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platinumnk:
Distasteful to cook? so if your wife was coming home late, you wouldnt clean and cook?

I'll get me some take-away and some stuff to go with it. . .  Oh, and she'll still do the cleaning up!!!

Thats what she gets for getting home late

A married woman should get home before her husband!

full depth:
A man will always be a man, u can never be on the same level wif us ! we were created to be above you ladies !!

PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

platinumnk:
yes you need to leave the girl. I need a partner who sees me on his level not below him.


his quote was that he asked her, so after cooking  for him, he cant wash his plate, just sit there and rub his belly ??    
some of yall dont need wives you need a house maid and a blow up doll

Its a simple choice init? As long as the home is kept neat, we really dont care if she gets a maid, i for one was brought up to restrain from the kitchen, i only cook cos i have to do so as a bachelor and its very distasteful as it is.

platinumnk:
I seriously doubt that she really needed help washing the dishes. Who says washing the dishes make a happy home.  Obviously the man has a severe case of romantic imagination so he need to leave the girl so she can find someone better.

As for me, if I wash plates with my sweetie , washing two plates will take 2 hours

That one is different, my agro is when it becomes mandatory to do it when u have a woman in the house!  Doing it to make her feel good is different, when she demands it - leave her to go find a mugu who will.

platinumnk:
Use Juju and make am rise again

Juju no go do oh!

THE-AMAKA:
this has nothing to do with washing dishes, show her some DAMN RESPECT!! cant you help her out? how is it wrong to wash the dishes? where is your brain? still living in the 1600'S or what?
i smell bullshit!
nonsense!

I laff in vietnamese

Bros abeg bone. . .  There's a difference between being single and having a babe/wife.

Nothing dey for washing your dishes, but when u bring someone into your life, you'd like to think she was homely enough to keep a home!

that is essential wife-material attitude, nobody wants potential-divorce-material, and from their attitude u cannot miss them.

platinumnk:
Kolomental!!  

LOL -- Ndewo. I was wondering where you was . . 
hehehhehehehe, una too much

My list for crash Nairaland servers again, and Bros Seun don warn me before, plus some shiyans for this site talk say dem no wan see the thing. . .  so i don burn am

Secretz:
ROFLMAO!! I understand you wella.

All this oyibo wey go dey boom inside train don make i no dey too use public transport again. Na so their skin go dey white but na so dem go dey boom like person wey never enter water for many yrs!  If dem come mistakenly yawn, e go be like say breeze don finish, person fit catch anyhow disease from all these koro, and she dey wonder why the guyman stop to dey kiss am??
I just dey wonder how the bobo go don dey try maintain inside this kind situation sef? E be like say the thing don tire am, him just get to terminate anything wey dey!

I cannot take shit from anyone in the name of luv!

Secretz:
See your  mouth. Granted the lady has some habits she needs to errr, fix. However, the guy does sound a bit too much.

well, sorry to dash anything, but some people no dey like that kind thing. . . Na thing wey go happen only once, but e go just disorganize and demoralize and totally discourage person. . .  e go just lose interest for anything wey concern u.

I dey try create mental picture, say my babe enter house, see small chicken for table - e no wash hand, e just start to chop the thing. . .  Then when him finish the chopping, e no go wash hand, na to wipe hand for him jeans  My whole body go don dey tell me say time don reach to fast forward to another levels sharply!!

gingeranny:
Yahoo things not working.
As for above poster-the man himself has told me its his problem not mine-i am not a dirty person-and i do not have a problem with hygeine.
No other relationships have ended like this-its usually me that has a problem with peoples hygeine-but i can appreciate people would get that impression-that i have a problem

Oh pls, u dont expect him to lash out at u, do u?

jay bee:
slow down lexi
u harsh oh

Why not?? When person no fit wash him abunna, wey everywhere go dey smell like fish wey mud, which kind person go gree enter for there??

@OP:

1. You have some very unhygenic ways and u need to work on getting that right.

2. Girls on this forum will only give u what u want to hear, the bottomline is u cocked up and got dumped, the remedy is to sit up and sort yourself out. . .  if for nothing else, then for your kids!

How many relationships have ended in this manner? How many more do u want to end like this? You are a grown woman and u cant even wash yourself? Damn!
Then u eat with dirty hands and wipe it on your jeans??
I dont even feel sorry for u, i think he was very very gentle to have told u off gently, i know people who will tell u off there and then!!
Just look at all the stuff u wrote there. . .  Your problem is quite deep

Ok, make i burn the yeye list sef

Now that all the fighting is over, can i bring my own list?

michelin89:
@ Lexi

My ex had more creams than me! Nor be say he fine oo, but he was always so concerned about his looks. He spends his salaries in shoes and clothes.

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

thats a different case altogether

Whether u fine or not, thats how u were created. . .  u should find one aspect of u that gives u confidence and stick to it otherwise u will be moody and boring and so conscious of it that u'll even be dumb!

Just cos a guy is confident, u say he's dumb and boring??  Jeezzzz

I think some people here are not so confident about their own looks

Secretz:
If the women nor give them so much attention then these guys would not be doing shakara, therefore not allowing them to be too confident about their looks.


I concur!

u don run concur

its not one-sided, and its not only about words

michelin89:
Even for woman too much shakara s bad. She is likely an empty vessel. But for a man to even make shakara that sucks. Sounds gay.

It sucks cos u dont like it, free the guy to feel funky with himself abeg. All the double standards wey una dey introduce dey confuse person. . .  today it is if u've got it then flaunt it, tomorrow na "it sucks", haba!!

y me:
who says it doesnt
it counts and it is very important

Its always an added advantage to have both looks and skills, everybody sabi that one.

u wey dey talk, u get skills? u fine??

rokiatu:
guys who are too confident about their looks ain't that good looking after all, the
most good looking people are the humblest people who act as if they are not even
fine.

Its the same with una girls, but thats not always how its percieved.

michelin89:
Abeg shakara nor good for man.

But e good for woman abi?

When a man's confident about his looks. . .  Free him!

When a woman's confident about her looks. . .  Free her!

How they are in bed doesn't count

Only those who aint got it whinge about these things

Your friend must be a boy to allow a woman rule his life like he didnt have one. If it were the other way round it'll make just a lil more sense. A man is one who is able to hold his own and at the same time handle those around hom, he should grow more steel!

Ujujoan:
Accepting a gift from an ex is hardly a sign of indiscipline! Like someone said . . it's rude to reject gifts. It's not like he's my enemy or anything  

You can argue with that word "Enemy" for as long as u like, the bottomline is women just are used to collecting, men are more disciplined cos we're more into giving than taking.

You've stated your view and said your bf doesn't mind, fair enough for u. I've made my own point, stating clearly that i'd gladly leave my babe if she does the same thing - Men are different, some accept shit from women, others dont. . .  Women will most def prefer those that accept shit from them, cos that affords them more freedom to act up. . .  hmmm

Why do some men accept shit where others dont?  Well, some men tend to take relationships as seriously as the eventual marriage - understandably so. . .  Others see a relationship as an avenue to study the woman, and so it is taken a lot less seriously. Such men can break things off and feel no hurt or pain. . .  That category is clearly where i belong!

I have never, and still will not accept trash, principles are simple to read but difficult to keep. . .  You're either in or you're out, there's no in-between point. . .  Its that simple.

Ujujoan:
^^^^

Why are u shocked?

Its called Discipline! You need to start controlling your self and not allow yourself control u

I'll say no thank u as politely and as bluntly as possible.

If we broke up, then that chapter is closed, we could be friends but the handshake cannot exceed the elbow anymore.

You know your limits and i'll know mine.

If my girlfriend did that, i'd ask her to get rid of whatever it was that was sent. . . or she can reconsider continuing with him.

Like a star, a star, a star, a star, like a hic! star la la la
She's like a star, a star hic!, a star, a star, she's like a star la la la

1hr is very dangerous oh

Ebonyeyes:
Ah it was a man that wrote this shit so it makes sense why he wrote no.16 Shit

Ebony

Stop stalking me

You only hate 16 cos i said it was the best

16 works perfectly with me

fynewaka:
@ Poster

I just imagine how many of those partying you have been involved in lately. After satisfying yourself with romps of sex you dash here for advice on your excapade huh?? I still pity the poor guy.

My advice

Tell him to renounce his oath of celibacy and marry you. hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

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My long lost bestest friend