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my own is that i actually believe ladies are in control, you know we men have been wired to always chase and want sex, Why can't the ladies make the commodity scarce until the time that the true consumers who are willing to wait for it can help. the reason i don't put too much focus on my guys is that the guys i surround myself with are good guys as well so sometimes i just wish that more ladies will lock up, let the guys see a wall when they come and only when those who are willing to be patient come can they see what is beyond the wall.

Who would not want to agree with me that guys own have been there ever since or is anyone here wanting to disprove me when i say that this particular generation of girls are the worst when it comes to promiscuity

if there are no exams why should there be schools, i can just imagine UNIBEN without exams and what i am seeing in my mind's eye is not a school.

Caracta: Yaaay! Sexkillz, can I hug you?

so you can attempt to stab him abi?

pleep: Why do u insist on misleading these poor men?

even my fada is a badboy, and has been married for 21 years! This is what women like

hahahahahaha... @even my Fada is a badboy

Caracta: This is wrong! Very wrong! Too wrong!

Yes it might be wrong but is it true?

pleep: IF YOU ARE 17-20 AND YOU ARE TRYING TO BE A NICE GUY U ARE SILLY

Choi

sexkillz: [color=#000030]The time I'll use in discussing what she did blah blah, how I'll become bad blah blah, how other girls will pay blah blah is more than enough time to achieve better things and move ahead. I shake my head when supposed men say that A GIRL made them change from good guys to bad guys. . .

It's below pathetic.
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Lol.Oga Sexkills why na

Caracta: We experience the bolded too. You guys should stop acting like it's a one-way thing. Treat your girl the way you want your daughter to be treated

Lol, yeah you girls experience it, but what i noticed is that, while a good guy's own start after being heartbroken by a girl. A girl who you thought was a good girl can just go and do the undoable....

This girl proved to be a good girl, the only problem with her was that she didn't understand many things that relationships involved but she was so ready to learn because of the love she had for me, her first love... She was not materialistic, respectful but all of a sudden i got a knife in the chest or shot in the heart, from no where?!!
I was warned by my male friends many times, i've read many stories on nairaland, even my friend's girlfriend about the same age went to another uni and was confused by a guy and left, take a backup they said, i said No!! I'll do this right by her, there's a chance she's different then Wham just said she couldn't do this again ... Wetin you wan talk

pleep: I feel ya.

But imma be real honest with you.... The amount of games and none-sense these men go through is ridiculous... it is a miracle of God that all of them don't flat out despise the female gender.

... but that is changing

Ladies are creating an army of "mysogenists"

Gbam, this is what is breeding the new generation of bad guys, it's no longer that guys just spring up and be bad as ladies normally believe, it's now that one girl misbehaves, breaks the guy's heart while it's still filled with hope and love and since guys can't be forgiving like the ladies, they go rogue and do in turn to like 5 more girls which do in turn to 10 guys and so on

2sexy.me:
OP, this is the real truth. Many will not admit to it here on Nairaland but I can assure you, they are very much guilty of this.

Take pleep's advice and have a heartbreak free relationship.

And never stick to one girl... Always have a back up because there is a missing screw,nut and bolt in their head. Their madness is like weather, unpredictable which can come at anytime.

This is the truth and no girl on nairaland will admit this...

pleep: But for the ladies a good 80% of them will win in the end, especially if they are still attractive. They will always find a nice guy like wacky to marry them when they are done with their fun. There is no way to know if a girl has slept with 15 men before you...

The only losers in this situation are are the nice guys... if you don't change you will end up marring a 40 yr old hooker that claims to be virgin.

This is the painful part, painful truth

sexkillz: [color=#000030]
I love myself. [/color]

Lol this ending in funny

some guys are actually very nice guys deep down inside but they have decided to give girls what they want and turn to bad guys. with right girl and time, the nice side may resurface

Caracta: Girls actually have the habit of falling in love with the same type of men over and over again...especially the "bad boys"

Same applies to girls in abusive relationships. I just tire for them. There is a name for this syndrome, i can't remember what it's called.

Hope is bleak,very bleak

pleep: hehehe ... ladies dont start liking nice guys until some bad-boy broke their heart

yeah and it is usually more than one, they never learn the first time, the good girls are an endangered species.

and it only takes one girl to break the heart of the guy who goes to do 5 more girls, so you see that the chances of good girls are reducing everyday

Caracta: @pleep, I understand that people that have been heartbroken find it difficult to love and trust again. But then...

Caracta: Huh? Eeerrrm...

Jeez! Why am i blushing?

*anti- blush* because i'm that good..

well i come across of your posts sometimes and i say to myself if only girls think like she does. but like my new theory,you must be above 22,. so needless to say, you were one of the people i wanted to lure to this thread,so tell me how you got this wisdom, were there a lot of mistakes or were you born with it

ebdib: you need to experience one of the established android phone makers before you come to conclusion. All these MTK devices are for teenagers wanting to test the android platform..no upgrade, no custom roms, nodeveloper support. Stuck with ICS for life, no customisable themes except with the aid of launchers which takes up ram space, Ram is unacceptably low. i could go on and on and on. Some things may be cheap but stupid...hey its Nigeria, anything cheap sells like hotcakes...Whether its crap or not.

So which phone now has a similar design to the infinix race bolt from any of the well established android makers because i like that design, also relatively cheap

pleep: OP you have to realize something... people cannot control their attractions. Humans evolved in the wilderness, with wild animals, warring tribes and constant danger. If a female and her offspring had any chance of survival she had to mate with the biggest, strongest, most evil mutha-fuckah she could find.

A man like this could protect her and her offspring.

The modern world is not nearly as wild as it was 10000 yrs ago, but these instinct are just as strong. Women have a primal attraction to bad boys and this will never change.

So why are u wasting your best years being a scrub, when you know exactly what the ladies are attracted too? If you continue down this path you will end up with the bad boys leftovers

It's knowing this fact; na im dey pain pass

Caracta: I like nice guys

@OP, blame our society, the parents, the men that sleep with our girls when they are still very unripe. But like i usually tell my brothers, there are still good girls out there. You'll sow what you reap. Let's not be myopic or sentimental. Morality has gone to the dogs.

Just do your own part and don't get carried away by what you see. The only language some men understand is big nyansh and bø.ôb§. Smh.

caracta at what cost did you obtain this wisdom you have?

Mindependent: We sort of both cheated on each other, it was long distance I got lonely one night and spent it with a friend but nothing deep happened and he was also seeing someone so he wronged me more

Ha madam let him go,if he has moved on the best you can get from him is maybe one week on bleeping then after that, he will move on again, the relationship cannot be real and emotional as it was before

pleep: And girls actually do not like nice guys, and never wil... yall need to get that trough your heads.

This is core female instinct

hmmm second time i am hearing this after the incident

its22078: Because of an experience with your ex, you conclude that every woman must be a certain way and you take it upon yourself to correct them because you are holy and superior and are in a position to correct them. Why not focus on correcting males first because they have lots of imperfections too nowadays. These females who are losing their virginities aren't losing it to themselves - its to men. Worry about changing yourself before trying to change other people.

They say experience is the best teacher............. for fools, most times it is best to learn from others experience; if that is what i were to have done i wouldn't even be feeling bad for my ex becasue i would have expected it with all the stories one hears about ladies but when i decided to date this girl but i decided to put everything aside, i wanted the best for her, she had the potential to become one of the good girls,i saw that she was naive and i wanted to help her knw that the guys you were talking about were not all for her best interests, how am i sounding superior? males have always had imperfections and they will always have but why is it that women can't see that, why can't they take charge and make sure none get it save for the guys that have proven themselves ti be good? I did not defend all men but only those guys that have decided not to go the way of other bad guys, is that what sounding holy and superior now is? being a good guy? and beside i wasn't trying to correct anything in ladies just wanting to know why better go and read my original post again and stop talking out of point

Mindependent: Help me please

who wronged who? did you cheat on him or leave him or did he do it to you

I myself have gone to post there, i don't care if they block me, i have spoken my mind

byvan: MchewWwwww!!!!!!!!

why are you hissing.

2sexy bro your contribution is highly needed here

its22078: Why is it that some nigerian men think that they are so superior to women that they can be talking down to them and telling them what to do and how to be? Why don't you worry about bettering yourself first rather than looking for ways to try and control women. mtchew

did you see anything there about me trying to control women, i think you are in the wrong topic, and i an suspecting that you are a lady, because you are exhibiting one of the more female characteristic of inferring the very negative out of everything said. Because there is no way there that i am sounding condescending to women

For those complaining of disconnection, the reason just clicked in my head, it is because another application is trying to access the internet at the same time as you using your current internet connect and gloflat apn does not allow that, it must be the only access point connecting at a time, so just make sure that nothing is trying to connect with another access point when you are and you'll be fine

MRbrownJAY: ^^ as much as you are making a lot of sense, that %age is just too dam high. have some faith in your 9ja sistas man, lol!

Niaja sisters my foot. one of my guys just put the percentage that naija girls are materialistic at 97% when i would have put it at 85%, i was so surprised because the guy has not seen anything And his views are not mormally as negative as mine, talkless of this mouth watering offer.

Sometimes i look at what these girls are capable of and all i can say is "these girls dem bad"

MRbrownJAY: ^^^dont you think that the problem is therefore the ladies you hang around, and not 9ja ladies? i suggest you find better ladies to hang around for fast improvements in your social acquaintances way of life!

The bolded is exactly what ladies say when you try to tell them this truth. funny enough all ladies think it's other ladies then who are actually the bad ladies
Have you not notice that whenever guys meet, whether from different states, they always have sad tales about ladies> even check out nairaland for a small example

physise: go buy tecno n7,dnt go 4 any infinix product

N7 is too big na. E go even enter pocket?

physise: lol me too o patience gud o

I'm still sad though. Which phone can now replace this

Feraz: Is it that this "Road to ninja" ain't interesting?

It's basically about Naruto and Sakura being trapped in a prototype Tsukyomi where their lives have been reversed (Sakura's parents are dead heroes and naruto's parents are alive) and then tobi trying to retrieve the Kyuubi while having them trapped

MRbrownJAY: ^^^ are you saying that 95% of Naija women are wh.ores, with no morals whatsoever? although many will fukc that man without any hesitation, i doubt 95% of the Naija women population would do so (pls think of your mother/sisters/cousins/aunts and whoever when answering such question).

as for the boyfriend not knowing about it, it is irrelevant to the fact that she is a who.re, and it should be more about HER looking at the who.re herself in the damn mirror every morning. why even try to look for a job when she can simply be a who.re as a full time way to make money?! makes no damn sense to me.

I said Girls not women and even though, as long as the women\girls are not married then i maintain that my percentage as correct.
Thank God you say "It SHOULD be about her looking at the Wh.oRe Herself in the mirror every morning" KEYword being "Should" because frankly in this real world, they don't. They will try and rationalise it to something mild that doesn't hurt them or jab their conscience when they think about it. They'd rather imagine how fine they look in the car and how their new expensive cream is working for them

I don't know but i have watched episode 311 before somewhere.... I mean before it was released recently, i just skipped through the whole thing, did anyone else notice this\?