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ZIMDRILL:
instead of googling you opened a thread

google would have gave you the answers you need instantly

than waiting for people to respond to your thread

Individuals experiences are better than Google.

@op, it all depends on individual and nature of delivery. If there is no complication and the blood stopped in time, you can have sex after 4 weeks.

For the second question, if your wife is the type that dont menstrate during breastfeeding, she cannot easily get pregnant during this period. However, the best preventive method for the first 6 months after child birth is Condom.

Mindlog:
If that particular tribe have about 1 million females by birth and marriage, how many out of that 1 million have you related with, to reach that conclusion?

Generalization Is a dangerous mindset.

Execpt we are just deceiving ourselves, there are things peculiar to a particular tribe or tribes. Op has been civil enough by not mentioning the tribe of the woman talking about.

Besides, you don't need to sample a million people to arrive at your conclusion, if 8 out of 10 set of the same people you meet behave in a certain way, there is tendency that 800,000 out of 1 million of them will do the same.

tuborme:
Peter Obi’s rally took place in 4 different places on thesame day… while Tinubu’s rally took place in one location

But why are people emphasise so much on political rallies? The rallies that 30% of them might be pass by people and road sellers, and another 60% could be those catching cruise and opportunists.

Political rallies don't translate to votes, so why are Nairalanders killing themselves over nothing.

True or not, if you are this man church member, and you still remain there after reading this, then you need to visit a mental clinic.

There are 3 factors that can make a woman behave like this:

1. She never loves and respect you, not even 10%.

2. She is a cheat who is emotionally imbalance.

3. She has mental issue.

Op made a very big mistake by allowing her to continue this way in the name of being a good husband. If all you wrote were true, I swear she can't live in the same house with me for 2 months. Infact where did you guys see these kind of women sef.

Spray:
Little wins in my career struggle they discussed among themselves, make mockery of me behind me when i Bought a car, and they said it has no second hand value, after like four to five years, they struggle to buy that same car they discredited.
Joseph (Not real name) will tell me this what Charles said (Not real name too). But Charles has never in a day tell me this is what Joseph said behind me.

Any little opportunity Joseph have with me,he bring conversation him and Charles had. How Charles envy and hatted me so much.

I summoned courage to reach out to Charles, by telling him, why is it that whenever he's with people, he bring my issues, even the trivial ones that we always laugh together. He said the person telling me all of these is exaggerating.

Why I confronted him is that, I want to do away with both of them for life, so that they won't be surprised seeing me avoiding them.

Because this has been happening for years and it's telling on my mental health. Even women hardly behaves like this, these days.

I really do not know if I over reacted by confronting Charles for all his shenanigans

You don't need to cut them off completely, nobody is useless in life, as bad as you think they are, they might be the ones to safe you in future, that is what life has taught me.

Since you've knows them for who they are, it should be very easy to relate with them. Don't tell them your plans again, don't get too close to them again, be mindful of what you eat or drink with them, never follow their advises again, and more importantly, remotely help them where you think is necessary.

Obavoh:
I am 26 years old and I have 4 children with more on the way by the special grace of God.

We all have our goals and aims in life. Why will you mock your fellow human being for doing what makes them happy?



See fresh boy you will never know I have a wife and 4 kids

I understand your point, people can be so judgemental sometimes, which I think is bad. Though wont join them to judge you, but I can give you a piece of advise.

From the kind of job you do and your income, I will advise you to put a stop to child bearing for now, 2 or 3 children are more than enough for anyone in this generation. You may think is easy for now, but by the time they start secondary school to university level, that is when you will know it not easy.

If you think deeply, you will know that you can't really function as human without money.

jamace:
Curbing Corruption is easy. It only takes a president with STRONG WILL to do it. I feel Peter Obi has got the balls to tackle corruption this country.

Lol, you know deep down inside you that thing has gone beyond repairs. No man born of a women can work successfully with our current constitution.

Know this and have peace.

Have a lovely day!