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RomanceRe: I Cheated On My Boyfriend With A Married Man - Please Advise by WackyJ1(m): 10:55pm On May 12, 2013
Aleovera: Actually God already has! I just need to make sure to forgive myself and move on. As for the reasons you think the incident occurred, that's just silly.
I'm crying for your boyfriend already.. My own is still fresh a bit so looking at this again... Too bad..
Better apologise well when you finally confess
RomanceRe: I Cheated On My Boyfriend With A Married Man - Please Advise by WackyJ1(m): 10:42pm On May 12, 2013
This world is totally not fair... Hope boyfriend kept backup oh. Odikwa necessary
RomanceRe: I Cheated On My Boyfriend With A Married Man - Please Advise by WackyJ1(m): 10:14pm On May 12, 2013
Aleovera: Are you sure about this?
Very very Sure.
I've seen girls i've been attracted to while i was with her but i never collected number or even called...
I never want to do something that would hurt the person i care about especially if i imagine myself being the one cheated on. I imagine the pain it would cause me and even though it is possible that she would never find out, i just remember how unfair it would be and how ironic it would be to do something to someone i cared for. Well this was what i believed till she left me for someone else and now you're coming to tell me this. Any hope for the female race ?
RomanceRe: Am I Suppose To Be Wary? by WackyJ1(m): 10:05pm On May 12, 2013
Solution is simple. Be around your house when your brother calls and then tell him that you're not around... Dedicate one free day to this, it's worth it
RomanceRe: I Cheated On My Boyfriend With A Married Man - Please Advise by WackyJ1(m): 10:02pm On May 12, 2013
Aleovera: Ogugua, thank you for the welcome. Honestly babe I understand why you seem so vexed and can relate with the passion your post exudes. Reason is I have been at the very place you are. I think you kinda misunderstood the content of my post, I did not leave my boyfriend for a married man, ( I fell in love not loose my mind). The reason I took a break was not to play the victim as you also wrongly assumed, but to re-evaluate things.

I have no intention of stealing any woman's man because I do not see myself having a meaningful relationship with a man who is already taken. Like I said, this thread is to assist all(myself included) who have been entangled in wring relationships to take the bold step of getting out by discussing meaningful ways to do that.

Get rid of the judgmental attitude!
Sometimes i don't understand you women. How old are you sef that you're acting like a freaking uni teenager? Dont you know what you want? Don't you love your boyfriend? How can you fall in love with a married man? Does your love have no reason?

Okay okay. It's too bad what you did but lets leave that. Look at your plan now, you want to give your boyfriend heart trouble by calling for a break with no good reason and then you plan to come back to your boyfriend when you're ready and keep the secret from him? Is it fair? We may not judge you for your mistake but i damn well will judge you from your current action, infact from what you're doing now, were you ever whom you claimed to be? Why don't you want to do the right thing
RomanceRe: Is It Natural by WackyJ1(m): 9:47pm On May 12, 2013
OP, It's natural.. Now can i have a sample of your blood. For purely research purposes of course..
RomanceRe: I Cheated On My Boyfriend With A Married Man - Please Advise by WackyJ1(m): 9:41pm On May 12, 2013
Except i purposely decide to cheat. I can never and will never.. Once i have said i won't cheat, i won't cheat, now assuming i am your boo have you given me reason to stick to my promise? Is what you did my reward for being faithful?
TV/MoviesRe: Naruto Information by WackyJ1(m): 11:17pm On May 11, 2013
Kaycee7: Hidan can't even face Shikamaru talkless of jinchuriki talk lesser of bijuu. The guy can't even utilise his immortality well. Hidan is WEAK. Just have d vital info dat he's not 2 taste ur blood and then cut him 2 tiny bits. D guy is useless even in d game.
GBAM, IMAGINE Hidan Vs 4th Raikage, where im go see blood collect?
TV/MoviesRe: Naruto Information by WackyJ1(m): 11:11pm On May 11, 2013
Feraz: Actually, it was Hidan who took down the Nibi
correction Hidan and Kakuzu, Hidan could never do it alone.

Comon guys why are you Hyping hidan because of immortality? There are guys that will crush hidan without even breaking stride. People from the Uzumaki clan will even seal him and forget the matter. Hidan died in that hole and that is how he was resurrected..
Hidan no be anything jor, leave Hidan to itachi and he'll be a goner
RomanceRe: Insecurity & Relationships by WackyJ1(op): 12:03pm On May 11, 2013
What if you have reason to be, she's acted in a way that gives you cause for concern
RomanceRe: Insecurity & Relationships by WackyJ1(op): 9:12pm On May 10, 2013
SLIDE waxie: OP, light dey ur area?
Nah light no day
RomanceRe: Insecurity & Relationships by WackyJ1(op): 3:08pm On May 10, 2013
Why are you guys not commenting? Abi na just to look una dey
RomanceRe: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by WackyJ1(m): 2:29pm On May 10, 2013
Dyt: Gd u said small gals
Let dem enjoy their moments
Wen dey are done distributin, dey ll know engine oil no b diesel cos wen u tell dem don't do dis n dat, dey won't listen so best let dem hav their ways
So you're admiting that 18-22 are not old enough to have sense? They're not listening but the effects of their foolishness are hurting us guys (recalls my ex)
RomanceRe: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by WackyJ1(m): 1:42pm On May 10, 2013
Dyt: Lmao
My comments are makin sm niggas go mad
Buhahahaha
You're wicked oh. You're married with children meaning you've gotten sense and have reached a certain level. Yet you're making comments defending small girls doing foolish things, WHY? Its not good oh

As i am typing this i had a Deja vu moment.
RomanceInsecurity & Relationships by WackyJ1(op): 1:27pm On May 10, 2013
Now i know you might be thinking that the answer to this might to so obvious that this question is irrelevant. But it's not, take a moment and read:
(If you want summary just scroll down to the bottom of this post)

For the guys we know that in this day and age, with the type of girls we have, anything can happen, the cheating rate among ladies is not on par with that of the guys if not more. So when you're dating a lady especially one who is young and in a way naive, can you really not be insecure knowing what can happen and the chances? Can you feel insecurity when there is actually no security?

For those against feeling insecure, what are the effects in the relationship? Especially for guys feeling insecure about the ladies? What's bad in the guy actually giving some warnings to the lady that this action though innocent might lead to some other things and urging her to be careful? About being worried about certain activities she does with the opposite sex that you know might lead to something more if the girl is not careful and telling her about it..

If feeling insecure is bad, what can you do especially when you care about the person a lot? What reasoning helps you guys in not feeling insecure?

Summary (I put this for lazy
readers)
1. For the guys, you know anything can happen in this day and age with girls and for ladies you've been hearing how men are cheats. Is there anything wrong with feeling insecure?
2. What effects does feeling insecure and acting like it have on the relationship
3. If you care about someone alot you most times can help it. What reasoning or mentality helps you against acting insecure?
4. Do you not feel insecure or do you just act like you don't

Mods Front page please.. This no be jollof rice
TV/MoviesRe: Naruto Information by WackyJ1(m): 12:56pm On May 10, 2013
The fact that someone taught the other person all he knew does not mean anything
TV/MoviesRe: Naruto Information by WackyJ1(m): 9:00am On May 10, 2013
rapmike: he killed the 3rd kazekage but lost out to granny chiyo and sakura? seriously dud, sasori is good but among the akatsuki, his death is least meaningful
Guy do you know who grandma Chiyo is? She was a puppet master oh? And besides neither of them could have taken Sasori on their own
RomanceRe: Caught My Fiancee Cheating, Should I Go Ahead by WackyJ1(m): 9:11pm On May 09, 2013
MRbrownJAY: @OP

- playing private detective on your partner, while not knowing what to do when you find incriminating evidence of foul play, was your MISTAKE #1

- while confronting her she told you another lie to cover her deceitful behavior. that should have shown you what kind of ¤$£@%?)* (insert proper insult) that this woman isnot acting on that clue was your MISTAKE #2

- staying with someone because of some priceless attributes that they possess, while disregarding the equally awful and very negative "qualities" that she possess, was your MISTAKE #3

- whether your next gf will possess the right attributes or not IS IRRELEVANT to the fact that this particular woman is NOT RIGHT FOR YOU. the fact that your judgment is very clouded in this subject, is your MISTAKE #4

- talking about time ticking, and not wanting to try this and that girl,shows us that you are desperate and not thinking with your head right now. if you want to be with someone at all cost then by all means stay with this "obviously foul and wrong" girl, but that would ultimately be the reason for your MISTAKE #5

- forgiving someone who does NOT deserve forgiveness (or who does not really regret their act) was your FINAL MISTAKE
You gonna kill him now?
RomanceRe: Between Girls And Boyz Who Get Fish Brain by WackyJ1(m): 7:06pm On May 08, 2013
Lol... Poster You think you have made sense abi? You're looking at the whole thing from a wrong point of view, completely wrong. That is not why we think girls have fish brain. Just wait let my fellow guys come and explain it to you
RomanceRe: What Do You Do After A Bad Breakup? by WackyJ1(m): 2:55pm On May 08, 2013
Mz nAirA: Ok.. Guess this came in handy..... I just got mine last night nd I swear had a bad night and swollen face this morning been trying to get over this but its so hard..... (Back to tears)
Awww.. *hugs* guess he sensed you wanted to double date on him
PhonesRe: Infinix X450 Android Phone (ICS)- Race Bolt by WackyJ1(m): 9:35am On May 08, 2013
le Trizzle: .......wondering if its the same race bolt that I have or its another phone entirely.
Sir you've not given us your review after getting your phone back from carlcare.
Did the hotness reduce?
RomanceRe: Why Must They Learn The Hard Way by WackyJ1(op): 6:33pm On May 07, 2013
nwababy: This is the bitter truth to us all.I think at a particular age,probably at (18,though not all girls oh)we girls don't understand the meaning of good men until a particular age(20s and 30s)we realise that that our exs are the best.but in my own case,I had a good man and at the same time I wanted to you feel free(cos I was already feeling trapped.he's was and still is my ist b/f)is funny but he gave me the opportunity to go on dates and with other guys knowing fully well that I was a virgin(I think that made him to give me the leverage).Then,he felt he caught me young and if is only us,we will be suffocated lol.So, I embarked on been friends with other guys(you know exploring) and I jisted him everything;in my 3rd year,he placed a stop to the dating and we concentrated on ourselves.but did I stop? for where free buzz dey sweet pass.I continued my taking out even his friend caught me on dates with other guys and reported me to him and that finally stopped my taking out lol.All this while,I was still a virgin cos if I wasn't,I believe he wouldn't risk me.He gave me a free hand to choose the kind of life I wanted to live,he tamed me though I wasn't wild even the good girls needs taming cos they can be very bad when they turn bad.But,I realised on time that I have a good man and I respected the fact that he gave me more than a free hand.infact,I learnt so many things from him and am still learning.is not easy to date a man for so many years but I believe that by the special grace of God,we shall be husband and wife this year.
How old were you when you started dating him?
How long have you guys been dating for now?
And also how could you prove to him that you're a virgin?
PhonesRe: Glo Gbam Multiplier Is Back!!!! by WackyJ1(m): 9:42am On May 07, 2013
honsule: A guy told me, 1000 clicks 5gb.That he use one click to do his own.But with modem that can dial
I wonder if Nokia suite can command my phone to dial because it's my phone i use connected to the system
RomanceRe: Campus Blues. . . . by WackyJ1(m): 9:10am On May 07, 2013
OmoKhary: eh?!does Alipahat look or sound like a rival?he is the devil! that has come to spoil Tunji's show
Same thing we are saying, Whether Tega can resist the devil and make him flee determines whether tunji's show will continue or not. It depends on tega, Aliphat is just doing his thing
RomanceRe: Who Do You Support? by WackyJ1(m): 12:12am On May 07, 2013
MRbrownJAY: i guess you are the one who doesnt understand English.......let me help you by trying to explain: if you only know a handful of ladies that wouldnt do what OP posted, then i am safe to say that you are only confirming what Wackyj1 is saying (unless of course you only know 30 adult women in your life)



i wouldnt expect any less from your buddy, if you guys hang around the same women, chances are you would meet the same women thus having the same views about these ladies.



dont you think that the reason for these sad tales is simply that it would be boring to talk about a woman doing whats RIGHT and COMMON? and instead you guys need to talk about something that is ABNORMAL and STRANGE (and that doesnt happen everyday). if the bad things that these girls did was as common as you claim, then you wouldnt even talk about it (since thats what "supposedly" happen everywhere), or would you?
There is a contradiction there, a girl doing what is RIGHT is not COMMON, we actually talk about it a lot when a guy comes up and can vouch well for a girl especially when the whole group would be against him and the we're amazed. we talk about the negative side because even though the women doing what is wrong is common, the ways in which they do it and the reasons they give is so different that we can't help but discuss how ABNORMAL or STRANGE this new reason is.
RomanceRe: Campus Blues. . . . by WackyJ1(m): 12:06am On May 07, 2013
lola.luv:
^^
wink cheesy
i sincerely wish aliphat has a strong game, there is no good romance without i strong rival and if she overcomes him then there is a greater chance that they are going to last a long time
EducationRe: What If There Were No Exams In Schools? by WackyJ1(m): 9:24pm On May 06, 2013
kulyie: of course na.na the pocket money wey our papa give us when we dey leave house go school cheesy no be every girl dey do runs before she enjoy her life na cheesy
hahaha. Na so. I no talk anything oh
EducationRe: What If There Were No Exams In Schools? by WackyJ1(m): 6:48pm On May 06, 2013
kulyie: hahahaha cheesy cheesy cheesy why e no go cost dem cheesy no be money we go take buy the suya or ice cream,no be money we go use buy ticket go concert,no be money we go spend buy cloth wey we go wear go party cheesy bobo yi o funny gan sha cheesy
na money but na "una" money??
EducationRe: What If There Were No Exams In Schools? by WackyJ1(m): 6:24pm On May 06, 2013
kulyie: them go turn school to brothel with their wicked skirts and heels or nite club.exam still dey some girls go dey wear some badt cloth,when exam no dey nko.lecturer gan sef go turn to mumu cheesy
Gbam
EducationRe: What If There Were No Exams In Schools? by WackyJ1(m): 6:11pm On May 06, 2013
Smhart1: I would have being a medical student
YOU SURE?
TV/MoviesRe: Naruto Information by WackyJ1(m): 6:07pm On May 06, 2013
I liked seeing sasuke in naruto shipudden movie 2: Bonds

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