₦airaland Forum

Techguy96:
Thing is I want to go for a different course.

karnap:
It was indeed glorious day for business administration students National diploma as they are the first set to ever graduated at the ikorodu campus
They started the journey in 2018,it suppose to finished in 2020 but because of the global pandemic it reached out to 2021.

But my major concerns is the signout polo slighted on this particular student of the institutions.

The caption is * LASPOTECH no Hard,Just Buy Textbook*
The write up could be encouraging and can be discouraging
It depends how you reasons it.
This guy could be insulting lecturer and he could be encouraging students to buy and reads their textbooks and pass exam.
Go Through it
He also has another wonderful write up at his back ....* TIME to learn work*
I guessing he is mocking the.lack of work in the labour market in the country.

Techguy96:
This is my plan but what are the chances of gaining admission in a European country in my late 20s giving that I want to start bsc all over again.

YourWriter:
In reference to the post which I made last two weeks https://www.nairaland.com/6834344/love-im-scared
Here is the update.

I let my feelings known to her telling her how much I love her but unfortunately, the love is unrequited. She told me she's not ready for a relationship due to some personal reasons.
I so much feel heartbroken right now.
We move!

Perez99:
Good day nairalanders.
I will make it very brief. Please I need your advice.
I've been a nairalander since 2016 but this is my first official post.

My father is a good, noble and humble man. A successful business man. He's very proud of us (his children), we're also proud of him. We're 3. I'm 29 years of age, the eldest and only son. He make sure we don't lack anything. We all went to one of the prestigious Private University in Nigeria. I and my immediate baby sis are graduate, while last born still in 300l.

The problem is that, my father don't know how to dress, he prefer to wear faded and worn out clothes. My dad drive highlander 2014 model. If my Dad comes down from his car, you will think he's a driver to an imaginary Boss because of the way he dressed.
Blessed memories of my beloved mom May her soul R.I.P. She was always complaining and sometimes my Dad won't listen to her.

I'm a good fashion designer, my love for fashion is topnotch. I also own a laundry store and a barbing store. I've been privileged to sew some clothes for comedian Buchi which he loves so much and he promised to patronize me again.

GOD in heaven knows how many lovely, mature and soft dress I've sew and bought for my father with my money. He only wears it once and won't wear it again, there are some he haven't put on at all. He celebrated his birthday August, I bought this nice shirt 18k for him as a gift. Till today he hasn't put it on.

Please note: money is not his problem. The other day he stopped by at my store, I and my boys were working. He noticed nobody was using one of my industrial machines. He asked and I said it was faulty. He said how much? I said 170k but I'll change it soon before January....(because I just wrapped my car from corolla to ES Lexus)....Before I could say Jack... Baba don send me 200k. I ordered the machine instantly.

See what happened this morning, He got an invitation to attend a meeting. The smartest way to dress for a highly regarded man like him is native wear.
So he gave me this faded black trouser turning white to brush for him, that he wanted to wear it for the meeting...See eh, It was so annoying. I went to his room gathered the nice, starched and ironed native I could gather and I told him to select one, that I won't brush that faded trouser. He started saying ... " I'm proving stubborn and all manner things"... I'm sure our tenants could hear our argument.

Please Nairalanders. What can I do to make my Dad dress well. I plan to set fire on those faded and worn out clothes but it will look so disrespectful. I'm sure his friends have accepted his mode of dressing.
My siblings and I are tired of complaining.

Please I need an advice!!!

NemoDatQuod:
vikgreen01
Seems to me like you've set yourself up for a very successful llife. Success is not defined by the material things we posses. Don't quote me on this. I took the quote direct from the manufacturer of human beings and you'd agree He is best placed to know what success looks like. Hardwork, diligence and integrity will ensure you have food on the table twice a day, have a decent roof over your head and have a shirt on your back. Ultimately, that's all a human being needs. Everything else is the vainness of our ego driving us! I am proud of you. I hope you don't ever deviate no matter how rough things get.
I went to uni at 13. My parents were middle class with eight other kids to take care of in addition to numerous cousins and stary eyed kids they kept taking in. Life at uni was hard. All I had going for me was the blessing of an incredible mind and a determination never to give up. Today, I've got a roof over my head, can eat twice a day and have a shirt on my back. More importantly, I derive joy in "paying forward" the kindness I received from strangers as a kid. Everyting else is the vainness of our egos!

EkehPraise:
Do you know that I recharge her and also buy data for her? The same data package I use is what I buy for her

Did you not read the article that she was abused?
What if she's also been abused in the current place she is?
Some things need "deep reasoning" not generalising..

needsansa:
God bless u bro! It is somehow painful, but this is d best I can do for myself - move on.

There was a the she told me that the same guy saw my photo and referred to me as being ugly. And she had to remove my photo from her phone background photo.

distinguish:
We have been married for a year now. We have been trying to conceive. Because of the emotional stress attached my wife said she can't be staying at home alone, it causes her stress. She said she wants to start doing something. At least a business.

I took a loan from my place of work and we started the business for over 2 months now. The issue now is that, I don't always have cash on me anymore. Any little money I got it's for the business. Basically, we mostly feed from the business.

Yesterday, after we returned home, she started giving me attitude, I asked her what the issue was, she started telling me how I am killing the business, not taking good care of her, not having money to take care of her and all sort of rubbish, she brought out how incompetent I am as a husband and what have you. I never said a word to reply her and its eating me up seriously, I could not sleep the whole night. This is the person that I sacrificed a lot for. I was supposed a take a professional course this November, but because of her I had to postpone it.

Please I need your advice.

PS: I did not eat the food she prepared last night.

azraeljaheel:
so this morning i decide to set out in search of any menial job! Just to get wah to eat and atleast av a lil savings for d tiny project i intend setn off!



got to a place asked if they needed labourer! The man in charge of the construction said yes, but they gun pay me per bag of cement! Toh no wahala! Honest truth was that i heard 1500 per bag! 4my head i don reason say 4bags=6k!

am done with a bag now(mind u, u nid see the amount of sand they used in mixin a bag of cement, dem those bricklayerz na thieves)
nemodatquod
make i collect my 1500 koz i know i cant survive 4bags of cements. The madman is tellin me now that it was 500 per bag he said!

which kin stupid country b this for christ sake?

NovesaTillie:
Good morning

Sometime ago I made a thread about this new guy I just started dating. He has a good sex stamina, from a good background and highly intelligent but since he came to visit me about two weeks ago he has refused to go.
He has a job but works remotely.
When I left for work last week Monday he said he would be gone by the time I got back from work he truly left only to call me by 11pm that he's at the estate gate, from then till yesterday he has refused to go back to his own house. I need my space back
It was supposed to be a weekend stuff only but now he is gradually becoming a permanent resident. What made me create this thread is that this morning when I opened my wardrobe I saw a big bag filled with his clothes

How do I get to make him leave without sounding rude or hurting this relationship

victooman:
that is the situation l am into now, a corper l am dating, l know that when her boyfriend come back she will follow him, so when l want to knack l make sure l collect 6 points, and l dont spend kobo,, make we use each other pass time.

slickycee:
Guyyyyyy are we living the same life !!!!

My situation is so similar,
They dated for 6 years
They're families know themselves
She told me she doesn't know how to walk away from him
That the last time she tried it, she almost died.
She said she also doesn't see herself marrying him

Omo the night she told me all this I just went weak.

We were so close and everything only since last two weeks, no more picking calls, chats are so dragged.
From the tone of her message, she's using style to apologize and all


I know she has reunited with her ex , I know the guy has told her to stop texting me.

I know they used me to settle and make up.

Was so worried about the whole thing, until I saw how it played out in my dream.


You see all this so called good girls, ndi wife material, they would get what they deserve
I hope the guy they choose, give them everything they're looking for.


But I'm not bothered now, it's time to forge ahead and be open to better opportunities and people.

If she should ever comeback. Na she Sabi.

I'm not going to allow someone use me as an emotional power bank.

She would hustle relentlessly for my time and attention.

And it doesn't guarantee I'll even accept her.

Ah don chop my breakfast, I don belle ful.

I saw what happened in a dream, have prayed about it.

Therefore I shall never worry about it.

Na she get her life, anyhow she wants to live it.

She's free

greypencils:
When/If she finally leaves the boyfriend, she will be looking for the man that will "take me as I am", "love me for who I am"," I want someone that is mature and look beyond my past, someone who won't judge me". Yeah! They will be looking for somebody's son to dump all their lives wahala upon. Yet somebody on the other thread was shouting that body count of a girl doesn't matter, idiot that one is.

Timekeeper:
Not my business....


Nairalanders pls help me oooo... I am graduate of Banking and Finance (2nd Class upper), National Diploma in same discipline and I rounded up my service just last month. I would have applied for several graduate entry level job from Banks, KPMG, delloite but the age limitation is a problem... As I am currently 28 and the age requirement is below 26 years. ..
Thanks to Nigerian factor and all.

I need a job ranging from;

HR(intern & assistant) as I have no experience yet.....

Administrative and management jobs

Customer service (I have a year experience )

Location is Lagos.. Mainland or island.

Any state is welcome but must be south south or south west...

Email: adenrele.azeez@gmail.com.

tensazangetsu20:
Damn op you actually followed your bf to a native doctor. You get mind o. It won't take anything for you to kill someone if you could do that. I pity the guy who would be unfortunate to date you men.

wish I didn't fell for him..I almost sacrificed my life for him to become somebody, sometime last year I was able to see his post Tru a friend,he was cashing out big time, clubbing, spending money, using expensive car, spending money, when I'm here nursing the child alone, I hustle to put my kid in school and recently I just got him text books, it has not been easy, I called his parents 2years ago the father shun me off on phone, after everything I did for this guy, I cried almost everyday wish I didn't fall for him..

Yaks02:
He's a 2nd leutinant

babyboo4life:
I've told him to ignore her and wait till he collect his money back. but he's slow to action

tiswell:
my guy forecast 36 and won few millions with just N100

1sherlockHolmes:
I'm a corp member passing out this coming december, during the previous month I have managed to raised 180k from my alawee.

Last month october I discovered bet9ja online betting through my friend, and decided to give it a try at first I was winning, I was happy that I discovered a way to earn extra income, I ignored all the warnings that I saw online about betting. Gradually I started losing, sometimes my games enter and sometimes cut but i refused to stop.

To cut it short guys I'm now pennyless, my 180k turn 0k in just a month and next month I'm heading to my village empty handed. Its been so long since I cry but today i did.

Bigjosh10:
Bro please how did you go about your MSC with 9 admissions. Wow big congrats, I also came out with a strong 2.2. could you please put me through how you sent about yours. A contact or email would be fine by me

Shytreasure:
Please, i need your help on how to apply for masters degree abroad.

Rollitout:
I had 2:2 also with a CGPA OF 3.16 and I have been working in the telecoms company ever since I graduated, I have worked with about 5 different companies with my 2:2 and infact I just completed my master degree in the US.
This is to tell you that your 2:2 will take you to so many places in the world if you believe, I will advise you to go for your MSc degree as well if you are still scared of your 2:2, you didn't mention your CGPA because that also matters when search for institution to have your MSc done. Most institutions will request for a CGPA OF 3.0 and above for masters.

chicoMX:
Your Apple phone na made in where?

sotomayor:
story, millitary people don't put millitary stickers on there cars...
werey way dey disguise..
Till millitary police catch you

Besto:
Impossible.. I drive pass them.

Once them see my sticker for car, then go just salute, give way.