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ruffneck75:
I proposed to her and had loved her but like i seen someone who i really love.She is the kind of woman i'm after,strong with decisions and employed.

Pls look above and see the boldened words of the poster.

This guy is totally vain and selfish.

Do you guys say women are gold diggers? This is a good example. If he can say this, why won't women rather settle for guys with fat bank accounts?

I'm pissed at this. I've got no advice for you poster, do whatever you want.

oyarose:
thanks for all your wonderful replies,av got to move on with my life.i know i ll be fine.God bless nairalanders.one love

Hay! Wait a minute!
Before you move on or take all that important decision, give him a while. Did you say he just got a job?
Yes, it could be the excitment of the job that is getting into his head. He now sees a lot of 'big girls' around him and he's carried away with what he can do if he marries one of them and they make money together. But if he really cares about you, the excitement is sure to wear down after a little while and he'll be back.

You don't have to run around him or beg him to be with you. Just keep your cool and keep in touch. But no matter what you do, don't give him sex just to make him stay. Sex doesn't make guys stay, they stay only when they want to.

Take care of you, your body and your heart. If after a while you discover he's still in the negative, move on with your life and forget him.

Not a bad idea.

Let's know those things that make you guys so mad yet you bottle them up!

NO, I won't.

aisha2:
A guy who can't hold an intelligent conversation, covers his dullness by displaying his car keys and watch

Hay aisha2,

That is so perfect!

Hay iice! ,
You're very funny. That was a very good one.

You won't believe that the one of yesterday had the guts me again today telling me to call him back immediately.

Been thinking of how to scam the scammer! But he switches off his phone immediately after calling.

Really can't say now.
Different men with different games.

@ Poster,
Little wonder you think guys like 'Ugly girls'. I just checked out your profile and what I saw there isn't so cool. At least you could have done something about that hair of yours. It looks a bit unkept as well as the eyes look not so healthy.

Personally, I think beauty is relative. You can be anything you want to be.

It may interest you to know that Oprah Winfrey won Miss Black Tennesee in 1972 when she was 18. I guess mostly because of the strenght of her character. We all know she's not the regular hot-beauty-diva-type.

So, before you cast a ston, take a good look at yourself.

The magic word here is caution!

Nigerian guys could be very deceptive. You can be with them for several months without actually finding out what they are or up to.

Take your time to know him and tell him to tell you the truth, I mean everything about him. Let him tell you why he actually wants to get married to you.

It's possible he's sincer, it's equally possible he has a girlfriend, fiancee or even wife back here in Nigeria and just wants to use you for his parmanent stay.

Good girl?

How good have you been?

Taken

Guys. . .well,

Anyway sha, A lot of guys can be a lot cooler than that.

This is obviously a scam.

What annoys me about these people is the way they keep repeating the same story in different ways.
Can't they be original for once.

Eveyone should be careful. It's the end of the year and people get desperate by the end of the year.

@jkpretty,
Really? Never heard about that until today.
I just wondered how they had my name and my personal cell phone number.

@ ifyalways,
Thanks Jare, it was just God.

@ Bblak,

thanks buddy.

You gave her wrong signals.
You sure were playing with fire. Just walk away from this now before it's too late.

@ yemivictor,

Thanks. I must confess the voice sounded kind of scary, dry and harsh. But with God's grace, I used my head.

Yes. I really hope so.
I've learnt mine. Trying to remember everywhere I have my pix and deleting immediately.

Really can't tell if he has it or not.

But I won't be surprised if he does. I was stupid enough to attach my pix to some public websites (it used to be on Nairaland too), before I wisend up and deleted them.
But anyone could have saved a copy before I did.

@ iice,
? ?.
Could you clear this up a little, for once, didn't understand what you said.

I know this shouldn't be here but since I'm always here, I think I should share this experience with friends, so that we may all learn from it and beware.

I got a phone call from someone this morning and shouted 'yimiton, this is something serious, call me back immediately!'

Scared that something terrible had happened to a member of my family, I quicky picked up my phone and called the number and the first statement I heard made me smile with relief, of course it was 419!

The man introduced himself with a foreign name and told me to keep confidential whatever he was about to tell me because it was a question of life and death.

He Said, his gang and he have been assigned to assasinate me by some guys for some reasons. But he did his investigation and discovered that I was innocent and decided that since I was, there was no point shedding innocent blood.

His gang members got suspicious that he had tiped me and I had bribed  him and now, they are asking for their own share of the money.

To save my neck, I needed to send 10 MTN recharge cards of N1500 denomination to the number within 30 mins. If not, they'll have to do their job.

He further went on to say, they have my house address and pictures and thati mmediately I send the recharge cards, he was going to let me know the guys that had sent them after my life.

Then, he wanted to know immediately, how soon I'll be able to send the cards.

I didn't do anything and the same number flashed me about 40 mins later.
I told my friend about 1 hour later when I had the time and he promptly called the number. Low and behold, it was switched off.

Naira Landers, beware, these guys are desperate and remember, in these days of internet insecurity, anybody can get your information any where, including nairaland.

I wouldn't be surprised if he actually had a picture, afterall, I once had my picture on Nairaland for a while and a couple of other websites before some good meaning Nairalander told me to delete it.

The number was: 07031097857

I got a phone call from someone this morning who shouted 'yimiton, this is something serious, call me back immediately!'

Scared that something terrible had happened to a member of my family, I quicky picked up my phone and called the number and the first statement I heard made me smile with relief, of course it was 419!

The man introduced himself with a foreign name and told me to keep confidential whatever he was about to tell me because it was a question of life and death.

He Said, his gang and he has been assigned to assasinate me by some guys for some reasons. But he did his investigation and discovered that I was innocent and decided that since I was, there was no point shedding innocent blood.

His gang members got suspicious that he had tiped me and I had bribed  him and now, they are asking for their own share of the money.

To save my neck, I needed to send 10 MTN recharge cards of N1500 denomination to the number within 30 mins. If not, they'll have to do their job.

He further went on to say, they have my house address and pictures and thati mmediately I send the recharge cards, he was going to let me know the guys that had sent them after my life.

Then, he wanted to know immediately, how soon I'll be able to send the cards.

I didn't do anything and the same number flashed me about 40 mins later.
I told my friend about 1 hour later when I had the time and he promptly called the number. Low and behold, it was switched off.

Naira Landers, beware, these guys are desperate and remember, in these days of internet insecurity, anybody can get your information any where, including nairaland.

I wouldn't be surprised if he actually had a picture, afterall, I once had my picture on Nairaland for a while and a couple of other websites before some good meaning Nairalander told me to delete it.

The number was: 07031097857

Yes, rightly put. It's simply petty jelousy.
It's the normal thing with ladies. We're damn jelous of each other.
Just seperate the two. The one does not have to know about the other.

None

I detest this post because of it was generalized.
Personally, I don't like Nigerian Home videos and sure do know what's happening around me.

But what about some guys whose brains have been cooked with Super Sports?
Do they remember to watch CNN, BBC, History, Discovery or any other educational channels?
Most guys subscribe to DSTV for super sports and nothing else.

Getting engrossed in home videos is as bad as getting engrossed in football.

Give me E! Entertainment, _{yes, I'm not ashamed to say I enjoy those countdowns and gossips!} anytime, Movie Magic, Discovery, Histroy, Animal Channel, Series, Go and you can take out every other channel on DSTV.
Starting with Super Sports of course!

That you like him does not mean you have to go out with him or reciprocate his advances if you're already in another relationship.
You'll only get so confused at the end.

This is a very tough one.

She lies. Could it be a kind of psychological problem? do you think she needs some help? Maybe she needs to see a shrink?

I don't know but a relationship without trust is not a relationship at all.

With love you could try to assist her out of all of these, otherwise, you may want to move on.

Yes, eezeebone,
I remember you too well.
I've gone through your posts and am beginning to think I never knew you as well as I thot I did.
I couldn't have ever in my wildest dreams associated a lot of your posts with you!

How is life with you?
I remember Aliade too. It was a nice time.

illusion2:
Ok now

Have a lovely weekend.

Sure I will! Thanks anyway

Yes! Here I am.
The H I M simply means, all it takes to be a man!

I love Fridays!