₦airaland Forum

pompeiimagnus:
Do you know many family women in Nigeria don’t even earn up to 50k? Do they also not contribute to their family upkeep? This guy is a salary earner who can lose his job at anytime. Moreover this was only a “proposal”….

If she could not sit down and discuss with him now, then their marriage is doomed already. What’s the point of dating if she cannot have an educated discussion with her man Una funny sha

this one no be matter of una funny sha,don't make it gender based.
Likewise, there's a guy who earns 50k and he is married too.
I'm just making my suggestions based on the issue on ground.
50k for a family woman would definitely make her cut down some excesses/ expenses. This whole thing just requires both parties to cut their coat accordingly, no extravagant lifestyle.
She could also lose her job anytime too. But presently he earns more, I never suggested she not contributing atall. However, some consideration should be made for her he earns less than half of his salary, haba!

And,I don't know how op suggested this thing to her for her not to have talked it through with him, what if in their courtship days the guy has BN the one giving her money and she never contributed to anything, and then all of a sudden he wants her to contribute in their marriage? Definitely she would Japa,cos her enjoyment has BN cut off.

I don't like this kine of method.

Why not suggest a particular percentage of money from both partners be put into a joint account. This joint account would take care of everything from rent,fees,bills.
If you put in 100k, and she puts say 30/40k
140 k *12
Or to make it more feasible a larger percentage can be agreed upon. But put in mind to consider her salary. 80k no fit do Nada for a family woman.
I'm sure she would get wigs, want to look good, get personal feminine stuffs,her Transportation and feeding at work. Bros Na those things you go consider.
All these bring 10k for this one, 20k for that...won't pay her.

It's too early in the year for this kine confusion

This one no be leg work o...lmao
But I no go talk Wetin e be

Follow him to go and do what exactly?

This my gender people sef

Tamilore11:
Are u stupid? It is not joe boy. Dis is slim joe. May satan punish your soul. May u burn in the fire of destruction. Black Death unto your soul. U deadly stinking frog

Ahn Ahn
You're too aggressive o

DenreleDave:
Jeez.... Joe Boy

I rock his song.. Nobody ft Eazi well well... Even this alcohol wey him sing, na correct song..


Chaiiii Joe

Them say Na slim Joe, you dey lament for Joe boy wey still dey alive.
Smh

Clevybrown6465:
I guess he caught u cheating and decided to dump ur sorry ass... Sorry that you were caught though... Go and sin no more...

mtcheeeew.
This one don jump into conclusion on top story wey e no Sabi.
Guys are always saints. What a mindset

Wow
Such achievement

FiverrTutor:
You think you can achieve this living in Lagos Nah I doubt

I think I can

Lol
What is the tattoo ? A face? Scorpion? love.....I'm just curious.

Redpiller wey get insecurity about him face...

I'm sure she didn't do it intentionally .

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GoodHardDick:
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Stop this silly comments. Are you trying to tell us apart from sex, a woman has absolutely nothing else to offer a man in a relationship?

Even if they had sex,,,, so the girl didn't enjoy the sex or what? or are you indirectly trying to say that men should start paying ladies for sex after banging them?

What exactly are you trying to say?

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You're the one to know if you did wrong or not.
So, because of 5k your crush suddenly died off?
If she had said ' come let's have se.x' . I'm sure your fellow gender will hail you and call you ALPHA REDPILLER.

Not to give a f.uck anymore.
I already started before the year started sef.
No F to anything wey wan give me headache from yeye gender and co gender, to the yeye country. Just 100 on maintaining healthy mental state.

BegAt40:
They're the worst thing to happen to the useless country. Please avoid those VIGINA creatures.

rest naaaah
The year is just starting

Happy New year y'all

I love Igbo men, especially the older men when they are gathered as a group. It's usually fun Watching them speak Igbo.

This one pass me

I read the headline and the first thing that echoed in my head was ' ode' I'm sorry though

SmellySperm:
Any married woman crushing on a celeb fit open leg if opportunity knocks. I can't trust such a woman.

As my wife,the only person you should have a crush on is me

pele o

Vinnie2000:
So I visited my young Married friend and we were watching a movie where Christopher Okagbue (one handsome Guy that won GUS in 2012 or 2013) showed up..
Suddenly, my friend's Wife said 'Oh, see my Crush'..

Was surprised. My friend Did not say anything!. Whether he was Angry or not, I don't even know!..

But I was really Surprised and somewhat Confused!
Because some Singles Might have the likes of Genevieve, Nancy Isime, Beverly Naya, Ronaldo, Wizkid, RMD, etc as Celebrity crushes!

After Marriage, Are They still going to be Crushing on these People?

But, Really. Is it Right or Responsible for a Married person to have a Celebrity Crush?

Please Move to FP for further deliberation on this Issue!
Thanks!..

Don't take life too serious...hiaaaaan.
What are the chances of her even meeting Chris? We all have celebrity crushes.

Me I get yafunyafun both home and abroad.
Better be calming down

fabiano09:
Collect any drink you like from mama nkechi I go pay lol, your head dey there better person

who be mama nkechi?

dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me


****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him.

No one fit give you motivational speech enough to take you out of this pain .
Cry it out.
Cry well well if it's the cry that will help you.
But know that the bas.tard you're having a meltdown for doesn't give a hoot about you.
If you develop ulcer Na you go dey look for treatment, not the i.diot.

I feel in life, everyone ( maybe majority) will go thru a heartbreak...so you ain't the first, won't be the last.

Clean your face, do make up, install Tik Tok(lol) do videos, watch movies( horror, don't do romance) get busy with your life, block him, delete everything that would remind you of him. Get your phuking sanity back girl, and phuking MOVE ON.

One of my old but wise patient once told me that: the best way men interpret love from women is when they show respect to men, in return men will definitely show love , I asked" isn't the lady also fit to get respect from the man?" He said it's same thing," love would synonymously tag along with respect. Once a woman is respectful, she would earn love from her partner.

In a way I believe him, judging from this thread. If that's the formula for love...maybe, just maybe, we would have less issues in relationships and marriages .

Females, make we dey farabale sometimes too, you can't be ungrateful to an helper and expect to eat your cake alone, Omo them go collect cake from you o .

finishmatter:
Marry a man? Definitely not.

So you would end up marrying one out of the women who are incapable of love, intrinsically selfish and at your own peril?

wamide042:
Oh.. this lady, i have never find her skits funny then again she has this boring looks, that looks like she’s not a friendly person..

lol....you wanted to be friends with her

finishmatter:
WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril

so I'm guessing, you would marry a man?

Nonexisting:
Very useless gender.

you're not even existing

iamyemiakins:
Dumped by her ex recently, had a secret wedding recently and also got pregnant recently.

Issokay!

she didn't do the dumping.
Her ex dumped her.
Haba!

Nyascobar1414:
some wey sugar daddy don rubbish and married men don gabbash nkor... Who will bear the consequences

they will still bear the consequences