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Didi2d:
This one wey you talk strong o

I have witnessed it countless time. During second term election of former governor Ajimobi in Ibadan, I was at the polling center to catch fun that day as I was not eligible to vote in Ibadan, there was this tall guy shouting up and down warning people not to sell their votes.

I don't what happened, but baba first start complaining about slow process, follow by " we are hungry o, you can't keep delaying us here, let do this quick and go our homes" . To cut the story short, he eventually sold his vote for just 3k. We know all this because, agents with bag of cash sharing the money after the ones monitoring process must have approved the person were sitting close to us at one corner where we were observing everything.

Nigeria is gone, and the electorates too are too impoverish to reject the offer.

StrongAlphMale:
This is exactly why Nigeria urgently needs Peter obi to rescue this country from these criminals who are hell bent in collapsing Nigeria.

All these rubbish will end as soon as Obi is sworn in as the president of Nigeria next year!

Even Obi will fear this your statement, abi na post sef.

So, na Obi go head all the highly corrupt ministries and other government establishment? See,no president can solve corruption problem especially among the masses but institutional re-arragement and regionalism.

Burruchaga71:
Those ppl will collect your money and vote for their choice . 2023 is not 2015.

Have you ever been to polling units before?

I am asking because you think they are daft to just give money without ensuring you vote for them. I am sorry it doesn't work that way, they usually have agents in markets leaders, articians leaders, youths leaders, women leaders, party members, etc that will collate the people names and promise them the money. The money is shows to them by leaders of the groups but they can't collect it until result are announced. All the leaders will be monitoring your movements at polling center to ensure non of their people talk to or collected money from other parties agents.

Another style they use is that, before they give you money, you must stylishly show your tump printed slip to a party agent sitting at strategy place at the poll. They also used this second method on ordinary people they casually meet on election day.

That is why I always laughed at people posting unrealistic permutations. Nigerians are too broke to reject 5k/10k for a vote that they feel amount to nothing to them. The party with solid structure and fund will eventually win next year election.

NoToPile:
Me too oo, Yet to meet such woman no matter how rich she is.

Who doesn't want soft life? Abeg oo.
There's this feeling when you spend your man's money, the satisfaction of being taken care of even when you can afford it is so nice.

Like I said before, alot of people won't understand this write up by op including myself if I don't have first hand experiences from those that close to me.

It is more than just being taking care of, it is more like a rich man who turn broke and useless, while his wife continues being prosper, oppress and further relegate him. The husbads usually lost whatever the self worth in them during the process and take whatever throw at them by these women. Most of them built houses where the husbands and children lives, the funniest part is that, these women made their children too sees their father as useless cows. Some will bring their concubines home to spend time with them. Most time, the husbands became more psychologically down, and start losing their minds.

This is not a fiction but reality. The way I see them around, I don't think is normal for a man to accept such fate. So never pray to be in that situation.

Never marry a woman who doesn't see your achievements as hers.

I pity those beating their chests for politicians. All of them are like black market until they get there and do what they say.

Zonefree:
You find solace in teenage girls shows you're cunning and crafty. Fear no dey gree you approach matured girls hence you always settle with little naive girls. Na God go punish you.

He is not cunning, he is simply suffering from low self worth and lacks ball to approach mature girls.

That is sacrifice humanity had paid for civilization.

Civilization is good, but has destroy the peace that is left in human's existence. No one enjoy natural peace again, not even the rich, so the best way to enjoy life is to live simple.

@op, you are not alone, majority of youths don't find it easy anywhere in the world particularly in Nigeria this days. Just try your best and allow nature to sort out your future. It is pointless thinking about future that have never come, you can plan for the future but don't allow it to take the joy of your present.

Berrityga:
Please where are this kinda woman. I'm looking for one.

Don't ever pray for one please.

I understand op perfectly well, this category of women are mostly into businesses and highly diabolic.

Most of them do whatever in their capacity to make their husbands remain in perpetual poverty and became bread winner of the family. They cheat at will, their husbands are nothing to them but arrand boys. They are found of roping another man's pregnant on their husbands. They only think about themselves, infact they possessed many negative attitude you ever found in women.

These are the signs of these women during courtship.

1. They are extremely selfish in relationships.

2. They are too ambitious to the point of being irritating.

3. They are mostly promiscuous with dented past.

4. They are highly materialistic.

5. They are domineering and always want things go their ways.

6. They are diabolic and always attach everything to spirituality.

7. They don't have human feeling and mostly move on fast.

8. They are feminists.

If you see any of these signs in your relationship, please be very careful before you take her to alter.

oloyeagbaakin:
Meet this girl recently, my mum told me I should not ask anything about her educational qualification, but she is a hairdresser. Got to know after our introduction that she just finished from J.S.S 3 she did not even go to S.S.S 1 in short she doesn't even have a WAEC certificate. And our wedding is coming soon, what can I do guys?

This is quite funny, are you a robot/kid that your mum commanded not to ask the girl you want to marry anything about your future?

Anyway, Education is not a pre- requisite of good wife, but if you don't want her, you still have time to leave the relationship now.

divinehand2003:
Inflation won't be curbed using this approach. Haven't anyone noticed that all CBN policies end up producing the unwanted effects?

This is worrisome, I wonder how these set of people at CBN still be allow to manage our economy.

Like it clearly pointed out in the article, the disparity in exchange rate is self inflicted one, It is quite obvious officials at CBN are Beareu de change collaborators.

If CBN governor is so clueless enough to understand the following part in the article before dishing out another useless measure, then Nigeria is finally finished;

"Interest rate (MPR), inflation and exchange rate are triadically critical to investment and production. Balancing the rates in line with local aspiration is therefore imperative. Regrettably, at the moment, other contributory factors, like insecurity and externalities-induced food shortage, government’s excessive drive for internally generated revenue, increase in interest rate in the US, unsustainable and unpragmatic interventions in the forex market, the acute shortage of forex and unfriendly exchange rates are not only fueling inflation, but seriously depressing industrial production,” he said.

He expressed hope that the CBN will creatively go beyond the conventional monetary management system, as he recommended upscaling the current efforts at improving the availability of development-oriented funds at single digit interest rate, prioritizing industries".

Something is fundamentally wrong with this team, man City can't even beat majority of second grade teams this much, let alone top teams.

edosignature:
It took me more than 4 years to convince my wife to stop watching African Magic.

Now she's into Z-World & Telemundo.

Any man that married a woman who does not watch Africa magic & Telemundo is so lucky.

What is special about zee- world and Telemudo? Are they not the same meaningless annoying stories like Nigerians movies?

viyon02:
Your wife must be a full house wife for her to have much time for Nigeria movie, my babe prefer to watch France 24 or DW she likes to watch current news or any health station. She watched live broadcast of queen's burial and she listens to comments from various parts of world about the queen. We normally debate about various educational issues and topics from science to world politics and world geographical locations. We really don't have time for Nigeria movies.

Your babe, not wife?

Dont let all these fake girls scam you. Marry her and see if she would continue watching anything else than Nollywood movies.

When you reach a certain level in life, foreign musics and movies will just tire you. You will begin to like traditional things.

xin5:
Right from my teenage days I always spend money till it finished before my body rest, that same character is still in me even till when I went to the university and now that I finally secured a job.
My account is always red, as in the normal 100naira First bank .
I can't remember the last time good money is in my account for a month.
As soon as my salary comes in, I spend without Budget anyhow on things that don't matter...it's then I will remember one big yansh female I took her number previous week or to go to rich point boutique for wears.....from there everything it's going.
What kills me is that I hardly eat better food in my body and when all the money finished just the first week of the month, I'm back begging... running to my back up plans (parents and friends)

I'm dieing, I really need help on how to manage this month salary.
Because have Just been paid And I'm at the
bar in the club typing this and might not go home alone.

Nlfpmod
Mynd44

You don't need any advise or help, because no one can change your situation but circumstances and experience.

Trust me, you will become more wiser and prudent the moment you don't see anyone helping you again.

Ayodele951:
I'm currently having a quarrel with my wife she wants our 1year and 3month baby to start day care. I insists she starts when she's old enough like 2years.

She's really a smart girl at here age.

What year is appropriate for a baby to start day care?

Kids at that age are not east to look after by a hard working or busy stay at home mum. So if you have the money, let him start, it will allow his mother to rest and focus on another things during the time he is away.

SUFFERInSMILIIN:
Nigeria's problem has nothing to do with the government but the illiteracy and stupidity of the Nigerian citizen. The average Nigerian we go and vote for an illiterate or a criminal next thing they want development they want to move forward. All over the world Nigerians would for criminals to destroy their future from America Europe and Africa only think Nigerians to vote for their own Nigerian criminal to destroy their future. You cannot blame the government of Nigeria the people are illiterate in Nigerian we're on our way to Europe through the Sahara Desert through the Mediterranean and middle you get to Europe he start supporting the idiot in Nigeria which could do nothing for him. Used in Nigerian refugees in Europe America and Canada will be lifting of Nigerian flag when do tell them go back to Nigeria they run away or throw themselves under the vehicle. The problem of Nigerians have nothing to do with the government but the stupidity and illiteracy of the. Average Nigeria we kick a industry out of the country 2 months later he wants his children to go and work for that industry in another country that is a illiteracy. Any country Nigerians will vote for their own criminal and the idiot will destroy them.

Illiteracy is Nigeria's problem not bad government. You can vote for 1 million President in Nigeria will be the same thing because the people who only follow an idiot. I want Nigerian people are the only ones which run to another country once they get there they want to vote for the idiot which could do nothing for them in Nigeria we are illiterate...
Any country in the world Nigerians with destroy themselves because of one idiot I have seen it in UK I have seen it in Sweden Denmark Norway I have seen it in 60 African countries I have seen it in America and Canada the average Nigerian because they want to vote for an idiot they will destroy themselves and the idiot will destroy them. Illiteracy is worse than HIV

Talk is cheap, are you good yourself? Would you be different if you get there?

See, jealousy, hatred, domination, greediness, lack of empathy towards others, selfishness, and whatever evils you can think of were fully inherent in African culture and tradition, there is little this generation can do about it.

Leaders emanated from society, and are truly reflection of it.

I was talking with a sister few days ago, during our discussion, she said one of her white co- worker over there who has decided not to have a child pays 50% of her income to charity. How many blacks especially Nigerians can do this to her close relatives, not to talk about charity.

If this kind of person become a leader with more resources, how do you think she will manage those under her?

baretalk:
I know this man has a sinister agenda, are ipob not terrorists, they are because they carry out terrorists acts.

Obi is right, I will do the same if in his shoes.

IPOB are agitators that want Biafra nation, while bandits are simply criminals. It is only logical to negotiate with agitators instead of uses of force. Boko haram too is religion agitators( though irrational ones), and should be negotiate with.

Only president that can never be a mistake is the one who have ruled in that capacity before. You tribalists should not turn this thread to something else. All of them are still black market until they get there and do our wishes.

All contestants can turn out to be a mistake, so you people fighting over politicians should take note.

Vote for your candidate and stop predicting what others can do or cannot do when they get there.

Something is fundamentally wrong with Nigeria. May we not have a president like Buhari ever again. It is obvious the sole aim of this administration and CBN governor is to impoverish the masses especially youths.

Their atrocities and evil plan are just too enormous to be ignore, starting from crypto ban , ASUU strike, ban of over the counter withdrawal of dollar( which led us to where we are today), poor economic policy, irrational closure of borders, and the King of them all, insecurity.

Naira is probably heading to 1k before this year end.

It is quite unfortunate that banks and CBN are already embarked on the same policy that destroyed the nairal in 2016.

Study Nigeria politicians manifestos? As if they all not roll out beautiful manifestos at every election.

Is like these old papas are not that intelligent and never learn from history as we think.

Leaders in this part of the world are better chose base on what they have done in the past rather than what they promise to do.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Positivism with preventing pregnancy?

This has got to be the funniest thing I have seen this week. I hope this isn't your truth that you are confessing?

I was only talking about power of positivism, not science. If you"ve not encounter this, you may not understand the logic.

There are alot of things beyond scientific explanation/comprehension.

UyaiIncomparabl:
They are either infertile, not ovulating at the time, or the men shooting blanks. Beecham isn't a contraceptive pill.

You are right, Beecham has nothing to do with pregnancy or viral infections, but never underestimated the power of positivism. It works for them, solely because they believes in it.

Our minds responsible to 99% of physical aspect of our lives. Those that don't believes in a particular thing rarely affected by such thing. That is nature for you.

Zonefree:
Exactly what I keep saying.

You see how police managed to trace Lyon from Bayelsa to Abuja to arrest him, why can't they use same method to trace and arrest these notorious bandits in Northern Nigeria?

These bandits upload their photos online frequently but Police and Army are yet to arrest them. Something fishy is going on..

Kidnappers/bandits in the North don't operate the same way as those in the South. Besides, geographical terrain of bandits are quite different and difficult to access by security operatives. Bandits procures more sophisticated weapon ( being part of deadly boko haram), and they are always very large in numbers.

Therefore, the work of intelligent units of Nigeria police force are limited up north than south.

chemberlin:
Before I area your message I was about typing same. The text proved that they have been having sex. That why she want more than just sex and want it to be a permanent relationship. The guy just shot himself for leg. Lol

I dont think so. If that is the case, the woman would've automatically become madam without him knowing. She would not have expressed her feeling through text but on bed during romance.

Betanaija42moro:
The solution starts with voting APC out

I don't think so, with emergency of Bandits, kidnapping and other crime that some people including security officers has turned to business, I don't think anyone can solve security problems without regionalism.

Nigeria need to be divide into 6 regions, each with own security, economic blueprint, and total independence of internal affairs. The central government should be run by representatives of these regions, while tax or royalty should be paid by these regions to maintain national armies, foreign affairs and Abuja administration.