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Jeromejnr:
How many baby killings in California?? you say...

Do you know that the largest child trafficking, rape rings are in America?

Do you know how many unregistered babies are killed by cult groups in California per year?

Please provide your sources or links so that we can see that you are not just making conjectures off the top of your head.

Do you know how may abortions (not for medical reasons) are done in the U.S monthly?

Abortions are legal in California and in fact the US as a whole (some states limit abortion Windows).
Do you also know how many abortions are done in Nigeria on daily basis (even though it is illegal here)?

You think it's by CNN that will just mention maybe a special case and that's all the killings for that year.

Well if you were a ocal who stays in the U.S and watch the local news on TV (not international news networks) then you will know Nigeria is nowhere near the atrocities committed by insane people.

Some mothers have to put their own children on a leash because of fear. I haven't seen that in Nigeria.

Once again provide sources for your claims.

In Nigeria here it is very dangerous to leave your children in the streets or public spaces unattended, the probability of the child being kidnapped and killed for ritual purposes are extremely high.

inumidun2010:
RELIGION go do us SHEGE for this COUNTRY.... Most people hide under the CLOAK OF RELIGION to hide their LAZINESS....
Every NATION is trying to make life EASIER for her CITIZENS, NIGERIA is still PRAYING TO GOD for HELP... When GOD has RELEASED HELP SINCE....
I'm a CHRISTIAN but can we be SINCERE for ONCE to ourselves, what's the ECONOMIC VALUE of 100,000 seater AUDITORIUM to a COUNTRY... No-one should tell me it creates JOB oooo or it means the KINGDOM of GOD is ADVANCING.. the KINGDOM OF GOD cant advance in CORRUPTION let's not decieve ourselves, MOST G.Os you see can't EFFECT a CHANGE if ASSIGNED a PUBLIC OFFICE..
Most CHURCHES you SEE are advancing because the G.O practice a DICTATORIAL STYLE of LEADERSHIP, but you can't EXHIBIT such STYLE of GOVERNMENT in a PUBLIC SETTING which are GOVERNED BY DIFFERENT RULES
Has RELIGION reflected in OUR LIVES compared to other ADVANCED NATIONS ?..
COVID-19 has REVEALED to us that GOD CANNOT BE MOCKED.. MILLION OF PEOPLE died , where is the MIRACLE ... thank GOD because he gave us SCIENCE because he's the MASTER SCIENTIST....
The ONLY method left they can use to INTIMIDATE this GENERATION NOW is FEAR because this GENERATION is ENLIGHTENED compared to our FATHERS who they DECEIVED not to ASK QUESTIONS ...
Let US build our NATION and let's PREP OURSELVES for the MASTER ALSO , RAPTURE might take 200 YEARS, let the WISE HEAR...

It produces more sheeps for the Shepards to milk.
If you have enough data watch this TED TALK by Rev. Walter Wambazi

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DfBzEAieaAM

RepoMan007:
secret societies are secret so I won't blame you for not blaming them but the churches. Same way people blame fellow humans instead of demons.

Its the churches that encourages and promotes prosperity by any means necessary. Like miracle alerts, sudden wealth without asking about source and equating material possessions and acquisitions as evidence of blessings from God.

Jeromejnr:
So what will America be? If Nigeria is worse than Sodom?

Southern Cali especially trumps all what Nigeria can be in a decade.

How many ritual killings go on in Southern California? How many baby factories are there in Southern California? How many kidnapping and raping of women and children are going on in California? What is the level of corruption by government, youths and elders in Southern California?
Sodom and Gomorrah main sin is sexual perversion. Nigeria's sins are the same sexual immorality (though hidden) and so much more. In fact Nigeria makes Sodom and Gomorrah look like a monastery.

Chuvin22:
Lol. End of year Thanksgiving indeed!

Their forefathers or ancestors that started this traditional worshipping madness didn't know what calendar was back then.

The white men brought their RELIGION along with TIME and DATE for these fetish miscreants and all they could do was to readjust their sacrificial schedules to fit into the new calendar.

The Christians also did the same. They had to readjust their sacrificial, worship and festival schedules to fit Roman pagan religion and calendar.

kufre2010:
And the Igbos are busy chanting holy many. So they own the tradition yet they don't practice.

Igbo bragging syndrome dey worry you

The irony is that the igbos stubbornly resisted Christianity initially, but had to succumb to the pressure of the colonialist.

Krismas:
Oh! So narrow. Why did u neglect to add the total number of PROSPEROUS Chinese Indians and Japanese worshipers of Jehovah thru Jesus Christ who live outside Far East? Like the number in Africa, Europe Americas and Middle East?

So there are a billion Chinese, Indians and Japanese that live outside the far east like in Africa, Europe Americas and Middle East?

Ok. Provide us with the statistics of Chinese, Indians and Japanese that live in Africa, Europe, Americas and Middle east before we start talking about the number of them that are Christians and then the ones that are prosperous.

You guys know how to make stupendous claims without any basis in reality.

Krismas:
Why are u talking as if there are no billions of prosperous Chinese Indians and Japanese who worship Jehovah thru Jesus Christ?

There are no billions of prosperous Chinese Indians and Japanese who worship Jehovah thru Jesus Christ because there are no billion of Christians in those three countries.

The total number of christians in China, India and Japan combined is not up to 70 million before we even start talking of prosperous ones.

Igbodicool:
There is no other god beside Jehovah.

It is an error to bow before the works of God and men.

Only God can keep alive and preserve!

Jehovah/Yahweh/YHWH is the mountain God of the Hebrews.
We had no relations with him until the slave traders forced him unto us.
To conquer a people completely you have to replace their Gods with with your own, by force or fire. That's what what the Europeans did to those they conquered and enslaved - particularly Africans and South Americans.

ChiefS:
He perhaps was over pampered as the only son. He now has so much entitlement mentality. There is little anyone can do at this stage to change him. You sister should send his money directly to him. There's even no need to feed his entitlement. He should go and work. No food for a lazy man.

Why should their sister send any money to him at all, after he burnt 70k she earlier sent. That would be rewarding bad behaviour and would embolden him to do worse.

CUMIN:
If you could read between the lines of my submission. You will discover that the guy is into drug already.

Confrontation by any member could lead to a very fatal incident in the family. He could stab the home sister.

The person giving him stipend have a great leverage on him, that can be used to control his behavior.

If you go the hard way to handle him.
It can lead to negative consequences

So because he is on drugs, he should get away with arson and threats to his father? In that case the whole family better start worshipping him.

So at 24 someone should be giving him stipends out of fear? His mates are walking the streets looking for jobs or trying to further their education, you his family to continue funding his drug habits.

CUMIN:
Just do a zoom meeting with your elder sister. Let your elder sister be giving him his own money separately.

After like 3 month your elder sister should slash his allowance to ¼ of what he's recieving at present.
Telling him to get a job.


You must not disclose anything your sister sent to you.

Why should the elder sister be giving him any money at all? A 24 year old graduate of economics for that matter.
He slashed their dad's car tyres and you think he should be rewarded with more money. Next time he will probably burn the house down.
He has no regards for the father or the family. A family that paid his education up to university level. He is just a spoilt and entitled brat.

Now the OP needs to file a police report with the video as evidence. He must be made to pay for the vandalized car. He must start learning that actions have consequences, which I am sorry to say your family has refused to teach him.

He must also never be allowed to return to the house, until he truly repents. He most probably has joined bad gangs or cults, which is a danger to the whole family.

after reading this thread by the OP, I realised he and his wife has more serious challenges.

akpunda86:
Help me I have not been to Church 5 years.Im married don't know wat happened to my wife lost interest in sex coupled with her health challenges of waist pains.Its been in and out of hospitals .I have sex urges can't even know where to go.
I decided to open my problems on a group was only married women professing love coming to me Tut fiction was not till I started dating one .
Issue now I feel so dirty,I find it hard going to church ,even if I go I'll still go back to my mistress
I'm getting depressed instead of been happy,I'm not happy kind of marriage I find myself

I can't discuss with my wife once hits bed is sleeping till daybreak I feel so lonely,suddenly I found myself that iv been drinking much something I quitted years ago
I tried dating the young girls was a problem.
My father have been asking son why don't u go to church ,I can't hide it anymore wanna open up to him and my mum that I have a mistress outside and sexually I get none from my wife.

I know wat I'm doing is not gud but how can I help it Infact soon I wanna take a break from home,wanna leave house 4 sum weeks join dem for Xmas.As it dey me I see second wife I'll remarry.

Should I enjoy sex at my eighties if I live up to that.
Paining me seriously.

Righteousness pls stay off my thread

The wife herself is having medical challenges - both physical and psychological. You need to first and foremost take her to a specialist hospital to properly diagnose the cause of her waist pains. Then you need to talk to a physiologist or councillor to get to the root of her psychological condition.

Sorry to say, you just can abandon her and run away as you have 4 kids who will need their mother to have a chance at a rounded life.

Sorry for your predicament.

akpunda86:
Haha compliments again bro .ur advice noted bro.sorry 4 wrong words used in this season of love.

Thanks. Please make sure you give those children a memorable Christmas, take them out to a mall or cinema (avoid the beaches). Then when their mother comes back from the village, have a heart to heart talk. The situation might be more serious than she is telling you. Women are sometimes mysterious beings, they sometime expect us to be mind readers. Ask her why she abandoned the children when they need her for Christmas. Encourage her to pour out her mind about the marriage. Why does she not cook in bulk. Cooking everyday can be draining.

Have a merry Christmas and a happy New Year.

akpunda86:
Thanks for the breakdown but 4 a man to break it down like this shows that u must be very intelligent but at same time jobless cos I can't see how a gainfully employed man can be breaking this,true we in season of love but my firm still running.
.Fastest don't always win the race,my wife mum have no life threatening sickness just arthritis,and I never objected to her travelling but let it be after Xmas,ok oga intelligent.

All she got to do is stock the freezer and rest I can do,even her elder sis that knows value of marriage all of us in same state is here with kids.

On state marrying from a close state or same state does not define a marriage,wat I meant a closer state wife can go cum bk same day.

So Niger Delta man drink ur sapele water in peace.i believe u drunk as u typed this.
Compliments

I am jobless as I have other (plenty others) jobbing for me. In fact I am on my bed right but I am still coordinating by businesses. If you have job for me, I would but mind, since you seem to be very jobfull.

Now, I am just giving you mature advice. Having been married for 15 years, I assume I am qualified to give you advice on marital issues. I had thought you posted the thread to ask for advice. I didn't realise you desired an echo chamber.

You have poor communication with your wife and you don't think of highly of her and her opinion. If you had better communication, you would have told her your conditions before she is allowed to travel. Under normal circumstances my wife (who incidentally is from Imo) cooks for 2 weeks at a time and divides the food in compartments in the freezer. So even if she travels for 2 weeks, we will not starve. You are the head of the family, you need to lead but in love. Discuss your requirements, plans, and aspirations with your wife in order to achieve a common goal.

I don't like the fact that you are threatening divorce on a very minor issue. You are talking like you did your wife a favour by marrying her.

Yes! Sapele water is our culture, but at the same time woman no fit use food do shakara for us.

akpunda86:
Good morning fellas and compliments of the season. Some are happy some are not but we all thank God for life.
Happy Christmas all.

Compliments of the season you too. May you find happiness this season and beyond.

Well fellas sincerely wish I have the power to terminate my marriage I'm fed up 200%.

You do have the power to terminate the marriage. If it's a court wedding, employ a lawyer and file at the nearest magistrate court. If it's traditional marriage, get your people together to go to your wife's people to return the bride price.

Is Christmas season of love all families stay together but my wife left home to her villa to see mum, yeah is a gud stuff going home to see parents, but if well planned. We planned after 25th she can go at least stay with the kids, suddenly she said she wanna go, I let her go, just yesterday wanted to eat, our helper said no soup in freezer, Kai I have to go buy soup outside. Today 24th, I'm gonna go to market to buy soup stuff.

It's most probably an emergency. You said further down that her mother is sick. It depends on the nature and seriousness of the sickness. She wanted to be there for her mother in case she dies.

You my friend is being unreasonable for getting angry and wanting a divorce because your wife went to see her sick mother during Christmas. Is this the last chrismas that will happen before Jesus comes? Besides are you a child? To most men Christmas is for children. Abi you expect your wife to take you to see father Christmas?

It is very painful. I regret getting married cos in this season any sensible person knows families gonna be together. In fact kids need to enjoy it as we did during our time.

Family is supposed to be together every time (as situation demands) and not only at Christmas. Nothing stops you from taking the children out after she gets back. There is no law that says you can only take your children out on Christmas days.

Salad we can't do, not that I don't have the money but I can't do it.

You mean you can't prepare ordinary salad? And you are proud to say that? Well should out to Niger Delta guys - We dey cook pass our wives. My children alway look forward too days I take over the kitchen. They all tell my wife that I am a better cook.

Her mum I told I'm not against ur daughter coming to see you, but she has to put her house in order first before embarking on a long journey.

It was an emergency. She didn't have time or state of mind to put her house in order before going to see her sick mother. Why can't you help her put the house in order? After all marriage is supposed to be a partnership and not a employer/ employee relationship.

Makes me regret a lot of stuff marrying outside my state, infact one can remarry, my spouse no go pass Enugu/Anambra.

Marriage is not about tribe or clan, but about love, understanding and respect. There are lots of marriages from the same clan failing, even couples from Enugu/Anambra.

Her mum sick, going see her I'm not against, my kids all crying all day long mummy mummy, I try pacify them.

Her mum is sick and all you care about is your own selfish interest? You are very cruel and selfish.
Your kids are crying all day even though they are in your custody? You must be a bad father then. I stayed alone with my kids for 1 week when their mother went to the village to bury her elder brother. There was no crying.

Every December Na stress. It is true it is women that are mostly good in taking care of parents though we guys also do our best, but my wife has 3 brothes all married, as it is Xmas none of the wives is around so the daughters fall on.

Women are closer and more emotionally attached to their parents than guys. Most women take care of their parents after marriage than men.

I'm not writing this long epistle just that I feel bad as I don't know wat to do, sexually I gain noting from her, financially she doesn't support, it is only challenges she brings to me. If it continues like this, I'll leave the house for months 4 her and let her brain reset.

You need to look into yourself and make necessary adjustments. You don't seem to love your wife and it shows. That's why she probably don't show you love too. You want to her to sexually satisfy you but you are treating her like a house girl. It doesn't work that way.
My bother look into the mirror, and there you will find your problems.

StylesX:
You make it seem like it's a taboo for men to cook, you married a wife not a cook, she shouldn't have a life just because she's married to you, instead of you to get closure and make her your friend you're talking about Enugu girls, maybe she feels the same way about you and can't wait to get away from you too, get your sh!t together and take care of your kids like a man instead of whining on NL like a lil b!tch.

Thank you my brother. The OP sounds like a male chauvinist who see marriage as a slave master relationship.

obyrich:
It's an emergency service emotional support animal. That woman is committing bestiality.

It is not a live animal. Watch it to the end.

wale0911:
Takeaways;
1. She kept lying it wasn't a cat and was even trying to claim some invasion of privacy- loose
2. The air hostess and (captain) were very calm and did a good job trying to pls both the complainant and the accused until the truth was established
3. Funny side, (maybe some witch turned her baby into a cat, that's perhaps the reason for her insistence)

Lastly, it wasn't a real cat after all. She's just a trouble maker!

She is a mentally disturbed patient.

Godswillu:
it is not a real cat.
I wonder how information like this makes it to the front page

I surprise o. I saw the video yesterday and learnt that it was a stuffed cat. I further learn that Breastfeeding or hugging the cat was some sort of therapy recommended by her therapist.

eagleonearth:
set out from oyinbo Lagos to SOKOTO via a Young shall grow CHINKO bus loaded to the brim with automobile engines and motorbikes among other heavy loads. We journeyed for 3 days because the excess load kept damaging the balloons of the very fragile Chinese bus. Finally got to SOKOTO on the 3rd day. My body was already slimy from stress and sweat. Took off straight to the market and found myself a shack to sleep in after managing to shower at a public bathroom. Fourth day I set out to market and bought about 10 bags via a so called middle man versed in the business. I never knew I dug my grave by playing into his hands. This guy bought me 8 bags of bad onions covered by good ones. Set out back to Lagos on 5th day and I boarded a separate bus to Lagos. It took about 2&½ days for my onions to arrive Lagos and by the time it could arrive mile12 it has started decaying with a clear evidence of the bags dripping with water. I handed it over to another middleman who helps people like me to sell and take commission. I told him I will be selling at so and so price after getting the market value from other sellers, then I left when we had an agreement. The next day or so, I had a terrible accident that got me bedridden, my phone got destroyed in the process and so I lost all contacts, therefore couldn't call the middleman in-charge of selling my onions. After about 2 weeks when I mustered every ounce of strength to move outside, I headed to mile12 straight. On getting there some of the northerners that recognised me were all over me staring moronically at my battered right hand. Lastly after exchanging pleasantries I went straight to the man in-charge of my onion bags to get my cash only to be shown where my onion bags were stacked already rotten. For some minutes I was confused and dazed at the same time. I opened my mouth to speak and no word was coming out, when I gathered the last strength in my body to speak and asked the man why he didn't sell my onions, he said that I didn't give him permission to bargain with buyers and that I just pegged the price and left, gosh I was flaggerbasted at the stupidity of this malaam who I didn't know whether he was being inhumane to me because of my tribe or he was simply being brainless. Long and short of it is that a business I went into with about 250K didn't yield up to 70K capital and profit in return. As I walked away from mile12, something in me knew that I wasn't coming back anytime soon. It was a very terrible experience for me and honestly the stress wasn't worth it.

That's the problem with this Nigerians. They expect seccess at first try. And if they fail they simply give up. That's not the attitude of success.

I think that mind set was put into Nigerians by Pastors who teach that failure is God's punishment or curse for not paying tithes.

For you to truly succeed YOU MUST EXPERIENCE MANY FAILURES. Failure is the best teacher. After each failure you get wiser, stronger and more determined to succeed.

Listen to the speech of Deshauna who won miss USA after 6 failures.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_f8vpS4IRk0

If you had accepted your mistakes as part of the learning curve, pick yourself up again and try again, your next try would not have been so spectacular. You might have become an onion or food magnate by now.

Efulefu:
I didn't have so far.

The computer center guy is a relative, He pays the NEPA bill, but generator I used mine. Thats why he squirted me out side his shop and nobody is allowed after me.

I only had one competitor at the ending of November but there is some reasonable distance between us, thats why I didn't take him serious

You are being subsidised by your relative for power, shop space and storage space then.

I am curious as to why your relatives failed to provide laminating services in his business cenre business. Most business centres I know laminate documents, ID cards, NIN paper slips, certificates etc as part of their business.
Does you relative make N2 million profit per year after deducting shop rent, power and taxes (both legal and illegal)?

tollyboy5:
What is now the fate of lekki-Epe natives whose land was used for the refinery ?

Are we the sacrificial lamb for Nigeria progress?

The chairman, baales, chiefs, youths and elders have all been settled. You cannot dig foundation in lekki-Epe without settling these groups.

Alaigbopress:
Just imagine
A refinery that is domiciled in the South will have Engineers from North working on it. No Catchment Quota for even host community. This is the type of Nigeria some people are ready to die for.

It's a private refinery. Dangote can hire only his relations if he so wishes. National character does not apply to private companies.

Catchment areas applies also only to public corporations and companies. Host communities negotiate conditions with private companies before the commencement of the project. If host communities see employment of their people as paramount, they would have demanded a percentage of jobs from the beginning, but we know how host communities operate in Nigeria. They prefer to collect cash and share now now instead of long term benefits

Efulefu:
I
Remember, at first I only had N30k, 27 out to buy the machine, 3 to buy laminating film.

I only have half of the money with me right now becuase of:

*Feeding
*When I got my first 100k, I bought new SUMEC FIRMAN GENERATOR
*My mom and Dad exfences
*Bought a new bike for N380k
*Bought a plot of land to build a small shop (computer center)
*Buying of laminating film, which is currently 3.6K after each 4-5 days
*Bought Infinix Hot 10 for 56k
*And many other things.

Things that helped me More:
*Patience
*Perseverance
*Prayer for success
*Selfishness
*Not having a boyfriend to distract me.

I will use my remaining 1M to buy computer, printer, photocopier and other computer center business tools.

Help other youths.

How much was the plot of land and how much did you use to build the small shop/computer center? Cost of Block, cement, electrical wires and finishes are moon high right now.

How much do you use to run and maintain your SUMEC FIRMAN GENERATOR? Remember petrol is currently at N165/litre.

benzion72:
Very impressive and a great motivation for all. But OP analysis is income based. You need to give us the expense side too. Like how many liters of fuel you use per day, tell us about wear and tears. Tell us what you use on generator maintainance . Your daily transport expense. Do you pay any tax to LGA this will help people. Before everybody go and get laminating machine[color=#990000][/color]

Believe me if a business can make you a millionaire in one year with just a N27k laminating machine, everyone would have gotten a laminating machine and drive down the cost ( law of market equilibrium). It will be just like pure water business.

gunners160:
O.P welldone but I Dont agree with what you have just written. U can never and I mean never save upto 1m from doing this job. Yes, you might make 1m but when you calculate your savings minus expenses within the month you will be left with little.

I have been doing this job for several years now and i also have a cafe. I have the customers in fact I sleep in shop most times but to save milk within a month, na lie.
Pl note, I Dont spend recklessly

You are the only practical person so far. Even though I support the moral of the story, the practicality is doubtful. I currently run 3 separate businesses with monthly turnover running into millions. Yet running costs is chocking me.
First of all 30k cannot start a business whereby just one asset is 27k. You have to pay for shop or space. For just space where you put umbrella, you have to settle omo-nile/local government officials weekly if not daily.
Then we talk of power, except the lamination machines can run on firewood. You have to get a stand by generator, and buy fuel everyday. You have to maintain the generator. You also have to provide storage space and security for your equipment unless you carry all of them home everyday.

Then we have to put into consideration your own living expenses. Unless you are still being fed and housed by your parents, you will have to pay house rent, food and utilities from your business.

Now, how are you going to save N1 million in a year after all these expenses in a Nigeria with hyperinflation?

christistruth01:
Correction 500 years from 1480

I stand corrected.

Efewestern:
When I want to engage my brothers from the other side, I do it in a civil and respectful way. It's normal we have some disagreements once in a while (lol), but not in this hateful manner. I can bet my left balls that he isn't Ijaw.

These guys don't know how connected we all are. E.g I haven't met you, but I can predict you are paternally/maternally related to Ijaw or Urhobo.

My maternal grandmother is Urhobo. In fact I was born in Aladja (Urhobo land).

Bastardlyrich:
Stop calling him warri king simple,ijaws are way above itsekiris and he doesn't rule ijaw.
Let's learn how to respect each other
He is king of itsekiris not warri.
If you say I'm not ijaw no need to argue about it.

Tell that to the whole world who came to witness his coronation.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GRsT8BvqCtA

Efewestern:
wirinet don't fall into the trap that guy is setting. I'm sure he isn't Ijaw. Keep the thread civil and ignore his rants.

Thanks my brother. We must prevent outsiders from causing disunity in Warri.

caracas:
Your brain is up side down
Whose story is more reasonable n makes sense....
The girl is clearly an irresponsible girl even her story does not match up...
Who would send you to go buy some thing by 2 midnight? It's clear she has been lying against the couple. Some one seized your baby n you waited 5 months before raising an alarm.......
From the woman's story one could deduce she was telling the true story, even giving instances n calling names with verifiable details......
Nigerians really need to learn how NOT to conclude, judge n condemn before hearing both sides of the story.....

Nigerians are very emotional, just appeal to their emotions and they can start worshipping you.

Maybe they sent the girl at 2 am to buy spiritual items from spirits.

The girl wants to blackmail the couple for cash, she never cared for the baby.