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You can as well pray that you as a parent won't train a child to be a disgrace to you

Kriss216 oya o, food have come.

Kriss216:
How did you know you both are single now? You believed the words of a Nigerian girl?

You're in for a long ride, bro. Guard your heart diligently.

Zukwanike nwoke! Zukwanike!!!

Must you dissuade him by fire by force?
Remain single na,why drag another person.

MisterKennedy:
Hmmm but sweetie you know that if a man is a mummy's boy that means he has more potential of treating you right.... You have a 99% chance of not being with a wife beater

so you feel MUMMY'S BOY is better than wife beater?
A man that would for every action seek his mum's decision rather than take his stance as a man isn't any better biko .

Bmaster:
why you shouting devil like its a new word to you.

For your info,devil is the root cause of all evil men(human being)perpetrates on earth(both intentionally and unintentional).take away devil from amongst us and see how beautiful the Paradise you made outta the earth is!

So no dey sound woke!

who created devil?

Different things can make him still live with his mother, first know the reason.
If he is living there, cos he is a MUMMY'S BOY, straight up I go japa

Bmaster:
why you shouting devil like its a new word to you.

For your info,devil is the root cause of all evil men(human being)perpetrates on earth(both intentionally and unintentional).take away devil from amongst us and see how beautiful the Paradise you made outta the earth is!

So no dey sound woke!

not devil my dear.

So each and every one of us have devil? cos you can't tell me you've been a saint all your life.
Devil is not the root cause of all evil.

But first read isiah 45:7

ExcelDBM:
Oh so you see how you women are funny, is it not your wish that men become stupid like will Smith so you can manipulate him and wh0re around as you wish?

your mindset is absurd...smh
Sorry can't continue wit this conversation.
Try not to be one sided, stop acting like you are the victim, like y'all are saints.
How can you say it's the wish of women for men to become stupid, where do you get all these notion from sef? To manipulate and LovePeddler around? You feel that's what women do? So myopic of you, I must say.

ExcelDBM:
Head of house that is abused or sometimes deposed of his status? I have no pity for men who allow their wives to control their homes when they're there shouldering expenses. A man will feed, clothe, house, fund a women till eternity without making noise and will still endure abuse but the moment a wife pays a bill then even the creatures in the deepest part of the Pacific Ocean will hear her voice. Be using words like "I deserve to be taken care of" "I deserve to be pampered" "i deserve to be treated like a woman" yet with all her artificial nails and whatever will refuse to do her responsibilities with flimsy excuses, wh0re around and at the end of the day allow the innocent man father a child or children of another man or men. Look at Will Smith for example.

so in the case of will smith, Jada is to be blamed for his stupidity? Jada made it obvious that she didn't love him, still he keeps going on with her, and you are blaming her?
Na you know where you dey meet this kine women o

subsidywise18:
Yes and one man sleeping around does not mean all men are scum.

majority of men are

Kriss216:
They always have sense during their evening newspaper era. Confused gender!

y'all be feeling like alpha and omega, when it comes to bearing the responsibilities, Una go begin complain
Smh

Bmaster:

blame it on the devil,
Or better still don't be selective next time,just categorize all,no exceptions

devil? Did you say devil? Lmao.... nothing wey I no-go hear.

subsidywise18:
Sleeping around is a man and woman thing.

It takes two to tango

His wife just put to bed for crying out loud!!!
What sort of fvckrey is that? That particular man is a scum

Men are what?
Men are scum
Except my male relatives sha

ExcelDBM:
Money, sex, comfort, status, little or no responsibilities, security, children.... the list is endless.

so the man won't benefit sex, comfort, status, children.
And why do y'all keep saying women have little or no responsibilities? Where do you people meet this kinda women? What do you guys talk about while dating?sex?

Do you guys go into marriage without talking about how to deal with finances? And then you expect her to shoulder responsibilities?
You guys have no right to complain sef, shebi Una dey claim head of house, who else is supposed to provide the family with security? Men of course. Children that you mentioned, ain't they also the for the man? Both men and women benefit from marriage, make Una no dey blow things out of proportion. Do the necessary thing during dating .
Most men, and women too jump into marriage without knowing anything about marriage, no developed mindset as regards marriage and parenting and when it becomes burdensome they start complaining to every other person. Marriage can never be a bed of roses, and one thing men and women should stop feeling they own the other spouse, you can't own a person.

ExcelDBM:
Of course you know the benefits .

really, I don't.

Sureplug123:
I know of a lady that wants to get married because she's tired of paying bills. Women are like that.

so automatically she would stop paying for anything ? Even though she's working?? If yes, then she's wicked.

Yubeejakes:
Generally speaking, I think the world is not fair to men.
U can't walk in a place without the hearing the phrase ' ladies first'. When there's an emergency ladies will be evacuated first alongside children. FGS!!! what happens to Gender equality? I feel they just want to eat their cake and still have it

I thought ' it's a man's world'.

ExcelDBM:
Because it is a scam to men as there is nothing beneficial exclusively to them while for women it is like a partnership where she is a nominal partner yet enjoys most if not all benefits without any actual stake in the partnership and takes all upon dissolution of the partnership.

what are the benefits?

Iamzik:
I think it is because of the religion and African culture.

A culture that puts all the stress and responsibilities on the man. A culture that forbids the man from complaining or sees him as weak.

A religion that calls the woman a helper (which practically makes it legal for her to contribute little or nothing to the union and get societal approval) whereas the man is the actual helper.

A man pays your rent, feeds you, cloth you, pay school fees and every other bill yet the woman is supposed to be the help? Pray tell what is she helping with?

My advice to men...don't kill yourself. If your wife works and earn a descent wage, she is not doing you any favour whatsoever by taking up responsibility in the house. Infact marriage should be easier for both because you two, combining your resources and intellect, should be able to easily achieve more than you alone (man/woman) can achieve working alone and faster too ..... Else that Is the value of the marriage?

Most men complain because they look at the stress and what they have achieved in marriage and realise they could have achieved far more without the problems of marriage. A man or woman will complain if the partner clearly is a minus

I can't relate with your write up though.
My mum did help my dad with bills, they were both working and both made use of their finances to hold up the family.
Now I don't see why a man would marry a woman to just sit at home and do nothing while he pays all the bills. It boils down to the kinda woman he is getting married to, I can't be in a marriage and allow my husband pay all of the bills even though I'm earning my pay, it's absurd. Whoever introduced y'all to that mindset did y'all an evil thing.

Men complain bitterly nowadays because y'all don't discuss this marriage thing before getting married. Why will you get married to a lady who finds it difficult to help you financially during courtship and then all of a sudden you want her to miraculously help out in marriage. Hiaaaaa.
Y'all men and women should do well to talk marriage matters, parenting matters, get to know your spouse( even though you can't possibly know all about them, but you can still try) not everytime ' when are you coming to my house?' and then all of a sudden, you get down on one kneel to propose marriage.

I laugh Una, Una go complain tire

A quick question though
And I hope I get answered.
Why is it that most males are the ones that keep complaining and regretting marriage?

shilenji:
Happy Easter Great Minds!!!

How has the dieing and resurrection of our Lord Jesus Brought about hope to we believers?


My view: Jesus Christ by Resurrecting proved that all power belongs to him and He conquered mans most dreaded, Fear. Hallelujah!!

I don't understand.
So you mean, as Jesus died and resurrected we ain't scared of dying no more?

Then why do churches keep praying for long life?

She pregnant, and she on heels.
Damn! Riri I stan

And men, would think the problem is usually with the females.
Who does all the sweet talks and enticements? MEN.

Stupid lots

500k

Just stay and keep the child, biko.
You can do it as a single mom. You don't need to kill yourself over a guy, a Nigerian guy for that matter.

All Nigerian guys except my male relatives are stupid.

MadamVanessa:




I am so sorry dear, I don't mean to hurt you. But I must say the truth.


You shouldn't be surprised or hate yourself if no girl like you, because of truth, no girl with her right sense will like to settle for a young man who looked like all those people bedeviled with down syndrome.

ahnahn
Aunty, this is too much na. Hiaaaa

' all those people' like they're outcast.
Did you get the choice of creating yourself? Oh you think you're better than ' all those people?'

Smh....pray that ' all those people' don't come near you too.
Inukwa bedeviled....orisirisi.

My crew is not on the list.

Lmaooooo
Oh, you still don't know what to do

Lmao
Marry her na

milann:
forget that thing. I'm ego gburugburu one of onitsha. Come let me spoil your life with dollars.

And this is how some girls ended up being used....

milann:
ukaface for president

not me