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Show him this thread. He'll believe you.

There's nothing like 'good' or 'bad'. The words are relative. But there's nothing wrong with a man marrying a woman older than him.
It's older man for me though!

Yes, love still exists and it can be very sweet if both partners are true to each other.

Cooking could actually be fun. . . . sometimes. . . .
I cook very well be I must confess I won't mind not cooking at all. I cook cos I've got to cook and cook well. That is the African woman, that is what we are thought to do.
If your girlfriend wants to keep her home, she must learn to be interested in cooking and not just cook but cook well.
She might end up not being the regular cook in the house after the nuptials but once in a while, give that brother that hot sweet food, prepared by his wify and he'll never ever want to eat outside again!

Librian
. . .But. . I don't keep grudges for ages

blackgucci:
sensual appeal

aint that sexy?

Now, that is r.e.a.l. . . s. e. .x. . . y 
Shake it, shake it. . . shake what ya mama gave ya!

what a thread

Same to you Siena.
May 2008 be greater than 2007!
May all our dreams become realities!

Don't give a damn whose world it is. I enjoy being a woman and I'll rather be nothing else.

moondust:
I agrees withs yous

Naira landers will not kill me with laughter.

Busta:
stoping chasing them, let them chase u.

Really?

This is interesting.
Welcome back buddy. A friend of mine got me interested in this session and am scanning through for the first time.
I think the name Prince Lex is really cool. But there's something mystical about Viperman and that makes it cool too.
Anyway, you come up with nice names.

@ Nautillus,
After after 2 weeks she discovers she's not just into you? or you possess some horrible qualities she just can't live with. What then?

I'll gladly encourage my child to do that.

That was my dream as a child and a growing adult but I lost it along the way. I didn't loose the interest. I still think it's flying is great but I couldn't do it cos I didn't have the opportunity.

@ poster,
Do you want to be attracted to women or you have given up and concluded that you're attracted only to men?
Do you want us to give you the approval to go try out men?

I can't say I feel your pain cos I've never been attracted to the same sex but have you ever tried being with a woman? or did u just conclude that you'd rather men?
Try being with a woman and see how it goes.

Ridiculous. We're running out of ideas here

Pretense? she just might be taking her time to know you.
Why do guys just want girls to say 'YES' the next day after they met?
If you're talking months here, I'll understand, but if you're talking days or even weeks, then, learn to be friends for a while before you ask for the almighty relationship.

Please avoid her like a plague.
Nothing good can come out of this.
Either way, she's not worth it. You become her sex slave if you fall for this and she simply becomes your sugar mommy.
Start looking for another job and give her the sack letter before she gives you hers.

100% trust?
That is totally unadviceable.
When things crash, you'll find yourself so wounded, you may never be able to get out of it.

I had a very good white T.Shirt crested with the NYSC logo. It was different since it was customized. I also had a combact trousers which I didn't mind wearing at all. I also didn't mind wearing the Tenise shoes.

But of course, I didn't wear the original trousers, T.shirt or those Khakis, they are disgusting.

The more experience you have, the better your chances. But it's always better to have a long standing experience in one company.
From the example you gave, they both stand almost equal chances but if candidate B had had his experience in a reputation company for 4 years, then, he'll definitely be the prefered candidate.

@ Poster:

He told me he is very broke and that i shld assist him,he said he wil pay me back as soon as he come back 4rom his traveling.i withdrew all d money in my accnt without telling him its my last penny,he came back and only say thank u without talking about d money. i was told he was testing me and since then i av been trying to sit him down and talk with him but all to no avail.

That actually made me laugh.
What sort of test is that? What some of us ladies will do all in the name of love!
I don't see this guy as being serious. Please ask for your money back and live your life. You don't have to be tested to be certified worthy of being married.

You aren't going to live with him for ever neigther is he going to be married to your wife with you.
Ignore him and go on with your life.

This is not a question of virginity but a question of lies, integrity and trust.
This is really bad.
I wonder how she could put that on her mind and still get married to you.
I won't advice divorce cos it's going to totally tear both of you apart but then, I really don't know what to advice on this. Sorry Bro, this too big for me.

@ C_JAY
I didn't see your post before I made mine. Guess it came in while I was still writing.
I'm so glad that some guys still see things this way.
This is exactly what my point is here.
C_JAY, you're so correct.

I wonder why guys always cry out that ladies left them because of money.
Have you considered for a moment that this might not the reason why she left you?
If you decide to leave this one, I wonder how you'll get to know if she's dating you cos of your money or cos she loves you.
The word here is caution. If you truly love her and she loves you in return, i'll advice you stick with her. Meanwhile, only you can finally decide if you still want her or not.

I watched a Tyra Banks show once.
She featured a very beautiful lady of 29 who had never really kissed a guy because she had a sever case of bad breath.

She was so devastated that she had gone as far as using bleach just to get rid of the odour. She had gone everywhere and done everything possible and she had even contemplated suicide.
She was also used used to laying back when she talks to people and I couldn't help but feel very bad for her. The only thing Tyra could do for her was to pay for a psychologist who will teach her to accept and love herself the way she is.

Now, have you considered that this could be the case with your new found love? What if he brushes 10 times a day and eats mint all day long and he just still has the mouth odor?
The only way to find out about this is to talk about it. It's totally immature to make excuses and avoid the topic. Then, help him to eliminate the odor if it's possible with all the suggestions above, otherwise, you might have to either learn to live with it or leave the relationship.

2007 has been one very short and great year for me.

Wouldn't want to put in here how much I achieved but I achieved more than I'd done for a lot of other years put together.
God in His infinite goodness has been good and i've never felt this happy and contented all my life.

Morning:
A cup of tea with 2-3 slices of bread and scrambled eggs with one banana
Or
One pack of Indomie Noodles with an Egg or a moderate size of chicken with an Orange or a slice of Pawpaw

Lunch:
Anything ricy with chicken and tiger shrimps is always nice. A large glass of fruit juice will be nice to go with.

In short, anything at all can go in here. This is one time you're allowed to spoil yourself to anything you enjoy eating; including all our traditional meals.

Dinner should be lighter than lunch but not as light as break fast and it should be eaten before 8 pm if you can afford to.

I loved the dancings.
Outside that, nothing.

Limca!
I never really knew what they were saying in the advert but I loved the way it sounded and those little short and sexy skirts around the beach.

I love the sitcome but don't watch with dedication.
I watched an interview with the Chris character once, that guy is really very funny.