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This topic has been treated recently!

Anyway, I'll prefer to marry someone who loves me if those are the only two choices I've got, but I'll really prefer to marry someone who is crazy over me and I'm crazy over him too.

Why not!
By all means, I'll cry over him, drool over him and what ever needs to be done to make me feel a little better.

Yes, career can affect your love life.
Every one has to find a balance between career and private life, otherwise, they'll live a long boring and tiring life at the long run!

Osu my foot!
I'm surprise people still subject themselves to this nonsence of outcast. Can anyone trully tell me what difference there is between an Osu and a Free born? what really makes someone an Osu?

This is totally annoying. I'll advice your brother stays solidly by his girlfriend and match her straight to the alter!
Forget this old age, archaic, primitive and uninformed practice against fellow humans and see people the way they are.

Stories that touch!
This story appears so not true!

You could give it to Nolly wood though, maybe someone could Behind it up and come out with something better. Maybe Dangerous Twins part 2!

How on earth could that possibly happen?

I thought the picture had been changed to something cool and sweet when I saw the new caption.

Very annoying

michelin89:
The guy is not ugly. He is cute. Na the picture nor do am justice.

Sexy eyes and lovely nose.

@ Michelin89,
Are you kidding me girl!?
I ran back to look at that picture again, please, that guy knows!

@ michaellez
Very Nice write-up

@ Poster,
some people have fashioned their minds a long time ago about what they want in a man and what they don't.
This is probably something she's has sworn to herself never to do.
Take heart, start again, there's always someone out there who would love you for you.

If she is not proud of him or attracted to him, she shouldn't date him. If she does now, it's going to be very selfish. Trust me, when a nice looking guy comes around, she's going to dump this guy like trash.

What's the big deal?
So long as it is not French! 

Bolarge:
. . . . May God deliver us from our vanities.

AMEN!

@ tkb417

I'm not defending her, am stating a fact.
Yes, I've seen your mail.

@ Poster,
You're so funny! Look, we're not saying you should totally stop being freinds! We're saying you're too young for anything serious enough to hurt you emotionally.
Be friends with her and do all nice things with her but stay away from sex and other sexual activities and don't promise anything you can't give.
You don't have to cry murder when you see her hanging out with other people, just be good friends, who knows, maybe some day some time when you're both up to it, you just might end up dating. But for now, good friendship is good enough.

^{shake head,} _{feel a little bad for contributing in such a useless topic} ^{and leaves, never to return to thread}

Bolarge:
I sure hope he still has his hands and his d** . LMFAO

@ Bolarge
You are such a clown!

tkb417:
This response might make me a bit coy on what to say but i think like the guy said, probably when he starts working, things might get better. I wont say more than that for now.

@ tkb417,
My Mother used to tell me that any one that can't give 1 Naira from the 10 Naira that he has will not be able to give out 1,000 Naira when he has 10,000 Naira.

From what the poster said, she's obviously not a rich person, yet from the little she has, she shares with her boyfriend because of love, what about the guy? He never has! Little wonder the good book says

'I tell you that to everyone who has, more will be given, but as for the one who has nothing, even what he has will be taken away'.  Luke 19: 26.

@ tkb417
Please don't kill me with lafta here oh! The guy didn't say we should comment on his tie, he said his looks!
With that face and head, you just might miss the tie.

@ Bolarge, Alright then, I'm leaving this post. But we all know the truth sha, even the guy knows

Are you guys kidding me?
The sun always go out to look for some very funny characters for their sun girls.

You don't have to be nacked to model. Did they look at that picture critically before they printed it?
Did they check out her tummy, her badly applied make up, the rags she's wearing, the knees, he pose. . . boy, that picture is just not good enough for any dailies.

Never my male siblings or other male relations. With my sisters, it's ok. With female cousins and female friends, partially; Mean with pant and bra, but never stack nacked.

I hate it when guys go shopping with me. They don't just let me enjoy shopping! They are always impatient and want you to just pick it and let's go!
Guys could be so boring, they don't just get the fun!

@ Zandra1
You're so lucky, am almost jealous! 

Bolarge:
Now that was harsh.

@poster
Ol' boy, nottin do you. You cld've been a little more creative in seeking our appraisal sha.
Hope say u hammer as per cash. Poverty na d only problem for naija.
Na d wowoest beings dey control d biggest cash & of a natural consequence d finest babes for naija.
Gbabeski!!

@ Bolarge,
Why are you trying to console the guy? He already knows what he knows! That guy is what he says he is. Simple!

@ tkb417,
I didn't need to say that because the lady already gives gifts to this guy. Did you read that she gave him the phone that he's using presently?
This guy is just a looser if you ask me.

She's worried because she's been doing all the giving and the guy has been doing all the receiving.
This is totally not right and she has EVERY reason to question this guy's sincerity.

This is a very funny story.

Don't know weather it's the way it was narrated or the story itself.

Wait oh, why did you have to go all the way to look for expo for an exam? Really, you deserve everything that came to you. She sure doesn't respect you. Any man that does that does not deserve any respect. She would have respected you more if you had tutored her before the exams and made sure she was well informed.

What's love got to do with it?

Gifts are not always proof of love, but it is necessary for a guy to show a lady that he appreciates her by giving her little gifts from the very little he has.
The poster has every right to complain and wonder if this guy really cares about her.

@ poster, I'll suggest you sit your boyfriend down and talk about this.
There's an african adage that says, 'if you can't break a corn cub into two, you can peel out some of the grains and share with a friend'

What ever you do, don't think of dumping him or cheating on him just for this reason.
Study him and decide weather he's one of those guys that procrastinates a lot and does nothing. Check how seriously he takes his life and make sure he's worth waiting for.
Sincerly, if a guy is 30 and still in school, he should be a working class student and should be able to spend a little cash on his girl friend, unless he's handicapped or unserious.

Okey, I just read the write-up.
It is Gbenga's word agains Obasanjo's.
This could either be true or lie. The guy also accused his father in law of sexually assaulting his wife and his wife sleeping with several other people.
Really, this could just be a family issue got dirty. It is a dirty divorce between case between Gbenga and his wife. Imagine someone saying this about his wife:

“The Petitioner avers that the Respondent also got rewarded for her adulterous acts with several oil contracts with the NNPC from his father, General Olusegun Obasanjo, amongst which was the NNPC consultancy training in supply chain management and project management awarded to her company Bowen and Brown.”

The eighth paragraph says: “The Petitioner avers that the respondent confided in him severally while they living together (sic) that she had been sexually abused and defiled by her father, Otunba Alex Onabanjo on several occasions.”

This is dirty and ugly and I hate getting into issues like this. It just sucks.

stefykarl:
@ yimiton, go online and read news papers, i read it on nigerian news papers yesterday that Gbenga, Obj's son have filed for divorce of the wife, that she slept with his father to get the NNPC contract,that all female ministers that got contracts did so through his bed and also he has been sleeping with Aso rock house maids and stewards, but no one is sure whether Obj lured her with the contract or raped her

Alright, I will. But trust me, am not looking forward to it. It doesn't just improve my life in anyway to know that the guy is a mad man that is if he is really doing it.

I'll rather spend my time studying private equity which is my new passion.

People will say anything about Obasanjo to make him look bad.
Get a life people, leave this guy alone let him live his life in peace!