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This is totally absurd.
I was about to ask how you knew what fell was voodoo before i read your last post.
The only option here is to avoid her.
But you guys are something else, so, you're yet to know a lady well enough to trust her to take her to your house and you were already on the level of taking off shirts!

What about that?

Hay Efua,
Been a while. Where have you been hiding? Granny is mighty worried about you. She desperately wants to see you. Been talking about death and dying lately and wants to see you before she goes to the great beyond.

Thanks bamie , Shit happens. Wish we have a more secure country with better tracking facilities.

aisha2, That trick of yours was so cool. A colleague of mine suggested that approach!

rockiedink, What's up with you? I sure do remember you and your friend now.
You know, sometimes, you don't just get to hear somethings that seem to be common knowledge!

I agree that your younger ones are the best bet but they'll have to go to school that's why the Togolais who do it for the money come in handy.

I'm not comfortable with maids at all. No matter how well you treat them, somehow, they still can't be trusted.

If you stay in Lagos and work late, I'll advice you to look for a very good day care, there are some very good ones in V.I. but they are pretty expensive. They charge and average of 100,000 for 3 months. Choose one that operates an open door policy where you can walk in anytime and check on your child.

It's pretty tedious but I think it's the best. Your child gets to mix up and people friendly at a very young age and mixes up with the right set of children.

Goodluck!

I quite agree with klassyguy, though we don't use those attitude things always unless you're in a totally dumb relationship.

But sometimes, I acutally wonder why guys don't seem to understand things that are so so clear.

Examples:

klassyguy:

3.) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with "nothing" usually end in "fine"

9.) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now having to do it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to #3.

These things are so clear that they are suppose to know even without being told!

Why don't you try being the woman . . . for a while?

Please let her be. It could be totally annoying when guys keep on pestering a lady even when she's clearly not interested.

The best thing to do here is to stay away from the VIRUS. Then, you will need to worry only over those who already have it.

For now, it doesn't matter weather there's cure or not! JUST STAY AWAY FROM HIV/AIDS!

Talking here might not work.
I think the best bet is silence. This might back fire but I'll advice you give her a dose of her medicine without actually talking. Look at her like shit and she'll wonder what makes you so thick.
Do you remember how Dare behaved in Project Fame? _{I'm not one of his fans!} He made every other person in the house feel inferior without necessarily talking or saying anything to them.
Try that approach if you know how to pull it, but if you don't know how to, avoid her like a plague.

Thanks rockiedink,
All God's inspirations in my head.
By the way, I remember eezeebone now and you too.

A lot of good people have said it all.

Girl, take this as a good lesson and next time, don't visit such a guy and how could you have made the mistake of falling asleep at his place?!

What if this guy had raped you? Be careful girl, watch your back and visit only guys you totally trust or you have something going with.

Thanks for all your concerns.

It may interest you to know that I stay in Lagos but traced the phone (with the cooporation of my MTN friend) all the way to Owerri.

I was shocked. Never had a friend in Owerri. He said he noticed the guy had a lot of recharge cards sent to him via SMS and he calls foriegn numbers with the cards; Probably to defraud them.

I definitely got the number blocked for good.

He sure did choose the wrong person this time.

He also told him the EFCC is at his trail. _{Wish that was true but I've not got the time.}

Making decision is always complicated but made worse when people double date.

On the issue on ground, I think your friend should marry the woman he loves. _{That is if she agrees to marry him.}.
If he's afriad she might say no, it will be better to ask her first and then, deal with the problem if she refuses.
Once a woman is married, she's settled, she realizes that her world is built round her home, family and most importantly, her husband. So, she can't wonder around. Instead she'll learn to love her husband since she has no choice.
Once a woman likes you at all, it's easy to make her love you. Just be there for her without chocking her.

But if this man marries the woman that loves him and he doesn't really care about, it will be almost impossible for him to be faithful and he'll end up hurting his family. He'll not respect her and will not really care about her.

conclusively, it's ok for a woman to marry a man whom she's not really crazy about but a man should marry a woman only if he's totally into her and loves her to death.
Remember, even the bible says 'husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the Church and gave Himself up for her'

I keep saying this 'grow fast' needs to grow up.

Do you guys really believe this story of his? Advice indeed.  

I think you should leave her and marry your 10 year old cousin or sister!

I love MTN's advert!

I hate that Virgin Nigeria advert. It looked like the girl and not the airline was being advertised.

And my most detested advert of all times is definitely Flucorday! I can't stand that advert. I detest it so much that if i have to take flucor day or stay without a cure for cold for 3 months, I'll choose the latter!

She's good in Nollywood, I can't contest that.

But Nollywood, I doubt if she'll ever get there how much more get to the top of the ladder.

Richard sexually molested her but they didn't sleep together. He didn't succeed in raping her neither did they at any time have sex. Please let's clear the air on that.

As for Ofuneka, what I feel for her after BBA 2 is pity. These kind of shows are definitely not meant for responsible Nigerians especially cos of the nudity. I still wish she had won the money that could have made a lot of difference for her.

I doubt if her boss will be willing to give her back her job. She was a P.A. and of course, someone else would have taken her place before she returned.
It was all a lost game. My heart goes out to her. I hope she'll be strong enough to handle the chanllenges ahead of her.

Getting a man to love her for real and marry her might not be so easy for her either.

I hope the best person wins

Silence is definitely not the best option.
If you use that trick, pray not to meet some kind of people . If you stay in the same house, it will be worse for you. The person may just continue life as if he or she doesn't even know you are mad at her. She'll live life so normally that you'll get definitely frustrated.
For me, the best thing is to call your partner, reason together and say how much you hate what has just happend. If you guys can't come to a compromise, then, move ahead with your lives without the other.

Both grew up in the same environment.
Dad still argues that Mom was head over heels in love with him from day one and Mom says Dad had to go the extra mile to woo her.

Be you.

It's never too late to start dating all over again.
This one is not a serious one. You're probably desperate cos of your age and he's taking advantage of that.

ok.
You already made up your mind.
Good luck.
Curiousity: when you say you're very young, how old are you?

Cos it's sexy.

_{Tell me you don't like it.}

Hay Scopium,

Probably wouln't have asked if I knew.

Can you tell us what annoys you about your woman?

After Big Brother 2, I'll hate to be a participant in these reality shows where one has to spend weeks and months with strangers in the same house.

Take heart. There's nothing you can do now. What ever happens in the house before she comes out will determin if you will go ahead with her or not.

But did you encourage her to register in the first place?

@ olanajim,
Thanks. This is really an eye opener I've learnt to be more careful especially about whom I give my business cards to.

@ Aisha2

@ Poster,
I'm glad you finally snaped out of it. It sure isn't easy.

Break ups with first love could indeed be painful but very few people actually end up with their first.

Interesting one.

@ poster, what floor would you have stopped. Curiousity. . . you know. . .

Alright