₦airaland Forum

Nonywendy:
I have been dating this my girl friend since 2017. She made me fall and believe in love, she ticked all the qualities I desire in a woman. When I we started dating she was in her 200L, and everything was going on smoothly. Now this is where the issue lies,
When she went for service in another state, I started noticing some changes, wen she comes back home during holidays I used to go through her phone.(note: she has access to my phone and I too).
So one of those period I realised she is seeing another guy in the state where she is serving. I confronted her and she opened up to me and confessed. I forgave her.

Then after like 4months again, I later noticed she is also seeing another guy different from the initial one I noticed, she denied that but I had to do my deep investigation and got an evidence, she opened up again, at this point I broke up with her and moved on. After like one month she came back begging for forgiveness, It took me time to heal and I forgave her.

Then this last one that broke the camel's back, I noticed she traveled to the state where she did her youth service for something and all this while I thought she was staying with her sister, not knowing she was staying with the first guy she dated while serving whch she apologised. She stayed with her for three good weeks. How I realized was, I called her line one early morning arnd 3am and a guy picked the call asking me who I am. At first, I froze cos I haven't been in that kind of situation, I calmed down and explained everything to the guy, and the guy also told me she has been with her for the past three weeks and that's the girl friend too. I was shocked. I have broken up with her finally cos I don't think forgiving a cheating partner is worth it.
The first time she cheated, 90% of my friends advised me to dump her ass and move on but I had to forgive on the basis of nobody is perfect, but this third time is a no no.
Now she has been begging and asking for forgiveness that she has really learnt her lessons. At this point I'm just so mad that I don't want to forgive her.
Now the big problem is that I'm always seeing her in my dream, I have not really moved on cos it's not easy for me. I have loved her for solid 6 yrs plus.
Note: all the family members from my side and her side are fully aware of our relationship and have approved but they are not aware that I have broken up. If you are my shoes will you forgive her for this very last time or will her cheating continues?
Your advise and suggestions will be well appreciated. Thank you

Kingsmeal:
Lmao.

Wike's type end so easily.
Where is Okorocha, Ameachi, Chimaraoke Nnamani? Rochas even sank more than this and where is he today? An IDP😂😂

Wike will soon be forgotten. He is doing last gragra!

Nature took care of them. Igbos have better meats to fry not psychopaths and men without integrity.


We voted massively for Peter Obi here in Rivers and we know what later turned out.

In my polling Unit, APC and PDP couldn't even score up to 10 votes. It was like a tsunami.

If the real votes Obi got in Rivers were accounted for properly, he will get more than a million votes. This isn't hearsay.

In my brother's polling unit, they stopped voting around 10pm. He was number 550 and a first time voter.

Obi swept Rivers with broom and packer.

But those who want to believe what Wike is blabbing now should never have a say whenever a coup takes place in any country.

What Wike did in Rivers was worse than a coup.

My younger sister was a Presiding officer and her account of what happened at the collation center breaks anyone. But God will judge everyone at the appointed time. Make we continue to dey support evil because of tribe or crumbs.

Odjirigho:
It's a trap fr Wike by PDP to finally expel him if he declines

Rapmoney:
It seems as if private school owners in Nigeria belong to a secret cult that is hidden from the public, and which is different from the usual private school owners association that we know of. It's as if anyone who opens a school is forced to join this 'evil association' with utmost alacrity. Why do I feel so? There is a laid down pattern which almost everyone of them follows. To suck you, use you and drain the youthfulness out of your soul.

All over the world, July/August is usually a long holiday when teachers take out time to rest, go on vacations or engage in acquiring new skills that could even be outside their field. What we usually observe in Nigeria is different from this. In Nigeria, it is a time where school owners engage teachers in fruitless and vain holiday lesson just to suck money from gullible parents and prevent the teachers from engaging in other endeavours that can improve their lives and wellbeing.

If you're a young person and you work in a private school, I beg you, have different plans for yourself and set targets for the duration you wish to work in the school, if you don't want your life to become wasted. There is no career growth in Nigerian private schools. The highest that will be offered you when you work for 10/12 years is the post of a principal/headmaster/headmistress and with a salary of 70k - 80k. After that, what happens? Of course, you can't be promoted to occupy the school owner's position.

Don't get me wrong. I am not saying that working in a private school is bad. What I am saying is that as a young person, don't stay too long on the job. Lest you waste your life.

Dem say 'dey do am till better job come, dey do am till better job come, na so Brother Okrimona take turn 58 years for inside teaching job.

Spagi:
Life no
balance

jimfarayola:
Over raw

Kingosytex:
We just dey destroy and demolish things

Why not bring the culprits to book and convert the refinery to government use?
Since they refine fuel of nice and high quality octane value, why not convert it to government property?
Even if the standards fall short, why can't it be upgraded?

kokoA:
The man was a colossal failure, I can't even remember his name.

ClassicMan202:
Sope otilo


Putin never forgets

endsarrrs:
How I wish some Nairaland people can be taken to court.

Pierocash:
This guy called Reno is doing over busy body in matters that are clearly known , but lacks logic in most of his articles because he writes to please some people


The issue here is not about translations of names. Isa is Arabic recognized by Islam , not Christ or Jesus Christ. You dare not mention Jesus Christ in any mosque in Sokoto or any northern part of Nigeria mosque even though Isa is mentioned in Quran. You will get killed instantly if you dare it. You dare not mention Jesus Christ even in Muslim gathering in the north, not to talk of inscribing "Mary the mother of Jesus Christ" on the roof top of any mosque in the north and watch what happens.

Even though the name Isa is same as Jesus Christ, northern Muslims don't see it that way. If Reno wants to test this assertion, let him go to any northern part of Nigeria and go shout Jesus Christ , or Mary the mother of Jesus in Muslim gathering or mosque and let's check something. Oponu

Penguin2:
El Rufai is now a wailing wailer🤣

He’s now quoting from the Book of Lamentations 🤣
He is reaping what he has planted in aboundance.

He is now finding solace in Boethius’ Consolation Philosophy😆

He has chopped breakfast and been disgraced at the highest stage.

Next person to face similar high level disgrace is Tinubu.

After that, nobody will EVER see characters like Tinubu and El-Rufai as role models.

Wodu89:
And Humpty Dumpty had a great fall.


Dangote had long been dangerously and ferociously cannibalizing the country. A few elites have been longing for it's end.


From severe monopolistic advantages to unhinged access to subsidized forex rates and all sorts, the country was bending it's back backwards for this individual. It's hi time Dangote left Nigerian economy alone.


I had longed complained about Dangote and CBN regarding this :


On a continued basis over the years and contrary to the approvals, Emefiele’s CBN continued illegally supplying money from Nigeria’s treasury at cheaper rates to Dangote Group



This is the height of it :



To further highlight the brazenness of these actions, it recently came to light that the suspended CBN Governor, Godwin Emefiele, had borrowed USD 1 billion from Afrexim Bank in the second quarter of 2023, USD 750 million of which was illegally funneled to Dangote at a concessionary rate. These funds were subsequently transferred to Dangote’s account abroad just as previously done in the past





We borrowed $1 Billion at let's say 600 Naira per dollar, then had it stolen and gifted to Dangote at 200 Naira per dollar in the name of industrialization of the country.



Stop voting people whom the northern canal draws close to. Much of these kinds of truths would not surface when you continue doing so. This is what Chief Adebanjo had been crying over for years.


Many youths are wasting away and are mere dead beings in walking human shells. Stop the thnic and religious biases and support individuals that have a strong desire to change the narrative


Dangote is a crook


If CBN is investigated.iger the past 8-12 years, we will realize that the country has long been sold to Dangote

JASONjnr:
Can we now compare the numbers of suicide committed under GEJ, Buhari and Tinubu?

Seems Tinubu is taking the lead already....

Danisaint112:
You created a thread the same you booked the first 2 space 🙄

Learn to condemn wrong when wrong and appreciate right when right? The Russia you are supporting today are the ones backing NIGER for a war you lots are supporting. Yet you still keep supporting this shit.

Albertone:
Ori e ti yi. Ta lon ba e se competition ede siso?

money121:
E je ki ategun fe si O O

NgeneUkwenu:
They should be chained and thrown into jail..

Useless panel!