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dawnomike:
I really admire the way you made your point in a logical way

Lalasticlalabos:
Can I pm u for relationship advice?

Onyiamaogu:
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One of the most important decision for any man is selecting the right woman to spend his eternity with, this is because if you miss it, you may never get it right again.

A man is asking for advice on a very important decisoin he is about to make on his future partner.

Being a platform who always listens to his people, we decided to engage you guys in seeking for your opinions.

Below is the message:-



So guys over to you now. Bearing In mind he can be your brother or you one day too.

What Advice Can You Give This Guy On This Matter?

Lets hear from you.

Drop comments.

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Babyboy4life:
Good day the good people of nairaland.Pls I'm sorry for creating this topic in the religion section and I created this moniker last week.Its not as if am a popular person here but my situation and the constant abuse of people led me to do this and someone reported me for being a thief because I asked for help on my former moniker.Since this corona lockdown I have found various means to make money as I was searching for a job before the lockdown.I tried to call some of my family members for help since it's only my mother and my siblings since my father passed on to glory.I was either not answered or given one excuse or the other.The neighbours I have won't even look at your side, people that said they would contribute to help my family after my father's death up till today all was audio.I have been looking around my area for where I can carry sand to build houses.But nowhere in sight due to the lockdown.Someone introduced me to a legit online site for making money but I don't even have money to buy or set up anything.I tried to get money from online loan apps but they give excuses after collecting all your info.I might not even be able to pay later sef.Most times I pity my mum and ask myself how I would try and get money legally to make her happy.So I have come here to beg for help financially.If you have enough and can pls spare me anything.Im not begging for money even to eat though I know there's hunger in the land to even if I see garri to drink I would drink water and sleep.Im pls asking for money to help me learn and register for the money making scheme my friend suggested to me.I also asked him for a loan but he started giving me excuses.I want to make money even if it is little by little so I wouldn't be a liability to my mum and come here and disgrace myself again by this act of begging I've done.Pls help me out.Im even typing with the freebasics data service.
You didn't give much info. What's the online job thing (site), what's the skill you need to learn? How much is it? Give appropriate details.















Pls you can carry out any investigation you want.If I wanted to scam I wouldn't be doing this and also because no one owes me anything here as I'm pls asking for a favor.I want my life to be better so as to help my mum, siblings and people around me and even those that didn't help me in my time of troubles because I know this too shall pass.If you are convinced that I'm for real pls my account number is on my signature/profile.God bless every nairalander.

Makavelli25:
Am the kinda of guy that doesnt talk much at home,so far I am logged on to NL.
But the thing I and my father dont get along well. I run errands for him and took care of him when he was sick but it seems he only expects me to do something bad.
He says it repeatedly that I will go to jail
He says it everytime that I will impregnate a girl
His wish for me is that i get into trouble so that he will throw me out
I dont know what i have done wrong

Please advice

LikeAking:
Mummy english

lefulefu:
omo this beefing is way too much

Carchoice:
I met this lady at a business function and we kept in touch because we wanted to do more business together. After some days I got to find out she's married, it was none of my concern anyways. I realized she never stopped talking about "my husband" in all her discussions. It was still none of my concern. I was after my gains from the business.


On our way back from a business function, while about dropping her off, she wanted to know if we can still go for another appointment later that day, I told her No, that I was going to smoke some good ugwu leaves and pass out.


I noticed she wanted to come with me, I had to ask her if she smokes, she said yes but occasionally. I answered, "nice, I wish I can smoke with you but I can't do that with a married woman"


She smiled and bid me goodbye after I teased her because I saw that the smile was fake, right now she's been ignoring my messages for two days, unlike her.

I have no intentions of doing anything funny with her.

ismoney:
Thanks friend. There are things that actually can’t be hiding since others will make it known not minding how humble and simpler you are. Yes, I am a Christian and I hate dishonest characters and cheats in any form. I am not a pretender but a friend to many. Once ones way is clean, odds will be working out for your good. I am very mindful of my destiny direction and I don’t want anyone close to me to be a distraction. I believe that all will be beautiful in it’s time and that there are still some remnant that are faithful and would be committed to to true courses.

uglodoh:
And he wants people to assist into the army9; a boy with chicken.

emmaodet:
You are right again.
The one with cap has no head to use it while the one with head has no cap to wear.
What a life

TheSourcerer:
mine was terrifying , and typically not consented , this post was last year haha

emmaodet:
130k including cost of leasing the land.
It is 1 hectare or 2.5 acres of land.
Duration is 115-120 days maturity.
Expected yield - 2 tons after been shelled. Well to me, this is still on paper or theory. Will find out from my experience.
Price of 1 ton of groundnuts - 150k, so total expected revenue - 300k

emmaodet:
Ok. You are from Ogun state or based in Ogun state?
Which part of Ogun are you based? and from? I married an ijebu lady.
The groundnuts you planted, how many did you harvested and who did you sell it to? And price?

TheSourcerer:
Vicky Rotex sounds like a Serial killers name tbh

TheSourcerer:
it's only a word.

Poloyanabo1:
What should we say or do now?
Can these photos and stories give buhari sense or pursue corona?
can they even serve as palliatives?

AudioNews:
Ewedu nd Amala blood is in her,
De love dick lik no other, de can do anything 4 dick
Na der handwork,

Tajbol4splend:
This is what you get when you date or marry a woman who can't control her emotions.

RealHumanBeing:
We've been dating for 3years. I once caught her cheating during the early stage of our relationship, I want to end it back then but she pleaded.

I'm not the type that snoop on people's phone, I gave her all the privacy out of ignorance. So few days ago we started having issues cos she won't let me sex her. I ignore her and started browsing Nairaland, then stumbled upon a thread on the front page about a cheating girlfriend. I immediately went for her phone without her noticing...

Brethren, what I saw nearly froze my balls.

Anty Kubura has been videos calling, sex chatting older men right from the comfort of her room. I read one chat where one of them asked for her nude and she promised to send it later because her boyfriend (me) is around... That she doesn't want me to start asking questions.

That aside, she has other young investors in her punnany enterprise as I now know it to be.

My question is, how do I end this situationship without suffering spiritual attacks from her and her goons.

The girl is from kogi state, heat of wicked and troubling jazz.

Thanks

My girl has two sugar daddies... Men in their early 60s

AudioNews:
Ewedu nd Amala blood is in her,
Der Relations is all over de World,
Am nt surprised

Norahsthought:
Hey guys, so a little background story. I'm 25, finished school quite early (schooled abroad), and got a good headstart. I am pretty comfortable, I have a good job with a great growth trajectory. So really, I'm focused on my career right now and not particularly interested in starting a family soon.

So here's the real story. I have two male friends who have shown interest in marrying me. They are both doing very well and from equally good backgrounds. I initially wasn't interested in marriage (at least for now) but you know friends and family. I am not in love with any of them or even with anyone at the moment (I am a woman of war lol) but they are both great guys.

So my challenge now that I have decided to be open to marriage is this, how do I choose? Should I even listen to the advice of friends and family to open up to getting married to one of these men or should I just wait till when I feel ready? I need advice and please be nice.

Sunnycliff:
The love of we Igbos made this trip a success.

It's only fools who believe that Igbos don't love themselves.

We return all the Glory to Chukwu Okike Abiama who made this surgery a huge success.

To all my Igbo brothers we will never close our well of goodness.

God bless ndị Igbo