₦airaland Forum

Iamzik:
I think it is because of the religion and African culture.

A culture that puts all the stress and responsibilities on the man. A culture that forbids the man from complaining or sees him as weak.

A religion that calls the woman a helper (which practically makes it legal for her to contribute little or nothing to the union and get societal approval) whereas the man is the actual helper.

A man pays your rent, feeds you, cloth you, pay school fees and every other bill yet the woman is supposed to be the help? Pray tell what is she helping with?

My advice to men...don't kill yourself. If your wife works and earn a descent wage, she is not doing you any favour whatsoever by taking up responsibility in the house. Infact marriage should be easier for both because you two, combining your resources and intellect, should be able to easily achieve more than you alone (man/woman) can achieve working alone and faster too ..... Else that Is the value of the marriage?

Most men complain because they look at the stress and what they have achieved in marriage and realise they could have achieved far more without the problems of marriage. A man or woman will complain if the partner clearly is a minus

I can't relate with your write up though.
My mum did help my dad with bills, they were both working and both made use of their finances to hold up the family.
Now I don't see why a man would marry a woman to just sit at home and do nothing while he pays all the bills. It boils down to the kinda woman he is getting married to, I can't be in a marriage and allow my husband pay all of the bills even though I'm earning my pay, it's absurd. Whoever introduced y'all to that mindset did y'all an evil thing.

Men complain bitterly nowadays because y'all don't discuss this marriage thing before getting married. Why will you get married to a lady who finds it difficult to help you financially during courtship and then all of a sudden you want her to miraculously help out in marriage. Hiaaaaa.
Y'all men and women should do well to talk marriage matters, parenting matters, get to know your spouse( even though you can't possibly know all about them, but you can still try) not everytime ' when are you coming to my house?' and then all of a sudden, you get down on one kneel to propose marriage.

I laugh Una, Una go complain tire

A quick question though
And I hope I get answered.
Why is it that most males are the ones that keep complaining and regretting marriage?

shilenji:
Happy Easter Great Minds!!!

How has the dieing and resurrection of our Lord Jesus Brought about hope to we believers?


My view: Jesus Christ by Resurrecting proved that all power belongs to him and He conquered mans most dreaded, Fear. Hallelujah!!

I don't understand.
So you mean, as Jesus died and resurrected we ain't scared of dying no more?

Then why do churches keep praying for long life?

She pregnant, and she on heels.
Damn! Riri I stan

And men, would think the problem is usually with the females.
Who does all the sweet talks and enticements? MEN.

Stupid lots

500k

Just stay and keep the child, biko.
You can do it as a single mom. You don't need to kill yourself over a guy, a Nigerian guy for that matter.

All Nigerian guys except my male relatives are stupid.

MadamVanessa:




I am so sorry dear, I don't mean to hurt you. But I must say the truth.


You shouldn't be surprised or hate yourself if no girl like you, because of truth, no girl with her right sense will like to settle for a young man who looked like all those people bedeviled with down syndrome.

ahnahn
Aunty, this is too much na. Hiaaaa

' all those people' like they're outcast.
Did you get the choice of creating yourself? Oh you think you're better than ' all those people?'

Smh....pray that ' all those people' don't come near you too.
Inukwa bedeviled....orisirisi.

My crew is not on the list.

Lmaooooo
Oh, you still don't know what to do

Lmao
Marry her na

milann:
forget that thing. I'm ego gburugburu one of onitsha. Come let me spoil your life with dollars.

And this is how some girls ended up being used....

milann:
ukaface for president

not me

milann:
ukaface whats your selling point. Make me spend that cash

I tell you say I dey sell something?
If I start billing you now, you go open thread say ' Nigerian girls are stupid,they don't bring anything to the table, they just want to chop your money' meanwhile na you dey raise shoulder say you wan spend cash.
Rest kwanu!
I'm not selling, and I have my cash .

Cubalabloo:
I personally love the way u are. You are adorable. Please don't touch those assets.

Awwwwwnnn
Thanks

I feel sorry for her.
I don't understand this mentality of increasing nyash and bust.
Woh, future husband to be, I no get anything, if you don't like it geddifok out.
My body self esteem is topnotch.
I can't imagine myself going under the knife becos of NYANSH AND BOOBS. No matter the amount of money I have.
ABI which kine radarada be this one kwanu.

And it's not reversible sef. Oghene!

blingxx:
Will Smith was a nice guy , where did that get him ?

As for me pple call me a "a bad boy with good intention" that sh*t just dey balance

will is a nice guy with a stain of MumuISM.
be nice but have sense.

Team nice guys

Nigerialabalaba:
Mr Poor & Proud, I sabi employees like u, lazy bones wey go blame everyone except hinself like say hin perfect. abeg if u no want any superior to hold u to account, go start ur own company and do anyhow. shikena. Shiorr.

Work plenty for town but na una lazy entitlement mentality yoots wey prefer to dey waste time for social media and nairaland full everywhere. I don tire to dey beg for lazy yoot wey go con work to con use company wifi to dey watch film and social media.Wen u corrrect dem, instead make dem take correction, dem go dey trash talk with yeye poor man pride.. Na hunger go teach una sense wey una no get , and dat humility and forebearance to learn to grow sumol sumol wey una no get or ur parents teach u but u no collect d hometraining, u go learn am by force las las. shiorr.
Dem go dey misbehave and wen u ask dem to calm down, dem go say make u go chop ur work dem go do crypto as full time job So so Lazy bunch of proud empty headed yoots just full everywhere!

smh
People wey dey work under you, don suffer ooo

Good morning all.I just open this new account to remained anonymous!

I believe this the right section to post this,I need mature minds and advice's,because am writing this with a sad and heavy heart.

I have find it difficult sleeping since when I came across a WhatsApp messages on my younger sister phone (last born) who is just 20 but would be 21 by Dec.

She is in her final year in the uni,very intelligent girl,even her course mate's do tell me that,she is supposed to have graduated from the university last year but Covid and ASUU have not help matters.

We came from a strick Christian family.my dad and mum have tried their best to bring us up in the right and best way!

It happens during the weekend I was home from work and my phone was down due to reasons because I couldn't charge it overnight.

So I decided to make used of her phone to google something on the Internet,the moment I put on her data a particular WhatsApp message came in saying 'Bleep YOU.

This made me shock and I decided to check it out.only to see erotic and sex chats about Cumming with this boy saying he don't last long,who she claims to be her boyfriend or what according to the chat.

To the extent she have been send sending him money(saying she is sending him the money not because of what between them but because she loves helping people).I have never known her to be having a B.F.

I have seen the boy few times when ever I go visiting in her school,they both school together in another state.

After some few hours to think right,I confronted her about it only for her to deny it,that it was only just a chat that nothing was there,claiming i invaded her privacy this got me angry and her slapped her.

I collected her phone to show her proved of what I saw to my greatest surprise the chats has been deleted.

This is a girl that have never look at me in the eye's but on that day she looked at me shouting on her Voice..

Please house I don't know what to do because am confused right now.

I would be needed your mature advice's on what to do next!


sorry for any typing errors.

she's a fvcking adult, treat her like one.
You can't get any answer from her with the attitude you introduced.
If you really wanted to know what sup with her, you should have done it in a more mature manner

Kirchoffs:
I toast this babe last week, used my sweet mouth to whine her, she later came to my house today and we had sex thrice . This girl is super cute and tight , no iffy odors emanating from her v-jay.

Towtow sweet abeg, she's 18years though.

smh
What an accomplishment!!!!
Such great feat!!!

As you see am, hope you deleted them? Cos that's what I would do.

I don't think I will want to be with a guy that wear waistbeads. My mind has been conditioned to the fact that such men are fa.g.s

Hubeznigeria:
Actually what that young man did was all shades of wrong. It's stage-managed otherwise the church lacks order and management.

We don't need the crowd the day I would propose to you

I kukuma no like crowd.

Nedstar:
Yeah, I didn’t mention my age, maybe you were reading another post before diving in to this one, It can be confusing I know.

of course you didn't mention your age, but I needed to ascertain your age and link it with whatever I read .

Nedstar:
Hi guys,
So here’s the gist I am not the very social type, as a matter of fact I have zero friends which obviously sucks but that’s no the main issue. Today my girlfriend posted a pic all over her social media pages and account like seriously I’m even tired of getting notification only to see it’s the same pic on different platforms. So the thing got me wondering, as she’s posting the pics showing off her cleavage I was wishing I could counter by just posting pictures of me balling with 4 babes on my side on something like that. So guys please how do I fake it so she can be jealous, because she’s the very jealous type the moment she sees me having fun with other ladies she be all over my dm with sad and crying emoji’s. Me self go like show off small.

You say you're how old again?

Oyiboman69:
SIMple idiot....

There's nothing simp in whatever he did.
Y'all be forming jagaban on SM but in real sense y'all are lily-livered.

Any small thing simp simp
Tell me one Alpha feature that you possess.

I don't feel sorry for such souls

Regret nursing
Not at all.

Fufu does it better