₦airaland Forum

Mcy56:
Depends on your investment objectives.

Mcy56:
UBA: Using one leg to test below N6...
Zenith: Too much bargain hunters.......taking position between 15.25 and 15.50..........will it go lower or build support at that region? We're observing.......

PrecioussB:
Lol. I get that alot. Would be nice too.

PrecioussB:
Just like the title says.
I have noticed, when guys talk about some exs, they will kinda hint that the girls is an addict or crazy, but then after looking into it, I just realised that these guys can bring a lot of it on themselves, oh do they know how much torment not having closure brings on someone. Not knowing why your once beloved girlfriend or boyfriend refuses your calls, why they won't explain or even see you, why they just disappeared can leave you very confused.

The women aren't crazy because they call you all the time, they are probably really desperate to find out the truth, which guys often don't say (though I've noticed that Nigerian guys, tend to just let it out which can be good at times). This feeling is like being stood in front of a brick wall, the truth is on the other side and the ex is the wall who refuses to budge, to even hint what went wrong, so you're left guessing, you can't see the truth and the ex is barely interacting with you too.

WE NEED CLOSURE, EVERYBODY DOES > now that can drive a woman crazy. All the questions roaming through our heads, of 'why did he leave?', 'why didn't he even tell me what I did?', then you start thinking 'Am I that disgusting that he won't pick up my call?', 'was I that bad a girlfriend that he avoids me?' and worst of all 'I don't want to seem psycho or like a stalker, I'm sure one simple phone call to him will sort everything out.', when these get unbearable, you try and call, and he doesn't pick up because little did you know he's so over you and he doesn't have the time, even just a little time to let you get over him.

MAYBE you guys actually don't want us to get over you. Maybe that is why the mess made is left there. Surely if you want us to move on, you will meet up with us, tell us the deal and move on.

GUYS please understand the power of closure, and so what if you hurt our feelings, at least now we can move on and so can you, and you won't need to explain to your new girlfriend that your ex stalks you and such. Ok, ok, I think the stalking is a bit much, but it is just some women are so desperate to find the answers that they will go to some extents, think of it from your point of view.

Your girlfriend of 7 months, just tells you one day that it's all over. Ok, so in the past 2 months she's been slowly distancing herself from you, less phone calls, visits and barely any enthusiasm, so of course, she's prepared herself for the breakup, but you are completely unaware, you think everything is fabulous, you're even thinking about what to get her for her birthday. The birthday comes, and she's all fantastic, you think you two are a match made in heaven, then a week later, she breaks up with you, and of course you're stunned so you don't ask all the questions you want to ask and the questions just float around in your head, you sulk for ages and then after the initial stage of upset, you now want answers, but guess what, she's moved on, she's now got a new guy, your number's been deleted off her phone, and you're calling to ask her why she left you, because you deserve to know, and she just speaks to you like your wasting her time, she is uneasy to talk to you or acknowledge the good 5 months you spent as a close knit couple, and it hurts, in order to move on, you need to know where you went wrong, so it's not too personal, after all it could easily be her cheating ways or wandering eyes. Just knowing this would save so much soul-searching, further heartbreak and just confusion.

Now do you understand the power of closure?? If you don't I will gladly go on and on and on. .

This is just my plea, so you guys give us a break, stop dragging things along, we know you hate confrontation and hurting our feelings, but being left to our own thoughts could actually really affect us, and is far worse for our psyche than being told the truth.

CLOSURE is KEY!

Peace

eduwizard:
Don't call me demented but I truly suspect that this man has been sleeping with the sales girl and is only shocked to have discovered her sexual waywardness. He's jealous and needs us to provide him options to deal with the girl.

Twaci:
Oh what’s that?

olivegirl:
So truly people shame a woman who found it difficult to concieve

Jgoldie:
She could have made this money she’s eyeing from papa ned herself,Genevieve,Funke akindele,Even small Emmanuella made money,why throw away your youthfulness because of money

I don’t understand ooo

You will one day wake up and regret all your actions but your momma who advised you would have been long gone

Hmmm what do I know

Chilling with vodka n monster Biko

kikero:
I heard that! ...and FYI I am a salaried worker. I hope to be self employed in the far off future though!

I also don't work for the oil companies, or government.

Also msot of this things I write came from over 9 years of reading and thinking about subsides, especially in the perood 2014-5 when all I did for most of that time was sit in fuel queues. (I refused to buy from the black market as a matter of priniciple...also past bad exepreinces)

Moneywirer:
Hope you're being paid for this

partnerinbiz4:
slay queens won't be found here oo

Lyydia:
The law has always been for the poor

PrecioussB:
Why is it that older men love to pursue Young girls?

Especially old African men. It is disgusting how they are interested in girls that are old enough to be their daughter.

I have had a lot of old and successful guys ask me out but I always say no thanks.

It is scary, these perverts need to find women their own age. Has this happen to anyone?

SunriseW:
Alright, don't forget 2meters at all times. Lol

emeijeh:
Chai, na from halfway line o.
Just press and direct steadily, the next thing camera go pan to jubilating players

SunriseW:
Alright, don't forget 2meters at all times. Lol

emeijeh:
Weldone, Gucci firstlady





Dude, you just reminded me of my Sega™ playing days!

INTERNATIONAL SUPERSTAR SOCCER, DELUUUUUUX!


Yakuni

Peterobi90:
What is doing you is chest pain... you should acknowledge his benevolence.

Rather than blame the leaders of the country whom have looted the covid 19 funds meant for the "poorest of the poor", you attack a tribe calling them criminals for showing good gestures to same "poorest of the poor"..

SunriseW:
Nigeria never grind beans sef

IjawAboki007:
I think we should be very careful about the usage of these locally made face masks because of what I saw today. I was in a bus where a passenger called a facemask seller.

After asking for the price, he took one and put it on. He immediately told the seller that he wanted to make another choice. He finally paid for one after putting on about 5 different types. I noticed it and told the man the implication of what he has just done and he became so sober.

Even other passengers were looking fearful because what I said was true. Now, what if that man has the virus, he has succeeded in affecting those masks without knowing.

These infected masks will be bought by other innocent people. It is also possible that is how these facemask hawkers allow buyers to first put it on before they buy.

There is a high possibility the virus can be spread easily this way. For those of us who patronize these local hawkers, let be careful and vigilant.

VaselineCrew:
but Nigerians are more concerned with rumored nnamdi Kanus death, than the suffering coming in Nigeria.

How come a serious topic on nairaland never goes beyond 2-3 pages, but tribal threads reach 20?

That’s to tell you the mindset of a typical Nigerian.

Anyways now is the time for wisdom and hardwork for those that can see what’s coming.

Chi59:
Some ladies don't do it for money or even the sex.
Young men are often in a haste, unwilling to work the knots that is a woman's emotions.
Many of you young men are absent, forgetful and downright indifferent. You are impatient and very careless.
But you see married men, marriage has amended their character and their attitudes to females. Years of living with a woman makes them quick to say sorry, to pay attention, to show up, to be patient.

Modified: See them bashing me. Blo.ody hypocrites. It takes two people to commit adultery. If the lady is guilty, how about the man who breaks his vows?

xendra:
but the dude no complain, abi because you know say you no go see who to gold-dig on??

Plead:
See them parasitic hoes up there looking for rich dudes to hook.

simplepee:
Ehen, they don come, they want to hear the WHOLE story. Oga they are married with kids, leave the rest.