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SOME PEOPLE ARE POSSESIVEit all dpends on the level of possesiveness. And some peoples behaviour make possesive guys even more possesive. if hes possesive and u know how to work your way around it and assure him theres nothing to be worried about he can adjust. it doesnt mean hes mr wrong. wat some people lack in some places they make up for in other places.
it depends on wat the girl can handle.

@ SCANLESS WE ALREADY HAVE HIV DAY.
^OLODO

There is this girl i meet in the cafe, I swaer she is too tight to be an african girl then i gat to have her number, I think i have to use Voodoo on her, Cause She is Too *****

@ ARIBLAZE LET ME HELP U OUT.
LMAO!

ah ah lol! dis happened to me!

please be resonable here!! it is the guy's business. if the said girl runs the BOSS down thru' juju ' collecting all his money and the guy eventually close down the office the poster will lose his job. CANT YOU SEE HE HAS REASONS TO BE WORRIED??

TRUE TALK MY BRODA.
nna na wa oh. i pity that ur boss even more because hes white! but tell me something now wat is hes widfe doing abroad living her husband in another countery with all these wide eyed girls given that he is such a delictable fish??!

prayers my broda prayers. pray for ur boss and ure self. But still God helps thise who help themselves it might not hurt to start dusting all the cobwebs frm that CV!

felled in love with me.

i couldnt get past that phrase!!!! LMAO!
everbody bend down for the arrow!

@ SIENA HE DIDDNT SAY HE WANTEDTO BUY THE CAR HE WANTS TO GET THE CAR
he doesnt have the money yet! so were telling him how to get the money!!!!!!!! u dey find car @20 go drive ure papa car now? habba!

chamotex and patwhizzkid una don dey crase lol!!!!!

@ poster
YAHOOZEY. . . HALLELUYAH HALLELUYAH TOO MUCH MONEY!!!!!!

@ maxell na wa ohh
wetin nigerians dey find go vietnam? HUMAN HAIR?

LOL

they hear just my accent, a bit britsh,american with a nigerian twist ,,trust me,,that gets me the women!

ERR IM SURE THIER SCREAMING COS THEY CANT BELIEVE JUST HOW FAKE THAT ACCENT IS!
A BIT BRITISH WITH AMERICAN? isnt that the recipe for fake naija oyinbo accent?? dnt even get me started ion that naija twist! my dear pick one and learn it!

@ poster start giving short glances as well just like shes doing and wen u catch her staring hold her stare 4 a while wait for her to break it of herself. if she likes u the next time u catch her staring and you hold her stare, she'll blush.

MEHN! ABEG GO TO THE RELIGION THREAD! because SAY U PUT ROMANTIC 4 CENTRE OF SENTENCE U THINK SAY U FIT POST THAT KIND RUBBISH HERE? ABEG COMMOT FOR ROAD.

Husband; (Dials 911).
Operator; Hello!! Emergency Response Service, whats your emergency.
Husband; A-bay-bay, A-Bay-bay
Operator; I'm sorry I didnt quite get that, could you please repeat your emergency.
Husband; A-bay-bay-bay ah-ah be- bay-bey.
Operator; Could you give us an address so we could dispatch a squad car to your location.
Husband; buh-eh-bay-bey-bay.

since we are now mimickin names @ okere juju
i was just following ure footsteps
first of all dials 911??

ure argument is solid but i cant help but think u understood wat i was saying but felt like turning it all around u started off with a foreign emrgency method so i followed u made it seem as though to be deaf and all that is a closed case so i was happy 2 enlighten u. but i did say for those priviledged when i started off and uve just stated that too, so wats this about? are we going round in circles or wat?

@ maiya suya and felix

plsss! hu still wills all thier belongings to one child in 2009!!!!!!!!?
How can a sane person in this day and age will everything to one child at the expense of favouritsm in the family?
i thoght all those sthings happened only in nigerian movies?

By the way nigerians are so lazy somtimes so ull just wake up one day and say to urself im getting the education, and the opportunity but do you know wat? i dont want my own, i want the remaider of my fathers empire! WAT THE HELL? that mentality right there is why there are so many disfunctional families in NAIJ!

@ POSTER if ure planning on ure children biological or not living off only wat thier father made are u sure you will be grooming men or boys? People want the best for thier children which is actually MORE than they've had so tell me how can they have that if they are taking the reminants of wat thier fathers built? well u might want to check your husbands view on this of course u have to have the same views on issues like this before marriage.

@ sista-jay
plane jane? this is 2009 o! plane jane do reign pass. by the way the last time i heard plain jane it was accompanied with ini edo and hair on her chest!

Dear Zesty,
in a situation like this you have to be true to yourself.

you are all that matters. you know the kind of family you come from if u go ahead and marry him will it be a very big deal?

how old is the child? if its younger or still a toddler you are better off that child can grow up to call u mother.
and you have to think will i love this child unconditionally? it is extra responsibility. u will not start of as a typuical married couple if the child is living with him from day one there will alwys be someone else to share the attention with who is not biologically urs ther might be some jealousy. can u look past that?

the other woman will always be there. there will alwyas be room for her. at birthdays, graduations, christams dinners. can u handle her? , he might take his mothers advice over you sometimes are u mature enough to handle this? the love might not be shared equally between u and her will you feel inferior? will this inferiority affect your actions?

aside all of this if u know you can handle all of this then u follow your heart.

I would love my husband to change and be the person he was when I married him but I can't change him. It's up to him to change.

madam! u would like ure husband to cahnge abi?

he couldnt have just drastically changed during ure four yr marriage! these sdort of feelings and preferenceas dont just come out of nowhenre except people are introduced to them which would have meant he was cheating and even if that was the case he wouldnt feel so strongly abt all of it.

your huband has alwyas been like this. the only reason u never knew is either u dint take enough time to study him b4u married him, or hes very good at hiding hes feelings. and if that was the case im sure there would have been signs he was interested in these thigns but u chose to ignorer tham or werent wise enough to look into it. whichever way ure husband cannot just change. u would need divine intervention 4 dat.

these are the reasons people should take time to get to know people properly b4 marriage. its not just all abt the wedding!

err diddnt u know the kind of figure ure husband liekd before u married him? some men are very adamant abt these things and if its gotten to this stage u must have known how strongly he felt abt this. eniway can u guys meet somewer in the middle? say a size 12? as hard and unfair as it may seem thats wat marriage is all about. sacrifices.

ps: well done! pls how did u loose all that weight eni tips?

o plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz thats just a load of bull even chico ejiro dare not pull that stunt in nollywood. that doctor just took advantage of the situation. that is unheard of and the girl must have known on some level taht that was just a lie but she was desperate so, case closed.

as fo ure relationship u cant balme tha gurl fro going to do it behind ure bck if she knws she cant handle it and there is nothign for her down that part u can be mad at her. but u cant call quits over the doctor bit even if he said asleep with me or i wont do it she might have still agreed. she was desperate i can pikture it clearly. think carefully and understand that she was scared, confused and desperate.

he knows the situation of girls in that position he probably has been doing it since. asshole!

its understandable outside naija, and for the priviledged ones as they can learn sign language and all that but in nigeria people are so ignorant! people just think wen ure mute its a don deal. yes the phone cal example makes sense but there are touch phones which wen u call the person u type wat is beign said and its read out by a machine on the other line. and if the person is deaf it can work the other way round u talk and it send as a meassage to that persons phone. if ure going to marry someone less privileged or handicapped you would have thot of all this and in fact growing up trhe handicapped person would already know and possibly have all this technology.

also they have things they can carry around which they can type in and it says the words in cas ethey are in a shop bla bla bla, also computers have a setting for speaking, keyboards and books have certain inscriptions called "transcriptions" they can read. the list is endless! ojuku juju or watever u call urself because they can not hear see or speek doesnt mean they cant live up to or more than expectations.

NIGERIANS DONT BE IGNORANT YOU LIVE AND LEARN. START LEARNING TODAY.

all this one u people are defending the deaf and dumbe guy is not the main point. pls somebody answer me how is a deaf and dumb guy in uniben? if he is dumbe no problem but if hesa deaf?? how will he understand wat is beign said in class? dose he have someone who listens and later writes it down for him to study? i know uniben i a well eqqyuipped school with a lot of experience and all that but is it equiped to handle such a case as teachings for the deaf and dumb?
this is very puzzling. i can understand the matter of love in that sense action speaks louder than words.

@ poster is ur problem hes deaf and dumb? you are critisizing the girls decision but frm wat ive read the only handicapped person is you because you are ignorant and inexposed in other words you are blind!

@ uche uche ah ah dem dey talk to u? abi u don turn woman lol! see as he carry matter put 4 head, na wa oh!

your fiancee only looked at him in sympatetic way but did not ask him to walk her home so i suspect jeaulousy here.

@ SKYLOOH HOW DO U KNOW? WER U DER?
AT POSTER, U CANT TELL GIVE IT TIME WATCH AND ABSERVE LET HER THINK U HAVE NO CLUE AND GET OF HER BACK ABOUT IT. IF THERES SOMETHING THER ULL SEE SOON ENOFF.

ehnn? to have one baby 4 tuface na mistake the second one na just curse! that pere self after all th othergirls out there she still did it without a condom? na wa o

lol @ seun!

before u guys start arguing u know its true. im a girl and i know girls are getting way too cheap ah ah wat is it? the onese that wer cheap b4 have become aristos, asin moved up a notch following older guys the ones that wer normal are  becoming desperate and cheap because the cheap ones are making it hard and the holy ones are becoming normal. the circle continues.lol!! to stay were u are the best thing is to stick to the rules of the game if ure gut instict tells u this guy is unserious leave! unless u r unserious too. gurls are falling fools all in the name of finding 'the one'. but in reality they know tha 'fyne boy' is not the one. the bad boys are so wanted u cant get them except ure cheap period! keep the fire burning and hold tight!

u cant fall and excpect to still be held in high esteem.
look for character, personality and responsibility not swagger, money and car! and that is the secret to being me HA!

ok so the writer had a point but sio wat? the beef is tooo much!
err the writer started the beef but just critiscied her personality and acting. the writer diddnt talk abt bleaching or husband snatching or all thiose other thigns those people said. so they had thier sources form somewer else. and pls the writer is just as bad dedicating thier time to write such a long letter she should step up and claim her prize. OP!