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[quote author=proclinician post=86930033][/quote]Heheheheheheheheh

Na WA o

ityP:
You honestly think men give a Bleep about who puts or doesn't put on make up? Lmao. The husband who has a wife that puts on heavy make up will still knack the lowly housemaid with none. Think again!

Hmmmm

Kilamiti:
That one concern you oh chacha. Your husband will still cheat with a girl that makes up and photoshops. People won't stop forcing their ideologies on other people.

As in ehn?

That's some men for you.

They make their wives believe her natural look and looking thin is the best, so other men will not woo her.

But when they go out, they run after voluptuous ladies with heavenly make ups.

Men?

Their friendship looks easy, playful and cool.

Nice one.

At least they both happy laughing at their flaws in speaking Yoruba. Lol

Ayt27:
Hello,
I'm a bit curious, why would you have preference for the girl than the son. Do you think you'll easily win the girl child over than the boy?

Girl children are easy to love and manage.
My maiguard wife has two little girls 4years and 2years. Those girls are so adorable even though they look poor. When they see me coming back to the office, the way they run and hug me melts my heart, I have no other choice but to soften up and love them. They are so trusting.
And when I dash them money to go buy sweets and biscuit, their innocent faces always lights up with pure joy . It's refreshing having lil girls around.

It's amazing how they love unconditionally, Without forming or anything.
Sighs

So yes it's easy managing lil girls.

But a male child?

Oh jeez! My bestie elder sister has a 5yearw old son. The first time the boy saw me, see the way he rushed my boob's and hugged me, I was so embarrassed. The elder sister was laughing and struggling to drag him away from my boob's. Mehn if he were not a boy, I would have slapped him. But anyways he's a kid. So I manage to struggle out of his hold.
Later he came again and rushed me.

I was so exasperated I swear and he's so stubborn. He doesn't let go! Boys are a handful. I don't have strength for Their hyper activeness.

That's why I prefer lil girls to boys.

MadelnNigeria:
There is no definite path to greatness in life but try your best to gain admission into University but concentrate more on learning a skill than what you are being taught in school(when you grow up you will understand my submission better)

Make sure you have a child before 25
If you can't do baby-mama, please marry before 25. I know you think you are still very young but trust me, by the time you are 30 years old you won't regret it.

As at 20years old, my friends were getting thier girlfriends pregnant, I thought I was wiser and more sensible than they were by not getting a girl pregnant.
Now I know I was foolish.

It's better to marry, if and only. If he can take care of his young wife and kid.

Tomorrow is not sure. So telling him to get a lady pregnant or just rush marry without solid foundation is a complete No! With pending disasters ahead.

I don't subscribe to such, except he can afford to take of his home and matured in handling a woman.

Frank25:
That gal was my galfriend when i was in asaba but because of small misunderstanding we broke up and now am regreting it

That's how most young men are. No need to regret. It's a normal for you guys.
Especially guys who have small change and look good small. Any lil thing is to break up, thinking the babe destiny is over.
Lol

But the babe is balling hard, making some considerable success with her life and still looking fresh and young.

Ned sabi maintain woman.

He try.

He has such a beautiful wife



Awwww!


She too fine

If what she says is true?

Then she's extremely lucky.

Such men are rare to see and even date. how much more marry.


May God help all the single ladies in the house, amen.

lefulefu:
most single moms still connect sexually with the baby daddies of their child .its a fact .thats why i cant date a single mom.cant be competing with the baby daddy and the wahala he will bring my way .i am fine jor happy sunday .

Please don't o.

You've come this far in life to now complicate it with baby daddy wahala on top your woman. No need Abeg!

Happy Sunday dear.

I can see you are fine.

I'm happy u are settled where u are. It's good. Keep it up.

lefulefu:
as if the guy will tell u the truth
a lady would rarely lie if u ask her but for we guys hmm
a married man already with five children and a wife will tell u he"s a bachelor and never married .its left for u to dig deep to check if he is lying or not .

Married men own, we know them already with such lies.
And yea I always dig deep.

But a glaring single guy hiding the fact he has a kid somewhere is not common. Most say the truth, and funny with all sense of pride and joy. Lol
I will just look at the guy and reply sorry I can't date u.
I met one recently, he was even happy to say he has two kids from two baby mamas .

I was like what
He smiled with pride. Lol
I look the guy and I asked him, are u allergic in marrying any of those women u impregnated, cos u say u give them money for upkeep. He laughed and said he's not allergic to marriage but it simply happend and he had to accept responsibility.

So I replied, so. I'm now the 3rd woman u want to impregnate now Abi?
Before he replied, I said no don't worry its OK. Say no more. Sorry I'm not interested. Stick with your baby mamas, don't complicate my life for me. I don't want trouble. And that's it.

Can u imagine?

Some guys sha!

lefulefu:
hmm single mom
so what of the baby daddy?
is he still in the picture?
most baby daddies hardly let go of the single moms cos of the free lashing they get from them

As in ehn? It's always messy. People like complicating their lives.

Anyways how u dey jare

Op what u can't accept and adjust to, please don't go into it.

If u can't love and care for another man's son, please let the mom go.

For me, I cant date nor marry a single dad especially if he has a son. If it's a girl child, I can cope but a son? Nope I can't .

U can still see a well behaved young single lady without a kid to marry. There are still some numbers if u look well. Don't mortgage your peace of mind for anyone. It always backfires. I just wonder why people can't be single without having a Child hidden somewhere for someonelse.

Quietly cut off and start afresh with a single lady but please ask first before u date any lady again.

I always ask any guy wooing me on the first date, if he's single, dating, divorced, single dad, separated or searching. I don't like entangling myself with baby daddy issues, I just can't deal. It's always messy.

Anyways u know yourself better. Do what makes u happy. That's all I can say.

He's very lucky

Uisce:
Good for your sister. It pays to have morals. Another Nigerian chick go date a married man without hesitation so long as he has money.

Not true.

Not all Nigerian girls. We still have some morally grounded ladies. If you know u know.

Then in the case of Abuja marriage, I heard the men are manhoes there.

Which means they expect their women or wives to take care of them and spend on them forever, while their own is to fucvk for life.

Anyways thank God the men over there are gradually waking up! No woman will foot your bills for life! While all u do is fucvk!

Your gbola dick alone cannot keep a woman!

Hustle o, make your woman no rush file for divorce after two months of marriage.

My brother hustle.

Girlwhocares:
Well,he's not taking care of my bills,i make my own money but he's responsible in his own lil way.
Thank you.

Now I understand why u are not Inlove with him

He's not takingcare of you and my dear that's the origin of the problems u are facing.

We women, we love it when our men take care of us, even in little ways, let him spend some money on us, even when we are billionaires. He has to spend.

And such thoughts it's not bad. That's how God created us.

You don't even have any issues.

Quote me anywhere, if your man starts spending on u, surprising u with gifts and u do same. U will see how the feelings will flow and love will creep in. Simple!
Both of u are like two strangers living in a house, going to work and coming back home.

Your problem is not even a problem.

You saw and felt the signs u still went ahead to marry him, even your brothers warned u but u still married him.

You want to hear the truth?

Because I'm good at saying things the way they are

Sighs, Las Las unfortunately it's divorce that will end the marriage, when uv gotten so fed-up and tired of him. For now, u are still Inlove and u wish u can change him.. My dear, u can't change him, except old age and life threatening disease that can do the magic.
Then If he's lucky enough not to contact HIV, and if u are very patient and dead inside. Dead inside means u no longer get to feel anything anymore but your work and baby. As years go by, wait till he gets old with a wrinkled face and skins , before he will eventually stay put and committed to u.

You've made a huge and terrible mistake marrying him.
One of the reasons I'm single today, although I'm in a relationship . But your kind of man full everywhere remain. And such man? I can never date how much more marry. Check out the replies the men up there are giving u, most of them are exactly like your husband.

If the reverse where the case, do u think they will be saying all these?

What a pity. May God help you and your home.

dapsoneh:
Eeeya! Take heart.. Goan make money

Lol.

Savage!!!


Don't mind him, he thinks only dick can keep a woman.

Eeyah

That's nice

So heartbreaking.

Na WA o

Amanda4life:
God bless you.
You are so real.

People will hate you if you are truthful and real

Much love

Amen and u too dear

Of course! they hate me for always saying the raw truth And I don't care.

And strange enough I have many followers, so it seems in one hand and deep down they appreciate the truth while in the other hand they just like to hate.

Hate me or love me, I will talk!

It's my calling.

I'm tired and fed-up of pretense and lies. It's very annoying to me when one pretend and u can see through the person.



Much love my dear.

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gregyboy:
Lol,

You're spilling trash and complain men are giving thier wives stds and so on

Did you forget about the stastical dna result that was published by medical personel showing how first kids in marriage are always not for the man


Have you also not seen several post creted by nl males lamenting of thier spouse promiscuousness

You're simply gendered blind even you female folks wont accolade your writup over there

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Lol accolades indeed. I'm not like you o

The ladies here know me, I say my mind all the time, that's all that matters. Not accolades. Ladies here are not like men who supports themselves in droves be it good or bad. But at least they get the message and know what I'm saying especially some married women here.

So fucv...k accolades!

No be only accolades, na chocomilo.

[quote author=Amanda4life post=86814345][/quote]Are u minding davash 222.

Look at Nigerian single celeb ladies or single successful upward mobile ladies and see how Fresh and sexy they look even in their 40s and 50s.

But unfortunately marry a typical nigerian man and age massively!!! With million problems for your troubles. He will frustrate his wife with stds,and bossy attitude, fuckving the wife when shes so tired, I won't say rape but it's that bad. No single rest. Then his in-laws will add their own problems on his wife, blaming her on anything blameable, his side chicks will add their own competing nature in his wife's life. Sighs it's one hell of a tornado union. Why won't women stab and kill their husbands, even though I don't support their actions.

But such wives have had it to the neck! They can't take it anymore. Their psychic has been turned upside down in marriage.

Marriage these days makes a innocent loving girl. Into a monster. Sighs may God help the men

I look at my school mates who are married with kids, they've aged like kilode, with wrinkled forehead, enough worries on their faces and bodies, dragging along 4 , 5 kids.
Some even dodge when they see me. That's their wahala.

There is the peace surrounding a successful single lady, which is rare to see in marries women these days. The married men are looking younger, their wives are aging rapidly!


Taraji is not married, that's why she still look firm and sexy.

My uncle asked when are u getting married? I laughed!

Uncle got angry and started spitting fire! U better think of settling down, do u think u will look young forever. I just stood up with smiles and I replied with the way Nigerian men are these days?

Uncle Pls don't wound yourself o, just take it easy , I'm off to work. He was still rambling on, as I left his house with smiles.

[quote author=Amanda4life post=86814345][/quote]

My dear, listen to people and have high bp.

Just do what makes u happy.

People will always talk and criticise . Na dia way.

MrCurious:
You and that person you quoted are both miserable being. If only you had known the true meaning and blessing behind those words that lady said before her last moment came in, you wouldn’t have spit that trash you called words.

Even religious jews and some christians perform something similar (using of water to wash cleanse their hands and chant some Jewish citation) like that at the brink of death.

Why must you tag everything a muslim does a bad thing?!

Shut up!

You are the most miserable human being I have ever come across online.

Did I mention anything about Muslim?


Smhhhh

NevetsIbot:
I don't know about who'll win the fight but I wrestle and take other self defense classes.


We'll see how it goes

Wow! On top your own house again!

Mehn u need to grow some balls and tell him to leave.

Why u allow family know your house in the first place baffles me! Who does that?

Well me I don't.

My step elder sister's daughter called from delta state saying she's coming to Lagos and wants to learn how to sew from me and will likely stay with me. I know the kind of lady she is. Shes my age mate, she's the kind of Waffi babe, that's stubborn, tough and also rough. She lived all her growing years in warri. I live mine in Lagos

Me, I'm a gentle easy going, level headed and focused human being, that loves peace and quiet more than anything, especially at home. In fact I love my company more than anything. Lol

Immediately I told her, the training won't be free. Cause biz is biz, i Increased the fee, knowing she won't be able to afford it. I then told her she can't stay wit me, my place is very small and I'm squatting with a lady. She was like hmm OK.
Her mother called my line that evening, I told my step sister sorry Sis that's the fee, I can't take less. U know I take care of myself in Lagos without help from family, na manage I dey.. So sorry ma

That's how I escaped being saddled with a tough cousin from warri

In fact nobody knows where I stay,except my close friends and bf

It's good like that! I don't need family stress!

U need to put your foot down on this one.

yanabasee:
See black women's mentality!?


They will never use their money to give a man a good surprise.....



Cr7's wife surprised him with a car.....


We will get there Insh'Allah.

Hes not complaining. He looks happy having such surprise

Emoney and some wealthy men out there including my wealthy bf doesn't give a hoot about women they are dating or married to, buying them expensive cars.

The love, commitment, care and attention whenever they need it, is like gold to them.

Emoney has the best cars money can buy, a private plane, so which other car his wife wan give am, that will trip him?

Nothing, except her loyalty and love to him and their home means the whole world to him. Than having a cheating wife whom your friends must have passed around behind your back, then she will surprise u with Range!

Mehn your friends will. Mock u and see u as a fool and Failure! Even with the new Range Rover u are so happy to collect.

Some Guys of these days are becoming sharks in gold digging. Take am easy o

She truly want her marriage to last.

Good one.

God bless your home dear amen.

AreaFada2:
It was the injured wife who was praying to God thus. Maybe she thought that was her last moment on earth. Only GOD knew what she was seeing or feeling as she recited that prayer.

I am not a Muslim but I know people of different upbringing deal with sudden dangerous situations differently.
RIP.

Oh that's true.

Just re read it nw.

Sighs May her soul rest in peace amen.

People If u don't know how to use gas cooker, call the owner to show u how to use it, don't presume u can figure it out. Gas is highly inflammable.

Peace #