITH A MORE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IS VERY NATURAL. IT IS NOT EVERY TIME THAT PEOPLE THAT CHEAT GO FOR A MORE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, MANY TIMES THEY SETTLE FOR SOMEONE WORSE. FOR THAT UNA NAIJA THERE ARE VERY MANY UGLY WOMEN, SO IF YOU THINK UGLY WOMEN DON’T DESERVE A HUSBAND THEN YOU ARE EXTREMELY CRUEL.
LET’S FACE REALITY, SOMETIMES NOT BEING BEAUTIFY MOTIVATES WOMEN TO BUILD A GOOD CARACTER TO COMPENSATE FOR THE SHORT FALL. WHILE VERY BEAUTIFUL NIGERIA WOMEN WILL FEEL ON TOP OF THE WORLD AND ALWAYS BELIEVE THEY DESERVE THE RICHEST MAN ON EARTH. WELL, I’M MARRIED TO A VERY BEAUTIFUL WOMAN WITH WONDERFUL CARACTER AND WE ALREADY HAVE TEEN KIDS. I NOR DEY NAIJA SHA AND THE LADY ISN’T NIGERIAN EITHER.
GOING AHEAD TO MARRY THIS GOOD CARACTER LOVE OF YOURS SEEMS TO MAKE MORE SENSE. MISS UNIVERSE WITH GOOD CARACTER AND WIFE MATERIAL IS VERY DIFFICULT TO COME BY. HAVE YOU EVER TAKEN A CLOSE LOOK AT THE MIRROR TO ASK YOURSELF HOW GREAT YOU LOOK? IF YOU NOR PASS THE MIRROR TEST, ARE YOU WEALTH ENOUGH TO COMPENSATE FOR THE SHORT FALL?
DO YOUR MIND SHA, DON’T LET PEOPLE INTIMIDATE YOU INTO DOING WHAT YOU MAY EVENTUALLY REGRET.
SportsRe: Messi's Look After 2-3 Loss To Athletico Madrid by TruthSpeaker:
eni4real:
I know about Barcelona more than you!!!

If Karius was a Barcelona keeper, they will still keep him despite making horrendous mistake that cost the UCL trophy!!!

Barcelona defence is getting weaker day after day!!!

I guess you didn't watch the Copa dey Rey match against Ibiza , a 3rd division team!!!

The defence is a big problem!!!

What make Liverpool great was the purchase of Allison, VVD and resurgence of Matip!!!!

Attack win you games, Defence win you trophies!!!


Barcelona is too lackadaisical about their weak defence and it will continue to hurt them when it matter most!!!

You can't rely on the attack all time especially when it is largely a one man attack!!!

You are the only one giving Suarez importance, he was even outscored by Benzema last season!!! No UCL goals in 3 seasons until the first leg of the semi final match!!!

Suarez should be replaced...
Barcelona is your team not mine, so it is very acceptable if you know the team better than me. My judgment is based on facts, statistics and logic.
You know Barça so much and you didn’t foresee trouble when Suarez sustained a long term injury. When I voiced that Barcelona was going to suffer without Suárez your response was that Suarez could as well go with Valverde and that Barcelona was back.
The game against Ibiza ended 2-1 in Barcelona’s favor due to a last minute goal by Griezmann right? Did poor defense cost you 5 goals? No.
Football is won by who scores the highest number of goals and not by the team that seems to defend best. How do you ever expect to win a game without scoring? Your defense might be lacking but if your strikers aren’t scoring then you are in serious trouble.
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How do you win a trophies without winning games? Hope you know what you are talking about?
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Why are you still talking of last season, when the current season is already beyond midway. Suarez before his injury this season scored 11 goals in 17 games in La Liga with a goals per match ratio of 0.65, only behind Messi whose ratio is 0.93. Suarez has the highest assists (7) this season in La Liga with an assists per match ratio of 0.41 while Messi is behind with 0.40.[/size][size=8pt][/size][size=8pt][size=8pt][/size]

Suárez is a key man to the squad this season, statistics proves it.

I wonder what your rationale for replacing Suárez will be now. On the stats list, where does Griezmann that cost you guys €120M stand?

Liverpool is not good only because of defense, their strikers are very effective. They have scored 54 goals this season in EPL in 23 games.

PoliticsRe: Buhari To EU: We Will Defeat Boko Haram With Civil War Experience by TruthSpeaker: 9:21pm On Jan 25, 2020
THIS CLUELESS IDIOT IS JUST FOOLING HIMSELF IN THE PUBLIC. THIS IS HIS 5TH YEAR IN POWER AND NOT MUCH (IF ANY) SUCCESS HAS BEEN ACHIEVED AGAINST BOKO HARAM.
HE PROMISED HE WAS GOING TO CRUSH BOKO HARAM BEFORE HE WON THE FIRST ELECTION, AND THIS IS ALL HE CAN SAY 5 YEARS AFTER. JONATHAN WAS CALLED WEAK, BUT WAS HAS THIS LUNATIC DONE EVEN WITH HIS MILITARY PEDIGREE?
SportsRe: Messi's Look After 2-3 Loss To Athletico Madrid by TruthSpeaker: 9:11pm On Jan 25, 2020
eni4real:
Suarez should go away, he has been useless in the UCL!!!
Barcelona should buy a world class number 8 to replace him!!!

You mention Suarez absence as the reason for the loss!!!

Have you seen Barcelona defence recently...


How many of them can make the 1st team of top clubs in Europe right now??

Even Madrid is trying to support Legendary Marcelo with Mendy..

What has Barcelona done?? Nothing!!!

Pique is still Pique ..

Someone that should be displaced by a world class defender alrrady!!!

Barcelona has small club mentality!!!
So even with the stats of the game you still think your defense is your biggest problem? With 73% of ball possession you had only 5 shots on target, whereas the winners had 6 and scored 2 goals. Shots off target 6, against 2 by Valencia. Is it defenders you expect to also score goals? Your defenders are bad, that ok but why do your strikers fail to score? Suarez remains the striker you guys are missing, you have to admit it or keep suffering in pains.
Barcelona has spent hundreds of millions of Euros in the past few years but with little or no impact. I warned earlier on that after changing the coach, the lack of Suárez will also affect the team. Remember a penalty was even saved today, which means the game might have ended 3-0.

Music/RadioRe: Burna Boy Performs At The Grammys Reception Ahead Of The Ceremony by TruthSpeaker: 8:32pm On Jan 25, 2020
chocboi78:
not knowing his songs doesn't make u less Nigerian...however, ur consideration on davido been #1 is a personal opinion.. Like me now,, av seen davidos impact in the industry and heard his songs blasting on speakers but I definitely am not his fan
Well this issue is that in the past 2 decades, I have not spent up to 7 months in Nigeria. In the past 10 years not up 4 months, in the past 3 years not up to 2 weeks either. I tried him on YouTube but still his songs didn’t appease me. Those that like him should keep it up, I nor envy una one bit.
Music/RadioRe: Burna Boy Performs At The Grammys Reception Ahead Of The Ceremony by TruthSpeaker: 8:01pm On Jan 25, 2020
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Music/RadioRe: Burna Boy Performs At The Grammys Reception Ahead Of The Ceremony by TruthSpeaker: 7:40pm On Jan 25, 2020
IS IT THAT I’M NOT NIGERIAN ENOUGH? I DON’T KNOW ANY OF THIS DUDE’S SONG AND HENCE DO NOT IDENTIFY WITH HIM. I STILL CONSIDER DAVIDO TO BE NIGERIA’S #1.
SportsRe: Iheanacho's Lone Goal Sends Leicester Into FA Cup Fourth Round by TruthSpeaker: 6:52pm On Jan 25, 2020
Finally he made an impact.
SportsRe: Messi's Look After 2-3 Loss To Athletico Madrid by TruthSpeaker: 6:20pm On Jan 25, 2020
eni4real:
Suarez can go with Valverde of he wants tongue

Barcelona is back!!!
I told you Barcelona will suffer without Suarez. I guess the 2-0 defeat is a proof. After so much struggle in the past to win with minimum margin, the right thing eventually happen today.
RomanceRe: I Lied To Her That I Have Feelings For Her by TruthSpeaker:
AFTER THE FIRST NAILING, YOU MIGHT BEGIN TO FEEL AFFECTION FOR HER IF YOU FIND HER INTERESTING ON THE BED.
ALL RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT EXPECTED TO END IN MARRIAGE OR LONG TERM COURTSHIP. SHE MIGHT ALSO JUST WANT TO Bleep YOU ONCE AND FREE YOU. NOT ALL RELATIONSHIPS ARE LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT, SOMETIMES LOVE CRAWLS IN REALLY SLOWLY.
IF YOU FIND HER ATTRACTIVE ENOUGH TO END UP IN BED WITH HER, WHAT TO YOU HAVE TO LOSE GIVING IT A TRAIL.
GOOD LUCK DUDE.
FamilyRe: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by TruthSpeaker: 6:01pm On Jan 25, 2020
You can’t turn a bad girl good. But when a good is going bad, she is gone forever and you will mourn forever. Well after all said and done, this isn’t time for the blaming game. Father’s often pamper their daughters too much and when things go bad, they tend to shift the blame. We have not heard his part of the story though.
The current punishment is cool. But I bet you, the slightest opportunity they get they will go for a dick again. Don’t be surprised they begin to skip school to go for nailing with those bad boys. Getting them nearer to God might be a remedy. Then for your husband, try to make peace with him, if not a side chick will begin to get the better part of him or he will become addicted to prostitutes. You sound as if the dude is doing good financially.
I wish you the best. My only daughter wouldn’t end like this IJN, AMEN.
SportsRe: Messi's Look After 2-3 Loss To Athletico Madrid by TruthSpeaker: 2:48am On Jan 25, 2020
eni4real:
Stop calling money anyhow Jo!!!
Hahaha, the figures dey make your heart beat faster bah? When you convert these millions of Euros to Naira, nah there the real heart attack dey show up.
FamilyRe: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by TruthSpeaker: 9:36pm On Jan 24, 2020
PaAdu02:
Hello brother, I went thru this phase,but I tried till I conquered this phase.
Try to get customised raised bed for the two kids beside ur family bed in ur room.The bed will be taken off in the morning and placed back at night,my kids are 6 and 4 years respectively, and they sleep in our room,but on different bed,if possible, reduce the size of ur family bed to be able to contain the bed u re making for the kids.You know what,most women like ur wife and mine do not care ,they like this phase,morealso,they too are going thru post baby depression
YOU LIVE IN A ONE ROOM APARTMENT? IF NO, THEN IT IS SENSELESS HAVING A 6 AND 4 YEARS OLD SLEEP IN THE SAME ROOM WITH YOU AND YOUR WIFE.
YOU WANT YOUR CHILDREN TO WITNESS YOU HAVING SEX WITH YOUR WIFE AT SUCH A TENDER AGE RIGHT? WILL YOU PERMIT THEM TO WATCH PORN MOVIE?
DO YOU THINK IT IS EVERY TIME SOMEONE LIES ON THE BED WITH HIS/HER EYES CLOSED THAT THE PERSON IS SLEEPING?
IS IT GHOST (100% SILENT) SEX YOU HAVE WITH YOUR WIFE? THIS YOUR SUGGESTION IS THAT OF A ONE ROOM ACCOMMODATION MAN’S MENTALITY. THIS DUDE HAS ALREADY SAID HE HAS MORE THAN ONE ROOM.
I HAVE A COUPLE OF KIDS AND THE 2 & 3 YEARS OLD SLEEP IN THEIR OWN ROOM AND USE A DIFFERENT TOILET FROM MINE.
FamilyRe: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by TruthSpeaker: 3:29pm On Jan 24, 2020
bukatyne:
I was shocked a lot of posters think children should share same bed with their parents in a normal marriage.
Only mumu posters think it is right
FamilyRe: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by TruthSpeaker: 3:28pm On Jan 24, 2020
Prosper82:
I appreciate all the helpful and advice / criticism. It's what I needed from you all.

I cook 40% of the time. I always do the laundry, and wash the dishes at least half of the time. Whenever possible I take our oldest out so she can get a break from at least one of the kids.

The truth is that Something my wife does frequently is she will say something implying that we will have sex after she put the children to bed then when the moment comes she will either just ignore it and not act on what she said earlier or she will come up with some reason not to have sex.

The other day she said she would come over to me, but fell asleep with the kids, and I don't feel like waking her up to come have sex with me. she's a full time house wife and I realize she's super exhausted taking care of the house and two kids all day.

Last night I came back from work she straight up say we should have sex later and I helped out bathing our baby . Then she started cooking , while I had the kids. When she was done she took the kids to bed and I started ironing our clothes. After the kids fell asleep she came out cleaned the living room while I was still ironing . By the time we were done, it was 9.30pm Apparently, she wanted sex but at the same time she was on the phone with her sister. I was exhausted so I just went to bed. And that's how it goes.

I'm not entirely against attachment parenting, but the co-sleeping part has honestly created some resentment in me. Maybe I'm being selfish for feeling this way, but I feel relegated. She's a great mother, and I'm really lucky that my children have such a loving and caring mother. I just wish our marriage was a little bit like it was before having any kids. I guess, as some of you have said, I haven't fully realized what it means to adapt to parenthood.
You sould like a responsible and understanding man. That co-sleeping part is madness and shouldn’t be condoned. In the first place at no age is it accepted for kids and parents to sleep on the same bed. Many infants have died as a result of asphyxiation due to their parents rolling over them while sleeping on the same bed. Then healthy kids above 2 years need not share even the same room with their parents. I have a couple of kids, so I went through all. After my wife breastfeeds my infant and he sleeps off, I lift him and take him to the baby cot. Nothing like poor him, let him sleep with me. The above 2 years sleep in their bed in another room.
There is no doubt that parenthood alters the normal sex routine, but it shouldn’t be because you have everyone sleeping on the same bed as though you live in a one room self contained accommodation with just one bed. The 9 years old individual will very likely cry at first when told to sleep in that famous other room (room meant for Aisha Buhari), but you need to be hard on her till she gets it.
I hope you wife will figure out shortly that she is almost tempting you to get a side chick to derive sexual pleasure or even to begin to patronize prostitutes?
All is well, get you wife to do the right thing. You matrimonial bed is not a family bed for all to sleep on at night everyday. Don’t forget that plenty sex without precautions could land you a 3rd child.
FamilyRe: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by TruthSpeaker: 2:49pm On Jan 24, 2020
Vortex369:
Well, your last line was a question: What I think?

Are you sure you really want to know what I think?

Since you asked for it, then I have to tell you what I think and the reason for my conclusions.

I think you are stupid, and I am not joking. I think you are one of the stupid husbands who have no idea what Fatherhood means and what being a real man in your home entails and how to be a husband to your own wife.

The reason I think you are stupid, is because at this stage in your Life, when your wife is strugggling real hard to bond with the young kids you still are worried about your silly sex life.

You have failed to be an alpha male, a real man, a true husband, who will cuddle his wife and his children and generate happiness for your wife. What bothers you is sex. Do you have any idea that it is sex that brought those children to this world, and when they come, you now sound as if those kids are inconvenience for your silly sex life. Do you even know how silly it sounds?[/i]

My advise is that you grow up. Call your wife and kiss her then apologize for complaining about Sex, and move into your bedroom and nurse those children to reach an age of grace.


[s]It is not you that should be complaining of sex dimwit. If your wife needs sex, then become creative, you can make move in the kitchen, bathroom, toilet, under the bed and even at the BQ for a change.
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[s]You must not come here and lament about this nonsense again.[/s]

Do we not have real men again in this forum that will chastise these Indomie men?[s][/s][i]


[s]Take charge of your home and bear all inconveniences. Life is not a place for perfect joy and happiness. Embrace the sorrows and pains.[/s]
What a mad comment. His wife is struggling really hard to bond with the young kids by insisting they all sleep in the same bed with him? Common sense seems to be evading your brain. It is very wrong for either of the kids to share the same bed with the couple all night. You sound like someone that grew up in a face me, I face you Lagos set up so you probably witness sex at an early age.

Alpha male, real male, true husband to you means a man that sleeps with his wife and 2 children all night in the same bed all year round bah? Your mumuhood nah carry come abeg, I now understand.

What sounds silly is the fact that you are not getting it that those kids have no business sleeping in the bed with their parents.

Poor you, you should rather be recommending both kids get accustomed to sleeping in their bed and cot respectively and in the assigned rooms. 8 years old should sleep in a different room, while the 7 months old should share the same room but not bed (instead remain in the baby cot).

He shouldn’t complain of lack of sex with his wife right, he should rather go get a side chick or hook up with prostitutes bah? He didn’t buy a queen size bed to accommodate the family at night, rather he bought it to enjoy it with his wife. He also spent money buying both a cot and another bed and he doesn’t live in a self contained one room accommodation. What age do you consider to be age of grace? The kids should keep sleeping with the couple till then become adolescents bah?

You are the one that need to earn common sense to get his point of view and understand his wife isn’t handling the issue correctly. The excessive and unnecessary bond she thinks she is building with the children to the detriment of her husband is insane. Kids should not be accustomed to sleeping in the same bed with their parents.

With Indomie brain, how can you identify a real man?


All your trash talk only proves you can’t even effectively take charge of your own home because you fail to ever identify the problems on ground. With ordinary common sense which you lack, you could make life more joyful and happy. Calling his wife to order will resolve the issue.

Step up your brain and avoid insulting someone who only presented his problem and asked for people’s opinion.
FamilyRe: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by TruthSpeaker: 7:06am On Jan 24, 2020
Brooke60:
You need to join her in the parenting.

The reason for leaving the room is flimsy.

When both of you start the parenting together, you will start enjoying your marriage.

When you say join her in parenting, what do mean? A mother that sleeps with an 8 years old child & 7 months old baby on the same bed with her husband at night is highly irresponsible. It has nothing to do with good parenting in any way. You will be surprised if you get to know the number of infants that die yearly due to sharing the same beg with their parents. Rolling over a new born baby while you all sleep could be fatal. Even if the 8 year old chid is an slowpoke, there no reason whatsoever to justify sharing the same bed at night with both parents. I have children too, so I will not buy nasty ideas.

Reason of leaving the room is flimsy, really? Why on earth should 4 people keep sleeping on the same bed when the accommodation is not a one bedroom self contained setting with only one bed? It is very wrong and the dude did the right thing since his over protective but sick wife will not do the right thing. The kid has her room and her bed and should therefore keep away from the parents bed at bed time.

The wife is the culprit in this situation, she need to get things right. Maybe when a 3 child comes from a side chick, then she will gain common sense.
FamilyRe: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by TruthSpeaker: 2:49am On Jan 24, 2020
Well young man, we have been there before. I will start by telling you that you’re a bit lucky you all sleep in the same bed, if not you might have had maybe your 4th child by now. Now let’s get more serious, you guys need to train your children to keep to their bed. I already have a couple of children so I know how it worked for me. When my 1st son was born, I put his baby cot in my room. After breastfeeding I always returned him to the cot. My wife wasn’t too happy with the idea but I imposed it. Many infants have died because their heavy parents suffocated them while sleeping on the same bed. Before the age of 2 my children all started sleeping in a different room from mine. It is all about discipline. Children shouldn’t be over pampered, they have to taken of that extreme comfort zone when necessary. It is not too late taking the right decision.
Wish you the best of luck while you try to readjust to do what is right.

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