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djon78:
True test of life is not when things are going Rosy. But you know reality when things are not going fine.

I believe it is even better for a man to start his marriage from when things are tough

That way, you will know your spouse early enough. Know her antecedents, so you will not be surprised

womenareapess:
should he start kidnapping your families so that he will get the required amount of money to start business that will give him edge over that ape

You think life is like a niaja movie wereby you just suddenly acquired wealth and live happily ever

Thinks like a man and stop thinking like a vagina! During trials Like this, that's when you know the monters you married as a wife

Is like you and those female baboons doesn't really understand the concept of marriage and family.

I will never advise my enemy to marry a naija women!

womenareapess:
you people will be marrying those animals called NAIJA WOMEN, what do you expect for those animals

Leave those baboons alone you guys won't hear!
Just because those female baboons has brea.st and a hole doesn't make them reason like humans

Bluewitch:
In as much as you're right, the wife is wrong....
And Op from the text, she wasn't even working when you were working...

What I see is she's exhibiting some selfishness...what concerns you and taking care of her... Doesn't she have hands and legs.
Marriage is to support each other...
At least support your husband till he's strong probably if her husband dies shey she'll go to his grave and flog him because he ain't taking care of her...

November24:
Foolish talk
.
I earn more than my hb and I honor and support him... Even pay fees. A woman that love u will die for u... What is food?

November24:
Baby talk ...
He married a wrong woman.

kmcutez:
The lady is working and paying the bills, and you still expect her to cook for you and do all the housework? That’s why she is frustrated. The workload is too much. You should play her role, since she is playing your role.

Olayetan:
You were spending your savings till you spent everything and you were depending on your wife's salary to keep up, i will blame you for not being man up, you could have looked for something to start up with that savings so as to be making little till you get back on your feet.


I'm also facing similar with my fiancée but I'm definitely cutting the relationship cux it has shown, she's only being caring when there's money.

faoogoke:
I was jobless for over 5 years.

Me and my wife struggled through it.

It was very hard and tough but we struck together.

Now God did it for me beyond our imagination.

I brought her a car for her faithfulness.

All women at not the same

Useku:
This is always the case when a guy loses his job or business.

Action plan, apply for your 25% pension fund.

Start a biz immediately, no matter how small.

Channel all your energy on the biz and provide only feeding allowance for now while your wife takes other bills or fork off from your house.

If your below 40 try searching for another job but if your above 40 face the biz squarely and grow it.

Lesson

If you got a job under 30, ensure you get a land on the outskirt of your city and fight to build at least a miniflat before spending any rubbish money on wedding!

Take a loan, suffer, but have a place you can hibernate in the event of any unfortunate incident.

Wives are never good back up plans,they will definitely desert you when life gets tough!

Don't spend a dime on marriage until you have secured yourself!

And if you are already married now with a working spouse, cut your current family expenses, force your wife to pick bills while you hurriedly get a small house for the family.

Any woman wet no gree cooperate,discard her sharply.

If you sacrifice your all,and nothing to fall back on,woman go abuse you,leave you when better option shows up while you fit develop bp,stroke and finally poof.

Stay woke bras!

Happy international men day!

slowice:
Na Yoruba man

e just dey shout anyhow, ahhhh emi? Ahhhhh waselese ooo? Ahhhhh emi tunde makanaki


Him brain go cool for prison ode man

Jemmysax:
Everybody is a potential werey in this country.

Paragon311:
An organized person can hardly miss his flight.

People with lackadaisical attitude do not understand planning ahead of time..

Inception:
Village people right now :

Nonpartisan1:
He must be an ipob terrorist. No two ways.

Thunderfayayou:
Mine was #149k last September 11th 2020
It still feels like I lost my soul mate.

Access Bank staff was just looking at me like cinema while I complain. All they did was point to a mallam rolling himself on the floor. He just lost 4m


NIGERIA jaga jaga!

Babara1994:
There is a big difference between being fat and having a big backside. Madam, you're fat!

Candidlady:
Yoruba ppl and ugliness!


tueh god4bid

Bigredmachine:
The major problem of blacks, is not the colour... But the mindsets

People like this will still open their mouth like fools and say politicians are corrupt...

Ok does it mean she will never buy meat in this life again if she had succeeded

On Sunday this lady will go to church and be forming holy holy up and down... It's well with blacks

Omoluabiii:
Dont ever, ever in your life,
i repeat, dont ever ever in your life, relocate your familiy from here to an european country with the aim of settling down there permanently, you will surely have problem at last.
The best you can do is take her on vacation with your kids, to blow that shallow mind a little, then come back to your country, or
If you hit a fortune, relocate to the vgc or the mega city of that same country, that enough....
Over there, the rules are different from here, a small quarrel or arguement will land you in police custody straight.
Over there you manly right has been narrowed to a thin line, ready to cut at anytime...
Relocating totally to a foreign country is not favourable to the man most times,
remain where you got married.
You can travel over there for vacation or tourism with her and come back, dont ever try to settle there, you go smell pepper.
You dont try to clean the mouth of a viper,
these ladies re viper, tame them in your own courtyard.
A word is enough for the wise

adioolayi:
You see why you need to take good care of yourself and enjoy the fruits of your hard earned labour while you are alive

If you like, amass the entire wealth of this world....You will not sleep on more than a bed at a time, be in more than a room, a car at a time. You won't wear more than a pair of shoe, a set of cloth at a time...you can have varieties of food choices, but you can't take more than what your belly allow ...Why the hell is the unending rush for this things, especially, when God has blessed you beyond average Just relax and enjoy...no kill yourself!!!

The dead body is still at the morgue ....and this is what he deserve after toiling day and night to better the life of his family

Lordsonn:
There are a lot of benefits for men:
1) If your wife died, all her properties belong to you.
2) If your wife dies, you are the one to decide where and how to bury your wife, not her family members.
3) Court wedding stops every family members from interfering in your marriage matter. The parents of your wife do not have a say in anything that concerns your marriage.
4) Court wedding take away every responsibility to your in-law from you. You are not under any obligation to buy anything for your in-law or do anything during burial of any of them
5) Whoever interfere in your marriage relationship is liable to 3 months imprisonment including your wife's mother.
6) If the husband dies, the properties automatically belongs to the wife and children. No family member will come and reap where they did not sow. Even the father of the husband have no say in the properties of the deceased person.

I did Court wedding and I'm enjoying it. Christmas is coming, I have no responsibility to give anything to in-laws and I mean it. I don't even go to greet them and don't want them in my house, because it is not a statutory obligation under the marriage Act.

Kelvin30286063:
You're right. Interestingly, you can't steal a Samsung phone and use it. I just need to login to my Samsung plus account and lock the phone with the imei

EndBuhariNow:
e no sweet nah... toto wey get enzyme

EndBuhariNow:
PuSsy wey no sweet self

Aparche:
I don't care whether you claim to be Christian, Moslem, Atheist, Agnostic...

One thing I can deduce from your comment is that you're EVIL.

Your heart is FULL of WICKEDNESS.

Afamsi:
He is probably suspecting her of going for away match. You know some people can think anything and impatience is a bitch. The law of an eye for an eye should be applied so as the rid the society of beasts in human form

Emeskhalifa:
Nawa ooo

So you mean after a minimum of 4yrs in the university, na to come dey do pos with umbrella and chair?

It is well sha