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Car TalkRe: Ever Ordered A Car Abroad While In Nigeria & It Worked? Share Ur Experience by xavuv: 5:44pm On Jun 11, 2023
Buy in Nigeria to avoid unnecessary headache
PoliticsRe: Fuel Subsidy Removal: Kwara Govt Reduces Workdays To Three For Public Servants by xavuv: 4:35pm On Jun 05, 2023
Good
FamilyRe: New Baby Blessing by xavuv: 7:52pm On Jun 02, 2023
Shalommy:
Op, no picture? But why ur kids resemble ur inlaw? Better do DNA test. undecided Chaii... Congrats!!
Good advice
FamilyRe: Please Help Me On Way Forward After Surviving Domestic Violence And Abuse by xavuv: 7:33pm On Jun 02, 2023
Sorry o
FamilyRe: Should I Meet Her Biological Father Before Paying Bride-Price To Her Step-father by xavuv: 9:00am On May 31, 2023
MetaBroadband:
Good morning mature men and women in the house. Please I need your help on this topic.

My Fiancee told me about how her biological dad abandoned her and her mum after getting her mum pregnant.

Her mum later married another man who adopted her as his child.

Now she's grown and I've proposed to her, I wanted to go for her official introduction and list collection.

Would it not be nice to hear the biological father's opinion? Should I just ignore the fact that the man is still alive and proceed with the marriage arrangement?

Although she said I should not bother about that, but this is Nigeria and as an Akwa Ibomite I don't think it's proper. Although she's against me trying to find out about the man's opinion. Should I care?

What can you say about this?

Note: she only told me that the man abandoned them, but what if it was her mum that actually took her away?
If i were you,i would discard the lady and mother together. What bitterness!

They should let you go and see the biological father, just to show face and rub minds. Even the step father should come in and make them see reasons for you to go and see the real father.

Such a fiancee is full of bile, understandably implanted in her by her mother. That bile will still be there for you to wrestle with when your time comes.

She will show you shege.
FamilyRe: WHY Do Potential Couples Do This? by xavuv: 8:31pm On May 30, 2023
premierlead:
What's ENP?
Evening News Paper
FamilyRe: WHY Do Potential Couples Do This? by xavuv: 4:18pm On May 30, 2023
Age matters, especially for women. Else ENP will be staring in their faces
CrimeRe: Court Sentences Rahmon Adedoyin To Death By Hanging Over Adegoke's Murder by xavuv:
Justice served with fearless grin
FamilyRe: Ponder On This Nd If U're Such A Person, Pls Try Nd Amend ur ways. by xavuv: 8:03pm On May 28, 2023
SyrusdeHansome:
After the burial the man's wife asked her b4 the entire fam whether she had dis kinda money nd yet the brother begged her 4 just 2k for drugs. They almost fought each other after the question.
Sensitive question
RomanceRe: "I Rejected Suitors": 123-Year-Old Virgin Searching For Perfect Man Seeks Love by xavuv: 6:49pm On May 28, 2023
Religion !!
FamilyRe: Closed thread. Mods can delete when seen ✖️✖️✖️ by xavuv: 10:43am On May 28, 2023
Nothing special here. She looks her age perfectly
RomanceRe: HIV, Please Advice Needed. by xavuv: 2:45pm On May 26, 2023
Jimbadly:
No need to worry sir. Just fvck the girl raw and enjoy yourself. You have nothing to worry about.

Make sure you ejaculate deep inside her pussy. undecided
Make e ejaculate his destiny? What an advice
RomanceRe: Tosin Ojutalayo And Andrew Odong Married In France (Photos) by xavuv: 1:47pm On May 25, 2023
Etimemy:
It concern me because I know you will be crying for a second chance
'You' as how? Why referring to me? You are your own problem 😊
RomanceRe: Tosin Ojutalayo And Andrew Odong Married In France (Photos) by xavuv: 5:12pm On May 24, 2023
Vision101:
See his mouth.....he slid into my DM and I was in a relationship. One anus don wide reach oshodi.
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Yeah! Andrew's bleeding anus is all i can think about
RomanceRe: Tosin Ojutalayo And Andrew Odong Married In France (Photos) by xavuv: 5:09pm On May 24, 2023
Etimemy:
What will you tell God?
None of your concern
FamilyRe: Let's Hear Your Worst Sleepover Experience by xavuv: 4:48pm On May 23, 2023
Cant believe i read through from page 1-9.

Laughed all through. Ppl here with me been looking at me somehow
Nairaland GeneralRe: Is High Time State Of Emergency Is Declared On Online Begging. by xavuv: 1:06pm On May 23, 2023
Godoverevery:
Am tired .....like it really disgusting and irritating.

You can't even be on SM in peace again.

I wish I can just screen shot my FB chat here.......90% of Nigeria ladies are now beggers.

How did we get herehuh Out the blue someone will just text you and start telling you.
Her gas have finished
Her mother is sick
Her house rent is due
Her birthday is tomorrow...Etc

You mistaking hi them and boom billing is the next thing.

Some will meet you were you want to get something and start begging you to buy things for them also.

Just this evening (a full grown adult) someone I barely know is begging me for data lying to me she want to use the data to send money to a client meanwhile she will waste the data viewing tik tok and Instagram.

Why is begging now so convenient for majority of our ladies?? Where is the contentment and self respect ?

Why is it so convenient be begging total strangers rather than ask people close to you for assistance.

Single mothers own is another case entirely......majority of those one are just something I can't describe.

No lady should come here and give that BS of is guys disguising to be female doing those things......we guys ain't that stupid not to know fake profiles.

Nigeria govt needs to do something about this trend cos our ladies are now becoming a thing of mockery.

How will a guy respect you as a lady if all you do is beg beg beg.
Be grateful to God that you among the previdleged. Stop whining like a toddler
FamilyRe: UPDATE: I've Been Restless Having A Chat With My Elder Brother by xavuv: 8:37am On May 23, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Wait... et tu? undecided
Watchu min?
FamilyRe: UPDATE: I've Been Restless Having A Chat With My Elder Brother by xavuv: 8:18am On May 23, 2023
Ovieemmanuel:
there is the problem. Waka waka . Them don carry am go where dem no know.
I believe there is more. Like i said the solution lies with the mother
FamilyRe: UPDATE: I've Been Restless Having A Chat With My Elder Brother by xavuv: 7:12am On May 23, 2023
DownTime44:
I can't leave my younger siblings and mother with that my brother. I don't think they are safe living together with that my brother without my presence.

My mum has prayed and fasted on his behalf several times. Let me tell you something, my mum and late father were Muslim. We're originally from a Muslim background. My mum converted to Christian because of this my elder brother. He was seriously ill when given birth to him. They took him virtually everywhere but there was no remedy. It was our neighbour according to my parents that introduced christ to them. They came through my dad because my mum was a devoted Muslim then. My late dad had to convince my mum to take the little boy to church having gone virtually everywhere already but the sickness still persist. It takes God intervention before my mum took him to church and he recieve healing truly. My mum made a vow without being told nor compelled that she and her family will serve Jesus Christ throughout their life time. She automatically converted to Christian before she gave birth to others including me. We're known as Christian. We do go to church. Although my dad barely go to church but we do pray together as one family when he was alive. He has his own bible he read daily and he believes in Christ.
Gbam!
FamilyRe: UPDATE: I've Been Restless Having A Chat With My Elder Brother by xavuv:
Hmm

Mr downtime,

Someone earlier said that your mum and dad (but he's late) are in a better position to find a solution to your brother's issue. She knows things you don't know.

This is also a sign that there is nothing you can do to help him.
FamilyRe: Why do most abroad nd successful Nigerians do this? by xavuv: 8:21am On May 22, 2023
JeffreyJunior:
It's because they are stating the reality which is obviously affecting your understanding of obodo oyibo.

Many people in Naija today believe that traveling abroad will solve their financial problems overnight and when those who were once in those shoes and have now seen it all try to correct that notion, they fail to see the big picture and hold on to your own age long conclusions.

This is why a lot of our people are trapped in several countries especially in Europe because they failed to have a closer look of where and most importantly, why they are traveling abroad.

I'm not saying someone may not be intentionally discouraging you from traveling abroad but there is sense in every nonsense, focus on the sense.
A-Z, Well said
TravelRe: Why Do Some Women Prefer This Sitting Position When They Are On A Bike? by xavuv: 6:15pm On May 21, 2023
MasterJayJay:
Use 100% of your brain. How many men have you seen in that position?
Just savage!
CelebritiesRe: Zeb Ejiro Speaks About Saint Obi & His Death by xavuv: 9:22pm On May 19, 2023
Oromoni619:
Wahala
I like Saint obi sha, but I love the real obi more

InvestmentRe: FCMB Founder, Subomi Balogun Is Dead by xavuv: 1:04pm On May 19, 2023
gaby:
He lived a fulfilled life.

Rest well baba.

You legacy lives on.
You can say that again
FamilyRe: UPDATE: Snake In My Roof by xavuv(op): 11:44am On May 19, 2023
isabi2lof:
We've many fake seers outside,
You are right!
PoliticsRe: How FG Spent Over N200bn On Postponed Census – Nasir Isa-Kwarra (NPC Chairman) by xavuv: 8:01am On May 19, 2023
Ah! Atleast 10 standard hospital would have came out of that 224 bill.
Car TalkRe: How Good Is Honda Eod 2004,pls Enlighten Me More About It b4 I make my final dec by xavuv: 6:47pm On May 18, 2023
Kasdat5:
Why not go for the 2023 Honda Accord!!
You'd enjoy every bit of it. My 1 cent ..

CelebritiesRe: Saint Obi's Family Reacts To Zik Zulu's Allegations Against His Widow by xavuv: 5:53pm On May 18, 2023
Unnecessary damage control.

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