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@ A.K. Moor,
To begin with I AIN'T NO BABY! I love to be called YIMI or YIMITON.

Fine buddy, my night was cool. Thanks for asking.

In a guy, I look for the H I M in him.  

I know that feeling!
But just wait until you meet someone that will blow your heart off. Then, you'll forget this story of not falling in love.

@ rockiedink,
Am pretty sure of that.
Tell you what, if a guy really likes you, he'll come after you. Forget all this shy gist and all.
The need for you will break every barrier. I'm not of the school of thought that women should approach men all in the name of 'civilization' Let him do the asking.
If am already into him, I'll only smile and say, 'oh, at last, I thot you'll never ask' and that's cool.
But be the first to ask? forget it.

No! Even though am not a guy, I won't date my buddy's ex.

Hay, do I have to get the dumped guy? No way! It will be like I was tripping all the while.

Really, it ain't just cool.

The best thing to do here is this: NOTHING!

@ Zignor,
Alright sir, I'll learn to do just that.

Hay Ola,
Been a while.
I'll check it out right away

@ that time, I'll rather be in bed.
I love NL. I love the questions and answers here, so, for me, the love and romance thing doesn't have to exceed NL.

But why is Zignor alway sighing or huhing
Is that a fast way to build your number of posts?

Not quite true if it's a superior.
The company is whom you sue. The sex here does not matter, (female or male) especially if the act was perpetuated in the office.
This may not apply in Nigeria but it does in other civilized countries.

Not quite true if it's a superior.
The company is whom you sue. The sex here does not matter, (female or male) especially if the act was perpetuated in the office.
This may not apply in Nigeria but it does in other civilized countries.

It could be anything from love to infantuation, to lust, to crush, to anything.
Bad thing is guys are too much in haste these days. They meet you today and they want you as girlfriend tomorrow.

Wish we lived in a country where subordinates can sue superiors for sexual assault.

Boy, some good money would have exchanged hands here and someone would have lost his job

I pass by

Hay,
I heard something about Big Brother apologising to Ofuneka today and someone got fired for this show.
I didn't get the details of the news.
Will anyone be kind enough to let me know precisely what they were talking about?

IT by Steven Kings and every one of Sidney Sheldon.

@ angelq,
You think this guy 'loved' you the way you did him and he left you to marry someone else?
Tell me, what exactly is your plan here, to become a second wife or to keep giving him free sex without any commitments until you're too old to be of any use to him?

Look girl, you have to snap out of this love nonsence. you aren't doing yourself any good at all. You are lucky that there are people that are calling you to caution now.
I keep saying women should feel insulted when married men approach them.

Please wake up girl, if this man loved you so much, he would have chosen to marry you instead of his wife, afterall, you knew him 3 years before he tied that knot.

I find this pretty difficult to believe this.

But if it's true, please send her back to the father of the baby because if you make her abort this child, you'll never really forgive her in your heart of hearts.
Even if you think you have, you'll never ever trust her again and that is the most unhealthy thing that can happen to a relationship.

When the heat of love finally goes down, trust me Dearie, you're going to dump her like trash.

Please, don't make her do it, let her go.

Wish I knew how old you were cos I will be able to advice you better.
Truth is that once a guy is no longer interested in a lady, there is little or nothing you can do about it.
Crying or even dying will not change anything. the best is that he might continue the relationship out of pity and continue to date whom he really wants and treat you like trash. That's why a lot of ladies go to the desperate level of trying to tie a man down with pregnancy which is stupid.

The best thing is to let him go, love yourself and look out for love again. Since you've felt it once, you'll feel it again.

@ showstopa,
It's ok to date before marriage.
You were pretty fast and responsibilities come early to people like you.
Take your time to think, date and know the guy before getting married. Marriage is not a play thing, neighther is it like dating where you can always walk out.

@ showstopa,
That's ok, you may add me.  But I must warn you that am a very busy person.
I'll talk but not often and at times, i could just leave without warning.
Even if I don't answer when you talk, just know that am busy and will get back to you.

You're pretty young, you'll meet your man.
Any guy that is not ready to wait for a while to let a lady make up her mind on things as serious as a relationhip is not serious.
Wait for that right guy.

Kick his *ss. The guy is not a serious person.

It's not a crime but it could be disadvantageous.

With those physical attributes, there are some jobs you can't even think of applying for.
Example, cabin crew.

But you can actually overlook your defitiencies _{it that's what they really are} and work hard on your strong points.

You also have to develop as much confidence as possible and grow over inferiority complex.
It might interest you to know that William Wilberforce was a very short man and today he has his name in history.

Comrade Oshiomole is equally short and he's not so handsome either.

I find this pretty difficult to believe.
Franks looks really cool and nice but a very credible friend of mine who's been in the 'Who wants to be a millionaire' program confirmed that the guy has a very short and harsh temper, so, if have to put that into consideration, then, it's actually possible.

I still think Frank looks too decent and civilzed to do this but if he actually did, he should be thrown into a deep dark prison where he'll have only monkeys for company and the key thrown into the sea!

On a serious note, if this is true, the guy needs to see a shrink or a councellor who'll teach him to control his temper.
His children will not be safe too if something is not done on time.

This is a totally erroneous assuption.
People stay virgins because they choose to not because they are not opportuned.

Lots of men will fall on themselves to get into the pants of Tara Dawn Holland who was tested and declared a virgin at 24.

She was also engaged to congress man John Christensen that the time.
Remember she was also miss America as well as miss Virgin.
What do you say to that?

She was hot, young, intelligent and engaged and she was a virgin.

Yes, not all virgins are decent but they've chosen to be virgins not because they are not opportuned to do it.

It will be wise for you to wait a while and ask her. If the relationship is actually not working out, she just might give it a thought.
Fact is that a lot of people are in relationships because they don't want to be alone.

If she insists that she wants to keep her relationship, then, let her be, otherwise. . . .

@ Poster,
You haven't done anything wrong at all.
Your friend is a jealous jerk. Please go ahead with your lady.

No wonder the Bible says 'The rejected stone has become the corner Stone'

He rejected her and called her horrible names, you gave her love and appreciated her. You're having a wonderful time of your life and he's jealous.

If this will break your friendship with him, he's not worth being called your friend.
Break up with him and face your life and relationship.

I can't see a girlfriend here.

From all indications, she's not even taking you seriously.

I think you should snap out of your day dreams and face reality. She's not into you a bit.

I really hope you don't practice these on your sons. They might end up being the biggest homosexuals history ever recorded.
When you try this hard to stop a child from doing something, you're only pushing him to do it.

Good luck.

The fury of a woman is indeed deadly.
Did this guy just stand there feeling guilty and watch his wife beat him up?

I really don't believe this story.