₦airaland Forum

So many, the worse of them all is disruption of sex.

Munzy14:
I think you are clueless about the subject of discuss..

You further confused your confusion with mistaking Inferiority complex as definition of Introverts.

Introverts are extremely intelligent humans..In research, most genuis are Introverts.

Introverts can be talkative when they interact with intelligent people whom they are comfortable with.

As simple as I my post was, you cannot comprehence.

I stated it clearly that there were 3 classification of introverts, people who are intelligent/wisdom,low self esteem, and clueless people.

Besides, stop being a narrow minded person, learn to read well or think twice before you insult people,

Being introvert is a result of low self esteem, cluelessness or wisdom.

People with wisdom rarely talk anyhow, they mind their businesses and always think deeply before they speak.

People with low self esteem too are mostly introverts, they avoid public or associate with people.

Most clueless people too are introverts.

To those attacking me, I am not a politician, neither did I hate or wrote against Peter Obi, I was only stating the fact that his big boys opponent would soon finish him with propaganda on the same internet he used to be more popular.

One thing is to be delusional, another thing is to refuse to acknowledge the reality on ground. I am done with Peter Obi internet supporters who think someone in a party that dont have tangible structures in all states of federation but will use the votes of 1 region to become a president.

Mysticwebb:
Majority is what wins an election. Majority of Christians all over the country will not support him if that is done. Your support which just comes with a vote will not change anything.

I am a Christian, but I can confidently tell you that SW will never cast their votes along religions line.

Personally cant do that, I prefer competency over anything else.

Ceenaija:
Peter Obi will spring surprises to the amazement of many . There will be protest vote that will caught across length and breadth of the nation.
Mark my word Peter Obi will be next president of Nigeria by the lord programming.

The crying and suffering of the people have reached to the throne of heaven.

Peter Obi candidacy is more of internet thing, too early for the real campaign. By the time big boys use propaganda reason his matter in the same internet, he will lose 70% of his fans within a week.

majamajic:
Paying 200 was not easy then too

Yes agreed, not too easy,but my exact point is that, cement was very cheap those days. If you can get 2 bags of cement and still have some change from TF to my home town,and you cant buy even one bad with TF to my home town now, then those days were better than now.

I knew alot of petty traders who built magnificent houses those days, the same cannot be achive by the same petty traders now.

majamajic:
Making 4k is much easier now than making 88 naira then , cos I have grown in 91

Who tell you this? Did you live in 1991 for you to be saying this? From the best of my knowledge, 88 naira was not hard to get in 1991.

Transportation to our home town back then around 1991 was #200, and it is around 2500 from where I am now( which is still farther than where we lived back then).

Cement should be one of cheapest commodities, but cost of production couple with lack of electricity make it difficult for manufacturers to produce at low cost.

@op, except we are just deceiving ourselves, if you want to eat better and good, that amount is not too much for a family of 5.

Even if you buy things in bulk, you will still need to spend around 3k - 5k for a soup that will finish in 3 days. Calculate that in a month and remove from 100k. Remember she will still get eggs and provisions for the children out of the money.

Things are just too expensive in Nigeria.

LushLady:
My family is five as well,things are very costly in the market but what I do is that I go to market once in 2weeks,and some of the things doesn't finish till next 2or 3 months so it reduces the cost when I'm going to market next time.
I buy everything I will need to cook till the next two weeks except fresh vegetable.
Please discuss your wife to know how you people can manage.
Like me I do buy
Hot chocolate half paint
Milk half paint
Spaghetti 1 pack of 20
Palm oil 5ltrs
Groundnut oil 5ltrs
Indomitable 1 carton
Yam
Potatoes
Beans
Rice
Maggie
Spices
Bread
Onions
Crayfish
All these buy I bulk and keep at home,and also cook 3 different types of soups and stews and stocked in the freezer.I also did pap too and stocked in the freezer.
Discuss with your wife and buy things in bulk this way you will not be going to market all the time.
All these I listed above 50k can buy them.

50k cant buy all you listed above nah.

Rice,oil, spaghetti, indomie and beans alone will almost finish the 50k.

Arkhanmu:
I married my wife in Kaduna two years ago. During those period we were dating, we were very much apart due to distance. She stayed in Kaduna while I worked in Lagos.

During few times of my personal meeting before our wedding, I noticed huge communication between her and this man. I called her attention to it but she just waived it aside saying they are just friends as Ex (stuff). She joined me up in Lagos after the marriage but the communication between them still continued.

This is a woman I have sacrificed so much for in my life by providing her basics need with the children even though not huge like that. She told me the Ex is a Doctor and they have nice experience together while dating back then. I have adviced even begged her to stop this communication as it it very hurtful and insulting to my personality but she won't stop. Instead she secretly calls and requests money from this guy in almost different occasions.

At a point in time in the past when she went to Kaduna to get her transfer from work place to Lagos, she still visit the guy even as she is heavily pregnant that time. I was able to get the idea through her bank account statement when the same guy send her money for what business I don't understand. It is almost 2 years of our marriage now, I am starting to regret why I marry her initially even as I noticed much difference between us; she is from Southern Kaduna while am from Ibadan.

I wish I have married my tribe whom I can easily understand. Just yesterday night I see another 4k alert from the same guy to my wife. I am really pained though I have not confront her. See guys, I have 2 boys, twin, I take care of them, buy food and all.

Though my work is not going fine but I try my best to make her happy but it seems she is not built for me. I don't really know what is going on again in my life as I am heartbroken.

Maybe the man is even in Lagos most times self. Many things are just running through my mind.

You are just giving yourself unnecessary headache.

You dont take a woman who is still communicating with her Ex with kids glove, you also dont need to complain at all, just give her a stern warning that the day you ever see her communicate or exchange messages with him is the day you will send her out. Be serious about it with strong face.

After this, i can bet she will do everything to limit their communicates and delete all the messages that always give you heartbreak. Your peace of mind is important than anything else in your life, and whatever you dont see or know wont give you heartbreak. So it better they communicate withiout your knowledge than for you to die of heart attack.

Ddokie:
That is my focus. While i am hoping that a miracle happens and PO wins it, but you see that statement of giving PO very significant votes, it will change the political narrative in Nigeria forever.

Exactly.

PO cant win in the current political climate, but Igbo should use that to make a statement for their region. If they fail this time, the presidency will still go other way in the future elections.

obyrich:
It is not about Igbos or Peter Obi. Every ethnic group suffered from this political experiment called APC. So we should carefully scrutinise not just the candidates but the team he is working with. Let whoever will take this country forward emerge winner.

I was not talking about candidates performances but marginalisation of Igbos by two major political parties. It is not the fault of these political parties to ignore Igbos but for the sake of reality on ground.

It is a simple logic, no political party will zone or pick its major candidates from a region that cant give it a block votes. Politics is a game of number and influence, and the reward system only favour those who made the sacrifice and bring something tangible to the table. If Igbos can show their voting strength by giving a block votes to a particular candidate, they will use that to bargain with other regions or political parties to favour their candidates.

Nice selection but Thiago.

I think this is a good development. If Igbo can give more than 7 millions votes to a particular candidate in the next election( even if the person did not win), no region will take them for granted again.

godwon01:
A lot of guys always like to condem the national team all the time. Seirraleone is a country you should know that. The era where Nigeria is dominating Africa football is over. Football is politics now and each governments are using it to promote their government. Appreciate the players abeg.

Nothing special about those Sierra Leoneans, we are the ones suffering from weak mentality. Imaging Izoho wasting time against 100th plus ranking team in the world.

The team need mentality of a lion to get back to their former glory.

Ngolo55:
. You want to relegate an ex Vice President to a minister? Is it an insult or ment ?

He can represent the country internationally at various capacities.

Ambassador to AU, United Nation( and its organs), Ecowas, EU, etc.

I just hope he ever get that opportunity gain after his perceived backstabbing behaviour.

I dont see any difference between old and this new super eagle. No sense of urgency, no coordination.

Our problem is no more a coach but these overrated average players.

hakanai:
Na Osinbanjo own fit get ke leg sha....I have a feeling Tinubu will want to tame him even further to the lowest status. Just to prove to others that if you do like this as I made you I can destroy you.

Tinubu is not likely to do that, the point has been made already, but the fact still remain that he will never give or nominate him for any key position ever again. Same as Aregbesola.

GreatrAnalyst:
Oh seriously, I never knew there's a prophecy like that. That will be interesting.

If he emerges as the President, he will undo many things. I partially believe that the VPs office handicaps him, he did a few things better when Buhari was away for months then. And I believe he might be the first one to undo cabal. He's not going to dance to any cabal decision. Well, that's if at all he gets there.

That is where the problem will start. He will try to use presidency power against the power that be, but they will come brutally on him. Remember he cant do it alone, if they dont always carry out his instructions like they are currently partially doing to Buhari, there is little he can do about it because there will always be a sentiments reaction against his decisions.

Sorry to say ma, the problem started when you dont let her realise she is working with you for money.

Send her back to her people before she run away with that random person.

Esama:
The man was pushing by northern. He have a minute to quit his wishful ambition.

Cabals and RCCG actually.

He is only acting on pastor Adeboye prophecy that one of his member would be president during his life time.

I really love his personality but his emergency as president may cause alot of attacks on Christians communities and churches by those bastard extremists up north. Besides, alot of politicians see him as inferior, example is the one that called him "Ice cream seller". They will simply frustrate his government to the extent that military may take over as temporary solution.

cococandy:
He has a right to the properties as the man’s child. But he’s wrong for wanting everything all to himself. That’s just some immeasurable greed and I won’t feel sorry for him if he gets nothing in the end.

The community is wrong for thinking his adoption makes him unfit for inheritance. Once anyone adopts a child, they should be given same considerations as any biological children.

I think his behaviour/action angered the elders and his siblings. From the story, it was after he decided to take all that the elders reveal to other children that he was never a biological child.

Maybe they should've shared it equally withiout discrimination.

Humans are so greedy by nature.

The bastard deserves all the punishment being melted on him, even if you are the biological child of your father, you dont have any right to claim all the properties to yourself.

Why cant he allow the properties to be share and take his part.

Favaman:
Bullion van saga
Desperation to rule

Who send him the bullion van? Does he just wake up and directed central bank to bring the bullion van?

He is only ambitious to get there, just like the other contestants.

If Obi is not desperate, he would've stay put in PDP and accept the outcome of the primary.

If Osinbajo is not desperate, he would be ashamed of himself for being part of the unfortunate government.

If Ameachi is not desperate, he wouldn't have resigned at where he is performing moderately well.

Same apply to all of us as humans, it is always our personal ambition in life to become something.

Favaman:
Ashamed of wanting another corrupt dick to rule this country.

How did you know is corrupt?

And how did you know or what makes you think others are better than him?

GreatSuccess:
If GEJ government was hopelessly corrupt, what then can you say of this useless PMB government?

Check last sentence in my previous post.

Favaman:
Seunmsg you should be ashamed of yourself. What you complained of from pdp for 16 years, APC did worse in 7 years.

And you are still supporting APC. To make the matter more terrible, you are supporting Tinubu for presidency.

suffer no dey tire you.

And I noticed in that thread and other threads that year, buhari had most supports and likes.
Buhari won GEJ in every poll conducted on nairaland

Ashamed of what exactly?

GEJ government was hopelessly corrupt, there was this believes by everyone that Buhari base on his perceived integrity personel that he would get rid of the country from corruption and place us on the path of robust economic development. No one ever thought he would be a colossal failure and corrupt as well.

being:
Buhari has no real interest in a primaries that will throw up a southerner!!
A man that backed a fulani for a UN job in 1985 over his own country national cannot be committed to any southern candidate esp a Christian one.
The honest truth is his heart belongs to Atiku over any southern APC candidate.
U can bet he won't do a serious campaign for Tinubu who will eventually emerge as APC candidate.

And you think Tinubu really need his support at this junction?

Once he get the ticket, that baba know how to win on his own.