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 Family › Re: Lady Thanks Her Husband For Marrying Her (Photos) by victorian(f): 3:46pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Brightgem:My dear, I have realised with time, that initially one's heart may not be there but what will u do if the main guy is just not eager to place a ring on it or he's not protective and caring as he should be? You can't be loving only yourself in a relationship. A time comes the lady becomes exhausted loving herself, loving her main guy without receiving 20percent of what she's giving out. Trust me one becomes exhausted and craves for at least someone to love her or else she become bitter and spiteful. After some years of loving a brick wall, your kind of guy in looks bumps into you either in the bank or hallway and since that moment he's always being on your tail to win your love.. Will u push him away and keep loving your main guy who doesn't give a hoot about u anymore? For sanity sake on your part, and for one's well being, just soak into this new guy's love and care, then get healed emotionally in the process and if the babe knows what's good for herself, she should start appreciating his love and reciprocate back. I have been in a relationship years back, my first relationship wey my main guy no send me. I was extremely exhausted emotionally and dried. So what's there to love again? Because I loved him like fire before? Na to move on. I can't come and die on top main guy matter. Let someone gorgeously cute with prospects love and cherish me like volcano too  I die there! 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Lady Thanks Her Husband For Marrying Her (Photos) by victorian(f): 3:34pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
foleskay:The guy I would have love to marry was my first guy, the one who disvirgined me like 16 years ago. But unfortunately he's relocated abroad many years back. The guy I'm with shows he loves me and sacrificed alot for me. He's cute , generous, classy and young. Tell me why won't I fall in love all over again? With time, one falls in love all over again, when the main guy is gone and buried emotionally. |
| Family › Re: Lady Thanks Her Husband For Marrying Her (Photos) by victorian(f): 1:02pm On Feb 10, 2020*. Modified: 3:55pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
lefulefu:Alot of women dont marry the main guy, cos the main guy is never ready , we love the main guy more and we can't wait forever nah. Most women marry the ones who are available and probably loves them more than the main guy. It's better sef, as long as she does not look back. If she stays focused with who loves her more, she will enjoy life to the fullest. Main guy no B am o. They are never serious. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by victorian(f): 11:16am On Feb 10, 2020 |
gowonmaharajah: I'm just trying to help a fellow lady here. My Valentine's is settled
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| Romance › Re: Val's Day: Ladies, Help A Guy With Low Cost, Tasteful Ideas by victorian(f): 10:52am On Feb 10, 2020 |
Liposure:Yes o 
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| Romance › Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by victorian(f): 10:48am On Feb 10, 2020 |
NeedAdvice00:He's the one placing breakup on a platter of gold before her. Not me. What's my own sef!  |
| Romance › Re: Val's Day: Ladies, Help A Guy With Low Cost, Tasteful Ideas by victorian(f): 10:47am On Feb 10, 2020 |
EagleSquare1:Of course. Not just my heart. I will have a gift for him as well. I love surprising my man. He knows me that well. I just hope he plays the script of tears well.  Sighs it will be so heavenly. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by victorian(f): 10:44am On Feb 10, 2020*. Modified: 11:02am On Feb 10, 2020 |
PrimadonnaO:Don't mind him. He thinks he's doing his gf a favour dating her. His eyes go shock when he starts counting how many girls he has date and they've moved on to other men who knows the koko about women. The truth hurts but that's just the truth. I have a male friend, matured Handsome goodlooking guy, has a great job, drivesa nice car lives in a two bedroom flat but lo and behold no babe. Gentle guy, classy and all but no babe. We went out yesterday, I could see the loneliness and emptiness in his eyes. I wanted to hook him up with a friend of mine female but he was just too tired to start dating again. I felt sorry for him when he gave me gist on how he's with no babe. Later I tried lightning the mood and he went home Happy and calm as always  Guys here are still growing up then don't know anything, let the older ones tell them how life is, them go humble 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by victorian(f): 11:03pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
lexy2014:Can't he add feb14 to the other days they celebrate love? 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by victorian(f): 10:56pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
cassyrooy:I'm. Making a whole lot of sense A guy that's even giving his gf the option of ending their relationship if she doesn't accept no val celebration, their love celebration on lovers day.. Is that what u call he loves her? Loves her indeed. He doesn't give a damn, if they breakup! He's ready to free her if she insist on Val. And I bet that's why she's quiet thinking about it. So my guy is ready to breakup? Wow! Just like that? I don't need to, or have to tell him anything should make him see reason why he need to consider celebrating Valentine's Day, even with 2k he can celebrate his love for his babe and who knows she herself will. Also be willing to gift him. Everything is not meant to be expensive but the thought of I cherish the lady or cherish this day on lovers day. Anyways he has given her a open cheque , to stay or leave. It's his call. Not mine. 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Is It Compulsory To Get A Valentine's Gift? by victorian(f): 10:35pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Sierusvirus:Don't worry, she won't reply u. She will keep mute but remember another guy will help u, do your job  You think guys are not pestering her for dates and to be their val? She will help herself and choose one . At the end on Vals night u are happy watching tv She's happy going on a memorable night with one correct guy. So be happy u won't drop shishi or pamper her that day. Na u sabi! 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Val's Day: Ladies, Help A Guy With Low Cost, Tasteful Ideas by victorian(f): 9:46pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Anyways for me? I would prefer a romantic dinner , with chilled bottles of wine in an air conditioned home. Then after dinner surprise me with a lovely potable cake waiting for me upstairs with my name on it, and inscribe Princess, u r my heart desire , a lovely wristwatch by the side and rose petals sprayed all over the room. It will be so romantic Then read a romantic poem for me while looking like u are about to cry having me in your life, u can pretend by allowing a tear to drop down one cheek while reading the poem. But it must look real And I will be like, awwwww With teary eyes I will reply : That's so sweet honey ! You are just perfect for me! *Sniffs * And the rest is history. |
| Celebrities › Re: Faithia Williams Is Engaged, Set To Remarry, Flashes Her Engagement Ring by victorian(f): 8:12pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
| Celebrities › Re: Faithia Williams Is Engaged, Set To Remarry, Flashes Her Engagement Ring by victorian(f): 7:44pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
eni4real:Oh jeez! Can't u just give up and I accept I won in this argument? Is it too hard to realise and accept, I Princess Victorian 1 of Celebrity Land in Nairaland kingdom has won! I won! Won! Won!  Go figure!!!!!! I'm done here. Next case!!!! |
| Celebrities › Re: Faithia Williams Is Engaged, Set To Remarry, Flashes Her Engagement Ring by victorian(f): 7:29pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
eni4real:Story for the gods. Na so
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| Celebrities › Re: Faithia Williams Is Engaged, Set To Remarry, Flashes Her Engagement Ring by victorian(f): 7:12pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
eni4real:Hello? Not every man reason like you. Not every man have same taste like you do, that's why God created us all differently . Not every man must even have same taste as yours. You can talk for yourself only, not for every man out there. So don't generalise. U didn't create all the men out there. Whether u like it or not? She will be marrying a younger guy and there is absolutely nothing u can do about it. If not for bad belle people like you, fathia would have flaunt her man. But flaunting him? Mehn u guys will quickly split them apart in a jiffy. Her husband is definitely a young man. 1 Like |
| Celebrities › Re: Faithia Williams Is Engaged, Set To Remarry, Flashes Her Engagement Ring by victorian(f): 6:46pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
eni4real:If the groom. Is not 51 years old, what will u do? Kill them? It will shock u, she might be getting married to a 40years old guy, who have kids as well. So bearing children is not the priority here but Companionship, that's the koko. Experiencing true love and warmth in the midst of comfort and wealth. I can imagine the groom will be rich and hes based in Turkey, I can also imagined he made the birthday party happen. Mehn! Money is good. Especially when both parties are making money by the sides. God finally remembered Fathia. That's the beauty about God. When everyone Cast u down, that u are too old to marry, God brings forth a handsome young flourishing dude who will kneel down and say, babe if it's not you, it can be no other. Please Biko Abeg! Na God I take beg you, please marry me, before I die of heart ache God is too much! 2 Likes |
| Celebrities › Re: “never Trust The Loyalty Of A Poor Man, Until He Makes Money - Reno Omokri by victorian(f): 5:56pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Na today? It's a well known fact! Word! |
| Events › Re: Wedding Without Reception At Catholic Church Bariga. Food & Souvenir Packaged by victorian(f): 5:08pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
So easy. I love this. And they look so happy. Awwww 1 Like |
| Celebrities › Re: Faithia Williams Is Engaged, Set To Remarry, Flashes Her Engagement Ring by victorian(f): 12:41pm On Feb 09, 2020*. Modified: 6:51pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Liliyann:God bless you dear You will live long and happy in this life! Congrats Big Aunty, so happy for her. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
| Travel › Re: Uber Drivers May Go On Strike In Lagos On Monday Over VIO Clampdown by victorian(f): 9:43pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Jeromejnr:Not all of them. Some areas in Lagos are not affected by these Okada ban 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: My Valentine's Gifts For My Girlfriend Are Finally Here. Come And See by victorian(f): 2:56pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Y'all should leave Op 2 enjoy his Valentine night in peace o. At least that night will. Be a memorable night between him and his love Such a caring guy. Victoronah1 enjoy! Nothing do u! Cheers! Man! 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Family › Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by victorian(f): 12:06pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Promomarlie:The real fact about life is this : Nobody cares about anybody happiness. So you not caring about her happiness is irrelevant. The only person who can make one Happ,y is the individual herself. There is no parent on earth that will seat their kids down and say look start fucvkin different men and women. Parent either teach u the right thing and along the line as the child grows up, he or she follows that path or parents teach the right thing but as the child grows, he or she follows another path in life. Not everyone Desires marriage but almost everyone wants a companion or different companions as they grow older. It's not in your place to dictate to an adult how he or she should live her life. Everybody is not like you. We were created differently WIth different wants and desires. You can't force someone to marry if they don't want to. The earlier u realise not everyone must marry the better for you. And if she feels like tasting the privileges of marriage without being married, so be it. She's free to do whatever she likes with her life. At least she's still. Alive, making her money , taking care of her family and herself without begging any. Man. Unlike some housewives who died just few months or few years into marriage. A chorister in my aunty church, slumped and died on the pulpit while leading a song with her fellow choristers. She's married with three kids. A young lady. Neighbors said they usually hear she and her husband quarrel. Maybe she must have quarreled with her husband that morning, her bp rose up, she decided to go to church that morning, thinking if she sings to God her anger will come. Down. But lo and behold she had an heart attack in church slumped and died within few minutes as she was being rushed to the hospital. Church service end that morning. The husband was crying at the hospital. Some Men are just baggages of headaches and wahala, especially when one is married to such man. I believe if someone does not want marriage? Fine! Let the person be! I have a male friend, very fresh guy lives in a duplex built by him, successful guy but unfortunately he has bp issues. He opted for baby mama, he took his child, while he freed the baby mama. He wants only one kid. Every day he swallows a pill of bp drug. Every single day. I was like wow! But why? He said his workers are stubborn ,and handling them. Is stressful and that's why he can't get married . He needed peace and quiet in his life, he can't deal. With women issues. He's single with his kid living with him. He gives her the best of everything. His mother also lives With him. He told. Me, Vicky I'm. Not getting married, I don't want to die young. So u can imagine? A guy drinking bp drug, at least a pill every day of his life. U can't force him to marry except u want to kill. Him finally. Some people. Just cannot handle the stress in marriage. That's the truth! 1 Like |
| Family › Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by victorian(f): 8:31pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Promomarlie:For me? I don't have issues with white wedding. Traditional and court Is OK by me. People looking at spending millions or lots of thousands of naira on their wedding day, are just wasting money. They are not even looking at the bigger picture that's the marriage. Marriage is forever if both parties are not selfish, while wedding is just one day affair. Alot of people getting married have misplaced priorities. For me, a simple quiet court marriage is OK. Any of my friends or fans or family who do not like it, should make their own carnival like. It's their choice. Then with genieve, how do u know she's not happy? Let's assume. How? Because she's single and not married? Maybe tasting different dicks and bodies give her immeasurable joy. You can't say? As some Men love tasting different pussies, also there are women who enjoys tasting different men. It gives them great joy. Not everyone must desire marriage or must marry. That's my view anyways. |
| Family › Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by victorian(f): 8:20pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Papanwamaikpe:I don't have the strength to deal with lies and cheating. U know your husband is lying and Cheating on you with women out there, infecting the wife WIth stds every now and then. His attitude in feeling entitlied, that the his wife should work as a slave when shes back home from work, while he seats, and chats with his numerous gfs. Some married men no longer assist financially anymore. The wife takes care of the burden, all to save face. All some of these men do these days is just Bleep! Fucvk! Fucvk! Only few men knows what it takes to be a man and a responsible man at that. Why should I marry a man who will increase my bp and cause me to early grave? Just because I want to be called Mrs? Or wear uniform attires when going out, pretending to people we are so in love, whereas it's all big lie. If my kind of man meets with me and we have same goals and plans, then I will marry him. If not? Biko lemme stay single. I hate unnecessary stress. The older I get I realise my shock absorber to things we ladies over look in men has thinned out. I don't have the patience and strength to look away and I don't want to divorce. So it's better to remain single. My bf did something that really hurt me last three weeks ago. I was actually battling with my bp,when it happened. it was so high. I almost had stroke! Coupled with work stress. I was so shocked when I noticed the stroke effect on my face already spreading. Mehn I had to stop whatever thoughts I have about him, take bp drugs and just withdraw from him and focus on myself. There and then I realise I don't have power for man wahala. I can't come and die because of man. God forbid. I started feeling better and free two days ago and today, since three weeks o! If. It were before in the past, I will get angry and talk to him with tears. Now no more tears again. I think I have finished all the tears in my body all through my past relationships. the next I will realise now is high bp and nagging headaches. Mehn and high bp kills in a flash! I can't o! Make everyone stay their lanes. I'm done with man wahala. |
| Family › Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by victorian(f): 8:01pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Papanwamaikpe:When I hit 40 ,it's not the end of the world. Genieve is in her 40s, she is still living life well , successful and looking younger everyday. Not everyone can take the rubbish going on in marriages these days. I can't anyways, I will pass on it, Biko. I want to live long in peace and harmony not die in my prime because of naija man's attitude . I can't deal. 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by victorian(f): 7:06pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Papanwamaikpe:It's good u said "If" Cause for me? I'm not interested in the kind of marriages happening these days. I rather remain single. So keep searching for replica of me. |
| Family › Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by victorian(f): 6:59pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
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| Family › Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by victorian(f): 4:45pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Pusyiter:Lol what will u then do? Remember uv paid her dowry and handled the traditional marriage all by yourself. So what will u do, Mr handsome ? |
| Family › Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by victorian(f): 4:34pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
obowunmi:Some Men are that lucky and so arrogant at home. Honestly I don't envy such women at all and I don't pray to be in their shoes. Me that I have a soft body system and I don't like stress. Any little stress like this my bp Don rise up. That's another reason I'm still single. I don't have the strength, they have to take care of a grown man financially and kids join, na death I dey for nah lol and I don't even have mother to bring from village sef. That's why Im cool and calm like ice water towards marriage. Or else I will die young with all the wahala and bills I can't come and die on top I must marry. Your cousin is really trying, she's a strong woman. She's indeed strong. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by victorian(f): 4:22pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
obowunmi:I don't doubt your story It happens like crazy to women who wants to bear Mrs by all means They are everywhere. |
| Family › Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by victorian(f): 4:18pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
doris4u:So true. Most Nigerian men will not marry a lady if shes not successful in her career. They will only fucvk and go. There are so many successful older ladies getting married these days to young men who works as well. If you see any successful older lady who. Is yet to settle down, just know she's not ready to triple her financial responsibilities by marrying a man. She wants to just be on her own jeje, go on dates , enjoy the warmth then move on. Marriage is one hell of a financial burden. Lol. Na WA o 1 Like |
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