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Atila1:
this is not an Igbo thing, its a personal act of wickedness done by an evil woman n her 'weak' husband, some people just derive joy 4m d pains n weaknesses of others. It still baffles me. 3 guys, age range 12 - 14, couldn't they v fought her or at least rescued their mate. I don't blame them, poor guys. I only hope d couple would rot in hell!

It doesn't really work that way once you have acquired a servant/slave mentality. Remember just a few Britons enslaved and remotely managed our fore-fathers even on our own soil.It took centuries to break loose.

hakunajay:
Wonders shall never end! Well, it's not their fault, the fault lies with the parents of those kids who are unable to cater and care for their own children. As for me, i'll rather give birth to one kid and train him/her instead of producing bunch of kids and not having the capacity to train them!

Sometimes parents die early and our society has no structure on ground for taking care of the children of such parents. If you leave a lot of wealth through you will,and the children are still very young,close relatives may still take over everything you labored for.

It is a structural problem.However, truly the couple is WICKED.

Everybody around you saw that her attitude will be a problem.Now you are just waking up to the reality. She leaving you is a very big problem in your future just solved !
You are asking what to do now?Here it is:
NEVER WASTE YOUR TIME WHERE IT IS NOT APPRECIATED.

Cat?This made it to bbc news?Yet they can't broadcast most of the injustices going on around the world. That's what happens once people are comfortable with life.They prefer the life of their cats to the life of the man next street.RRRRRUBBBBISH news.

Selfish people can't find love around them.They think it will come from a computer screen.However,it is an unfortunate incidence.

A loud prayer is just an advertisement by a church to solicit more customers/tithe-payers. If it is God you are really praying to,the prayer will not be loud enough for the man next to you to hear talkless of him eavesdropping.

^^^
The school's website will tell you all what you need to know.The wikipedia link i gave you already contains the school's' websites.

Olamide Sowole:
See how many foreigners jump into conclusions about nigerians, after the australians were robbed in the south african world cup they were swift to claim that the masked robbers were nigerians.
the following was then published
"Nine soccer fans were tied up and robbed at gunpoint
with one victim despoiled, in a terrifying hold-up in their hotel
rooms following the Australia-Serbia World Cup match in
South Africa. The fans which included five Australians,
were on their way back to the hotel in the early hours of
Thursday morning, June 24, after the match. The Socceroos of Australia defeated Serbia 2-1 in the
encounter.
According to reports reaching Masterweb News Desk,
four armed men trailed nine soccer fans back to their
hotel in Nelspruit, South Africa, invading their rooms and
robbing them, allegedly despoiling a female victim. Steve Gaynor, one of the victims who had $10,000 worth of
equipments stolen from him said the robbers were
Nigerians. He said the men were armed with rifles and
handguns, and five of the victims, including himself and
the despoiled female, Australians. According to Gaynor, one
of the victims, an off-duty Australian Federal Police officer, for safety reasons, kept others calm during the
robbery and assault. ( Continues below…… ) Photo Above: Steve Gaynor, one of the World Cup
robbery victims. “I had watched the match from the hotel that night and about 12.30 am three cars arrived back at the hotel and
people started filing in. I was in the bar and some people
came in there while others went back to their rooms. We
were oblivious to what was going on. These poor kids
were tied up, held at gunpoint and robbed. My room was
robbed, but luckily I wasn’t in there when they broke through the window.” Gaynor was quoted as telling reporters.
“They took cash, jewelry and watches off the people they had tied up and stole phones and laptops. It was robbery
with violence. One guy was on the floor and the man had
his boot on his head and told him not to move or he is
dead - it was serious.” Gaynor added. Masterweb will keep you updated as more information
becomes available."
After this was said about nigerians, the hotel manager,a man who grew up in south africa and has witnessed both nigerians and south africans alike denied the allegations that the robbers were nigerians.
This was then published
"Masterweb News Team contacted Mr. Kurt Mulder, owner of
Hamilton Parks Country Lodge where four gunmen robbed
World Cup soccer fans guests of the hotel. He told our news
team reaching him on the phone that the gunmen were South
Africans and not Nigerians. On asking him how he knew the
identity of the gunmen he said: “I am a South African and should know South Africans when I see them. Above all, I am
an African and you know we know ourselves – I can tell a South African from a Nigerian.” He said the female victim was not despoiled, but tied up along with others including him, in
the same room. Mulder said he was 2 meters away from the
female victim and did not see her assaulted by the robbers.
Hamilton Parks Country Lodge is in Hazyview, an isolated
area north-east of Johannesburg, South Africa. The hotel
according to Masterweb investigations, has witnessed several robbery incidents which South African police failed to
investigate appropriately. Several robberies have also
occurred at Kruger National Park around the corner from
Hamilton Parks Country Lodge, without significant arrests by
South African police. ( Continues below…… ) Photo Above: Hamilton Parks Country Lodge, Hazyview,
South Africa. Masterweb investigations revealed the gunmen did not trail
the soccer fans, but hid in the bushland surrounding the hotel.
Hamilton Parks Country Lodge is surrounded by over 250
hectares of indigenous bushland. Shortly after midnight, after
fans arrived the hotel from the World Cup match between
Australia and Serbia, the hotel owner, who doubled as manager, stepped out to welcome them into the hotel, but
was accosted by the gunmen. The robbers ordered him at
gunpoint to “get back in.” He went in and the gunmen locked the door, ordering everyone in that section of the hotel,
including the owner, to lie down. They tied their hands behind
their backs with shoestrings and robbed them of valuables,
including, cell (mobile) phones, laptops, passports, money,
etc. They also went from room to room stealing all that were
of interest to them. Captain Jacky Mbuyane, South African police officer investigating the crime, said the Australian
female victim was sexually assaulted, and got medical
treatment, but she was not despoiled. In his words: “Emotionally, she was hurt. She was upset.” ( Continues below…… ) Photo Above: Map of South Africa The victims were freed after the robbers left. South Africa
police and embassies of victims were contacted with details
of the incident. Consular officials from Australian High
Commission in Pretoria assisted victims in getting medical
treatment, issuing emergency travel documents to their
citizens."
Many nigerians like myself on reading this became angry as to how nigeria is always the first suspect in a crime without proof or evidence

It is truly annoying but if Nigerians do not have a reputation for such,nobody will think in that direction.
A similar analogy is when you hear of a bomb blast that crashed a plane killing everybody in it,which group of peple do you first suspect even without any evidence yet?

This link should help you.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_universities_in_Canada

If he/she is in Lagos.He/she should better go to a General Hospital where there is no profit motive on the side of the doctors.There is a very elaborate process for treating cough's at Lagos State General Hospitals.However,your friend should not mind the long queue,waiting and repeated appointments.It will be worth it at the end.

Sagamite:
You surely are retarded.

You need some tablets to balance the imbalances in your cretinous head!

You Sagamite?If you are trying very hard to sell a product that is just about to expire,won't you try to at least be soft on any prospective buyer?Will you still be placing too much price on it?Especially when it has been tampered with since some other customers have tried it on and later lost interest in it?It's pure common sense that she didn't have since when she clocked 28. Now 10 years after she still doesn't seem to have it.

On a more serious note,we all need tablets at one time on the other.

bollyfolly:
Whole House, Thanks so much,

I so much appreciate all your candid advises, suggestion and insults,
@Afrobaby & Others: thanks so much for the advises.

@ Phillip0906 & Validator: Thanks also for all the insults, I think this forum is for well behaved matured people and not for unreasonable pple like you.

Its so sad that pple like you are in this forum, I think you should keep mute when you have nothing reasonable to contribute, You need to wise up and learn how to relate with people in a decent manner, I dont blame you guys, you such an unserious element.

You have just confirmed why you are  38 and still single.Escaping from reality.

Believe me.I meet people like this once in a while and they all have the same characteristic.
1 A strong competitive nature.This chases men away.They like you as a professional but NEVER as a wife
2 Religion.Yeah, your sweet talking pastor keeps telling you to wait for God's time yet he marries a young,sweet babe._{use ur brain sister}.Ever wonder why the brothers in ur church are not looking ur way?

Not knowing the value what you have _{(age and beauty)} until you loose it is characteristic of people who are 38 and still single. Now she has a rare opportunity once more and she wants to yakubu it.

All those of you offering your pity are not helping her at all.Be hard on her and let her know how stupid it is to still imagine that yakubuing is an option.

bollyfolly:
Hi everyone, Please i need your suggestion and advises,
I am a lady of 38 yrs but single, I once had a relationship but broke up after several years.
Just recently i met a young charming guy that we both attracted to each other, we got along but unfortunately we got to know that i am 5 years older than him.
It has been bothering me because we both love ourselves, but each time we discuss it, he always assure me there is no problem that age is just a number.
Our introduction will be done by December but i am afraid, Should i go ahead with him

Please feel free to advise,

@poster,
you are just one insatiable bbitch. No wonder you are 38 and single. Now a dude wants to "pity" your old cobweb infested ppussy and you still come here on NL to say you are considering quitting the relationship?Whether the guy is doing it to just make some bucks from you or any other reason,why not just go ahead or don't you need "it" right now.But as insatiable as you are,you may still throw this opportunity away.

^^^^

ogoamaka99:
The Bible declared that the devil is a lier and the father of all liers( John 8:44).Now the Spirit expressly says that in the later times, some will depart from the faith, giving heed to deceiving Spirits and doctrines of demons, speaking lies in hypocrisy, having their own conscience seared with a hot iron ( 1 Timothy 4 : 1-2 ). So it is no big deal that his children are doing his bidding, propagating lies and falsehood in this forum through satanic inspired posting( thread ). And the whole essence of this satanic postings is to weaken the faith of unguarded Christians and thereby destroy it. The Bible declared that " without faith, it is impossible to please GOD." ( Hebrew 11 :6 ).The devil knew this very well and that is why he is using his children to post obnoxious threads with the aim destroying the faith of unguarded Christians.
But you that say you are a christian, where is your sense of reasoning?. How can people who say they are satan's worshipers, atheists , witches and wizards, occult members and unbelievers be the one to explain the Bible contents and issues concerning your faith to you?. Is it possible to give out what you don't have?. The guy has told you that he is satan's worshiper, and the Bible said that satan is a lier and father of all liers ( John 8 :44 ). Also the Bible said that there is no truth in him( the devil). So for you to consider the thread of such people means that you are out of your mind. Can the one GOD said that there is no truth in him ever tell you the truth?. NO!. NO!.
Another tells you that he is an atheist ie that there is no GOD and does not believe the Bible, yet he claims to know the Bible as to explain the content for you. Is it possible?. Can he ever tell you the truth?. NO!. NO!. He don't know the truth and so cannot explain or tell you the truth.
Others are free thinkers, occult members etc. Can the truth ever come out of them?. How can someone who say he don't believe the Bible claim to know the Bible as to explain the content?.So for you to consider at all what the guy is saying means that you out of your mind.

And how can you who don't believe in what they believe claim to know it and explain and rebuke them?Poor analogy from you.

Studio,it looks like you never graduated from using slate and chalk.Otherwise you would have seen the joke.
@poster,nice one.

After carefully examining both spiritualism and religion ,one can only draw a conclusion
Religion and spiritualism were attempts by ancient people to explain nature as it relates to man.It is however noteworthy that religion and spirituality are grounded in mere believes and not in any reality.
Mankind made a great progress at understanding and explaining nature and of course reality when we leaped from religious and spiritual philosophies to science.Here is the progress line

Spiritualism >>> Religion >>> Science

We must note that it all started as a spiritual philosophy,if it later has large number of adherents,the need to better organize it makes it to transform into a religion.Every religion has followed that same pattern (taoism,hinduism,judaism,christianity,islam,shia-islam,animism,shangoism,etc and not leaving out pseudo-religions like rosicrucianism,grail message,jehovah witness,moonies,satanism,etc). It always starts with a few people or just one person having a "believe" in certain principles and others buying his ideas.It never starts out with books and instruction manuals but when the followers greatly increase,there will be a need to organize things better and hence a/some instruction manuals will have to be issued and this manuals will be considered sacred by the followers.

We must also note that while some had transformed from spiritualism to religion,many still fond it difficult to transform because they believe that religion waters down important concepts of human nature.However,whether it is spiritualism or religion,it is rooted in mere belief.

The real progress of man came when we transformed from religion to science.Thus making science reality. remember that the whole goal is to understand how nature works with respect to man.Now, many people find it difficult to transform from religion to science because they believe that science waters down important concepts of human nature.

Once again

Spiritualism >>> Religion >>> Science

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It's really that simple.

Efe,u2much.I love the joke.LOL

@everybody,
Africa is backward mainly because of lack of foresight. I am only wandering if what the girl did was never anticipated by those who make laws for the school.

All those within the school premises are bound by the law that operates within the premises. So, the law pertaining to that situation should be applied to it to the letter.

We are not in a position to tell the authorities what to do right now. I hear some people saying she should be expelled and some people saying she should be pardoned since she has apologized.

The law that governs such a situation should automatically be applied. If such a law does not exist, then the school must already have a law that describes what should be done in such a "new" situation.

That is how to run a civilized society.Foresight. That's what it's called. Not biased opinions after the situation has arisen.

@Efe,
How do you keep your posts count constant at 18.Or are you dating Seun now?

@poster,
you brought this upon yourself and i'm glad you have realized it.You can not eat your "akara" and still have it.
Now here is what to do:
You can't just leave him and go after someone else.That makes you a wwhorish gold digger ! So,leave two of them and be on your own for at least 1 full year.That will make you prove to yourself whether you have actually seen what you did as a mistake or whether you were just trying to outsmart guys.
If any of them comes begging,do not yield and more importantly,do not accept ANY gift from ANY man .
After a year,you can then get yourself someone else.

honeric01:
Are you serious? i thought BRT start mid/late 2007 or do you have any contrary opinion?


The party name is ACN
A : Action
C : Congress of
N : Nigeria

The idea,the plan,the dedicated lanes and many buses were already available during Tinubu's era but he spent the time campaining for Fashola. BRT services were not opened to the public until 2008. If you live in Lagos you will remember the lanes were already being constructed before Fashola came on board.
Here is an extract from wikipedia.

The first phase of the Lagos BRT was opened on March 24, 2008, although it was initially slated for opening in November 2007 (the initiative to build the system was initiated by the government of the previous governor, Bola Tinubu. It goes from Mile 12 through Ikorodu Road and Funsho Williams Avenue up to CMS. At current, the Lagos BRT Corridor is 22 km in length

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lagos_Bus_Rapid_Transit_System

Ikengawo:
hey ungrateful LovePeddler.

if it wasn't for fashola you wouldn't have a BRT to begin with LOL go die.

@ ikengawo,
BRT started with the Tinubu administration and was already well established before Fashola came on board.

@poster,
Have you ffucked her since her come back attempts? If yes then you won't be able to chase her away easily.
Do you smile with her like you are still friends? If yes then you won't be able to chase her away easily.

The summary is I think you are still giving her some hope of being accepted back. The hope may be non-verbal. You know ssilly statements like "i loved you but I have somebody now" or ssilly non-verbal actions like looking her straight in the eye and smiling like you still admire her. Be a man and tell her it is over and that you were just a secondary school kid and could not love her or anybody then.Do it in public if the need be.

Honestly,she wouldn't be a threat to you at all if you are not giving her any hope that something can still happen between you.

Jewish history as detailed in the OT was actually an attempt to make jews believe that they are superior to others because they had the real/superior God on their side while all others had false or lesser gods.Jews do not believe in Jesus because such a believe will put them at par with every other nation. Jesus was the process that others developed so as to also lay claim to the superior jewish God.

Islam latter adopted a process similar to that of the roman empire by creating an arabic version of the initial jewish/roman empire God and modifying some portion of the already erroneous histories to incorporate the arabs so that they may also lay claims to the superior jewish God.

Now, some Africans are also trying to adopt the same process used by the arabs by actually claiming that Jesus was a negro. If they succeed in selling this idea to the masses,Africans will find it easy to stop seeing christianity as the white man's religion and accept it in fullness without mixing it with lots of elements of animism as is presently obtainable.

A closer analysis of religions and gods in the pre-jesus era will make us see that there were many concepts of God but the jewish concept was far better than all others in that:
1 He was male
2 He was monotheistic
3 He was God-of-Creation (as contrasted with gods of iron,fertility,fire,etc)
4 He wasn't represented by any physical object

If a boy learns and knows how to cook it will be easier for him to appreciate the time his wife spends cooking latter.

Christ Embassy,
God Embassy.

what.lyf:
Kudos to those Nigerian Scientists,

@what.lyf,
a quick reading of this page should have made you to see that the scientists were not Nigerians but Indians but like most Nigerians,you didn't read it before posting.

Women who love to demand their rights are often products of broken/stress-invaded homes. In most broken/stress-invaded homes the girls spend most of the time with the mother who successfully continuously poison their mind by telling them that their father is the cause of the problems. They grow up without any practical experience of how to run a home happily. To worsen the case,their fast talking pastors repeatedly tell them that "your husband is just your partner and you are equal".The problem is that they de-emphasize the word "submission" and substitute it with the word "respect" as if it is an optional thing.

Submission means whenever there are conflicting opinions,the husband's will prevail in a stress free manner.

We must note that when respect is compulsory it is called submission. A woman MUST submit. Anybody who has a problem with that should see a ssex exchange doctor.

My advise is that you should not even marry each other if the submission rate will be less that 101%.

Therefore:
Love is the key to a happy marriage but submission is the key to a lasting/stress free marriage. Any couple who has been happily married for over 30 years will tell you that.