₦airaland Forum

Amastermovic:
The issue of building collapse is not much related to this we can relate this to urban and regional planning aspect which we lacked in most part of Lagos... The ogun state government is really trying with her urban renewal and the emergence of real estate though dey make d layout small for their pocket and interest ...

The issue of building collapse Start with us as an individual a building is built for a specific purpose don't rent a residential building for office usage because the engineer as factor some live load to it..

The Nigerian Architect and builders should stop claiming they are Engineers they should pls let engineer's do their job for the structural part..

No cheap apartment for pple to stay Lagos is congested and d state keep milking it people dry without catering for housing lastly Lagos is not for everyone..

People continue running out of village and travelling to Lagos tp born 20 pikins. The landlord should not rent house again?
Ambode said people should get out of the roads and stop hawking on the roads. Dem gree comot?
Fashiola once got a vehicle and rounded up some bergers/people and transported them to the east. He was blasted and condemened for doing that.

danmagajicliff:
Nigeria and the collapsed of buildings!

More will collapse.
White men that gave us education and all the sciences regarding buildings cannot be building for us again.
We are the ones who read all this engineering books and still decide not to put the taught principles to practice.
More bulidngs will collapse. Because people do things anyhow in Nigeria and think nothing will happen.

AlphaStyles:
1Year old pikin abeg watin the pikin wan go learn? brain never reach anywhere u dn put am for sch

Parents actually dump their kids in school and run away to work. Since it is cheaper than leaving the child at home and paying househelp to take care of the child (who may even later kidnap the kid).
Parents are in a tight corner.
Teacher is fraustrated with Nigeria and has no more space in her heart to console babies/children.

clive2u:
do u by any chance dress like homo?

I seriously suspect that he does 100%

koyyes:
You don't have a problem.

Carry christian literatures and magazines and use them to decorate your room. Borrow from all those spirit koko people you know.

Go and look for where you dumped your bible. Clean the dust off and put it on your bed before they come.

When they see your 'decorations', they will start behaving like vampires under sunlight and take off.

Let them discover you are not even a serious Christian (Dust on your Bible?) and they will steal all your Christian faith and condemn you to a life of sin with themselves.

frankblinkz:
am late on this thread,but OP just brought out a major problem am passing through right now,like I don't know how to tell her I really don't like her coming to see me almost every day and end up having sex.....Am tired like really tired..
worse part is I keep getting girl's without saying I love you, just talk to Dem as friends,next we on bed.
See...truth is girl's love sex more to guys.....

Sex is meant for marriage. Don't get any gilrfriend if you have no job, cannot pay rent, cannot support yourself. It is unrealistic and irresponsible to use your father's money to be doing boyfriend-Girlfriend.
They will tell you people, you won't hear.

You will soon impregnate a lady and start murdering an innocent baby in the name of abortion.

BalogunIdowu:
Prevention is better than....

....than total stupidness.

effnepa:
Why do they come to your place? Do you feed them ice cream and candy?You don't know how to get rid of people, are you some kind of ajebo?

He's a foolish Ajebo big nyash boy with iPhone.
Hungry UNICEF girls are coming to breath AC, and relax in his house. Hoping for him to feed them and pay all their expenses with his father's money.
His mumuness will be his downfall.

abdeiz:
Maybe you should actually SHOW them you are taken.

Or its just the technique your village people wan use catch you.

Taken? Who took him?
Ask him what he has. Nothing except prick!
Somebody that cannot pay house rent, has ZERO job, cannot pay bride price, can not pay school fees for creche. No money for pampers or dusting powder for baby.
Taken, my ass!

It's very easy. They have Aids.
Run for your life.

Which kind of boys are we raising in this 21st century? Are you a boy with big nyash instead of muscular chest?

Pavarottii:
Okay the parent would rent a house for them? Don't get u?

The guy is talking French.
They should rent house for the child. Kuku add feeding money. Add wife and car.

Pavarottii:
But parent still supported u... Cos I don't see where u get money for ur Msc? ?

Don't mind him. Talking like Dangote.

wetdick:
On a more serious note

parents need to force their children out of the home once they graduate university, they also need to support them financially until they get their first job.
in life, we all need support to succeed.

They should pursue you from house and still support you outside house? Why do people speak French on this forum?
You are trying to use Western ruler to measure African progress.
Your Western colleagues all WRITE and ESSAY to the University of their choice DETAILING EXACTLY what they
want to come and do in the University, How they will use their degree to better their lives.
They are seriouly focused on their future before they even enter University. Not this our "general attitude" of
my mates are going to university. Let me go too with no focus and be gallivanting and disturbing others, graduate and be waka-ing for road and complaining on social media.
Western parents cannot even afford university fees. They don't pay. The kids take out the Student LOAN from government to fund their education and PAY BACK from TAX after they get jobs. Otherwise, receive a bad credit rating and be denied further credit facilities from banks and any other establishment.

What is your own focus? You want make them pursue una from house and still be giving you money outside to flex in shoprite?

If you are not ready, you are not ready. Stay in the house and receive all the humiliation that comes with it till you carry your ass and look for work and gain your independence outside.

The age when he's an adult.

hakeem4:
So who should the family of those people who lost their lives thank ?

Uncle what matters most is life after death. Where do you spend your eternity.
It will be totally lunatic for a person to suffer the hardship of Nigeria for 100years, die with no pension.
....then still go to hell fire again and suffer everlasting punishment

These people have suffered in Nigeria, with Nepa, and hot sun and substandard lives and died a terrible painful death. You Pray to God to give them eternal enjoyment in heaven.
This is why we say, "May their souls rest in perfect peace".

MZEE01:
not sure i get you

Because her name is "Success", you are praising her, saying she is " already living by her name".
Therefore,
Her classmates must be idiots with wrong names since they were not interviewed, or featured on social media, nor do we know the names of any one of them. Nor are we praising them or talking about them.

Only people named "Success" are supposed to be successful and famous.

....according to your statement.

Speakdatruth:
She just got famous

And her classmates are idiot?
The school will magically repair itself?
The teacher's salary will increase?

atakamus:
Though this is good but what of others in the school? I pity this country.

It's quite sad that we are so stupid and myopic in this nation.
Until one person is put on social media, before people will see the person?
At a time it was "Bread Girl" Jumoke....
I just don't understand again.

MZEE01:
She is already living by her name "Success"

And her remaining classmates are idiot?

mcvities:
This school needs all the help it can get from the State Government because it looks like one, but for the meantime, shame to all politicians in Delta State if this is a government primary school in oil rich Delta State.

This school should be handed over to an NGO immediately.

NGO will do what? Beg government for money again.
Abi you thought NGO manufacture money from Carbon Dioxide sunlight?

midnighter:
what happened to scolding her when she behaves badly? Or whenever anyone behave badly, for that matter?

In another thread, an 8year old Warri girl said, "Them go flog tire"....
Is it scolding that will now change a fully grown coconut headed wife?

tesppidd:
lol

forget all that ideal stuff

this is reality

Here are the options for a bad/rude/troublesome/ unrepentant wife;

1.divorcing her.
2.beating her.
3.reporting to her people hoping they could make her amend her ways.
4.pampering her even in her bad habits.
5.submiting to her bad habits.

There is no middle ground, every man much choose one and live with it.

Use XRAY during dating.
I don't know why a woman will have all this coconut headed behavior and the man is so blind and stupid not to see it during the dating stage and pick race.
It's after all the complete wedding and traditional that the wife will now transform like Transformers! Block head in disguise!

stephleena:
lol..especially those mummy's boy

If they beat their wives for whatever foolishness, you will still complain.
They are reporting their wives' foolishness, to are still complaining.
If they kill the wife, don't complain o.

nabegibeg:
If your papa na president you will do worse probably auction your village on OLX

See Queen of England serving during World War 2
See Prince Harry doing Military service.
No be NYSC O, real military with rank and everything.

surevik:
I dreamt of doing same for her after seeing the video, if this is true may the name of God be praised

Did you do it inside your dream?

naijaguy1234:
Government schools are free, why send your kids to a private school if you can't pay.

...because teachers don't come to the government schools.

grandiose4ever:
Reminds of NYSC days when I used to hide inside NCCF church in Oyo camp to evade all those marching nonsense...

One unfortunate day like that Soldiers just invaded both the church and mosque. We no believe say they fit invade. They caught like 20 of us, chai we suffer that day when they realised we could not march...

Are you crippled?
Marching is easy now?!. Carry your left leg up and down.
Carry the right leg up and down. What's hard there?
It's not dy/dx they asked you to solve or anything. Even children can march.

Longcucumber:
Make them better check those blood very well because all this Lagos island people sabi carry disease and infection.

With all the corruption, 419 and sharp practices in this Nigeria and all the shine-shine eye hustling in this Lagos,
... that blood, heh! ...... That blood, Heh!
It is extremely discouraging to think what people are capable of.

We have very high taste in this country. Because everybody has watched oyibo film and seen better things.
We don't have the equipment, attitude or culture to live up to our own expectations.
Blocks for road? in 2019?
Well that seems to be the reality. Accept it.

Passionate1:
As far as I am concerned,I see nothing wrong with short outfits.
Hahaha!
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These are for babes looking for man.
Is this how your mother and grand mother dress?
Na you people dey make man have accident on road, trying to look or avoid looking.

Souqwaqif:
Thanks all am really getting enlightened by all your post,I do appreciate your time

The Ashawo runs in the family... Maybe it's nyash that the dad even used to marry the mum.

rafsonnggmail:
Anything that has to do with matrimonial home most at times the father will have been the best option to discuss such matter with as a man he knows were to heat the nail w/o favoritism. As for her mum it's only a few women dat look straight into dea daouther eyes and tel her the gospel thruth

The foolish woman started doing this from home. Supported by her mother. It's a pity OP married her like that, thinking she will change

The truth is that all men like mini skirt on their wife IN THE BED ROOM. But long gown OUTSIDE the house. It is left for the woman to know when and where to change the dressing.