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Just as Candies said,
Only a doctor can tell you weather she's pregnant or not after examining her.
you sound pretty young, immature and inexperienced, what were you doing with your pants down?
How old are you by the way?
Go and see a Doctor and make sure you don't deny your child if she's pregnant.

Have a beautiful wedding and most importantly, a blissful marriage, with lovely, interlligent and beautiful children laughing around you very soon.
Congrats Buddy.

It could be frustrating to parents when their girls get to that age yet unmarried.
This should be discussed at length between you and  your girl. If she's willing to wait for you, go ahead with your investments. If both of you decide to get married instead, there's no law that says you  can't invest while you're married neighter is their a law that says you must has an expensive and elaborate wedding.
Whatever you do, let your decision be based not on what your her parents say but on what you both decide together.
Good luck.

My Gosh!
This is your call! If you can get something similar in another establishment, good and fine, if not, you might have to keep marriage away for as long as possible until you get another offer.

@ almondjoy, people are different. People are strong in different ways.
@ Candies, I feel your pains and salute the strength of your mom.

Doesn't work out in majority of cases but maybe. . .

Get out of that abusive relationship now!
He'll never stop and after a while, it will just be one of those things.
Leave now, before he disfigures you. He's insecure and doesn't have any respect for you.

can we just close this topic or move it to entertainment? This might just spoil my day.

@ wolexojo,
I'm not competing with anyone here.
For the records, I once uploaded my picture and the gesture was grossly abused by fellow nairalanders. I only deleted because of that.
Mind you, I didn't say I was jilted because I was too beautiful.

Two wrongs don't make a right.
Let her forget the relationship and start allover again. There's no mutual respect between them and it will be worse now that they've both cheated.

Why did you break up with her?
Isn't she nice and good looking? I wonder how many more you'll break up with before you will be 'ripe for marriage'

Love is good, money makes it sweet and long lasting and appreciated

Hello. . . !
What are we talking about here, are Nigerian guys any better?
How many so called working class men will want to marry a lady who doesn't have a job?
Before a lady gets a job, she barely gets suitors who are ready to settle down, but once she has that nice job, there are like 10 guys on her case 'who are ready to settle down soonest'
Let the pot not call the kettle black, it's what the economic situation of the country has turned us all into.

You are Ashmatic. If she cares about you at all, your health will be her first priority.
If she's not ready to stop even for that singular reason, then, leave her and go ahead with your life. If she's ready to stop, get her some help and encourage her.

It's cool if you're into a relationship with him. Otherwise, I think it's outrightly stupid to walk up to a guy and just say 'hay buddy, I love you'

Dumb question

Show me any girl that likes to date guys that yell that them and I'll show you a girl who doesn't know her rights.

Is that your picture in your profile? If it is, tell her to give you another excuse for dumping you!

Hay Baby,
I'm so proud of you to be able to handle it the way you did.
I can only imagine how painful this would have been for you but the fact is that when shit happens, life goes on.
May you find somewhere in your heart to forgive him and I hope and pray you meet someone you'll truly love and who'll cherish you.
If you have to cry, do, but please not in his presence (your bedroom is the best choice) and don't cry for too long.
Dust yourself, get up and start all over again.
No matter what you do, don't let this experience affect your subsequent relationship.
Love ya!

No way to abortion!
Imagine what the story will become if she dies in the process or how guilty you'll feel all your life if she looses her womb.
I'm glad your parents are wonderful and responsible people. Not all parents will think that way.

You also sound like you're all very responsible, I'm glad she didn't say it was your brothers! That's where you would have had problems.

Right now, I don't see any issues here, look for this guy that impregnanted her and give the girl to him. Since your parents are kind enough to let the family hospital keep her, she can have the baby and the tailor foots the bills.
What ever the mother or father of the baby decides to do with it eventually, it's their problem.
As for the person that brought her, if she wants to kill the baby in the womb, it's her headache, you don't have to bear the guilt.

@ Poster,
Love has nothing to do with this. You're lusting over the little girl. If you care so much about her, you'll protect her childhood and let her grow up at her pace.
Please leave the child alone, she's underaged and too young for you. Treat her the way you'll treat your younger sister and be good.

Just hate the way they don't ever seem to have anything to stay.
Spend ages on one scene which could either be driving a car for 15mins or even sleeping!

@ Po Deep,
Am surprise you do, I think those are some of the nicest adverts I ever saw on Nigerian TV.
One of my all time favourite though is still MTN's 'OH JERRY'

@ iice,
What I see here is deperation. She probably didn't get the right answers to her posts and decided to change to more attractive headings.

@ Poster,
This is your call, you make your decision. But I think this guy is playing around and fooling around with you. If you don't mind being a street fighter (not physical fight of course) you may stay on with him and when this girl friend of his comes around next time, make it obvious that you're the lady of the house. Make her stay uncomfortable by always being with your boyfriends and just frustrate her out.

A lot of ladies can be sly and in the name of 'just friendship' and eat deep into the heart of your man. Only God knows what she might have been saying to him behind you.

Alternatively, if you don't really give a flip about this guy, please just walk away, especially if there's this cool guy somewhere who's been asking you out and you were being faithful to your boyfriends.

@ Candies,
Welcome on board , I hope you enjoy your stay here.

You sure did choose a cool name.

oh ho. . . .
Why don't I believe this story? ? ?

please Bolu do something before i kolo

I can't believe this guy doesn't know that he has already 'koloed'!

We need some psychiatrists in the house to help him out, obviously.

Who gives a flip?
Good thing, the guy is not even bold enough to show his very ugly face on a photogragh.

Does that put food on the starving families' tables? What does it add to anyone's life?

@ iice, thanks jare.

Whom of the two? The pink one or the black one?

@ Eddie,
Hello, I sure do know. That was a nice one. I'll have called it confidence though instead of guts.

I hate ultimatums but I can see you're desperate.
Give them a while and in the meantime try to find out if they're playing a game with you.

@ olanajim,
I'm laughing my teeth off!
you're cool man.