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valves:
You need to understand intersexual dynamics. ladies (and guys too) have a timeline, but most are oblivious of it until much later in life when it's almost too late.

Ladies are at their peak period when they are between ages 18-24 (for some it extends to 26). At this stage they are approached by all kinds of guys, obviously because they are young and beautiful, but this attention they get makes them to feel like they are on top of the world, like goddesses and gifts to humanity. Among those approaching at this stage are people who genuinely want to settle with them for life, but they are not ready to forgo all the attention they are getting from the other guys. They basically want to explore and date different people.

When they approach ages btw 28-34 they realise that they are no longer as attractive as they used to be and are not getting the attention of guys as before (this is the epiphany stage). Then they become desperate to settle down but most guys/suitors have already gotten married or switched their attention to much younger ladies. So the top guys they were interested in during their peak period are no longer available to them. Most ladies at this stage will still adamantly refuse to lower their standards and settle for someone who isn't (in their minds) "up to their (unrealistic) standards", and they keep aging while waiting for "Mr Perfect."

For guys the story is different. Guys peak around 32-36 years. At this age they have worked very hard and made money, are financially independent and ready to settle. But most of them will settle for ladies who are younger (ladies in their 20s), only a handful will go for ladies in their 30s.

Also, our generation is losing it. Some ladies find it hard to keep a man because they do not know their roles as women. They have consciously or unconsciously become hard-core feminist. Reality is most men don't want to settle with such ladies.

Summary is no lady will truthfully say that guys (well-intentioned guys) never approached them in their twenties (peak period). But they are on top of the world at this stage and belive they have all the time in the world and can attract anyone just because they are young and beautiful.

If you are a lady in your 20s (especially mid 20s) pls while you are getting all the attention from guys try and identify a potential suitor to settle down with. The older you get the more difficult it becomes.

Bnaira77:
Dear nairalanders happy sunday to you all. The reasons for my subject is about spiritual matters I hope you all will enjoy what I'm about to share with you. Thanks anyways

The scripture says blessed are those who hear the words and do them they are like a wise man who built his house upon the rock Matt 7:24

I'm saying this because I've really been trying to practise the word of the LORD since ive committed my life to the LORD, following the men of God on youtube, teachings like Prophet T.B Joshua, Bishop Oyedepo, Benson Idahosa, E.A Adeboye e.t.c Most especially Prophet T.B Joshua ( R.I.P Man of God)

There is one of his sermon on youtube which says how to be filled with the Holy Ghost. I love this teaching so much that I watch it and practise it over and over again but now I'm tired I mean practising it, why because I was so much in love with the Holy Bible before I started watching the teaching and after I've been practising it, it is like so hard and strange for me to read, study my Bible again.

Tho the teaching really helped me groaning, singing psalms in the spirit, talking to myself in psalms and hymns.practicing it whereby I got my healing via the teaching. I noticed my heart was cleaned that it manifested in the outside. In my chest there are strange things that I had not seen before and at my back there are also strange things that was not there so now my question is am I filled with the Holy Ghost ?

1. My body, spirit and sould is so strong now but I cant sit and study my Bible unlike before
2. I cannot read or study my Bible like I used to after practising the teaching
3. I no longer fall in Love with my Bible like I used to because I've practised this... Am I filled with the Holy Ghost?

I feel exhausted after practising the teaching for the past 3-4 months.

Has anybody gone through this spiritual process or its spiritual boriness or spiritual depression

I feel tired when I'm about to study the word unlike before please help me where I can study the word from Morning till night... na wa oo

I want to go back to that peace

Your opinion is highly prioritized
Ps. I won't sleep at night for the past 8months and more following the scripture Thessalonians 5 vs 5

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Baddestguyp:
have you watched it yet?
I've downloaded it but haven't started yet cos I'm very busy...
Can't wait to watch

November24:
As sweet as it sounds,it's not biblical

God rewards nice people...
Not wise people.

Matthew 5:44
King James Version
44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;

Golan007:
Story.

What is the range of the walkie talkies you speak of?

Can it be encrypted?

Are the channels not open for all to listen in on?

Chuky7:
A neighbor of mine not married stayed single has children out of wedlock I once asked him why he said his family believe that as far as you can take care of them no problem. he believes in going the unconventional way as marriage no too dey favor man. you pay bride price all bills are on you. you take care of your new family. but as a non married man his only concern are the kids and the baby mama.

What do you think of this lifestyle. I dey reason am.

It's not a death sentence for a child born out of wedlock nothing really changes just traditions you are conditioned to for no reason.

adebwalex:
It is only God that will help us, if salaries were increase triple timevpeople will not have complain. Tge same salaries with increment in comodities is killing. And this government keep deceiving them self that they are fixing the country. Pls dont commit suicide oooo, One day Nigeria go better....

Jman06:
All these doubting Thomases haven't seen anything. There's spiritual realm people!!!! I have been there!


If I tell y'all that I have experienced leaving my body on many occasions, you'll say it's OBE. Even scientists aren't sure of their stands on the many debates about the so called OBE. They're just hypothesizing.

This story might be true, it might also be just the op trolling. Doesn't stop the fact that the spiritual realm is a reality.

Shalom

Righteousness2:
She was Absolutely right! That is How it is meant to be.

Except you wanna Deceive yourself,You cannot Profess JESUS Christ and leave that out.
Culture cannot substitute the Place of the Church.
We are Belivers in Christ and until you are wedded before the Body of Christ you don't have a Complete Marriage.

That is Exactly what happened for my sisters.

These things are known right from the introduction.

emmeyen:
Reading this article made me remember one guy abi na girl like that. She claimed to be a girl but looking at her you would know she was born a man. She had muscles and hard looking legs. Seeing her on skirt was just funny with the behind so flat and stiff. Then she will now tie scarf on the head and rub lipstick. Even everybody knew the girl don miss road for gender choice. Now i think i understand what that kind of person must be going through. They say you are a girl but your body is telling you that you are a man. Maybe if parents of these kind of children are educated, they could be raised better. Transgender is different from being gay please.

OBUKOMENA:
Good evening nairalanders! I hope you had a good day?

So, let me just go straight to my reason for opening this thread, and I hope I would be able to convey my thoughts impeccably:

It seems like some of our people who travelled to Germany aren't doing so well after all (I stand to be corrected, though!)
I have a friend over there whom I am preparing to go meet. This guy has been there since 2017. He hardly calls me on normal call. He would rather call on WhatsApp. Reason being so that he could get in touch cheaply. The first and only time I asked him to send me something, he told me pointblank he didn't have.
Just this afternoon, I heard a colleague's father just came back to Nigeria from there after 21 solid years! He had abandoned his wife and children here in Nigeria. If he was doing so well over there, would he not have arranged for his family to come over and stay with him - at least?

I have been worried, even before I heard this colleague's father thing: I don't know what I am going to meet at the friend's place; I don't know what life is like over there - how to cope in a non-English speaking environment. I don't know how long it's going to take me to make it over there and reconnect with my family. This news about my colleague's dad also increased my worries.

So, I decided I would come on here to ask: Aren't these red flags as regards traveling over there, especially with the hope that when i get there, after 2-3 years, I would bring in my family.
Anyone here knows about life in Germany?

Easylion3569:
If only i had know. Now everything i have worked for is trying to fade away

kindredspirit:
Seems you don't know nwaAmaikpe. He's nairaland's resident idiot.

Doradorwa:
It's so unfortunate I tell you sir.... The comment recks of a misogynism.... Total shame

Dpundict:
For that nyash to be shaking like that when she is twerking, do you know the amount of grease, crude oil, akamu, and kneading that it takes? Abeg make una leave her for us wey need her o!! If her husband comot sef that will mean -1, because we wen wan chop queue up dey wait. Some of you blaming her now dey her followers dey wait for the next twerk video to drop. Abeg Jane no mind them. Na man wey get baby sense cause this one. Mature men chop and keep mute on it. I am an isoko and I doubt most of what I heard in the audio because if her husband fully paid her bride price and did the traditional stuff then she can't do shit with another man unless she has probably gotten some juju to avert the consequences of that act. Do you know it is a taboo for another man to touch a married woman's waist or step over her cloth too? These reasons makes me doubt it though it is possible the shit happened before her marriage.

shogsman:
Oh ruby rose,of course I forgot, God-damn bastards

shogsman:
What's next,a lesbian bat woman,or Batman having sex with joker, demented people.
They won't let kids be kids

Richhard:
Thanks.

femi4:
Know your History well....Oluikere ruled as a chief not a King. Ogaga came to Ikere and rescued them from war and they all agreed to crown him as the first King in Ikere

justified007:
Government and their nonsense abracadabra. This is how they deliberately set the state on fire and create problems among the citizens.


Since the new recognized king is presiding over a small and a particular (odo oja) community out of the larger ikere Ekiti community , it is wrong for the new king to be bearing the title of Olukere of Ikere because that title automatically grant him power beyond his Odo-oja community. I won't be surprised if the Ikereland go up in flames because of this nonsense

mrrandomguy:
The person should help etranzact.

ddeola:
I like this company dem come out with facts and references for independent confirmation. I guess some elements hidden somewhere are just trying to demarket the company. I remember Nasco wafers, Nasco biscuits with different flavours strawberry, vanilla, banana, etc, Nasco cornflakes. Those of us that were born in the 70s and 80s know wassup.

Lostchild:
I was avoiding my past.
I was avoiding the hubby

In 2014
I was falsely accused of f'vck f'vcking someone I was helping

It almost led to a fight if not the fact that I was very calm and meek.

I had to avoid helping people around me to save my peace

ARKLASTECH:
Hello everyone, good day
I have been trying to Verify my account details, so that I download my PPA letter, I do get error about too many request which I believe is normal for every one but I think when my request is supposed to push through I get another error message "please update your date of birth on you profile"... And I check on my profile, my date of birth is there and correct... What could be the problem please... Thank you

I'm i the only one with this issue and what can I do... Help pls.

Attached is the error message and also, a screen shot of my profile wall with my date of birth intact