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Karma visited you and you are already crying. Serves you right.

God abeg, make karma visit that my yeye ex

Grandmeister:
I know you didn’t see the disclaimer he made at the end of his post. None of us knows jack shyt about what’s been happening in the marriage as the first wife and yul has kept that within themselves but somehow social justice warriors like you are out with pitchforks baying for his blood lol. Una go dey alright las las.

which one is social justice warriors, point out any comment I've made so far about Yul.
And yes, I saw the disclaimer. A disclaimer added after he already made an assumption of knowing that Yul went thru hell in his marriage.

Obijulius:
Before you judge Yul ask yourself if you’ve heard the full story.

Before you start hating or pitying ask questions.

Before a man with grown kids will make this move there is a lot we don’t know. For him to be this brazen will tell you a lot of what is not been said.

Some men are just waiting for their kids to get to a certain age before they take action on what they’re enduring from the demons they live with!

This might be the happiest times of Yul’s life. Let that sink in!

I could be wrong though!

you're just making assumptions. You still don't know what the whole story is all about so stop making it seem like it's been hell for him all these 16/17 years.

Aklee4994:
Don’t you have DOG

wetin be this one?
So cos you saw a video of a supposedly '
Nigerian' lady having sex with a dog, then it implies that all female sleep with dog.....smh

Foolish idiot with no sense of reasoning.

IDIOT.

Chaiiiiiii
This my gender ehn'!!!
Inukwa my king..lmaooooooooo
Naso one of them go fvck dog for 1.5 mill, who dey groom this people kwanu? Who train them, who parent them?

KingDash:
Them dey love die, unlike their hairy chest and yam legged counterparts

Yoruba girls wey dirtiness and them be 5&6.

DSC7:
Congratulations to her.
.
She gave birth to the kid in a wealthy environment not ghetto..

The kid will be great

This i have seen..

where them born you?

Lol
This Baba no know how he looks like

lexy20I4:
The court remanded kid robbers together wey dey bear the nickname wey you see up there,them also remand the mothers join because Dem follow chop the money from those boys robbery.

Na their nickname be that not real name,those boys are specialised in Robbin POS post,you understand now?

lol.....yes I do

I don't understand

ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

chop kiss

Come fess, are you a male?
Come let me pay your groom price

You can as well pray that you as a parent won't train a child to be a disgrace to you

Kriss216 oya o, food have come.

Kriss216:
How did you know you both are single now? You believed the words of a Nigerian girl?

You're in for a long ride, bro. Guard your heart diligently.

Zukwanike nwoke! Zukwanike!!!

Must you dissuade him by fire by force?
Remain single na,why drag another person.

MisterKennedy:
Hmmm but sweetie you know that if a man is a mummy's boy that means he has more potential of treating you right.... You have a 99% chance of not being with a wife beater

so you feel MUMMY'S BOY is better than wife beater?
A man that would for every action seek his mum's decision rather than take his stance as a man isn't any better biko .

Bmaster:
why you shouting devil like its a new word to you.

For your info,devil is the root cause of all evil men(human being)perpetrates on earth(both intentionally and unintentional).take away devil from amongst us and see how beautiful the Paradise you made outta the earth is!

So no dey sound woke!

who created devil?

Different things can make him still live with his mother, first know the reason.
If he is living there, cos he is a MUMMY'S BOY, straight up I go japa

Bmaster:
why you shouting devil like its a new word to you.

For your info,devil is the root cause of all evil men(human being)perpetrates on earth(both intentionally and unintentional).take away devil from amongst us and see how beautiful the Paradise you made outta the earth is!

So no dey sound woke!

not devil my dear.

So each and every one of us have devil? cos you can't tell me you've been a saint all your life.
Devil is not the root cause of all evil.

But first read isiah 45:7

ExcelDBM:
Oh so you see how you women are funny, is it not your wish that men become stupid like will Smith so you can manipulate him and wh0re around as you wish?

your mindset is absurd...smh
Sorry can't continue wit this conversation.
Try not to be one sided, stop acting like you are the victim, like y'all are saints.
How can you say it's the wish of women for men to become stupid, where do you get all these notion from sef? To manipulate and LovePeddler around? You feel that's what women do? So myopic of you, I must say.

ExcelDBM:
Head of house that is abused or sometimes deposed of his status? I have no pity for men who allow their wives to control their homes when they're there shouldering expenses. A man will feed, clothe, house, fund a women till eternity without making noise and will still endure abuse but the moment a wife pays a bill then even the creatures in the deepest part of the Pacific Ocean will hear her voice. Be using words like "I deserve to be taken care of" "I deserve to be pampered" "i deserve to be treated like a woman" yet with all her artificial nails and whatever will refuse to do her responsibilities with flimsy excuses, wh0re around and at the end of the day allow the innocent man father a child or children of another man or men. Look at Will Smith for example.

so in the case of will smith, Jada is to be blamed for his stupidity? Jada made it obvious that she didn't love him, still he keeps going on with her, and you are blaming her?
Na you know where you dey meet this kine women o

subsidywise18:
Yes and one man sleeping around does not mean all men are scum.

majority of men are

Kriss216:
They always have sense during their evening newspaper era. Confused gender!

y'all be feeling like alpha and omega, when it comes to bearing the responsibilities, Una go begin complain
Smh

Bmaster:

blame it on the devil,
Or better still don't be selective next time,just categorize all,no exceptions

devil? Did you say devil? Lmao.... nothing wey I no-go hear.

subsidywise18:
Sleeping around is a man and woman thing.

It takes two to tango

His wife just put to bed for crying out loud!!!
What sort of fvckrey is that? That particular man is a scum

Men are what?
Men are scum
Except my male relatives sha

ExcelDBM:
Money, sex, comfort, status, little or no responsibilities, security, children.... the list is endless.

so the man won't benefit sex, comfort, status, children.
And why do y'all keep saying women have little or no responsibilities? Where do you people meet this kinda women? What do you guys talk about while dating?sex?

Do you guys go into marriage without talking about how to deal with finances? And then you expect her to shoulder responsibilities?
You guys have no right to complain sef, shebi Una dey claim head of house, who else is supposed to provide the family with security? Men of course. Children that you mentioned, ain't they also the for the man? Both men and women benefit from marriage, make Una no dey blow things out of proportion. Do the necessary thing during dating .
Most men, and women too jump into marriage without knowing anything about marriage, no developed mindset as regards marriage and parenting and when it becomes burdensome they start complaining to every other person. Marriage can never be a bed of roses, and one thing men and women should stop feeling they own the other spouse, you can't own a person.

ExcelDBM:
Of course you know the benefits .

really, I don't.

Sureplug123:
I know of a lady that wants to get married because she's tired of paying bills. Women are like that.

so automatically she would stop paying for anything ? Even though she's working?? If yes, then she's wicked.

Yubeejakes:
Generally speaking, I think the world is not fair to men.
U can't walk in a place without the hearing the phrase ' ladies first'. When there's an emergency ladies will be evacuated first alongside children. FGS!!! what happens to Gender equality? I feel they just want to eat their cake and still have it

I thought ' it's a man's world'.

ExcelDBM:
Because it is a scam to men as there is nothing beneficial exclusively to them while for women it is like a partnership where she is a nominal partner yet enjoys most if not all benefits without any actual stake in the partnership and takes all upon dissolution of the partnership.

what are the benefits?