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Why does it matter if someone disflowered another person? How does that improve your life?

What I don't get about this thread is that one can only be virgins once. When that person male or female has sex once it is it. Now my point is what is the use of asking whether virgins make better partner? If you have sex once with a virgin they are no longer virgins so if a virgin makes a better partner after sex does one dispose of a virgin and get another one like a disposable camera? Most Nigerian men like to hype up about wanting virgins as if they are themselves. These silly threads irritate me even though I suspect the questions are because most men are afraid they might not satisfy a non-virgin however if you can't satisfy a non virgin you probably can't a virgin either. Unless you are a virgin stop requesting virgins. Everyone wants another to be pure whether or not they are. It pisses me off that people pretend like women don't have hormones or sexual desires we are all supposed to sit and wait for men to run around and be the virgin handbag.

@Needlelady You crack me up but its true. These balls they rave so much about it turns out we have 'more balls' than most men.

Needlelady thank you very much for representing women here. You have been doing a good job and you make me laugh soooo much. You make statements similar to my father.

Wow I've always thought that Michael Jackson was Mus on lim, he has all the traits: likes defiling the young and the innocent, unaware of himself, in constant denial and the list goes on. Like peas in a pod is what I say.

If she did not want attention she would not be vying for the idiot of the year award. How many other stars are being flocked by those camera hooligans. Do they act stupid. Her, Lindsy Lohan, Paris Hilton and all those other idiots crave the attention. If the attention was stopped they might actually do something really drastic like commit suicide for real, rather than pretend to further come on t.v. The lengths people in America go for 15 min of fame will tell you that when some one gets more than their 15 mins share they will do anything not to lose it. Her music sucks and she's too old to be considered a jail bait so perverts can't fantasize about her anymore. So just like the withering Madonna she will act stupid short of shitting on herself in public just to get the attention.

My mother always said that they are looking for reasons not to vote for him. If it's not because he's a muslim which he says he's not, it's because people supporting him are stealing money which he is not or his pastor said something which (Obama) did not support. All the other anti Americans have they be crucified yet? The main reason is because he is half black and no matter how they want to deny it America is not willing to let anything black in charge of the white house whether or not he is half or full. Quite sad really and they cry tolerance and acceptance. Actually those cries remind me of the saying "empty barrels make the most sound." They all pretend and yelp acceptance like dying puppies but will not have action when the time to show comes.

If you are old enough to be having sex, you have to be old enough to use your own hands to buy your own condoms.

Well said, well said. Next thing they want the church to help pay for abortion or the church to help pull their pants down.

Everytime I want to reply I see that Nwando has already finished them. Haha, shes just like a restriction enzyme, she cuts them apart. The only thing is that they can't transcribe into anything sensible. All of you talking crap about Christianity are like nonsense mutations, you mutate to your other religion but you find its a big hoax. Have you seen the video where two girls were stoned because they were sleeping around, yet the men they were sleeping with were not killed. Hmm, the arrant nonsense that religion teaches only the blind and encompassingly stupid will follow it. May peace of allah be with you my foot, more like pieces.

Also if you put your notes under your pillow you will remember and do well too.

If you wear all your clthes backwards then you will do well in an exam

She is soo disgusting. She is like the Madonna of Dancehall a washed up ho.

thank you. . .that was my movie!!! Loved it!!! esp. . "Every Night In My Dreams" song. . .purrrrrfect

That's song is soooo old, when I went to Ghana last summer it seemed like the whole country had it on endless repeat. Like time froze in that country after the song came out.

Does anyone know where I can get some buru banton, not Buju but Buru and some hawkeye music. Dem man deh a kill.

oh, now I understand. I kept wondering why all the pictures seems so touristy except for the ones with the Nigerian food. In some of the pictures Nigerians are the minority if there.

Na wa even cricket is played in Nigeria. I thought I could get away from that abominable game by leaving Jamaica.

Good story I however think where you siad your "heart skipped a bit" you meant your "heart skipped a beat"

Why is it that a female having natural hair is frowned upon more by AA than by whites?

Isn't that also the problem with South Africa moreso that anywhere else.

No tracks, pins, glues, wigs, or any tool you have up your hair for me.

I've heard many other Nigerian boys saying this. You like to run your hands through a girls hair right? How many black girls do you know with naturally straight long hair? You yourself is your hair long and straight? Genetically blacks have curly hair because of the round shape of the hair follicle in the scalp now it is nearly impossible to get a 100% black girl with the features you want. You can't have your cake and eat it. Now if you prefer white girls or girls from other races that have such races then that is understandable but if you want a black girl with such a hair that is not relaxed and even relaxed hair does not equal length then your demands are almost impossible.

we had several Chinese classmates who couldn't say a correct sentence in English. Somehow, they managed to win top honours

The reason is because the best of the best of the chinese come here and they do mainly the sciences and business here. These math and science based study they do are things they have learned for so long in China that when they come here they can apply what they learned. I on the other hand went to a public school in America where we were not deemed important so we learned basically nothing. So now I am struggling life out in college to do the sciences which I like but did not have any good training prior to now. My point is if Nigeria schooling heck if even going to China will help then screw primary and secondary in America if it will be public. Private academies here are good I think but expensive as hell

Well I'll be , I guess one mans loss is really another mans gain. I hope this one doesn't do anything bad. Good for David A. Paterson

oh shit, someone is sounding tough

Not sounding tough just forewarning you. To be forewarned is to be forearmed. I most likely will never meet you for you to know my character so,

I don't think gender is as important as the type of job and the type of person the boss is. I worked at this really shitty place in high school and the manager used to irritate the hell out of me. He was black but most of the other people that worked there were black as well. He would would play favoritism and conive so that people would confide and gossip with him. He always talked about people behind their back as if he thought we were stupid or his opion mattered if you haven't commited a gross infraction. If he found it you weren't bothered my his lame politics and were above his antics he would try to pretend you were lazy or a thief. He would work all the immigrants harder and chat and drink and possibly do drugs with the Americans. Once you show him you were aware of his crap and that you knew your rights and would not stand up for crap he will start talking more crap about you to try and set others against you. He would remove hours you worked so you could get less money, he was just an all in all idiot man.
The place where I work now the boss is female and she is not like that, she is intimidating but because she is extremely intelligent almost abnormally intelligent and everyone is intimidated by her. She treats people the same if she has a problem she lets you know how she feel, she even talks to people that have won things like the Nobel prize the same way.

i don't see what's so special about a woman that she should be exempt from getting hit if she starts some shit. rather than just screaming insults at each other. it would be best if both sides walked and discussed the matter when all heads are cool. contrary to what is being said on this board, lots of women are gluttons for punishment, i doubt they would just away from the relationship like that.

If you think she started something and you scream at her she might think your starting something and yell back. If you don't have self control interms of getting physical then you should realize that there is nothing special about men that makes them exempt from a woman defending herself by hitting him back where it hurts. The screaming insults back and forth thing could have been stopped by not starting it in the first place because "what is good for the goose is good for the gander". I am not in the least bit denying that some women deem abuse as love however there are others that are not like that, so make sure when you make your pick you do so with immense care because if you choose the wrong woman then dog eat you supper.

I hate wieght loss drugs becasue the fat is already doing ill to your heart and arteries then you start taking pills that damage the liver with little effect on the fat and weight loss. What you should do is workout, if you can't make it to the gym walk, insteading of driving everywhere take public transportation, the distance you have to walk to get it is a good workout. Also instead of frying everything and buying fryed crap just bake and cook your food. Trust me those make a difference especially when you start taking public transportation, first you start off slow but soon you will walk briskly and then you will want to take light jokes. Another thing is with gas money going up like nothing else and being that pay raise is not correlated to gas raise then you will also be saving alot on gas.

i don't see anything wrong in hitting a woman in self-defense. don't hit someone if u don't want to get hit, it's as simple as that Huh. it's a bit gross to be comparing a random woman to someone's mom. arguing in public is not cool though, everyone shouldn't know your business lol

So now its self-defense, which one is the argument. Does the man arguing in public hit the woman first or what are you talking about? Anyways I have no reason to hit or attack anyone except for self-defense. If he argues I will will retaliate with words if it gets physical so will I, that is retaliation. In terms of mothers no one is trying to disrespect anyones mother, everyone gets ancy when mother is mentioned without understanding what is being said. If you don't hit your mother don't hit any other woman, whether or not the woman is random . That is why some government official slapped a woman for not letting him have all the road because he couldn't relate. Even though she is a random woman she is a mother and just like he would not hit his mother or want someone to hit his mother he should not hit another person's mother or any women for that matter

what makes u think he won't come back for me,acid ke

If you have ever been struck with crippling fear you will understand why he would not come back. I told you if you had the audacity to physically abuse me prepare to be greatful for all the peaceful years before our contact. That is the problem with some women they see abuse as the norm and let it happen when you know your rights then a man would not want to brutalize you in public or private. If he won't hit his mother why hit me and even if he would shamelessly hit his mother I won't play that.