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stillwater:
You call something free and you expect something in return? When I say Naija dudes attach 'free' gifts to sex, hence a reason not to collect anything from them, they will say I'm on a male bashing trail.

@poster

You, your friend, his girl, all are drama kings and queens. Chineke me, why should relationships come with so much wahala from your angle? Hmmm. . .

Just had to say that, if you like insult me.

Well, i dunno why but i always mixed u up with bluespice. . . Today sha, from your posts i can now make a distinct difference

TheSeeker:
Lexi nwa mama, how far? See me see wahala oooo. . . she dey deny love for my face

When the girl knows as much as that he is Mannerless, she don kolo be dat

Beautful.B:
love kee?
i cant fall inlove with a mannerless human being

Soooooooo in love

but still in denial

chika98:
I swear NL has dewindled so much in the past year. No smart threads to read anymore.

Perhaps u should raise some for us to read

Gabry:
whats wrong with eyonigger?

Does he flirt?

Responsibilities You are your parent's responsibility, not a boyfriend's

Pls stop talking thrash!

Eyonigger?

TheSeeker:
Whitelexi, can I get a summary of what's going on here?

Trust me bro, its not what u think

TheSeeker:
I can't help it but in my opinion, you're the best female poster on this section of nairaland and there's no flattery about that. . . . I wish the rest girls were just like you, unfortunately, they aren't but it's cool, we still love them all.

Na only u love them all oh!!
We only love some of them

Principle 1, Thou shalt not commit child abuse!!!

Wetin be this?? 5 whole days, she no even gree flash?? [Bros n2day? i hope flashing is allowed?]. This babe, abeg give bros a call, that number he gave out is not to be wasted abeg!

Kenny_G:
Likewise I think that formula needs to be a function of time

Correct, and we should also take into consideration, the number of failed attempts to deflower her before marriage. . . See them saying our theory is a failure, no be so einstine and the rest of them start??

jay bee:
what parameters guarantees the overwhelming quantifier?

Following the Lexicano theory:

P[(V + M) ~ C] = 0

Where P = Probability, V= Virgin, M = Marriage, and C = Cheat

smooooooth:
virginity is no guaratee that a woman is gonna be a faithful wife, like wise cos a lady's got a rugged past doesnt mean is she gonna be a cheating wife. experience has thought me that it is better to marry a repentant LovePeddler than a pretending virgin.

the probabilities attached are overwhelming, dont even go there.

Ujujoan:
Why dont you find out yourself huh?

C2H5OH:
When these babes are busy fucking up their lives they forget that their "tomorrow" will also be assessed based on those prior events.

If there is damning evidence that you are a ho, I guess i'm just supposed to take it on the chin and discount it.
I'm not in favor of turning whores into housewives.

Even if u try the hardest, it wont happen. . .  Ashawo no dey fit stay one place!

Ujujoan:
People like you end up in the wrong hands. Women that are experts at hiding who they truly are. What can I say, we get we deserve right?  

Are u trying to tell me something?

Even if i was about saying 'i do' on the alter and someone brings an issue like this to my notice and it turns out to be true. . . .  Church agbasala oh!

Her past is seriously messed up. . . 300 guys!!! That has to be some sort of achievement oh

If you've seen enough to worry u, then its as good as a done deal.
The good bit is: You have a head start, use it well. . . Before they start shagging u can find a replacement for her.

This shit normally happens, as soon as she's off the set, she'll realise she got carried away by the experience, this shit reminds me of a certain makozi that exposed 'thy kingdom come' and shagged on set, only to come out and start begging to stay in the uk

big rod:
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ARE U A PLAYER? HOW DO U KNOW FOR SURE THEN?

OMO IBO:
Hold on, whats happening here?

A few months ago, you wouldn't be caught pants down making these statements.

Trust Uju

how can u even blame it on youthful exuberance?  Is she the only one who passed through that youth stage? Imagine oh, to be very gentle, this girl is a harlot at a very tender age!  Dont make excuses for her abeg!

Ujujoan:
So you dont believe people deserve a chance to make right the mistakes they've made in the past? That's funny!  

Lets do the maths shall we, a whole street of say, 100 blocks. . .  meaning, we could have anything around an average of 300 guys on that street. Now i know girls can sleep with many guys before settling down, but surely if a girl has actively slept with over 100 guys, it has gone way way out of scope. . .  Is she a nympho or what?

There is no mistake in an entire street shagging one chick, was she the only girl on that street? What i see is carelessness!!

How do u know she's changed and not pretending? What happens when u marry her and your whole street shags her?

There are many if's about this chick, and now she's desperate to bring the latest mugu to meet her folks, dude will be silly to oblige.

@Poster:

Follow your mind, dont marry her, personally- i wouldn't if it was too bad.

How to end it?  Ask her over, sit her down, then very casually, tell her: I've done some serious background checks and i'm rather disappointed with my discovery. . .  I had good plans but i cannot continue with this relationship for personal reasons. Accept my sincere and heartfelt apology for any hurt this may cause but its over!

Get up, pour yourself some brandy and walk, dont go into too many details.   Simples!!!

kpolli:
u have met your soulmate, dont let him slip away

Straight outta the top drawer for me.

@Poster: You're at the cross-road that can define your entire love life. . .  You have the option of swallowing your pride and opening up to this guy before he gets too intimate with someone else to get out, or u can hook up and even marry another person with thoughts of 'x' lingering in your mind everytime.
Imagine how the unlucky guy will feel when u keep measuring him up, using 'x' as a yardstick.
Imagine how you'll feel when you hear or he invites u to a wedding or child-naming, or anything at all to mark some successful achievement - you'll feel like u shoulda been his partner, or putting it lightly, you'd probably envy his wife

190:
dem don do me tire~

the tin don tire me~

Dude, i feel your pain, but its just a phase. Try not to allow it discourage u in anyway

I always see it from the angle that even playas can quit the game when they meet the right woman. . . Its one of the hidden powers of a woman to calm a man down, sadly though, many women dont know this!

Ebonyeyes:
But you know I have piped down and am biting my tongue these days

You're getting there

No2Atheism:
@Lexi

I hope you are not about to break someone's heart . . . this your selective topic get as it be o o o o

Stop trying to decode me, e no go work.

Ebonyeyes:
I have never cursed or insulted anyone though and you know how hard that is with some of the ridiculousness one reads here .

When u see a ridiculous read, show some tolerance, refrain from responding

Dude, the worst u can get is a slap, look at it from that angle.
If there are not many people there to witness the slap, too many people wont know of it. . . So meet her when its a bit quiet around her.
Dont shake, u're a man! Approach her appropriately, charm her with your smile, start a good conversation, make her feel at easy with your presence, and take it from there. . . Your very first words to her does not need to be "Baby i love u"