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We've seen that equation a million and one times!

Go to the French Village in Ajara Badagry. If you have about 3 months to spare learning French full time, that's where you should be.
It's not expensive and accomodation is provided. You also have the opportunity to visit neighbouring French countries to mix up with them and speak their language.
I don't have the phone number now, but just drive to badagry, the school is along the way and the sign board is very conspicous, you can't miss it. If you do, ask a passerby.

emm. . . . . . .this looks tempting, like the perfect gentle man ready for real fun.
Question please. . . Can I choose not to have s*x, , and stay in different hotels rooms? , can I be the driver?
Can I choose location? Do I get to choose the hotel? Do I get paid at the end? _{fine chics don't come cheap you know}
I'll like the Bahamas Sounds like fun if I can set the rules.

Is this a lesbian thread or what?
The poster's profile says 'Female'

Sugar Mummies! What a world. I hope your young blood gets dried up by an old hag

BoluBunmi please RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUNNNNN! A 44 year old man wants you for rituals!

Sorry buddy, would have called but the facial features are too hard! I'm scaaarred. . .

With that tie of yours and those classes, it might be a little difficult.

OK Joey82,
I give up. Have it your own way.
I'm a lady and I've got no big tummy and that's more than enough for me.

Will have to meet him first to know if I will love to.

Take a good look at that baby. . . . He's not black.
If that is the father of that baby, then, the mother is definitely not Nigerian.

He looks nice in there though. Very sweet and caring.

@ Joey82,
I stay right here in Lagos and I took a good look at my female colleagues when I just read your post, even before I replied, and i still maintain my stands.

I like muscular guys because they go around with this really confident carriage that makes me feel totally protected and proud.

This is so not true!

Only a few girls have putruding tummies like their few male counterparts. 80/100 is so wrong.

Maybe most of the ladies you see are either pregnant or have had babies and just couldn't get their tummies firm again.
Boy, my tummy is almost as flat as my back!

I don't want to lose this girl .

How can you loose someone that is not yours. Wake up, get a life! Every body gets burnt at one time or the other. If you don't want to be turned down by a lady you think is interested in you, then, sit back, wait until she comes forward to ask you out.

my family is respected and in my church every action is deeply analysed and meanings read too quickly

If you know your intentions are genuin, you have nothing to fear.

Go ahead, tell her our mind, _{I hope you're over 23 meanwhile} and see what she's got to say. You'll never know if you don't ask her.

What has virginity got to do with tatoos?

This might sound strange or outrightly stupid, but it is possible to be 'a wild party girl' with tatoos and still maintain your hymen. (If that is all virginity is about!)

A lady can kiss like a 100 guys, even let them funddle her, flirt with them crazy and say NO! to sex, tell you what, it's possible. All she has to do is to tell herself that absolutely no man is going down there! And guess what, if a girl is still a virgin (maybe I should say, 'If a girl has never had sex') and she decides to remain that way, there's no amount of smooching you'll do that will make her give it up. Once she feels you close, real close, she'll push you aside.

I keep saying to myself, why do people associate virginity with nice cool and 'virgin mary' look?
It's absolutely wrong!
There are lots of BBAAAAAAAAAADDDD virgins out there.
Bro, I know what I'm talking about! If your girl says she's a virgin, then, she just might be a virgin!

In as much as flirting could be fun, it should be reserved strictly for the unmarried.
There are things that can't just be carried over. Weather it's the man or woman, flirting is strictly prohibited for the married.

You shouldn't go about looking for trouble and when you get it, you start shouting wolf!

jendordino:
NAIRALAND, is a place where you can find solution
to riddles,miseries of life,opportunity etc
so for bringing the problem for nairalander:s suggestion is
good but not informing the said lady, that is where you
got it wrong.
and for coming back to the same NAIRALAND
for judgement and prosecution, that shows you
believe in us.
so here comes my judgement,
young man you are wrong for discusing her private life
in public without her consent

That is so so true!
Weather you called her name or not, it was her problem, not yours, so you owed it to her to get her consent before talking about it.

Nice and Sweet but definitely fiction.

This is so beautifully written. Not a boring moment reading that.

You don't like them noisy shoes?
Wear muffles!

Not there, but I won't mind a little more hight. Yes, I'm pretty tall for a lady, but I like the idea of people having to look up to me. , so, I'll add 3 inches to my 5'6'.
Em. . . . Yes, that too, it's cute, but I won't mind a cup size more!, 34 to 34 large!

And finally, transform my skin to a little baby's, not the colour but the feel and texture!

Guess non of these is practically possible, so, let's wish on.

Good thing though, I'm cool with me, but maybe I'm greedy or asking for too much!

I have always been of the opinion that partners should know how much the other is worth so that both of you can plan together.

If your girlfriend is sincer and genuinly wants this relationship, I guess she'll rather let you both invest in things that will be worthwhile in the long run rather than to go on a shopping spree with your money.

What you should do is not just to tell her how much you're worth but exactly what you think both of you should do with the money. Make sure to include her in your plans and ask for her suggestions.

On the other hand, a lot of women become demanding on their man when they feel threatened, like 'if i don't spend his money, he'll spend it on someone else!'

If you're not that type, sit her down, have a good talk and tell you what, every woman is very good with planning and investing. Just let her be a part of your plans for the future and see how much better that will be.

Almost got into trouble for smiling too much!

Non of the above. I love me.

Thank God it's Nollywood. Would hate to see this happen for real.

@ Poster,
This is indeed sad but I must say you sound a bit selfish.
You really didn't sound as if you care about weather she hurts herself or not but you're concerned about being hurt and not being able to have children.
My advice to you is to accept the situation as it and try to live with it. She needs love, care and understanding.

This is an advice to other people around, when you meet anyone, weather on line or any where at that, try to get to know the person very well before committing yourself to marriage. Make sure you can live with the person, spend as much time as possible together even before you start dating officially. If and only if you see you are compatible should you start a relationship.
Remember, not all that glitters is gold. That she can take you over to the USA does not make the marriage perfect. This is a life thing.
Be cautious, very very cautious.

I have always been of the opinion that partners should know how much the other is worth so that both of you can plan together.
If your girlfriend is sincer and genuinly wants this relationship, I guess she'll rather let you both invest in things that will be worthwhile in the long run rather than to go on a shopping spree with your money.
What you should do is not just to tell her how much you're worth but exactly what you think both of you should do with the money. Make sure to include her in your plans and ask for her suggestions.
On the other hand, a lot of women become demanding on their man when they feel threatened, like 'if i don't spend his money, he'll spend it on someone else!'
If you're not that type, sit her down, have a good talk and tell you what, every woman is very good with planning and investing. Just let her be a part of your plans for the future and see how much better that will be.

This is a discision you'll have to make yourself.

You must find a way to balance your career with your relationship. It is very important that you don't let either of them suffer for the other.

If your fiance is asking you to move to Port harcourt and get professional certifications, I'm of the opinion that he's willing to sponsor the programs.

I really don't see anything wrong here, you don't have anything to loose. Remember, if you have to go and serve, you're bound to leave this job which you're doing now, but you don't need to leave your fiance.

The only area am not comfortable with is weather you're going to be living with him in PH or you'll have your accomadation. If he expects you to live with him, then, you might have to think twice. If not, please use this opportunity to get that really well deserved and useful certifications. You definitely won't regret it after service. Then, you'll have very good job opportunities.

Good luck. Let's know what your final descision is.