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In my primary school, my teacher taught me that a "verb" is an action word.

All this thing we oga JONA dey do na verb ooh . Since, last year - we are going to, this year - we are doing , next yr nko - we are still doing.

Verb. Verb. Verb

Fr jona c.v no past tense ohh, nah only present continous tense.

Sha sha sha kowai.

Ashewo omo

This story get as e be. Yes, its true speaking the language is important . But, just because an ibo man cant speak ibo - it does not change the fact that he is ibo.

Blood is thicker than water.

I fall into this category... My father is an edo man with a chieftancy title and my old woman is frm Anambra state ( late father"s an ichie).

But, I cant speak either . However, I speak stupendously fluent "hausa". I learnt this from my house help. Funny enough my mum speaks my father"s dialect quite well.

Its weird sometimes but truth as my uncle once said to me regarding this wahala- my son ur language will not feed ur wife and children.

But, afterall - I"d proly gt hitched to a mixed breed like myself.

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Only a foolish man will go fr love without cash.

If the girl says she wants you as a broke guy fine. Usually such girls already have a fathee, brother, aunty or someone that can set the dude up. So, money would be her least worries.

However, things have changed and finances and the economy are'nt what they used to be. So, when that case of marrying a broke guy - because someday he might make it.... Is an old wives tale.

If Women should educated, well trained and nt promiscous, men should be rich, generous, handsome and strong.

I met a few girls.... Nd frm my observations... They dnt want a rich guy... they want a generous guy.

Look at it this way - a girl can have a rich boyfriend bt he could be greedy and her friend may have a regular guy (who"s hustling) bt spoils this girl whenever he can.

Which girl would be happier. Correct me if am wrong.

Does ur chu'rch accept polygamy... Seriously jst pick one..that cooks, cleans and know the kamsutra intimately. Thats what we all need...

Let me hear you say...santarababa

Dnt reply, when next u c her tell u neva got the txt. But thats only if she asks, if she does , she was trying to play ya. If she does not make a small, very small move.

samexycool: is that the way u understand the question? If u don't know how to express urself in d public, i think d right thing to do is to keep quiet and listen to what others are saying.

You placed this thread fr public opinion . You should be man enough to stomach the response.

Get gmail account, then go to blogger. You should find an adsense account there.

Sucessfuly, customized a wordpress blog for a guy called wilfred.

Dont know if the blog still running last thing I heard it got hacked.

You can it here afrischolarships.com, or whats left of it.

Guys spend money when they want to sleep with you, girls spend money in you cos they love you.

What more do want to know, the poster is another broke guy that fails to understand men were put on earth to dominate and not parasite.

Keep ur eyes off your womans money and hustle fr urs... She will respect u more for it.

A woman can never love or submit to a man she does not respect.

Dont fall victim to this mordern foolishness ...

OP... Ur lucky ohh, I still de find girl wey go form for me ooh. Becos na only ashewo dey say yes the first time.

If ur serious bout ur life, u will use this opportuinity to study the girl. Becos, the only reason s girl say this is so she can study you.

Yes she digs you, the question now .. Can she deal with the real u and vice versa.

Ps.. I hope she damn fine...like a 7 or 8

And there is nothing old skool about what she said... This girl has some pride and that all u need in this nation of desperate girls nd poorly principled men.

Fashola is a yoruba muslim, in a state where the majority of.muslims are yorubas.

Peter Obi is an Ibo xtain in state where majority of muslims r nt Ibo's.

Please, let us learn to understand and forsee potential social dangers.

Wether we like it or not this is a sensitive issue, and the governor need to atleast provide a new site for the mosque before demolition.

This will give the BH, a reason to attack southerners in the north, please let us protect each other not foolishly provoke repraisal attacks .

look at it this way our president does not have the loyalty of the military. He never can, he is not a military guy.

IBB during his days, worked in the DMI. So he obviouly knows alot of dark secrets and still might have some good tricks.

This is also a sign that things are getting undercontrol.

Only iron shapneth iron, my bros.

As for the coup, I doubt ibb has that in mind, cis if that happebs what guarantees that the guy who takes over does not do him shege.

This is disturbing pls take it off.

isaactolu: Tanx man

ha ha its the least i can do, we need more practicing Naija IM guys on the internet streets , there tons of money to be made.

MEND would not do anything. After all Jonathan is not the progenitor of the so called amnesty. And, at this point - even the MEND guys are getting a share of the GEJ hospitality.

The amnesty issue still has a lot of problems, several ex-militants have been deported from S.A and only God knows what has happened to others in N.America.

His wife becoming p.sec and his disgracing the ex governor of his state - is turning Jonathan into nuisance . If he is successfully impeached MEND themselves will kick his ass. Jonathan is making everyone look at the Niger Deltan's as a bunch of uncultured and foolish people who have oil and dont know what to do with it except shout - it is our oil.

It brings me to the age old adage - you cant give a pig a diamond ring: this seems to be the case with Jonathan. If a man is a the door of a kitchen, he always shouts the cook never gives him enough food and everyone feels if you put him there he will be most generous, Not knowing that the only reason he claims he never gets enough food is because he has a BIG stomach.

GEL or RPG - if we really want this country to move forward, we must put our cultural difference aside because in Nigeria - cultural difference's are much stronger than religious.

And, if my hypothesis is flawed and the MEND , do feel threatened because of such. The successor should merely re-instate all their benefits and make sure all remaining militants are catered for.

You see, the secret of Nigeria politics is that the guy in power is always doing something wrong so when he goes no one misses him. And, if they do - we can throw them in jail or throw them some checks. There will never be war in Nigeria, are too hungry to fight and to scared to loose the little we have.

MEND, don over flex, at this point e go hard make them give soja wahala for creek oooh... our military don beef up - even for babalawo levels.

Men - its called oneitis. This is what happens when you focus all your energy on "that one girl".

I advice you let her go but if you can pull yourself together , you could get her - not for marriage though.

But, enjoy the feeling - am sure your floating all over the place thinking about her. Jst EFF r already , that's the only cure.

emmykul1809: @klaus 2go is a social netwk just like naira land. Most pple hav no intention of dating bt as fate may hav it, d end up getn dia ideal guy or lady. Dats wat hapend 2 us. Meanwhile we hav met face 2 face 4 lng n hav always been 2geda. It is no more 2go tins. Got it?

thats a lie 2go is a se?x shop.

Dont you know the way to your village. Abi u be bastard ?

Oboy - make i give you the koko.

You should have taken some seconds to think - then tell her she can go, that you trust her.

When she come's back, tell her you are no longer interested in the relationship. Dont give her any reason, even if she ask's if it's cos of her trip.

Just tell her, it does not feel right anymore and you have been trying to find the right time to tell her.

Then watch her reaction and take it from there. However, i suggest - you let her go. Cos, for just asking you that question - something big is about to happen and this method will ensure that you suffer less emotional trauma and preserve you dignity on the streets or whereever . There must be 2 or 3 attractive girls, who would give their left breast for your time. Grow some balls and choose your destiny.....

I say it all the time - dont marry your girlfriend , marry your best-friend.

Love only exist so that you can ignore your ugly sides, so the courtship can evolve. Succesful marriage take alot of hardwork and couples need to sit down and have lots of conversation about what they think marriage is and what the hope to achieve in marriage.

Is the girl really ready.
Is the man financially bouyant.

Girls need to accept this cheating husband issue's - yeah not all men cheat but a good percentage of us cheat. The only time a man will not cheat on his wife is if she was his best-friend in this case , he would see this as an act of betrayal and do all he can to avoid that girl.

A woman should never divorce her husband because he cheated - if na so our mama dem dey do am, several of us would be product's of broken homes. The woman is also an integral part of the marriage, if not the most important.

I honestly adore hardworking women, though i cant marry a banker or a girl with a similar job. I like women who are available "so to speak" . Stressed out girlfriends are not a good site - add the difficult day at work with her menstrual period and mix it with Lagos traffic , and you get cruella deville ( the evil lady in 101 dalmatians.

Why in world would a sane girl date a broke nigga. Damn, thats like getting the milk without paying for the cow.

I am a guy, and i believe that if you think you are big enough to toast a girl and tell her all those big big words . Then, your pocket should be big enough to back it up.

Girls, dont date a broke nigga - all they do is drink STAR when they have small change in thier pockets, they suffer from low self esteem and mostly use the girls as emotional tampons - In a way broke guys really go after pretty girls because of ego trips.

Because Nigerian girls have standards - everybody is complaining. This is the reason i want to marry a beautiful Anambra girl - so i can show the world that i can run things.

All this broke boys complaining of expensive girls - how much is she asking for, your not ashamed at your age your mates have saved money and bought cars and rent 2 bedroom apartments. You come to nairaland everyday complaining ... Nigerian girls are expensive.

If you go abroad , are you not going to take a girl out and flex her. You think white girls are cheaper, bros for Yankee - the Gucci's are real and they cost money.

Money is the only means a man can be measured for his success on earth. Women are attracted to successful men because they can provide - its a primal instinct.

In the older ages, you guys would be slaves feeding the kings dogs and cleaning up their kernels.

Man up and accept the fact you need money for everything not just girls - i mean everything.

And for you amateur sex depraved wanna bee's , have you tried to FWB (friends with benefits) - as in relationship with a girl only for intimacy . Its really catching on in the mainstream and alot of girls are open to such ideas, you just have to be good friends and also a guy who knows how to speak "women".

The FWB allows the girl and guy enjoy intimacy and also experiment on lots of crazy stuff, at the same time if either of the partners mostly the girls meets a better guy who can take care of her then the relationship "may" stop.

https://static.tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pub/images/Friends_with_benefits_7911.jpg

People make mistakes all the time. I somewhat agree that the OP did not or could not have fully realised the "implications" of her actions, i feel she was just smitten with that sort of attention from an yankee guy and found it a little difficult to remember "blood is thicker than water".

We need to look at the positive aspect of this situation. She has come back to her senses - now we need to find a very smooth way of controlling the situation so that she can wake up the next morning with the least amount of bruises on our ego's or ogohh (forehead) .

My sister - your prolly the material type cos you still had the intention of chopping his dollars even when you realized that this secret thing of yours was blowing out of proportion and you may not be able to get what you want on the lo lo.

You have no self confidence - cos if you did you would have the balls to go out there and GET YOUR OWN MAN.

As for that boy you call your boyfriend - BROS, IF YOU CAN HEAR ME == THIS GIRL GO WOUND YOU OHH

No man can succeed, if he does not believe h can change his destiny.

This girl is only slowing you down. You gotta catch up with your mates and start hustling in with full steam. No compromises.

I like tonto dike... The babe raz....

blackteeth proly owns a bb and uses yahoo yahoo mail.

Gtalk is one of the most portable im software available. If u had a google account u might know this. Owning a big G account gives u to all there services. An db I mean everything.

However gtalk aka pidgin.. Is more popular among techies, android users and sucessful internet marketers.